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Susan Pugh Obituary
Santa Paula, CA
The family of Susan Marie Hoctor Pugh, 65, of Ventura, CA is mourning her sudden and unexpected passing. She joined our Lord in heaven on Thursday, October 8, 2015 at her home in Santa Paula, CA.
Born October 6, 1950 in Saint Louis, MO, she is preceded in death by her parents, Dr. Edward Hoctor and Patricia Lee (Hoctor) Troxell of Ventura, CA. She was a beloved mother, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend.
Susan (also known as "Susy" by her friends & family) is survived by her three children, Sarah Elizabeth Pugh and husband Art, of Ventura, CA, Zachary Levi Pugh, of Studio City, CA, Shekinah Eden McGlocklin and husband Ian, of Glendale, CA, and niece Nicole Marie Moore and husband Sean, of Van Nuys, CA. She is also survived by her four siblings, Sally Leavens and husband Link, of Ventura, CA, Sandy Stellar of Del Mar, CA, Tim Hoctor of Ventura, Ca and Michael Hoctor of Houston, TX.
Susy was a long time resident of Ventura where she lived since her childhood. A cheerleader & competitive swimmer, she graduated from Buena High School in 1968.
She enjoyed spending time with friends, shopping, reading, politics, and frequenting her favorite restaurants in town. Her deepest passion in life was helping others. She loved road trips with her family, meeting new people, and 80's music. Even now, we know she is in heaven listening to Journey, dancing and full of joy.
Susy was an incredibly dynamic woman that touched so many people's lives throughout her own. She loved ferociously & gave endlessly, creating a home for those in need of shelter, food, and love. She was the brightest light & most beautiful free spirit.
Her proudest accomplishment in life was being a mother to her 3 children. She raised them to live with grace, kindness, selflessness, conviction, and to always fight for truth. She showed them that giving is far better than receiving, & instilled in them an incredible strength, and tender empathy. She taught them to love, fiercely & deeply, & taught them the importance of forgiveness, and how crucial it is to life. But most importantly, the greatest gift she ever shared was her faith & love of Jesus.
The family will celebrate her life on Friday, October 23rd, from 6pm-midnight, at Garman's Pub in Santa Paula, CA.
Arrangements are under the direction of the Charles Carroll Funeral Home, 15 Teloma Drive, Ventura, CA. 805-642-8134.
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for Susan Pugh
Sponsored by Her three children who miss her tremendously..
Rhonda Ricono
December 26, 2021
I met your mother when she would come into Angle View Thrift Store in Cathedral City. She was funny and warm and friendly and we just hit it off. She even stayed at my home a few times for a few days. I remember when her son got the tv series. She was over the moon excited and I was so excited for her too. Today on YouTube there was a video about actors that you didn't know were really good singers too and Zachery was one of the people the talked about but I didn't know it was him until it talked about Chuck and then said he was the voice of Flynn rider in Tangled! So I googled him and then tapped your mom and found out that she had passed and I am sooo very sorry! I haven't worked at Angel View for a long while and I moved and changed phones and numbers I guess... such nice memories of your mom and how happy for Zachery that things were going well for him. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Melanie T.
December 25, 2019
I am so so sorry to read this. I didn't know. This must have been and still be so hard for her family. But remember, you will be with her again. This is not a goodbye forever, it's a "See you at home". Though some years have passed I am sure you keep feeling the loss. Sending you hugs and love and prayers.
Richard Dugger Sr.
September 27, 2019
Oh my I'm shocked that she. Left us at such a young age (I'm 68). We're old friends from Buena High School and the last time we talked (mid /late 2000). Be happy as we'll meet again.....I can hardly wait. Lord, watch over her,
Denise Fertig
October 16, 2018
Somehow I came across this obituary while doing a Google search for an airbnb! It said that her children have left this guest book open as a memorial to her. Thank you, to her children, for doing that because this was so encouraging for me to read today. What a wonderful and lovely woman! You are very blessed to have had a mother like her and I know you must miss her dearly. I am familiar with the sting of sudden loss. I like to think that those who have served Him best, He often calls home early because He's run out of room to store their treasure! So, to her dear children, who ever and wherever you are....may God comfort you as you continue to grieve her absence. May He keep your memories of her vivid in your minds and help you hold on tight to what she taught you. And, today I'm praising Jesus for what He's done to make it possible for you to see her again!
