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BRIAN ROY BLUHM (25)

Of Blacksburg, Virginia, died Monday, April 16, 2007, at Virginia Tech, in Blacksburg, Virginia.

Brian was born on July 19, 1981, in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, the son of Dennis Roy and Beverly Adell Workman Bluhm of Stephens City, Virginia. Brian graduated from duPont Manual Magnet High School in Louisville, Kentucky. He was a Graduate Student at Virginia Tech, specializing in Water Resources, and was a Teaching Assistant for Dr. Loganathan. Brian was a member of the Baptist Student Union at Virginia Tech, a member of the American Society of Civil Engineering and the Virginia Tech Alumni Association. He had a wide range of interests, including a passion for the Detroit Tigers and the Virginia Tech Hokies; a desire for learning and helping others learn; an interest in history; and most of all a heart for God, and a love for his family and friends. Brian was a 2004 graduate of Virginia Tech, receiving a Bachelors Degree in Civil Engineering, and a 2007 graduate receiving a Masters Degree in Civil Engineering.

Surviving with his parents, is his sister, Angela M.B. Jones and her husband, Justin of Baltimore, Maryland; and grandparents, Gerald and Stella Bluhm of Waterloo, Iowa. His grandparents, Emrie and Wilda Workman, preceded him in death.

A memorial service will be conducted at 7 p.m. on Tuesday, April 24, 2007, at Fellowship Bible Church, 3217 Middle Road, Winchester, Virginia, with Pastor Mark Carey officiating. Interment will be private.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Brian Bluhm Virginia Tech Civil Engineering Scholarship Fund, c/o Marathon Bank 4095 Valley Pike, Winchester, Virginia, 22601. Arrangements are being handled by OMPS FUNERAL HOME, Amherst Chapel, Winchester, Virginia.

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Published by The Washington Post on Apr. 21, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
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March 17, 2017

Ten Years later you are still missed in our lives. Love you so much my friend.

Walter Hackett

June 20, 2015

I'm still thinking about you, my friend. I will never forget you.

April 12, 2011

It has been four years on Saturday, April 16, 2007 and it still unreal.

January 15, 2011

Remembering you.

Elizabeth Nester

April 16, 2010

Im just a senior from floyd County high, but i remember 4-16-07 and i remember the ones who were not so lucky and i want the family to know they are in my thoughts. I will never forget!

a friend

September 11, 2008

Miss you Brian.

Yuhon Ho

April 17, 2008

It has been a year now since the tragedy, I hope that people will always remember this wonderful person, who genuinely cares for people so much. Why is this have to happen?

Craig and Jean McCormick

April 17, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers were with you yesterday as you observed the first anniversary of Brian's home going. May God continue to watch over you and bring you peace and comfort during these difficult days.
"Isaiah 40:31: Those that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings as Eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint." I know Brian is soaring like the Eagles and may you run and not be weary and may you walk and not faint, ever holding on to someone good and perfect. Our prayers are with you.

Charlene

April 17, 2008

Your in my thoughts and prayers today and every day since God called him home. Brians Detroit Tigers are starting to play better since having a terrible start. May you continue to lean on God to get you through each day one day at a time.

m c

April 16, 2008

May God still embrace you now and always for the loss of Brian..I am confident Brian and God both watched over you today and always will.

The Burns

April 16, 2008

I remember reading that you were a huge Detroit Tiger fan, I'm sure you are looking down saddened by how poorly they are doing thus far this season. I hope your family is able to think of you and smile more than they are sad. May you rest in peace!

Billie Thompson

April 16, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of Brian on the 1st anniversary of his departure from earth to live with his Heavenly Father.

Billie Thompson

April 16, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of Brian on this, the first anniversary of his departure from this earth, to live with his Heavenly Father.

Bruce & Janet Hartman

January 3, 2008

May memories of your loved bring
one peace to your heart.We are sorry for your lose of your son .Please know our thougths are with you and your family.

32 Victims

November 30, 2007

life

November 30, 2007

November 30, 2007

Brian, Matt, Greg, Mike

Brian Bluhm Family

November 30, 2007

Thank you from our family to each of you that has been so kind to leave a message. We appreciate your prayers and thoughtfulness.

