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DEBORAH COTTER

1967 - 2019

DEBORAH COTTER obituary, 1967-2019, Washington, DC

BORN

1967

DIED

2019

DEBORAH COTTER Obituary

COTTER DEBORAH ANNE COTTER Deborah Anne Cotter, 51, died unexpectedly at home on June 17, 2019. Deb was born on November 7, 1967 in New York City, the daughter of William R. Cotter and Linda Kester Cotter. She grew up in Bogota, Colombia; Oyster Bay, NY; and Waterville, ME. She graduated from the Oak Grove- Coburn School, receiving the Headmaster's Award, and then from Wells College in Aurora, NY, where she played varsity soccer and majored in Russian Studies. After graduation, Deb worked in Washington, DC for her entire career, starting in the office of US Senator George J. Mitchell and then moving on after his retirement to the office of the Senate Historian, the National Archives and then to the nonprofit sector. While serving in Senator Mitchell's office, at the age of 24, Deb suffered a serious stroke. For the rest of her life, she worked hard to overcome mobility, dexterity, vision, and hearing effects of the stroke. Her determination, perseverance, positive attitude, and accomplishments earned her recognition including on the floor of the US Senate and in Walking magazine. In the later years of her career, she returned to the Federal government, where she was a tireless advocate and diligent civil servant providing services and supporting independence for individuals with disabilities, like herself. Post-stroke, Deb earned a Master's in US History and took up stand-up comedy, among other pursuits. Deb was fearless and an inspiring role model for her family and friends. Deb leaves behind her devoted parents, Bill and Linda Cotter of Concord, MA; her brother David and his partner, Jessica LaRue of San Diego, CA; her sister, Liz and husband Michael Schlax of Yarmouth, ME and nieces Elena and Jillian Schlax. She is also survived by the Cotter, Smith, and Zamore families; close friends Michael McCrea and "the WILD women;" and countless other relatives, friends, neighbors, and acquaintances from school, work, and her condominium complex. She will be deeply missed by her beloved cat, Sweet Pea. Memorial gatherings will be held in Washington, DC and Concord, MA later in the summer. In lieu of flowers, please consider giving to Wells College or your favorite organization serving individuals with disabilities. In lieu of flowers, please consider giving to Wells College or your favorite organization serving individuals with disabilities.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jun. 21, 2019.

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michael M. McCrea

November 7, 2024

Not a day goes by without thinking about you, 11/7/24.

EVERY TIME I use my left arm, you are in my mind and heart--and the snow in Philly. I miss you and your beloved face and gracious smile and laughter .
Michael McCrea

Ellen Paul

June 30, 2019

My condolences to the family. So sorry.

Barbara Sutton

June 25, 2019

My deepest sympathy for your loss. May the God of Comfort, continue to comfort the family during these difficult time. May he continue to give support and loving kindness to all. 1 Cor 1:3&4

June 22, 2019

thinking of you - and your loss our love colleen and stan

Deb Cotter, Wells College Graduation Class of 1990. Much beloved, forever in our hearts.

June 22, 2019

Heather McCabe

June 21, 2019

Deb was an esteemed colleague and delightful person to work with. She was a keen supporter of Family Voices and great fun to pal around with. We shall all miss her grace, stamina and dedication to those with disabilities. A star has burned out on earth and lit up in heaven. My deepest condolences to her family. She lit up the world!!

Deb always wore a smile as was the case here at the inauguration of Pres. Clinton. Unselfishly devoted to helping others she was a beacon of light.

June 21, 2019

C. Reeves

June 21, 2019

Life comes, and then it goes. But Deborah's memory, will forever remain in your hearts. Psalm 36:9

Condolences to the family,

NRM

June 21, 2019

Our condolences to the family and friends for such a loss. Hold close in mind and heart all the fond and fun memories of her and reflect on them often. Look to the God of comfort and he will sustain us.

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