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Tobias John "Toby" Henry

Tobias John "Toby" Henry obituary, Manchester, NH

Tobias Henry Obituary

Tobias (Toby) John Henry, beloved brother, son and father passed away this Tuesday June 25th at the age of 48.

Born in Vermont, Toby always had a quest for self-edification, an aptitude for art, and an abiding love of nature, especially reptile and amphibian life. He graduated Memorial High School in Manchester before serving valorously in the US Navy as a seaman and medic. Receiving a Summa Cum Laude degree in journalism from Keene State College, Toby contributed numerous widely-read news and nature pieces as a reporter for the Brattleboro Reformer, Union Leader, and other local newspapers. His degrees in the medical field guided him to a path of care-taking, and he opened his heart and home to many who flourished under his meticulous care and tender humanity.

A brilliant mind and deeply empathetic person, Toby brought humor and compassion everywhere he went. He loved classic vinyl, especially the Beatles, colored pencil art and his two doggos, Sherlock and Fionn. His friends and family ever marveled at his depth and breath of knowledge on disparate topics, and his cherished daughter treasures the long-standing in-jokes that the two have shared since her childhood. He "was thankful for every moment" they spent together.

Toby is survived by his parents, Tim and Lynda, sisters, Lydia and Sarah, one daughter, Lucidia, and his adored nieces Zoe and Tilda, and nephews Owen, Simon and Oliver. Toby is also survived by his long-term client Wilfred, a cadre of close-knit aunts, uncles and cousins and his two much-loved brothers-in-law.

A memorial celebration will be held at the Unitarian Universalist church in Manchester (669 Union St) on Friday July 5th. Calling hours will be 10am to 12pm.

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Published by Union Leader on Jul. 1, 2019.

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Lorna

June 25, 2022

Toby: Your life touched many people especially mine. You will always be in my memory. Gone way too soon. Miss you

Paul Derome, his old client

July 3, 2019

I knows Toby. He worked at The Moore Center with my assistant. He is such a guy, good heart, funny guy. I have had a lt fun with him. I never forgotten of TOBY is my good friend.

Cheryl Cawley

July 2, 2019

My dear friend - I am reeling with this horrible news. How could this happen? I will miss you as long as I draw breath. I am taking comfort from our 22 years of friendship, all those hours laughing in my kitchen - cracking ourselves up with our incredible wit and brilliance. . No one could come close to your creative and sharp mind, though. I have never met anyone as funny, artistic, compassionate and loving as you, my dear Toby. I will love you forever. Thinking of your daughter and family, who you loved so much, and sending them peace and comfort. Rest, Tobe, and remember. Remember us and all the joy we shared together.

July 1, 2019

Sending Condolences to the entire Henry family. Dolly Flanders

July 1, 2019

Mr. Henry, Thank you for your service RDM Windham NH

July 1, 2019

Toby: you were always so kind and gentle. You really should have written a book--you're so brilliant. You are now a spark in the universe for all to share. Miss and love you. Lorna

Brenda Seely

June 30, 2019

My Dear Toby,
You will never be forgotten... I so admired your calm
, gentle ways, soft spoken manner, amazing, brilliant mind, and deep affection for your dear family that I am blessed to know., perhaps you and my Gio can have a few laughs together and send us your peace down here on earth.,we sure need it! Send your signs to mom Lynda. She'll be waiting! We all love youBe at peace!

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10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Unitarian Universalist church

669 Union St, Manchester, NH

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