B Thompson

November 22, 2007

I did not know Brian personally, but learned about him as a result of the tragedy at VA Tech. I am sure this day of Thanksgiving is not easy for your family, but I pray that knowing he is with God softens your pain.

Craig and Jean McCormick

August 29, 2007

Just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you as the new school year begins. May God bring you strength and comfort and may he wrap his loving arms around you and draw you close. God Bless You.

Vasili Glimidakis

August 27, 2007

Dear Bluhm Family,
I am sorry for your loss. God bless him and his family.

Emily

July 25, 2007

I just want you to know that there are people out here who are grieving your loss as well. There are people out here who do care, and who do feel sad and sorry. My heart goes out to your family. May you find peace, God be with you.

Char

July 19, 2007

Thoughts and Prayers are with the family as you remember Brian on his first birthday in Heaven.

Bessie Murphy

May 30, 2007

To Brian's Family,

I also grieve with you. Please know that Jehovah can change your sorrow into joy by means of the resurrection. "Search for Jehovah and his strength. Seek his face constantly. Remember his wonderful works that he has performed, his miracles." (Psalm 105:4,5)

Eric Sebring

May 27, 2007

When the Hokies and the Tigers win it all, I will look to the sky and remember you.

Elena Jones

May 26, 2007

Brian's family:

Our prayers and thoughts are with you. I pray for peace and comfort for you.

The Burns Family

May 25, 2007

You will never be forgotten!

alma renner

May 18, 2007

God Bless You

Vivian Ruth Sawyer

May 16, 2007

To Brian's family: a gift to the Louisville Orchestra in Brian's memory was made for the Louisville Orchestra's Memorial Concert, Saturday, May 12. The program listing this gift in Brian's name was received by all in attendance at the concert, which was held at the Kentucky Center for the Arts. If you would like to receive a copy of the program, please send me your mailing address. Thank you, and may God bless and comfort your family.

Billie Thompson

May 11, 2007

To the family of Brian,

My thoughts and prayers are with you especially during this VT commencement time. I did not know Brian, but from all I have read and heard about him, it is so obvious that he has received a far greater reward than any human being could ever give him. What great pride you should feel in reading the comments his peers and professors have said about him. I know God will provide all the strength, patience, understanding and acceptance you need, as I know you miss him so very much. All of you remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Charlotte Lyons

May 10, 2007

You are not alone in your mourning. The nation mourns with you. We are devastated for your loss. Please realize you are not alone.
In Jesus' Name

Atonya James-Parks

May 5, 2007

To the family remember to Lift up your eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh your help. Your help cometh from the Lord. He will see you through this!! God Bless!

Vivian Ruth Sawyer

May 4, 2007

To Brian's parents, sister and brother-in-law, and grandparents:

As the days pass, do not think that we have forgotten about you in your sadness. Our prayers continue for you. In Louisville, we feel that we, too, have lost one of our own. Everyone who knew Brian loved him. Do not doubt that you will see him again, reunited in Christ Jesus, who will dry every tear and take away all mourning. May the Holy Spirit comfort you, and grant you the peace that passes all understanding.

Amanda Timcik

May 4, 2007

I had the pleasure of knowing Brian, through mutual friends. He was always smiling, in fact I cannot picture him without a smile. He definately made the most of his time here.

My prayers have been with since I found out, and they will continue to be with you. May you find comfort knowing that Brian will always be with you, watching over you.

David Bauman

May 4, 2007

Dear Bluhm Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. From everything I have seen and read about Brian he was a godly young man. May God's grace sustain you. My mother has been wanting to get a message of condolence to you as well. Her sisters Verna and Donnie were Bluhms by marriage. Her name is Bona.

Mark Cavaliere

May 1, 2007

Dear Bluhm family,
My family and I continue to hold you in our thoughts and prayers. I can assure you that all university communities will never forget that awful day. I only pray that you and the other families can find peace and strength.

Bianca

May 1, 2007

Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am the sparkle in the snow.
I am the shredded leaves that blow.
I am the sunlight on growing grain.
I am the gentle summer rain.
I am the quiet bird at night.
Circling about; Taking flight.
So do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.

