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ROBERT M. McNAMARA, JR.
On January 10, 2013, of Bethesda, MD. Beloved husband of Patricia D. McNamara; devoted father of Brendan C. McNamara and his fiancée Brooke Rockwern; Caitlin D. McNamara and her fiancé Jeremy Plesser; brother of Sally Molnar; Richard, Mary Jo and the late James and William McNamara. He is also survived by his sisters-in-law, MaryPaula Malone, Monica and Jayne McNamara and brother-in-law, Robert Molnar; eight nieces and nephews; three great-nephews, many cousins, other relatives and good friends. Friends may call at JOSEPH GAWLER'S SONS, 5130 Wisconsin Avenue, Washington, DC on Thursday, January 17, 2013 from 1 to 3 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m. There will be a Memorial Mass at Holy Trinity Church, 36th Street (between N & O Sts), NW, Washington, DC on Friday, January 18 at 11 a.m.
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Marty Mueller
February 5, 2013
Dear Patty - I was so saddned to learn from Linda Neuman, retired NSF, about Bob's death. Please accept my condolences. In reading his marvelous obituary, I was reminded of our mutual Peace Corps connections, an institution that we both admired so very much.
January 21, 2013
Patty and Family- I was so deeply sorry to learn of Bob's death. No one who ever worked with Bob will forget his determination, loyalty and wisdom. Elizabeth and I spend time yesterday recalling our early years in DC, Bob's courtship of you, and some wonderful times with Bob, you and friends whom we know are with you now. The memories are all so important, especially at a time like this, and we will always hold them precious. Our love to you and the children. John and Elizabeth Cotton
Shirley Peterson
January 18, 2013
Dear McNamara Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.
Bob was a brilliant, kind and caring man with great integrity. I truly enjoyed working for Bob at CEC. Bob was a very considerate boss and mentor and a great friend. I loved his stories about his family and his wonderful sense of humor. Bob touched a lot of lives and made the world a better place.
May you have many blessings and find comfort in knowing how much he loved you.
John Gannon
January 18, 2013
Bob and I worked together at CIA in the late 1990s, and I was always glad when out paths crossed thereafter, including in the past year. Bob stands out in my memory for his professional responsiveness, personal warmth, unfailing good humor, and instinctive generosity. He had an Irish way of making others feel good about themselves. Easily loved, he will be deeply missed. I am grateful to have known him.
Joseph Chang
January 18, 2013
It was my privilage to know Bob, he was a wodnerful man who made you feel by his example that you should do more good. My deepest condolances.
Cheryl Long
January 18, 2013
Peace to All: I knew Bob when we were both Assistant U.S. Attorneys in D.C. He was a prosecutor who did the right things for all the right reasons. He cared about fairness, civility, and protecting the community. Bob was a man who had a thoughtful view of whatever came before him. I will miss his wry sense of humor and his friendship.
Steve Bodolay
January 18, 2013
Bob was a brilliant, wise and deeply ethical lawyer, and a stand up kind of guy. He knew the connection between policy and legal issues, and he served his clients loyally and vigorously. He was a great boss and mentor and friend. The world is less bright with his passing.
I wish his family peace and love in dealing with their loss.
Peter Leyton
January 16, 2013
Words are never sufficient at times like these. I knew Bob professionally through our time serving on the APSCU board and at conferences. Bob cared, was a true advocate, someone you could call on who would help and a friend. I am so sorry for your loss.
Kirk Bachmann
January 16, 2013
Dear McNamara Family - My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Bob as a truly remarkable man and a friend.
Kirk Bachmann
Veronica Campbell
January 16, 2013
Dear McNamara Family; I have searched for the words to convey how it feels to lose such a good man, and I simply cannot. Bob was brilliant, nurturing, and honest. He was respected by all and feared by those who should have feared him. He had a wonderful balance of gravity and humor, and knew when to use each. He demanded excellence in others and modeled it for those who needed mentoring. My life is better for knowing him. He loved you all and never tired of sharing stories. I wish you had been given more time together. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
January 16, 2013
Dear McNamara Family,
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Bob was the best of human beings, a kind soul, a good father and husband. Our prayers and thoughts go out to you. Francesca & Larry Slesinger & family
Jessica Sanders
January 16, 2013
My deepest sympathies for your great loss. Bob was a treasured mentor, leader and friend during our years together at CEC. I value the time we had together and all that he taught me. I will never forget his kind, warm, and thoughtful ways. Bob had a wonderful way of inspiring us with his amazing stories and never failed to leave us in awe. I will miss him greatly as will many but will remember him always. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
January 16, 2013
Dear Patty and family, we are so sorry for your loss and send all of you our blessings. Bern and Marilyn(neighbors).
David Pauldine
January 15, 2013
My condolences to the family. I met Bob about five years ago at the Career College Association. We served on the board together. His contribution on Legal Committees was significant. Further, Bob spoke his mind and made us a better association because of it. His volunteer work over the past year or so was illustrative of his heart and his desire to give back. He certainly will be missed but also will be fondly remembered.
