Robert Spansky Obituary
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Malik Vaughn
December 17, 2017
Hi Mari, This is Malik Vaughn from Arden courts of Bingham Farms. I'm sending my deepest condolences and praying for you and your family everyday. I love and will miss my Uncle Bob.
Bob Jassoy
December 14, 2017
I was a fraternity brother of Bob's at the University of Detroit back in the early 60's. In fact, he was my "little brother" when he pledged the frat. Together we had some fun times in college. After graduation, I lost track of him for several years but he tracked me down here in San Diego, CA, and through the subsequent years we communicated constantly by email. Bob remained single for much of his life until he met Mary. When he informed me of his impending marriage, I knew this was an event I just couldn't miss. So, I flew back to the Detroit area and I was witness to something I and many others thought would never happen. It was a grand and glorious day. I think this was the happiest time in his life. In the following years, Bob and Mary travelled a lot. A couple of times, they stopped off here in San Diego either coming or going from some exotic location. I visited with them back there around 2009 or '10. I last saw Bob and Mary in May of this year at the facility where he was staying. It was so sad to see him in his illness. However, near the end of my visit, I truly believe he did recognize me and he reached out his hand and gave me a warm and strong handshake. Alas, his passing is leaves me with only pleasant memories of our times. Rest in peace, good buddy.
LaKisha Kincaid
December 13, 2017
RIP Uncle Bob
LaKisha Kincaid
December 13, 2017
I had the pleasure of meeting Bob when he moved into the Assisting Living facility where I was working and he was one of the most pleasant, kind and loving men I ever had to take care of. His sense of humor was endless and his love for Mary was priceless!!!! I know he is surely in a better place with no more pain. God has definitely received a Beautiful Angel. RIP Uncle Bob.... I will love you always!!!!!
Mary....you are a strong and kind woman and anyone who knows you knew the love and admiration you have for Bob. Always in my deepest prayers and my condolences to you. Hold tight to your many many memories and remain strong. Love you dearly!!!!!!
How you can show support
Follow
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
American Legion Post 311
December 8, 2017
On behalf of the United States Army Vietnam Veterans of America, we would like to extend our most sincere condolences.
Thank you for your Service
Dennis Timothy Donahue
December 8, 2017
Having a great conversation with his buddy Jim right now, I bet. I will sing one more "Take Me Out to the Ball Game" for them both during a seventh-inning stretch today!
"'Cuz it's One... Two...T'ree strikes , Yer out!"
Peace from the Donahues.
Cousins' Breakfast 2005
Jeff & Debby Smith
December 8, 2017
Mary, Diane, Des, Michael, Mary, David,
Our deepest sympathies for the loss of Bobby. We admire Bobby's dedication to all he found important--church, family, and brotherhood. He was unfaltering in his loyalty to his Mother (Aunt Al to us.)
We shared many fun Christmas celebrations at the home on Haverhill.
Our last memory of Bobby was "cutting a rug" with Diane at Des and Diane's Golden Wedding Anniversary party. He was on top of the world and, boy, could he dance!
Love and peace,
Jackie Alexander
December 6, 2017
Mary, I am sorry to hear of your loss. Stay strong and may God bless you and the family.
Frank Doherty
December 6, 2017
A good friend and true Fraternity Brother who always had a good word about to say about everyone. He and his smile will be missed.
Len Lukowski
December 6, 2017
Dear Family,
My sincere sympathy to the Spansky family.
Bob and Diane are my second cousins. We shared many picnics and family gatherings together.
Know that there are many hearts that understand your sorrow.
Jerry Klaft
December 6, 2017
Dear Mary,
So sorry to hear of Bob's passing. I am a friend of Bob's from the Three Mile Drive neighborhood. He was a brilliant, smart man and I will miss him. I have wonderful memories of him with the Hindelang family.
It is a blessing that God gave him to me as a friend.
Jerry Klaft
Gloria Franklin
December 5, 2017
Mary-
Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers
Showing 1 - 12 of 12 results
16300 Mack Ave, Grosse Pointe Park, MI 48230
Make a Donation
in Robert Spansky's name
How to support Robert's loved ones
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read more
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreWays to honor Robert Spansky's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