Annie

April 30, 2007

RISE UP SLOWLY, ANGEL

Rise up, slowly, Angel.
I cannot let you go.
Just drift softly midst the faces,
In sorrow now bent low.

Ease the searing anger,
Born in harsh unyielding truth
That Death could steal my loved one
From the glowing blush of youth.

Rise up slowly, Angel.
Do not leave me here alone,
Where the warmth of mortal essence
Lies replaced by cold, hard stone.

Speak to me in breezes
Whispered through the drying leaves,
And caress my brow with raindrops
Filtered by the sheltering trees.

Rise up slowly, Angel,
For I cannot hear the song
Which calls you through the shadows
Into the light beyond.

Wrap me in your downy cape
Of sunshine, warm with love,
And kiss a tear-stained mother's face
With moonlight from above.

Then wait for me at sunset,
Beside the lily pond,
And guide me safely homeward
To your world,which lies beyond.

Just spread your wings and take me
In reunion’s sweet embrace,
And we shall soar, together,
To a different time and place.

For the parents, bless you.

Sarah Mutispaugh

April 30, 2007

So many of us are still in shock in Blacksburg and I personally can't really grasp the fact that he is no longer here. I know he is walking in paradise with our Almighty God right now. I was a part of the BSU while at VT and was in a bible study "Brown Family" with Brian. I saw Brian's beautiful smile about a week before April 16 and it brings joy and peace to me when I can't seem to grasp what has happened at VT. I am praying for all of you and I love you. Go Tigers & Hokies:)!!

Linda Favuzza ([email protected])

April 30, 2007

To Brian's family and friends,
Our heavenly father promises at Isaiah 41:10-"Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not gaze about, for I am your God. I will fortify you. I will really help you. I will really keep fast hold of you with my right hand of righteousness". May you grasp hold of his hand and allow him to guide you through the coming days, months and years.
May you gain comfort from these additional scriptures:
Isaiah 25:8-"He will actually swallow up death forever."
Revelation 21:4-"And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."
My husband was lost on 9/11 and these scriptural promises comfort me greatly.

Shahnene Springer

April 30, 2007

My family is so sorry for yor lost. But there is hope. Jesus said at John 5:28,29: "Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out." The Bible also says at Acts 24:15:"There is going to be a resurrection of the righteous and unrighteous. So even unrighteous ones who don't know and serve Jehovah will get a future opportunity to gain God's favor.

D.WALTON REV.21:4/5

April 30, 2007

KEEP THE FAITH AND BELIEVE IN JEHOVAH AND HIS SON JESUS!!!

Sharon Robinson

April 30, 2007

Sincere condolence's and heartfilled prayers. May God Bless your Family.

Shatoria Lowe

April 30, 2007

To the Bluhm family. Do know that you are in my prayers. I live in OK City and it breaks my heart to see the pain of a parent. You are in my prayers and thoughts and I pray nothing but blessings on you and your family.

Wanda Officer

April 29, 2007

To The Family of Brian Bluhn-Please accept my condolences to you and your family. Please know that you can gain comfort from the scriptures. Almighty God has the power to resurrect our loved ones, for John 5:28,29 tells us: "Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out." Know that Almighty God does care about you & take comfort from His word during this difficult time.

Petra Hrabalkova

April 28, 2007

I am a 22 year old student.I have many friends in your son's age.I can not imagine the pain you are going through.Please believe that students around the world connect in their thoughts and prayers for your son and all the others who left "us" that day.My heart is filled with sorrow.Petra

Marie Stanley

April 28, 2007

My deepest sympathies to your family. I am so sorry.

Phyllis James

April 28, 2007

To the Bluhm family:
May I offer my condolences for your tragic loss of your son. Please know that God is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves. (Psalm 34:18) As you struggle to work through this time of grief know that you are not alone, my prayers and thoughts are with your family along with countless thousands of others.

Beth Milling Graham

April 28, 2007

May God be with you each day.

linda

April 28, 2007

To the Bluhm Family: My deepest sympathy for the loss of Brian. My son is an engineering grad student at VT & cannot imagine the sorrow that you are feeling. Please know that we all grieve for you all and know that Brian will stay in your hearts forever.

