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John Seidenberg
April 1, 2018
In 1965, the year I turned 9, the Marquis family moved next door to us coming from Chicago. The experiences knowing them span most of the years of my life now. I can't say I realized then the enormous role Chalmers Marquis had in public television. I just remember two different years attending an educational broadcasters' convention downtown at the old Sheraton Wardman Park with Brian, the younger son, and being able to operate a TV camera and write my name on screen in the exhibit area. One of those conventions coincided with the introduction of Sesame Street. The second year I knew the Marquises we went to a charity pet show at Hickory Hill, the home of Robert Kennedy who was still living. I only managed to get a single picture of RFK with a new Polaroid as he stood talking to someone. But I remember Chalmers going over to speak to him that day and wished I had captured that shot. The son of the next door neighbor on the other side, who was very interested in broadcasting, credits Chalmers for getting him interested in attending the University of North Carolina for the radio, television, and film department.
The friendship of our parents and with the other neighbors on our end of the street made for such a convivial atmosphere. I know things could not always have been as sanguine as they might have seemed but it was still possible to imagine. Even when Chalmers was no longer our neighbor, he didn't forget the kindnesses to people such as calling my mother after my father's death and coming to a party for her after she moved from our neighborhood. He also attended our wedding and sat at the same table with some of our other former neighbors, friends, and family members. My parents were both gone by then but I thought the sight of everyone together at that table reminiscing would have heartened them greatly.
I think of him as a most unassuming man who was motivated by his goals for and advocacy of public television and children's programming. In addition, the measure of what kind of father he must have been has to be in the enormous care Brian showed for him at every possible step of his long Alzheimer'soften in the face of numerous obstacles. He was someone of talent, dedication, and commitment. Chalmers led me to think too of remembering to notice and appreciate when you're fortunate to have a giant living next door.
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