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Thomas McConnell Obituary

Thomas Joseph (TJ) McConnell 2/1/1978 - 9/2/2010 Was taken from us much too soon. Thomas Joseph was born in Phoenix, Arizona and soon after his father, Tom McConnell, and mother, Edna McConnell, moved to Blakley, PA where his father's family lived and where TJ went to grade school and Junior High School. At age 14, TJ moved to Tucson to live with his Aunt and Uncle, where he went on to graduate from Palo Verde High School in 1997. He had many friends in this school, TJ was well liked. He enjoyed hiking, outdoor activities and working as a Wild Land Firefighter. He was studying to become a Smoke Jumper, "his dream job". Storms, Weather and the Earth itself were all part of TJ. TJ had a big heart for animals of all kinds but his dog "Pete" was at his side the most. If he saw a stray dog he would do his best to get it food or a home if at all possible. TJ was survived by a large family and many friends. He will be loved forever and will be missed by all who knew him. Memorial Services will be at a later date. On September second-late in the day TJ heard…"Distant Voices" Voices from the distant past carried through the winds of time…I can hear them now calling me to a place of silence, a place of listening, their stories untold, their lives forgotten, buried in the sands of time. I can feel their presence within me, the ones with whom I have longed to connect to, they are the threads of many lifetimes that hold the space for us to be. I sit here in silence wondering, listening to their voices, knowing their messages will lead me home…by Brenda Edwards Domyan. Arrangements handled by HEATHER MORTUARY AND CHAPELS.
Published by Arizona Daily Star on Sep. 12, 2010.

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Nicole Arellano

September 2, 2011

Today is one year since you left us. There isnt a day that goes by that I dont think of you. I miss you so much! Today I have a smile thinking about all the good times and remembering your life. Rest in Peace! you'll never be forgotten!

March 18, 2011

My son my life. They say it gets easier but my heart crys and will say different. I love you TJ and may the angels have there wings wrapped around you with all there love. I love you, Mom

Thomas McConnell

February 1, 2011

There is not a single moment that goes by that I think of you. Today is your Birthday and my heart is heavy and my eyes are full.The nite God took you he took me too. There isn't a day that goes byI don't think of you. I can't believe you are gone, I love you my son. Happy Birthday. Love Mom

Nicole Arellano

January 20, 2011

TJ My bestfriend, my first love, I miss you so much, I miss talking to you. There isn't a day that goes by I don't think of you. I have lots of good memories and pictures.I can't believe your gone. You'll always have a special place in my heart. Rest in peace! I love you TJ!
Edna I'm so sorry for your loss I miss you. I'll come see you soon and bring the babies. love you!

sasha chwasciewski

September 28, 2010

tj you were my best fiend in school im going to miss you..love sasha

Buddy Nolan

September 27, 2010

Tj Man I Loved Ya Like A Brother. You Always Had My Back In School And Watched Out For Me.I'll Miss You So Much Man.

Derrek Radford

September 17, 2010

Tj I'm so sorry we didn't keep in touch I did try it was just hard to get ahold of you . I'm going to miss you so much, I know we havent talk much sence high school but you were always on my mind . We were best friends in High School . I can remember all of us playing baskteball for hours & you would always be double dribbling haha we had so much fun, I'm going to miss that so much. I cant believe you are gone it hurts just thinking about it . I'll miss you Your boi Derrek Radford May God Bless you and your family

Betsy

September 14, 2010

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dawna Tully

September 14, 2010

Tommy and Edna w are so sorry for your loss.....

DENISE CARBAJAL

September 13, 2010

Although I did not know you very long,what I did know I will never forget! Rest in peace T.J .

Edna McConnell

September 13, 2010

My son, Words cannot express the heartache of you being taken away. You are now wrapped in Gods arms with peasce and will be my angel forever in my heart. I love and miss you so muchand you will always be the angel in my heart. Love Mom

Nick Auckland

September 13, 2010

T.J. my buddy. I will always remember you as one of the funniest people I knew growing up. You treated me, Bobby, and Puerto Rican Dave like your little brothers. To this day there are still times when I think of you and it brings a smile to my face because I will remember something you did or said to make me laugh. You are an awesome person and I know you're in a better place and will still look after all of us. Rest in Peace Brother. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Your friend, Nick Auckland

Josh McNew

September 12, 2010

TJ,
You will forever be in our hearts and prayers. Although your time with us was cut way to short I find comfort in knowing God has chosen you for a greater purpose. I will always cherish our time together and will be a better person for having you as a cousin. We will always love you…

JoAnn Patterson

September 12, 2010

My sweet T.J. I will treasure our motorcycle rides together. I will forever hear your laughter. I love you so much.

Bobby Garcia

September 12, 2010

I'm really lost with words when it comes down to losing a best friend. To lose a friend like you at such an early age brings sadness. You had so much to live for. I pray that youre in a better place in heaven spending your eternal life. You will be truly missed T.J.
Bobby G.

JoAnn Patterson

September 12, 2010

My Sweet T.J. I will treasure our motorcyle rides together and forever hear your laughter. I love you so much.

Chief Bruce Whitehouse

September 12, 2010

We are saddened by the news of T.J.'s passing. He started his wildfire training and career at the Corona de Tucson Fire Department, and was a great young man. R.I.P. my friend.

Julie Zalewski

September 12, 2010

You were loved by all of us TJ.
You left us much too soon. I will always hold your beautiful smile in my heart.
I am comforted in knowing you are with God and in a peaceful place with Grandpa and Grandma.
We miss you so much.
You are now our angel and will be with all of us, always.
Love, Julie, Rob, Jonathan and Jared.

Sharon Wysocki

September 10, 2010

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
Our memories of you TJ will be in our hearts as they always have been. I know God has wrapped you in his arms and has given you peace because you are now his angel as well as ours. Love, Sharon, Den, Denny, Ashley, Tammy, Marc, Maddy, Gillie and Joe

Thomas McConnell

September 10, 2010

TJ...
If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden.
I love you so much. I will miss you always...and always be proud and grateful to have had you for a son.
Love, Dad

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