Spencer H

April 28, 2007

To the Bluhm family,
I am sorry for your loss,please draw close to God in prayer and the bible promises that he will sustain you.(psalm 55:22)

Shawn McLaughlin

April 27, 2007

To family and friends of Brian Bluhm:

Love will find a way. May you find healing in your own way and time.

Tyise Gray

April 27, 2007

I read about his "great personality" and comments made from those who knew him. Such a terrible loss and my deepest condolences. Grieving parents need to know that Jehovah will sustain them through intense sadness, just as he did David, (of the Bible). They can approach the great "Hearer of Prayer", trusting that he will give them help. (Psalm 65:2) But not only parents, any who mourn the death of a loved one. If you pray to Jehovah in faith, he WILL sustain you. Take care

Philip Furrow

April 27, 2007

Always a smile on your face, always. I will miss your genuine kindness towards others, especially the kindness you've show me. Thanks for the times we shared at the BSU and bible study. Take care and I'll see you one day in a better place. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers, I know they were always in yours.

Michael Iezzi

April 27, 2007

Father we entrust our brother Brian to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Brian in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.

Michael Shea

April 27, 2007

There are no words and I can never truly understand. My heart is with you. I have cried and I have smiled. Your son was a wonderful person and you must be strong. My prayers are with you.

Angela Merck

April 27, 2007

Dear Bluhm Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.

April 27, 2007

Our hearts go out to all the Bluhm family and Virginia Tech from a parent and the Longhorn family at The University of Texas. The eyes of Texas are upon you, and they are filled with tears.

Doss Family

April 26, 2007

Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you all

Beth

April 26, 2007

Dear Bluhm Family,
I too, like so many who have signed here, did not know Brian. I feel, however, that somehow I do. I live in Salem,VA ~ just about 30 minutes from Tech. My heart is heavy for you and your loss. Last weekend my husband and I took our young children to Tech to visit the memorials. We prayed for you there and still have you in our hearts. May God bless you and give you peace that will comfort you.

Terri Brooks

April 26, 2007

You are in my heart and prayers.

Rebecca Witonsky

April 26, 2007

I wish to express my deepest and most profound condolences to the family of Brian R. Bluhm. I didn't have the pleasure of knowing him, but I am deeply saddened by his brutal murder. He was a good Christian man, and he will not be forgotten.

McKenna

April 26, 2007

I am very very very sorry for your loss of a loved one. My thoughts and prays are for you and may Brian be very happy with god he's home now and hes having a great time with our lord

Marie

April 26, 2007

There are no words to express our sadness for your loss. Just know that the nation grieves with you and all the families of those killed at VT. May you find PEACE that only GOD can offer.

Gwen Feng

April 26, 2007

Rest In Peace Brian, our greatest sympathy to the entire family

Debbie Young

April 26, 2007

My heart and prayers are with all of you..

Elizabeth Helms

April 26, 2007

I never knew Brian, but have read so much about him and the other ones who went "home" on April 16th. His persona affected me especially, because he sounds like such an incredible person, and with an openness about his faith in God. I just wanted to leave my condolences for the family and friends of a person who touched each person he came in contact with, whether they ever met him or not. That is evident everywhere where his name is mentioned. God's scripture has been so comforting during this time, especially. Having been in that building and watched the change of classes on Drill Field long ago I felt connected, somehow. God's Blessings on You!

SUZETTE

April 26, 2007

REST IN PEACE SWEET BEAUTIFUL PRECIOUS ANGEL

Peggy Hassan

April 26, 2007

What a senseless act. I pray that your family can go on and that the love of the human spirit will lift you up.

Someone who loves our Lord and Savior

April 26, 2007

May these scriptures give you peace and hope:

Psalms 55:22--Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and He shall sustain thee. He shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.

Psalm 105:4--Look to the LORD and his strength; seek his face always.

Isaiah 54:13 - All your sons will be taught by the LORD, and great will be your children's peace.

Luke 20:37--They are like angels, they are God’s children.

Philippians 4:13--I can do all things in Him who strengthens me.

Psalm 121:78--The LORD will keep you from all harm---He will watch over your life; the LORD will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.