Zo Nistor
November 5, 2016
You are so, so beautiful
Scott Bailey
June 12, 2016
Suzie was such a dynamic girl so energetic, smart, and practically always smiling. We went through Buena high school together, and after that she was a great friend and helped me. Condolences to her family.
Steve Doane
March 17, 2016
Please accept my condolences for your family's loss. Suzy and I were classmates at Balboa (where I greatly annoyed her!) and Buena. Later on, after I believed on Christ, she helped strengthen me in the faith. I last saw her in 1986, though she was truly a lifelong friend and blessing.
May the Lord comfort you, knowing this is a temporary separation.
J Mulnix
January 16, 2016
Sorry to hear of her passing. She was incredibly kind to my family in the late 70's. I could never thank her enough. Blessings to her family. Jerry M.
Brandon Fike
November 15, 2015
Condolences from China.
Anna Aldaba
November 6, 2015
My husband and I had a fun time working with Suzy at Yamaguchi salon. I just found out today of her passing. Suzy was a loving, funny, and caring soul. We will deeply miss her. Prayers to sizes family.
Rebekah Dahlstrom
October 31, 2015
I'm so sorry for your loss
You mom was so cool and wonderful
When she spoke about each one of you she was so proud and excited for your futures!
Hold on to your wonderful memories and please take care of each other
God give you strength and peace at this sad time
Edie L
E Langston
October 29, 2015
With my deepest sympathy I was compelled to write this for the family. Maybe because my mom died suddenly 10 years ago at 69. Then my sister when she was 52. But, here goes.
Watch Closely Now from Star is Born, and With one more look at you have played often in my head since the week after the death of this amazing woman. Then many songs from the 80's were being played from my internet radio station. With that being said, I will say this.
Unconditional LOVE, God's agape, Love with NO boundaries, no reasons and NO Conditions. Unconditional Love IS Unconditional Forgiveness.
A mother loves their child unconditionally. The child loses the parent and it's hard to do the same back. I am sure she did not want any of you to feel left alone. She is there with you all and so proud. She is telling my mom how Fan-Dang-tastic you guys are. Her faith is strong in all of you. If you know your heart, you will know the truth. I once told my boys, who lives in your heart? they replied Jesus so I answered, Jesus does not lie, so ask your heart what the truth is and you will hear Jesus tell you. With that, I feel a need to tell you, the heart is most pure, and will never lie to you. It may not guide you to a quick answer, nor will it use reason/Logic, but it will never ever lie. So, forgive quickly, Love Much, and Never let doubt in. It tends to steer you away from what God has for you. If she was not supposed to go home to God, she wouldn't have.
So hugs to the family and know Gods got this!
Clark Shattuck
October 24, 2015
I was saddened to learn of Susie's passing. I went to high school with her. She will be long remembered by her family and friends. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to them.
John Pratt
October 23, 2015
It had been quite some time since I have seen or sadly, thought of Susie. She was an extraordinary friend at that time in my life. Her enthusiasm, love of life and devotion to her family are the things I remember best. Rest in Peace, dear Susie.
October 23, 2015
It has been many years since we have seen your precious family but we have not forgotten the wonderful times we spent with you. Wisconsin Dells camping trip. Ministry times . The love Susan and your whole family showered upon us will never be forgotten. We send our thoughts and many prayers to all of you that the God of comfort would be so evident today and years to come. With love to all of you precious ones. The John and Karen Bohlen family, Joey and Michelle, Mike and Kari, Tim and Dawn Joy, Josh and Tara.
