DOUGLAS "Doug" COE

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DOUGLAS EVANS COE "Doug"
October 20, 1928 - February 21, 2017

Global Ambassador for Jesus
and Unassuming Spiritual Mentor

Douglas Evans Coe, a lay minister and global ambassador for Jesus known primarily for his unassuming personal relational and spiritual mentorship - from inner-city youth to national and international leaders - passed peacefully to his reward on Tuesday, February 21, 2017, at his home in Annapolis, Maryland, after a brief hospitalization following a heart attack and stroke. He was 88. At the time of his death, Doug, as he was affectionately known by thousands of friends from every nation of the world, was surrounded by Janice, his wife of more than 68 years, all five living children and spouses and most of his grand and great-grandchildren. His family, who lovingly called him "Bugs," sang songs and hymns together by his bedside as they have done for years whenever they gathered. As in life, he wanted his passing to point others to Jesus, to whom he faithfully pointed the way for others rather than elevating himself, over a remarkable career of behind-the-scenes influence spanning nearly seven decades. Mr. Coe, a descendant of early colonist Robert Coe, was born Oct. 20, 1928, in Medford, Oregon. He was raised by his father Milton Evans Coe, the Oregon state superintendent of schools, and mother Lodi Helene (Davis) Coe, who spent hours on her knees praying for her son, knowing he preferred basketball to practicing religion. Despite a rich spiritual heritage, including a missionary grandfather who was a circuit-riding preacher in the Cook Inlet region of Alaska and a grandmother who ministered to indigenous villagers in the area, young Doug's keen intellect and analytic mind proved to be obstacles for him in coming to a personal faith. While studying math and physics at Williamette University in nearby Salem, Oregon, where he received a Bachelor of Science degree in 1953, he would spend hours testing God and the power of prayer. Prior to becoming a student, Doug met the former Janice Muyskens of Salem, whom he married in 1949. He soon became involved in Young Life campus youth ministry, and then eventually started a chapter of the college student ministry InterVarsity Christian Fellowship. Through his favorite professor-later-turned politician Mark Hatfield, he met a number of important Christian leaders, including evangelist Billy Graham and Dr. Abraham Vereide. Abraham Vereide challenged Mr. Coe with his visionary approach of changing the hearts of leaders to be "led by God, empowered by his Spirit." They regularly met together for breakfast and prayer, often joined by friends around the state, whom Vereide counseled and encouraged to study the life of Jesus of Nazareth and his teachings, especially about the poor and disenfranchised. After working for nearly a decade with Young Life and the Navigators, in 1958 at the age of 30, Mr. Coe, along with other trusted friends and advisors, was recruited by Dr. Vereide to move to Washington, D.C. They were asked to provide consensus leadership as a team to continue the mission of a new movement called International Christian Leadership, precursor to the Fellowship, now the International Foundation. After the death of his mentor in 1969, the visionary-led organization transitioned to a vision-directed model after the approach of Jesus. Under Mr. Coe's guidance, the work became more intentionally and intensely personal, focusing on people-to-people relationships and serving individuals in need. That involved inner-city poor and disenfranchised youth across the globe as well as an international network of Congressional leaders and military leaders, parliamentarians and business executives. Included among the small group fellowship meetings were weekly House and Senate prayer groups, which met to deepen friendships, to pray and counsel together; Mr. Coe sat in on those sessions for more than 50 years, speaking only once in five decades. In 1953, both groups jointly invited President Eisenhower to gather with them collectively for what became the first annual National Prayer Breakfast, to seek the Lord's guidance and strength and dedicate the nation and themselves to God and His purposes. Mr. Coe was able to facilitate important meetings with world leaders, helping them find ways, through Jesus' teachings, example and Spirit, to build relationships, strengthen the family of nations and further the cause of peace and justice across the globe. Presidents and prime ministers called him friend, but his priority remained ensuring they and others had a relationship with Jesus. "I am called simply to be an inclusive ambassador of Jesus Christ's love," Mr. Coe wrote. "Early on I thought the work of God was evangelism, but I soon realized the only person I could evangelize or disciple was myself. I learned from Billy Graham that the Gospel isn't three or five points; it's a Person - Jesus. God is love, and since Jesus is God, then the Gospel is also love." Coe strategically avoided a public life and attention from the press. He wanted to lift up Jesus and stay out of the way. When TIME named him one of the nation's 25 most influential Evangelicals in 2005, he asked them to remove him from the list, and when the editors refused, he declined to provide a photograph of himself. While shunning the spotlight, he enjoyed working quietly behind-the-scenes to help introduce people of all walks, cultures, nations and faiths to Jesus of Nazareth. One of Mr. Coe's life goals was to visit each of the nations of the world, to personally pray to the Lord of the harvest to "raise up laborers, for the harvest is ready, but the laborers are few." While there, he would often meet with top government leaders, encouraging them to turn their hearts and attention to the poor, the widowed and the orphans in their country. In 2005, he shared with friends about the two nations to which he hadn't yet traveled - the Pitcairn Islands in the South Pacific and the Principality of Andorra in the Pyrenees mountains between France and Spain - and they encouraged and accompanied him to complete the task. "I am so proud of Doug and his decades of service to our Lord, constantly pointing the way to Jesus rather than elevating himself," said Jan Coe, his wife of 68 years. "We are going to miss him, but are comforted knowing that he is now in the presence of Jesus, whom he faithfully served all of these years." In addition to Janice, Mr. Coe is survived by five children (and spouses), including daughters, Debbie (Doug) Burleigh of Annapolis, Maryland, Paula (Lee) Corder of Arlington, Virginia and Becky (Ken) Wagner of Annapolis, Maryland; sons, David (Alden) Coe of Annapolis, Maryland and Timothy (Elena) Coe of Annapolis, Maryland; 21 grandchildren; and 56 great-grandchildren. His son, Jonathan Coe of Arlington, Virginia, husband of Lisa Coe Parker, preceded him in death in 1985. Individuals and friends wishing to send personal testimonies or reflections about Doug's impact on their lives can forward verbal and visual photo memories to: [email protected]", for inclusion in a "Book of Remembrance" to be shared with the Coe family. Following a private family service and interment, a public memorial service will take place at McLean Bible Church, 8925 Leesburg Pike, Vienna, Virginia, at 11 a.m. EST on Friday, March 3, 2017, and will also be live-streamed at www.mcleanbible.org/live-broadcast". In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be donated to: Doug Coe Memorial Fund, The International Foundation, P.O. Box 23813, Washington, DC, 20026.

