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Carolyn Disco Obituary

Carolyn Ann (Brown) Disco passed away surrounded by her loving family at Community Hospice House in Merrimack on September 5th, 2018.

Born in Detroit Michigan on November 5, 1940, the daughter of the late Alexander H. Brown Jr. and Edith (Pyne) Brown. She graduated from The MacDuffie School formerly in Springfield, Mass, in 1958 and from Barnard College in 1962.

She married Nelson R. Disco on October 12, 1963 in Corpus Christi Church in Manhattan. The couple resided in Great Neck, NY and Hingham, MA before settling in Merrimack in 1967. Here Carolyn edited the weekly Spectrum News and later became owner and editor for the weekly The Merrimack News (1988-89). She was long active in Town politics and served on the Merrimack School Board for six years. She worked for Energy North/Manchester Gas for five years, preparing their Annual Reports and publicity documents. In later years she became involved with the Voice of the Faithful (VOTF), Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests (SNAP), and BishopAccountability.org, organizations dedicated to expose sexual abuse of children by members of the Catholic Church clergy and its cover-up. She received the St. Catherine of Siena Distinguished Lay Person Award from VOTF in 2007 for her work in this organization. She received the Layperson of the Year Award from SNAP in 2011. She was the Survivor Support Chairman for New Hampshire Voice of the Faithful.

At the time of her death she was working on a memoir of Msgr. Wilfred Paradis.

Survivors include her husband, Nelson R. Disco of Merrimack, NH; two daughters, Michele Marie Disco of the Bronx, New York; Marilyn Edith Disco and her husband Michael S. Turner of Durham, North Carolina; her son, Rev. Bernard (William) Disco, O.S.B. of St. Anselm Abbey, Manchester, NH; a grandson, Miles J. Harris of the Bronx, NY; a sister-in-law, Marie Disco Sommer of Hingham, MA and many cousins, nieces and nephews. She was pre-deceased by two brothers-in-law; George K. Disco of Amherst, NH; Dr. Robert Sommer of Hingham, MA and a sister-in-law, Maureen W. Disco also of Amherst.

Visiting hours will be on Sunday, September 9, at 1-3 PM and 6-8 PM at the Rivet Funeral Home & Crematorium, 425 Daniel Webster Highway, Merrimack. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Monday, September 10, at 10:00 AM at Our Lady of Mercy Church, 16 Baboosic Lake Road, Merrimack, NH. Burial will follow in Last Rest Cemetery in Merrimack, NH, at a later time.

Her family thanks the Merrimack Rescue Squad, the staff at St. Joseph Hospital in Nashua NH, Angel MedFlight Ambulance Services, Lahey Hospital and Medical Center, and the staff and volunteers at the Community Hospice House in Merrimack, NH.

Donations in her memory may be made either to : VOTF Voice of the Faithful, P.O. Box 423, Newton Upper Falls, MA, 02464 ( [email protected] ), to SNAP, 314-776-9277, P.O. Box 5659, St. Louis, MO, 63156 ( https://snap.nationbuilder.com/donate ) or to Home, Health & Hospice, C/O Community Hospice House, 7 Executive Park Drive, Merrimack, NH 03054 ( https://www.hhhc.org/how-to-help/donate/ )

To leave an online condolence for the family, please visit rivetfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Union Leader from Sep. 8 to Sep. 9, 2018.

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david clohessy

September 10, 2018

Carolyn was one of the kindest I've ever met. She was a beacon of light and hope and comfort - and a courageous voice of moral clarity - to many, many of us who were sexually violated by clergy. We will miss her immeasurably.

Donna Doucette

September 10, 2018

Carolyn was a dear friend, and a valiant supporter of those who most needed care and understanding. We will all miss her.

Kris O'Keefe

September 10, 2018

May God comfort all of you with pleasant memories of your beloved wife, mother, grandmother, friend. My prayers and the prayers of many church communities are with you.
Kris O'Keefe, friend of Marilyn

Tony and Donna Centrella

September 8, 2018

It was but a short time the we knew her but she will surely be missed in our Parker Village community. Rest In Peace Carolyn and may God be with.

Greg and Gail Severy

September 8, 2018

Remembering our neighbor Carolyn and wishing you comfort.

Barbara Miles

September 8, 2018

Carolyn was a woman of valor.

Rosemarie Rung

September 8, 2018

Nelson and family, I am so sorry to learn of Carolyn's passing. She was a role model and mentor of mine as I joined the Merrimack School Board. I thought the world of her...my heart is heavy for all of you.

Virginia Penrod

September 8, 2018

My heart goes out to you and your family, Nelson. Hugs to you.

Yvette Couser

September 8, 2018

Nelson, my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. I'm so sorry for this great loss.

Cindy Noble

September 8, 2018

Carolyns lifes work has made such a difference, as evidenced by the impact on family, friends, community and church. Her care and involvement in wothwhile causes was well-known and I am so respectful of her ability to make a difference. My condolences and wishes for peace and comfort to the entire Disco family.-Cindy Noble

Barry and MEve Passen

September 8, 2018

May God bless the Disco family and give them comfort. We will miss our friend Carolyn. We are sorry we are unable to attend her funeral in person but we will be thinking of you all. With Love, Barry and MEve Passen

Fred Huber

September 8, 2018

Hey Pal, and Dear Neighbor. Rest well with many you care for and who long cared for you. None less than My Edna. With great affection, Fred

Maggie Sewade

September 7, 2018

Thank you for all you did for the people of Merrimack, especially the children. May you now rest in God's hands

The Staff of George R. Rivet Funeral Home

September 8, 2018

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

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