Robert and JILL Nelson
October 23, 2015
ALWAYS A WONDERFUL SMILE, BIG HUG, AND A SINCERE 'HOW ARE YOU' RIP SUSY. OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES.
Julio Jr. Robles
October 22, 2015
Dear Hoctor and Pugh families, please accept my heartfelt condolences for the passing of Susy. Last time I saw her was at Ferraro's and she gave me a great hug & kiss and told me a story from the old neighborhood, we both had a good laugh. Again to the families I'm so sorry for the loss of Susy. Love, Julio.
Jessica McMinn LaRue
October 22, 2015
Thinking of you all. Hugs to Sarah, Shekinah and Zac. You three are shining examples of your mother's spirit. Love to you all! May fond memories sustain you through your grief and loss.
megan players
October 21, 2015
You are all in my thoughts...many happy memories from when we were all very young...including Susie singing the Beach Boys. Sending love.
Debbie Garrick
October 20, 2015
But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. The Lord is my portion, says my soul, therefore I will hope in him.
Lamentations 3:20-24
Your family is in my prayers. May God's presence be unmistakably real as you walk through this.
October 20, 2015
I am so shocked to read of this happening! My heart goes out to each of you who knew her as a sibling, spouse,mother, friend, etc. What I knew of Suzy was her love of life and contagious joy in her spirit! I will be praying for all of you! So so sorry! Nancy and Marty Kelly (Elkhart, IN)
Collette Martin Reiss
October 20, 2015
We have many memories growing up on Teloma Drive. Bikes, dolls, kick the can, baseball and football. Swam together....then life pulled. Holding those memories in my heart and sending love to all the Hoctors. xoxox
Frances Bellmund-Schmeer
October 20, 2015
My heartfelt condolences go out to the Pugh and Hoctor families. I first met the Hoctors in 1963 when my family moved to Ventura. The entire family was so friendly and welcoming. I will always remember Susy's warm smile and big hugs whenever I would run into her over the years. I know Susy has found the peace she truly deserves.
Stipe, Jadranka, Nick, Katherine, Tony Fustar
October 20, 2015
Our deepest condolences to the family. Her kindness will always be in our memories. Thinking of you. Love the Fustar Family
Connie wellik
October 19, 2015
I am saddened by Susan's death. I know her as an incredible advocate for the less fortunate - but also as a mama bear when it came to her children. Sending my deepest condolences to this sweet family.
Diane Ellis
October 19, 2015
Tim, Sally, Sandy and family....
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time
May Susy rest in peace... Our blessings to you...
Jim and Diane Ellis
Elaine (Mckinney) Olson
October 19, 2015
I was so saddened to hear about Suzy's passing. The last time I saw her was in high school, but I will never forget that smile or her laugh. It filled the room. She was a bright light then and sounds like she continued to be. Blessings to the family
Mike and Sherry Downey
October 19, 2015
RIP Susie. Our thoughts and prayers to the family. She was special indeed.....
Chris Taylor
October 19, 2015
A kind heart and good friend! My sympathy and prayers to the family.
Paula Bearden
October 19, 2015
May she now be at peace. My condolences and prayers to all of the family.
Judy mckendry
October 19, 2015
Bless the family.my prayers
The Solans
October 19, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers for the whole family.
Jay Park
October 18, 2015
I'm so sorry to hear of Suzy's passing. My condolences go out to her husband and children. Big prayers go out to the whole family. She was such a good,careing person and liked by all
Brandon Frazier
October 18, 2015
My apologies
Daphne Barnae
October 18, 2015
Dear Sarah, Zac, Shekinah, Darrell, Sally, Nikki, Sandy, Tim, Mike,
I fondly remember you all. My heart goes out to all of you, at this difficult time, as well as your spouses and all those who knew and loved Susy.
I had so many great times with her. We laughed, loved and cried together throughout our lives. I have known and loved Susy longer than any other friend in my life.