Denese C. Phillips
January 15, 2013
Dear McNamara family; Words cannot express my great sadness over the loss of Bob, my dear colleague, friend and mentor. For the extraordinary man he was and all that he accomplished, Bob touched and inspired many lives. I am a better person for knowing Bob. He loved you all so very much and spoke of his lovely wife and children all the time, something I admired so much. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad time. Blessings to you -
Wade Williams
January 15, 2013
Although I only worked with Bob for a couple of years, the experience and association was truly memorable. He had the really good stuff that sets a person apart, and I know I'll miss that.
Darlene Ulmer
January 15, 2013
Dear McNamara family: I am so very sorry for your loss. I would never have been able to repay Bob for all he did for me over the years in my career at CEC or as my mentor and friend. He was beyond kind to my son and my son was very fond of Bob. Bob was for me one of the best men I ever knew. I recently posted Bob's career accomplishments and obituary on Facebook as a memorial to him. I knew he was accomplished in his career, but I wanted to share just how accomplished he was. All those accomplishments were nothing compared to the man I knew him to be. He loved you all very much and spoke of you all the time. I already miss him terribly. My heart is broken. You are in my thoughts and the thoughts of so many. I pray for peace for you all. God bless you all.
Mario Novo
January 15, 2013
Bob was so instrumental in helping me be where I am today. I will always remember his kindness, guidance, and warm smile. My deepest sympathies.
January 15, 2013
I enjoyed working with Bob and admired all of his work for CEC. Judy Komar
Tim Gramling
January 15, 2013
Bob was very instrumental in my first significant lobbying trip to Washington, DC. I always will be grateful for his unique ability to engage in serious work while still having fun.
George Miller
January 15, 2013
Bob was a quietly inspirational leader. He will be missed by his colleagues and friends.
My most sincere condolences.
John and Georgia Salemme
January 14, 2013
We were so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He was a very intelligent and nice man. Our deepest condolences to Patty, Brendan, and Caitlin.
Mary Lou Griggs
January 14, 2013
May rich, warm memories soon begin to patch the torn spots in your hearts. Bob was a kind man and generous of spirit. Rest assured that his arrival has been welcomed in Heaven. My condolences and prayers go out to your family.
Joe, Cleleste and Rachel Salemme
January 14, 2013
Our heartfelt condolences to the McNamara family on their loss. Bob was a truly brilliant and kind man. Godspeed.
Stephanie Havenstein
January 14, 2013
Dearest McNamara Family,
We are holding each of you close in our hearts and prayers. So many hilarious and poignant memories of our families navigating through the joys and challenges of rearing our children. Your friendship, wisdom and humor was such a gift. Call on us for anything. Love and our deepest sympathies to you all. Pete and Stephanie Havenstein
Sheila Guarnotta
January 14, 2013
Dear Patty, Brendan and Caitlin,
Words cannot express the heartache we feel for all of you. Bob was a great person and always beaming with pride and love for his family. We will always cherish our time with him.
Hold tight to the good memories for comfort and the knowledge that he is at peace in God's arms and surrounded by some of the best up there in heaven. We love all of you and Bob will forever be in our hearts.
Jim, Sheila and Jimmy
January 14, 2013
Dear Patty and Family:
Bob was a brilliant, talented and kind lawyer; I learned so much from him when he served with me at the Commodity Futures Trading Commission in the 1980's. I saw Bob in 2008 at Suburban Hospitable where he so generously volunteered his time. Bob was a real "mensch," a stand up guy, and he will be missed by all who knew him.
Our prayers go out to you and his children, and we hope that you find comfort in the warmth of his memory.
Peace, comfort and blessings to you all.
Jill and Arthur Salzberg
Michelle Plesser
January 14, 2013
I'm lighting this candle for Cait and your family I'm so sorry for you loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mother and brother and family. I am here for you guys love you caitlin.
January 14, 2013
Dear Patti and family, We are deeply saddened by your loss. As always you will remain in our prayers. Love, Marv and Taum
Lloyd Kirsch
January 14, 2013
Dear Patty and Family,
Bob was a great colleague who will be fondly missed for his authenticity, humor and commiitment. Our sincerest condolences to each of you.
January 14, 2013
Dear McNamara Family,
Bob will be missed on every level by our family. As his professional colleague and his friend, I will never be in Bethany again without missing Bob. He was a man of deep integrity and goodness. Your loss is a profound one, and we hope you will take solace in our shared Catholic faith, in Bob's deep love for his family, and his rich legacy as a lawyer serving our Nation with such honor and distinction. We will be there Thursday, Friday and thereafter.
Steve, Lisa and John Ryan
Joseph DeSantis
January 14, 2013
Dear Patty, Brendan, Catlin and Brooke, I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much Bob meant to all of you and he will be missed very much. I will be praying for Bob and your family during this difficult time. Joe DeSantis.
Debbie Diener
January 14, 2013
Dear Patty and Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Bob was such a wonderful person.
My deepest sympathies,
Debbie Diener
January 14, 2013
Dear Patty and family:
Our thoughts are with you during this very difficult time.
Best,
Jean Feldman
William Marmon
January 14, 2013
Love and sympathy from Bill and Lucky Marmon
Michael D. Langan
January 14, 2013
Dear Patty and Family,
Joanne and I extend our sympathies on your great loss.
We pray for the repose of Bob's soul and for the consolation of those who mourn him.
Joanne and Michael D. Langan
Chris, Donna, and Joey Salemme
January 14, 2013
We are so very sorry for your loss. He was such a good man. Peace.
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