Mrs. Jessica Pavillard

April 26, 2007

Dear Bluhm Family,
My heart breaks for you and your beautiful boy. I wish, as everyone does, that I could rewind that day and make it as it was before that terrible day... Of course, I can't. I can tell you that he is with you now, sitting beside you when you bow your head to think of the pain of his loss will bring to all of those fortunate enough to have known him. I did not know him in life, I grew to know him by stories on his life, how he lived. I have no doubts in my mind that Heaven welcomed him in, that he found peace from the Lord, and if any regrets, it is that he had to leave YOU. You were his heart. You raised him to be the good and decent man he was becoming. Your love. When all other things are lost, Love remains. The love you have for him, and the love he has for you.
Faith tells me that everything happens for a reason, but when I look upon these faces, your son's beautiful smile, my heart breaks. I know we will never be able to know why this happened, not really. But Faith tells me that your son was such a bright and beautiful soul, he simply could not walk among us long. He was too good.
I wish I could return him to you so that you all could attend one of his beloved games, that you could cheer beside him, touch his warm face, look into his deep eyes. I know he is beside you during this time, that he is your angel now. He touches your tearstained cheeks, strokes your hair with invisable fingers, that he remains alive within you.
Bless your heart, dear Family, I hope that faith will hold you tight, love you as he did, and remind you that he is in God's gentle hands now, never to hurt again.
We cry with you on your loss. We grieve with you. In him, we see our own family. We see our sons, our husbands, our brothers, our cousins. Tears fall for him all over the world. People pray for you and him all over the whole. That he touched so many, that is a sign of a great man. Thank you for helping him become the kind of person anyone would love to know, love to marry, love to be. To be the kind of man I hope my boys will one day be like. Thank you for that...
May God bless and keep you all close in His heart. I know your Brian will forever be in your's... and mine... the world's. Bless you all.
~A Proud Active Duty Army Wife~

Karen Holsonback

April 25, 2007

Love and prayers for healing to all of you. Unspeakable grief that I cannot fathom is part of you - however, you are in my prayers that God will give you daily strength to survive each day.

An Unknown Friend, Pat

April 25, 2007

My heart was heavy when I heard of this terrible tragedy. We may never understand why God permitted this to happen but rejoice with you that Brian was a Christian and has gone home to be with his Lord. It is my prayer that you feel the warmth of God's presence surrounding you during this difficult time...strengthening and encouraging you daily. In Christian love and concern....

Chris Butzen

April 25, 2007

May "The Lord bless you and keep you" Numbers 6: 24
Rest in Peace dear Brian.

Carolina

April 25, 2007

To the Family/Friends Of Brian:
I hurt for what has happened to Brian. When you get a chance to breathe, I hope you can gain courage from this: what the Bible "really" teaches about all those that have passed is that they are likened to being "asleep." John 11:11-13
May the resurection hope sustain you, for the Bible calls Jesus "the resurection and the life." By means of his Father, Jesus will call out to those in the memorial tombs (Brian) and resurrect them to a cleansed, paradise earth that is to come. John 5:28-30; 2Pe 3:13
When Jesus walked the earth and resurrected many who passed, he was giving us a preview of what he is going to do for mankind in the future.....Take Care

Melanie Daniel

April 25, 2007

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

someone in Louisville, KY

April 25, 2007

my deepest sympathy goes out to the family. You will be in my prayers

Robert Iossi

April 25, 2007

Rest in Peace Brian. God has taken an angel to heaven to help him.

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. Call me anytime when this is appropriate.

a friend

April 25, 2007

I am devastated to hear of all the great people who died at Virginia Tech. I am also from Kentucky and it hurts to know that we have lost one of our own. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with your family during this difficult time. My heart goes out to your family and all of the other Virginia Tech families involved. Rest in peace. God Bless.

First Christian Church

April 25, 2007

On behalf of the Members of First Christian Church, in Burlington Iowa, we want to express our utmost condolences at this most difficult time in your lives. May it be a comfort to you and your family and friends to know that you are being remembered right now and in the months to come in the thoughts and prayers of so many. It is our prayer that you will feel God’s everlasting love and presence in this time of sorrow and that you turn to Him for His strength to guide your way through these troubled times. We sincerely hope and pray that your tremendous grief at this time will gradually diminish while the precious memories of your loved ones will last forever. May you find peace in God’s never failing love and care and may God's blessing be with you and your family at this time. It is our fervent prayer that you find strength in the Lord!
Jesus told his disciples, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4.

