Jon S. Abfall

1948 - 2021

Jon S. Abfall obituary, 1948-2021, Beaver Dam, WI

Jon S. Abfall

1948 - 2021

BORN

1948

DIED

2021

Jon Abfall Obituary

Published by Koepsell-Murray Funeral & Cremation Services, Beaver Dam on Nov. 7, 2021.
Jon S. Abfall, age 73, of Beaver Dam, died on Sunday, November 7, 2021 at his home from a very aggressive form of cancer, surrounded by his loving family. There will be a private service for Jon and inurnment will be at St. Peter Cemetery in Beaver Dam. Jon Steven Abfall was born on May 6, 1948 to Stephen J. and Arlene E. (Girard) Abfall in Beaver Dam, Wisconsin. He lived his entire life in Beaver Dam. He went to college at University of Wisconsin – Madison, majoring in History. Jon went back to school at Edgewood College in Madison where he earned a Masters in Social Innovation and Sustainability Leadership, just last year. On September 28, 1996, he was united in marriage with Kathleen "Kay" Wild-Bord at the Spring House in Swan City Park. Jon proudly delivered mail to so many people in Beaver Dam for 28 years, retiring in 2008. He was involved in many organizations; serving as officers for the National Association of Letter Carriers, Federal Credit Union, Exchange Club of Beaver Dam, Beaver Dam Noon Kiwanis and Beaver Dam JC's, to name a few. Jon was also Alderperson for Beaver Dam Ward 3 for seven years. He loved reading and attending plays, as well as listening to music. He cared a great deal about the community of Beaver Dam and would help with the food drives at the post office. Jon was always willing to help out with projects to help make Beaver Dam a place one would be proud to call "home". His greatest joy was when he was spending time with his children and grandchildren. Jon is survived by his wife, Kay of Beaver Dam; children, Michael Abfall, Kelly Wood, and Daniel (Erica) Abfall, all of Beaver Dam; step-children, Jeffrey (Solthaya) Bord of Juneau, Matthew (Janiel) Bord of Cedarburg, and Rebecca Bord of Beaver Dam; grandchildren, Spencer, Joseph and Brittany, Aubrey, Brody and Claire, Yasmeen, Quinn and Aiden, Marek and Collette, and Mason; brother, Leslie Abfall of Tampa, FL; his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Connie (Ron) Gourlie of Texas, Wanda (Dennis) Baldus of Minnesota, and Larry (Dawn)Wild of Sun Prairie; other relatives and many friends. He was preceded in death by his parents and his parents-in-law, Ben and Gladys Wild. Memorials may be made in Jon S. Abfall's name to the Beaver Dam Area Foundation for the Abfall Fund, where funds will be used to plant trees and help make Beaver Dam and even more beautiful place to live.

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November 17, 2021

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November 17, 2021

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November 11, 2021

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Art and Sandy Rettschlag

November 17, 2021

Dear Kay and family:
Just saw that Jon had passed away. We did not know he was ill and am very sorry for your loss. Jon will be missed to all those that knew him.

Carrie Sanders

November 17, 2021

I had the pleasure of having Jon in three courses as he completed his Masters Degree in Social Innovation & Sustainability Leadership. I think of his wisdom and energy that he brought to everything he did at SISL. I am fairly certain that he was my only student - EVER - who read 100% of what I assigned! He will be missed.

Gary Cox

November 11, 2021

Jon and I were roommates along with two other men (John K. and Joe H.) during the 1969-1970 school year in Madison. This was the year of the riots in Madison, and we spent many nights on the apartment building roof watching the chaos down below. We four had become friends the previous year living in Turner Hall on campus. These three men went out of their way to befriend me and my future wife, Joan (who died in 1998). Sympathies to his family; you have lost a good man.

Rex Koehn

November 11, 2021

Jon was a neighbor and childhood playmate of mine. We spent many days at the park behind his house - playing Tetherball, flying kites, playing baseball. We'd play board games on blankets in our back yards for hours. Had many sleep overs. I will always have those memories. Rest in Peace, Jon
Rex Koehn

Phil Buteyn

November 11, 2021

I just would like to extend my sympathy to Kay and Jon's kids at this sad time. Jon was such a terrific guy, both as a parent and as an individual. I got to know Jon when I had the privilege to teach his sons so many years ago at Jefferson School. He was always concerned about how the boys were doing; I could tell that he was a good father to them. Then he was so blessed to marry Kay, whom I had known since the early days of our marriage when we lived in the little house behind the Wild family's Spring Street home for three years. I know this is a very tough time for the whole family; my prayers go out for all of you.
Sincerely,
Phil Buteyn

Robert and Venita Matheus

November 9, 2021

Dear Kay and Family, We are so sorry to hear that Jon had past away. You are in our thoughts and prayers. You and Jon were always so much fun to be around. He will be missed by so many people and his contributions to the City of Beaver Dam will be remembered for a very long time.

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