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Lillian Come Obituary

MANCHESTER - Lillian Rose Come, died Sunday, April 28, 2013, in the Fitch Center at Elliot Hospital in Manchester.

She was born June 11, 1956, at Fort Carson Army Hospital, Colorado, to Maurice and Lillian (Gryval) Come. She graduated from St. Francis of Assisi Grammar School, Manchester Memorial High School and the N.H. Vocational Technical College.

She worked as a dental assistant for many years for several doctors in the area. The last few years she worked for N.H. Oncology in Hooksett and at Concord Hospital.

She loved to sing and play the guitar and was recently honored to sing the National Anthem at a Monarchs hockey game in Manchester.

Survivors are her daughter, Amanda Rose Come; her father, Maurice E. Come of Manchester; sisters, Mrs. David (Robin) Burbank of Bedford, Mrs. Arthur (Mary) Bellis of Darien, Conn.; longtime friend, Scott Dow of Manchester; several aunts, uncles, and cousins. She was affectionately known as "La-Lu" to her nephew Christopher and nieces Lauren, Elizabeth and Jordan.

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services: Calling hours are Thursday from 4 to 8 p.m. at the Durning , Bykowski & Young Funeral Home, 285 Manchester St., corner of Beech Street.

A funeral service will be Friday at 10:30 a.m. in the funeral home. Burial will follow in St. Joseph Cemetery, Bedford.

Go to www.durningbykowsiandyoung.com to sign an on-line register.

Published by Union Leader on May 1, 2013.
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Lillian, I knew you for a short couple of years soon after I came to America and began working at AGF about 1995. You were always a lovely , kind soul. I'm so sorry to hear of your passing. I hope Amanda is doing well, she was a lovely little girl, I'm sure she has grown up into a lovely young woman. Rest in peace, dear Lillian. I thought of you often over the years. Rest in peace

Carla Cafolla

Work

January 2, 2022

Miss you

Elizabeth Ratte

Family

April 28, 2020

So sorry for your loss. I haven't seen Lillian in years but I do have many memories of her, she Is such a kind hearted person. My thoughts and prayers are with you Amanda. May you rest in peace Lillian <3

Savannah

May 6, 2013

Dear Amanda,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. Your mom was a very special lady who will be missed by all who knew her.

Jack and Cyndi Driscoll

May 4, 2013

Dear Mr. Come, Robin and family,
Lillian was one of my great St. Francis friends!
I'll always remember picking her up and going to CCD classes when we were in high school. It was not something that either of us looked forward to but having each other always made it fun.
My sincere sympathy,
Kerry (Meisel) Keane

May 4, 2013

So sorry to hear of Lil's passing. Just heard this morning. I talked to her at Christmas, but had been meaning to call her lately. I will miss you Dynamo.

Hope Martin Mannion

May 3, 2013

Dear Robin,
I am so sorry to hear of your sisters passing. My heart is with you at this very sad time. Deepest sympathy and warmest hugs go out to you and your family. You will surely be remembered in prayer.

Much Love,

Eileen Sasso

May 2, 2013

I just happened to be looking for another obituary this morning and sadly come across Lillian's.
Lillian and I went to Grammar/High school together and although I haven't seen her for many years I can remember till this day how wonderful of a person she was and we shared many, many laughs together.
My deepest condolences to Daughter and family.

Robin Poirier

May 2, 2013

I'm sorry to hear of Lili's passing. She was such a sweet tender hearted person who will be greatly missed by many.

Angela Cruz

May 2, 2013

So sorry to hear of Lilly's passing. She loved being a part of the NHOH family and was always willing to help. Lilly had a kind and loving soul. Thoughts and prayers to Amanda and to her dad during this difficult time. God Bless~~~~
~~Shelby Goupil Glander
NH Oncology Hematology

May 2, 2013

So sorry to hear of your loss Amanda. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I never knew her but she must of been an amazing women and mother to have raised such a wonderful young women like you. Stay strong Amanda, you are loved by many.

Bob Severance

May 1, 2013

Lilli was such a kind hearted soul, always smiling and willing to lend a hand or an ear. I had the pleasure of working with her and loved to hear her stories, whether they were about singing or her daughter and dad. I know she will be deeply missed by those that knew and loved her. God bless her soul.

Laurie Harris

May 1, 2013

I am deeply sorry to hear of Lil's passing and want to you all to know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time.
She was part of my life for such a long time and we had such great times and memories together. I will never forget her beautiful smile.

Phyllis Beauvais Capers

May 1, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of Lily's passing. I am going to miss her. I enjoyed working with her at NHOH.

Marianne Durocher

May 1, 2013

I am so very sorry to hear of Lil's passing. I wish I could gather the right words to make your pain less and offer you some comfort. Please just know I am thinking of you all and keeping you all close to my heart during this sad time.

Our deepest condolences to the whole family.

Love,
Casey (Lemire) Conway & Family

Casey Conway

May 1, 2013

We are so sorry to hear of Lilly's passing. She was a kind and loving friend to all that worked with her. Lilly will be greatly missed. Thinking of you all.

Melissa Taylor-Hayward

May 1, 2013

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