Joy Wharton

April 25, 2007

Please accept my sincere sympathy for your tragic loss.

Annie Tedrow

April 25, 2007

I was unaware that Brian's family lived in Stephen's City. I am a hokie from Winchester and this tragedy has struck me to the core. I keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry you lost your son. May you be comforted by your memories.

Tina W.

April 25, 2007

My heart and prayers are with you. Proverbs 3:5-6 says: Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

May God bless this family.

amber lawson

April 25, 2007

Just wanted to send my deepest and heartfelt sympathy to you at this difficult time~may god help u get through this and may brian rest peace!

Bart Feinbaum

April 25, 2007

As a Virginia Tech alumnus who lives in Michigan and also loves the Tigers, I offer you my sincere sympathy.

Nancy Drake

April 25, 2007

Our heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with you and your family. I am the mother of a college senior here in Southern California and even though I don't know your family and the other families involved, please know that myself and others are touching your hearts and sharing your grief. Our love to you all.

Jerry Holleman

April 25, 2007

My son, Alex,is a junior at Virginia Tech majoring in civil engineering. He has spoken often of the encouragement Brian gave him especially when he was beginning his engineering studies. I regret I did not have the privilege of meeting Brian. He will be missed but not forgotten. Though he was only with us for a short time there will be many future VT engineering students who will benefit from the legacy he has blessed us with.

Tom Cassady

April 25, 2007

We are so sorry for your loss. We in Michigan and fellow Detroit Tiger Fans send our sympathy.

SECC Member

April 25, 2007

Southeast Chrisian Church in Louisville, KY had a moment of silence/prayer for all VT victims during their church services this past weekend. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Ted Vollmer

April 25, 2007

When we lost our daughter, also a college student, in a tragic car crash six years ago we never would have thought anyone would understand the pain we have been feeling. But to Brian's family, know that there are thousands who know what you are feeling and we know that while the pain will never ever go away, it will gradually ease and you will one day be able to smile again when you think of the times you cherished with Brian. This is a time when you are feeling tremendous support from people all over the world. Soon you will be alone with your grief and you will need to support each other as never before. Seek counseling; seek out others like you as I am with this message. You will find comfort and strength, and Brian will remain forever. I wish you all the best in this difficult journey.

Edward Iannielli III

April 25, 2007

I wish to express my heartfelt sympathies to your family for the tragic loss of your son. The sadness of losing someone so young is difficult to bear and I pray for you to have strength with each passing day and take solace knowing that your son was a fine young man and was a true success.

I pray for your son and for your family at this time of incredible sorrow. We all feel sad for what happened and I pray for you to find strength each and every day.

The Iannielli Family

Kara Herbinko

April 24, 2007

In a time like this, there are no words that can take away your pain. All I can offer you and your family are my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and keep you close in your time of need.

In God's Name,
Brian and Kara Herbinko

Jaclyn Schildkraut

April 24, 2007

No words can ever express the loss you have faced. May each day shine a little brighter now that Brian is in heaven, watching down over you. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.

Amy

April 24, 2007

My deepest, heartfelt condolences for the loss of your son. The world grieves with you. My thoughts and prayers are constantly with you. He will never be forgotten.

Alyn Syms

April 24, 2007

Dear Family,
My heart and prayers go out to you on the loss of Brian. I'm a father of a recent college graduate and have protected my son from the womb. I can't imagine your pain. Your son was a success in life, not a victim, that's a press term. JFK was a good president, not a victim , Lincoln was a great president, not a victim. Your son was a hero. God bless you all.

Denise Bennett

April 24, 2007

So sorry for your loss.I didn't know him, but the whole nation grieves with you.

Linda S.

April 24, 2007

You are in my prayers as you face
the days ahead. May our Lord bless and comfort you, and bring you healing only He can provide.

Christopher Plecker

April 24, 2007

Dear Family,
I wish there was something i could do to comfort you and help the healing. Your Family is in my thoughts and prayers every night.

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You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

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These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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