I so wish I could be there with you guys next week to celebrate her life. Please know my heart and mind will be with you even though I may not there physically.
When I was a teenager and my home felt unbearable to me, Susy, your mom / sister / aunt / friend, took me in and gave me the love, support and comfort I needed.
She truly did come to my rescue and I have never forgotten that and I never will. I am one of those you speak of, who she took into her home and so freely gave her love, laughter, food, shelter and comfort to.
I am so thankful for the time we got to spend with each other several years ago when she came up to WA. I never imagined it would be the last time I would see her. I just wish I had taken some pictures of those days we spent together.
I love the picture you picked, it is how I remember her best. She had such a beautiful, infectious smile and that picture captures it so beautifully.
Much love, sympathy and prayers going out to all of you.
Leslie Callahan
October 18, 2015
I am so sorry to hear this. She was much too young to go to Heaven. The world will be a dimmer place without Suzy, but Heaven will be brighter. Rest in Peace, Suzy. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of her family.
Leslie Molesworth Callahan
Mary (Fort) Harootunian
October 18, 2015
My heart goes out to all of you. What a great giirl, I was a neighbor across the street from the Hoctor family. Big prayers to the family.
Daphne Barnae
October 18, 2015
Dear Sarah, Zac, Shekinah, Darrell, Sally, Nikki, Sandy, Tim, Mike,
I fondly remember you all of you. My heart goes out to all of you, at this difficult time, as well as your spouses and all those who knew and loved Susy.
I had so many great times with her. We laughed, loved and cried together throughout our lives. I have known and loved Susy longer than any other friend in my life.
I so wish I could be there with you guys next week to celebrate her life. Please know my heart and mind will be with you even though I may not there physically.
When I was a teenager and my home felt unbearable to me Susy, your mom / sister / aunt / friend, took me in and gave me the love, support and comfort I needed.
She truly did come to my rescue and I have never forgotten that and I never will. I am one of those you speak of, who she took into her home and so freely gave her love, laughter, food, shelter and comfort to.
I am so thankful for the time we got to spend with each other several years ago when she came up to WA. I never imagined it would be the last time I would see her. I just wish I had taken some pictures of those days we spent together.
I love the picture you picked, it is how I remember her best. She had such a beautiful, infectious smile and that picture captures it so beautifully.
Much love, sympathy and prayers going out to all of you.
October 18, 2015
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Susie! My condolences to her family and children. She was amazing!
Joni Petrogeorge Clark
October 18, 2015
So sorry for your family's loss. I remember her as a very sweet lady. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Mary Driskill Neathery
October 18, 2015
So very sorry to hear about Susie's passing. She was so full of life.
Carla Friddle
October 18, 2015
The Friddle Family is sending their thoughts in your time of sorrow.
Tom Harris
October 18, 2015
We are so sorry to hear of Susie's passing. Our prayers go out the family from the Harris Family.
Happy days with her and my dog, Jonathan.
Kay Wilson-Bolton
October 18, 2015
Susy had a great gift for caring about people and wanting to serve. She was a wonderful helper in the early days of Many Meals. We first met when she heard of our work with homeless people. She sought me out to provide baby clothes for needy families. She will be remembered long and well for her good heart and how she wanted her children to be happy. I wish I could have helped more with the complications. God knows her heart.
Jill Anthony Thomas
October 18, 2015
Thoughts and prayers are with her family. Sending love and support to you in your time of grief.
Steve and Shannon Shaw
October 18, 2015
I was so sorry to hear of Susan's passing---much too early for ones so full of life. My thoughts and prayers are with her family during this difficult time.
Kathi Hebert
October 16, 2015
To the Hoctor and Pugh families, our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I have some amazing childhood memories of our families sharing holidays and fun times. I know Susie is now at peace in the loving arms of our loving God. Remembering her sweet smile brings me such joy. May you all be comforted and surrounded in love. Kathi Crsto Hebert
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