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MILTON L. DREWER, JR. "Milt" (Age 89)
On Wednesday, October 17, 2012, of Arlington, VA. Milt was born and raised in Saxis, VA, graduated from Randolph Macon College and received his masters degree from the University of Virginia. Milt was head football coach and athletic director at the College of William & Mary from 1957 to 1963 before moving his family to Arlington. His banking career spanned several decades, culminating in his position as President and CEO of First American Bank of Virginia. He was predeceased by his beloved wife, Elizabeth "Susie" Drewer; and a son, William (Sharon) Drewer of Arlington, VA. Survivors include his companion, Liz Hopwood of Arlington, VA; sons, Milton L. (Ellie) Drewer, III of Bluffton, SC and Alan (Lora) Drewer of Oak Hill VA; and daughter, Carol Mortensen of Wilmington, NC. Milt is also survived by 10 grandchildren and three great grandchildren. Relatives and friends may call on Monday, October 22, 2012 from 5 to 8 p.m. at Murphy Funeral Home, 4510 Wilson Boulevard, Arlington, VA. A funeral will be held at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, October 23, 2012 at Walker Chapel United Methodist Church, 4102 North Glebe Road, Arlington, VA. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Milt's name to the William & Mary Tribe Club www.wm.edu/giving/designate/tribe or Tribe Club-Football, P.O. Box 399, Wiliiamsburg, VA 23187. Because William & Mary Athletics receives no state money, support is essential to student athletes by funding athletic scholarships and athletic facilities.
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Memories and Condolences
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Reginald Armstrong
November 5, 2019
We staff and students os Warwick High School were fortunate to have Coach Milt Drewer as our head football coach during the 1953 - 1955 school years. He was a man of character and strong work ethic and discipline. Through his leadership and knowledge of football, he promoted team spirit, unity, a desire to excel, and never give up. Not only a coach but as a teacher, he imparted to us students the importance of self discipline, hard work, and that dreams only become reality if we are will to put in the effort. More importantly, he set the example of what he espoused. We all were the better for having known and learned from Coach Drewer.
November 7, 2012
Milt hired me as the Sports Information Director at William and Mary in 1961. He was an inventive coach, creating the "Rocket T." Although the wins were not as many as he wanted, his leadership qualities launched an impressive banking career. Milt was a great host and never forgot his friends. Alan, I am sorry that I lost touch with him in recent years. He had a long and storied career and we will miss a true personality in the sports and business world.
Barry Fratkin, W&M '64
Lynn Johnson
October 23, 2012
Carol, Danielle, Michelle and Noelle- Our prayers and thoughts are with you. We are so sorry for your loss.
Love,
Lynn and Scott
Anne Ahrens
October 22, 2012
So sorry for your loss. My condolances.
Tonia Brock
October 22, 2012
Carol, My deepest sympathy goes out to you, your brothers, and your daughters in this difficult time. You are in my thoughts always!!!!
Mary and Richard Kazares
October 22, 2012
Our hearfelt condolances go out to Milt's family, friends and everyone who he touched in his life.
He was a wonderful person and we all will miss his wit and charm.
The Royal Knights
October 22, 2012
The Royal Knights for Chivalry, Fort Lauderdale Florida salutes our fallen member, Milt Drewer. We are saddened by his passing and will carry his name forward in our hearts and activities. We miss you, Milt.
The Royal Knights for Chivalry - 2012
Richard Kazares Chairman
October 22, 2012
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Richard Kazares Chairman
October 22, 2012
Maurice & Barbara Lefka
October 22, 2012
To our dear friend Liz and to Milt's family our deepest condolences to a fine man and a gentle man. We will miss him.
John Kyle
October 22, 2012
My fellow Burning Tree members and I will miss Milt, and we extend our sympathy to family and friends.
October 22, 2012
Our deepest sympathy to the family of Milt Drewer. A great and respected man. Milt, III, I have fond memories of our fun times on the golf course with your dad. Our prayers are with you all.
Jim & Katherine Capps, Hilton Head Island, SC
June Cook
October 22, 2012
My sincere condolences are extended to Milton's family and close personal friends.
(From a First American Bank of Northern VA retiree)
Carol LaCarrubba
October 21, 2012
to the family of our dear friend Carol~we are so very sorry for your loss. Sounds like he was a wonderful man. Our sympathy, Carol and Nick LaCarrubba
Horace Mann
October 20, 2012
Dear family of Coach Drewer:
I served with Milt on the Board of Visitors at the College of William and Mary during the late 1970s. Although we often disgreed on policy issues - I appreciate the fact that one always knew where you stood with him. And after the discussions of the day were over - there were lots of stories and laughs over a meal and drink. My thoughts are with you, Alan and your siblings...
Respectfully,
H. Edward Chip Mann
W and M Class of 1977
October 19, 2012
I was so sad to learn of Mr. Drewer's death. I owe my career as a banker to him. He inspired me to make banking my career, and was responsible for my relocation to Winchester, Virginia almost 30 years ago. I well remember when I was asked by Don Collins, Regional President, to come to Winchester and the beautiful Shenandoah Valley as senior lending officer. Mr. Drewer visited with me and told me that he didn't really want me to leave Tyson's Corner, but knew that I would do a good job for the bank wherever I was, and that if I wanted to relocate to Winchester, he would let me go with his blessing. I have never regretted that decision and have made Winchester my home ever since. Mr. Drewer was always very good and generous with me, and I owe so much to him. I pray that his kind and caring spirit will be rewarded in eternity! God Bless You, Mr. Drewer!
Reginald Armstrong
October 19, 2012
To the family of Coach Drewer. My heartfelt prayers are with you. I cheered on his Warwick High Farmers football teams 1953 - 1955. Even as a high school student,I knew that coach Drewer was special and that he was destined for a high level of acheivement. God bless him and you his family.
October 19, 2012
To the Drewer extended family - A true Gentleman and a man that
cared about other people more than himself. We remember very fondly the 1st American Christmas Party's that set the stage but no others could match...I personally will remember that never ending smile and " how are you doing and how can I help you?"
We need more people like Milt Drewer and the Buck families will
truly miss him. may God Bless you and rest in Peace...
Bill & Suzie Buck & family
Ronald Willard
October 19, 2012
Our sympathy to Coach Drewer's family and friends. I remember Coach Drewer & his staff from the 1958 training table at William & Mary, served by Frank Cornell'60 and me! Joan&Ron Willard'61 (Charter Member of the Order of the White Jacket (est 1972) at Wm&Mary)
October 19, 2012
My condolences to the Drewer family. May your fond memories give you much comfort.
David Bowman
October 19, 2012
Alan, It has been a tough 18 months. Mandy & I are very sorry for your loss. We hope you will share some of the great stories you have of your father.
With our prayers, Dave & Mandy Bowman & family
October 19, 2012
Alan and family, we were so sorry to hear this sad news we know how special your dad was to the entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and always.
Love, Caren and Bob
Betsy Lipetz Weiner
October 19, 2012
We are saddened by your loss.Alan and I are thinking of you and the family.
Ann Clark
October 19, 2012
Milt's memory will always be with me. His kindness, thoughtfulness, and his sharp mind whatever the conversation or wherever it turned. A true Virginia gentleman. Made me proud to be a Virginian. My deepest sympathy to family and Liz Hopwood.
Andy Vitali
October 19, 2012
A fine gentleman and father-OK Milt you get two strokes on the back.
Kim and Steven Naimoli
October 19, 2012
With love and lots of fond memories.
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