Published by The Washington Post on Feb. 24, 2017.
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I will never forget the times of fellowship I got with Doug at the Cedars and in his home. His encouragements and also challenges has meant a lot to me, and the fruits of his life are countless.

Arvid Pettersen

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February 22, 2023

Doug was a huge inspiration to me. I was blessed to have fellowship with him in his home and at the Cedars. I will forever remember, and live by the principals he shared with me. It is always wonderful to Come to the Cedars and share songs.

Arvid Pettersen

Acquaintance

February 22, 2021

An OPEN Heart An OPEN Door! No matter how busy Doug was, he had the ability to make you feel as you were the only person he was speaking to in the meeting. Truly a GIFT from The Lord. He made each person feel SPECIAL. :>)

MICHELE JONES

February 18, 2020

Great! Is The Lord's reward for our brother, mentor, friend and role model---DOUG COE! His life was a LIVING manifestation of loving God and loving people. His life modeled as Christ loved the church. Gone...BUT...not forgotten. Prayers for the family continue...Love Forever, Michele R. Jones

MICHELE JONES

Student

February 18, 2019

Jan and family - Doug was my Intervarsity Leader at Willamette University in Salem, Oregon. You and Doug graciously opened your home (at the Navigator's House) for our meetings. He was such a support for students who were Christians on the campus. Moving across the country years later and finding him at Fourth Presbyterian Church in Bethesda, Maryland was a blessing. Praying for God's peace and comfort for you.

Joe Ann Stenstrom

March 10, 2017

Our friendship has spanned over a half century. Our thoughts and prayers are with not only the Coe family but the global family who will miss Doug's presence. Jim and Barb McLennan, Park Ridge, Illinois

Barbara McLennan

March 3, 2017

"For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain". These were Pauls words to the Philippians. Our dear friend Doug lived for Jesus, and now it is good to know that he is forever with him. I thank Jesus for letting me get to know Doug. Our conversations changed my thinking forever.

Arvid M. Pettersen

March 2, 2017

Our prayers and heartfelt condolences go out to all those who were blessed to know Doug. May God be your comforter during this sad time. We lost a kind and humble man who will continue to live on in our minds and hearts.

Doug was first and foremost a spiritual role model who touched the lives of so many with the love of Jesus. He brought the world together through his tremendous ministry and never sought the spotlight. It was always a privilege to be in his company and we appreciated his friendship and mentorship over the years. We especially valued his immense support when our son passed away.

Doug will be deeply missed and his absence will leave a great void that will be impossible to fill. We will treasure our memories and revisit those thoughts fondly.
Ralph & Sally Kader, United Nations, NYC NY 10017

Ralph Kader

March 2, 2017

If you knew Doug Coe, you already know that Doug loved people, loved his family, and loved Jesus.
Even though he had many many friends all over the world, and there was always someone wanting his attention, when he was talking to you, he made you feel like you were the only person that mattered right then. You had his undivided attention and love. He will be greatly missed by all.
Gail Elliott

February 28, 2017

To the Lord's beloved son, to a humble servant of The King, a warrior in the spirit, a man of faith AND endless love for God's purposes..."GREAT is your reward!"
Thank you for the mark you have made in my life, family and walk with the Lord.
Prayers of comfort, strength and encouragement upon the Coe household.
Dearest Brother Doe, You have left a spiritual and natural legacy to impact nations a THOUSAND generations!
Yes, GREAT IS YOUR REWARD!!! Blessings

Michele Jones

February 28, 2017

"Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints." Psalm 116:15. We met Doug in Billings Montana in 1963 and have treasured our friendship with he and Jan and the family. Thank You Lord for his life. George and Carol Anderson

February 27, 2017

Condolences to the family - A moment of sorrow at this time but long lasting memories of a wonderful family leader and friend grounded in Jesus Christ.

Gene & Randi Frazier

February 27, 2017

Doug introduced me to Jesus as a teenager, and stayed in touch, encouraging me in the years following. It was our privilege then for my wife Ellen and I to serve along side of him at The Cedars. We are thankful for Doug's life and encouragement to keep our eyes on Jesus. Our love and prayers are with Jan and all the family.

Parker (Rocky) Evans

February 26, 2017

A true man of peace and humanitarian. Special thoughts and prayers to his family and friends.

David DeMarco

February 26, 2017

Did meet Doug for over 50 years...he was my mentor, my second father and the person who most influenced my dad and myself...he had the gift of presenting to your life Jesús in a much practical way and to have Him in the middle of our relationship always ! He was a treasure for mankind and his legacy will endure for generations...!!!

Juan Edgar Picado

February 24, 2017

Jan and all the family........
We are beside you with many prayers and memories. God bless all.
Anne and Al

Anne and Al Pobiak

February 24, 2017

I consider it an honor to be referred to as a close friend to Doug Coe.

Bill Loflin

February 24, 2017

I consider it an honor to be referred to as a close friend to Doug Coe.

Bill Loflin

February 24, 2017

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