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Barbara Longley Obituary

Barbara Longley passed away peacefully with family at her side on Saturday, November 7, 2020. She lived in Pembroke until 1985, when she and her husband retired to FL. She lived in Punta Gorda and Port Charlotte, FL before returning to NH in 2018. She was a resident of the Merrimack County Nursing Home in Boscawen, NH at the time of her death.



Barbara was born in Canaan, NH on October 11, 1926, and was the daughter of Ralph and Rebecca (Houston) Ricard. She graduated from Vanderbilt University in the last training class for the U.S. Cadet Nurse Corps, with a Bachelor of Science in Nursing and became licensed as a registered nurse in 1948. After working at Vanderbilt Hospital in TN and University Hospital in Ann Arbor, MI, she returned to NH and taught nursing at Concord Hospital.



Barbara was a lifelong student of astrology, an avid painter and gardener, an organizer of family gatherings at Bow Lake in Strafford, an enthusiastic participant of many social groups in the communities in which she lived, and a leader of the beautification committee in her Punta Gorda community where she spent many happy years with her husband, Miner Longley.



She is survived by her children, Debra Longley of Peterborough, Susan Lombard of Epsom, and Mark Longley and his wife, Saengjan, of Largo, Fla.; her brother, Doug Ricard and his wife, Leta, of Pembroke; grandchildren,, Jennifer Chislett and husband, Glen, of Concord, Marcy LeBlanc and husband, Jason, of Douglas, Mass., Joe Lombard of Epsom, and Marciana Lamson and husband, Eben, of New London; great-grandchildren, Bailey and Annabelle Chislett and Ezra and Alaya Lamson; and cousins, nieces, and nephews. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her husband, Miner, her brother, Richard Ricard, and her sister, Marian Harrington.



A celebration of her life will be held at a later date in NH. Donations in her memory may be made to your local food pantry or to the UU Endowment, mailed to the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Charlotte County,1532 Forrest Nelson Blvd, Port Charlotte, FL 33952.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Union Leader on Nov. 22, 2020.

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Connie Eastman Henry

March 9, 2021

Barbara was my 1st cousin. She was in my childhood but she was older than the rest of us. I saw her as another adult. Her sister and brother were my chums thru our early years on the farm. I know that she influenced me wanting to be a nurse like our Aunt Ruth. Many Blessings to all the family. She was a bright light and will be missed.

Dawn Ciliberto, LMT

January 21, 2021

I missed Barbara since I left my job in Port Charlotte in 2016 where I knew her for many years as a massage/reflexology client and considered her a friend. She had been on my mind often ever. Much lovingkindness to wonderful spirit and to her family.

Kim Hemeon Smith

November 22, 2020

Jenny and Deb I am sorry for your loss. And pray your treasury of memories will be a comfort to you. Love and Hugs

Valerie J. Bayko

November 22, 2020

Debra, Jen and family,
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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