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HENSON Jarrell N. Henson "Jerry" CDR USN (Ret) On April 16, 2018 Jerry lost his courageous battle with Parkinson's disease at the age of 81. Jerry is survived by his devoted wife of 54 years, Kathleen; his son Neal (Michele); daughter Kelly (Chris); and granddaughters Kit, Daniella and Antonia. He was predeceased by his brother, Vernon, who passed at the age of 12. Jerry was born in White Oak, Texas, the second of two sons to Palmer and Lydia Henson. Growing up in East Texas, he lettered in five sports and was the class salutatorian his senior year at Leverett's Chapel HS. He went on to receive his BS in Education from Texas A&M University as well as taking post-graduate courses in Educational Administration prior to entering the Navy. Jerry entered the Navy Flight Program at Pensacola, FL in June of 1960 and later received his MBA in management from the Naval Postgraduate School in Monterey, CA. Jerry retired as a Commander after 21 years of service in the Navy. During which time he is credited with 15 years in operational Naval tactical recon squadrons, to include the first RA5C Vigilante squadron commissioned and command of one of the last squadrons in service. During his time operating off Yankee Station CDR Henson completed 72 aerial combat missions in North Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, and South Vietnam. He also amassed 59 months assigned to forward-deployed aircraft carriers in the Atlantic, Mediterranean, Pacific and Indian Oceans; following which, he refused to set foot on another ship! CDR Henson received distinction as the first Naval Flight Officer selected for aviation command of a Reconnaissance Attack Squadron at sea. He served as the Assistant Chief of Staff to Vice Admiral Harry Train on the USS Albany, Gaeta, Italy before returning stateside to the Navy Command Center in the Pentagon where he remained until his retirement. CDR Henson (Ret) continued with the Naval Operations Staff for the next 22 years in the Navy Reconnaissance Center. As a civilian in the OPNAV staff Jerry coordinated peacetime aerial reconnaissance missions, positions and policy on programs for counterdrug operations and support for civilian law enforcement agencies within military operating areas. He was in the Naval Operations Center on September 11, 2001 when the terrorist-controlled aircraft struck the Pentagon, directly in line with his office. Trapped under the debris, CDR Henson (Ret) was rescued by two courageous military officers, providing his grateful family with 16 additional years together. CDR Jerry Henson (Ret) was awarded the Defense of Freedom medal by the Secretary of Defense. A service will be held at Arlington National Cemetery, date to be announced. www.fmfh.comwww.fmfh.com

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Published by The Washington Post on Jun. 17, 2018.

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Jesse Hill

July 1, 2018

Thank you for your service to our country and for all the great memories at the Henson home. You will be missed!

Thomas Alexander

June 21, 2018

Kathy, Kelly, Neal and entire family! My deepest condolences and comforting prayers are continuous for all of you! He was loved and knew great love here on earth. That love continues on and on and grows enormous with each memory and speak of this great man, father and friend, Jerry! Hold each other close and find comfort from loved ones and friends!

Joseph Alleman

June 21, 2018

He still is Best of the Best !!
Joseph Alleman, RVAH-5 1975-1977

Richard Sitts

June 20, 2018

Skipper Henson, fair winds and following seas. You were my first CO and set the example for which I measured all those who followed.

June 18, 2018

Psalm 90:10 says that the days of our years are 70 years, And if because of special mightiness they are 80 years. May the memories of the wonderful times you shared together bring a smile and joy in your heart.

Dianne LeDuc

June 17, 2018

Kathy Kelly and Neal,
It has been many years since I have seen you all. I remember what a gallant man your father was. I remembered what a beautiful example of family you all set. I pray that God holds you close in his arms on this difficult day and know that your dad/husband is looking down on you with loving watchfulness to guard and guide you alll the rest of your time here on this earth. When the time comes to go home he will be waiting for you with open arms.

Chris Vontz

June 17, 2018

Hay Jerry,
Thanks. Thanks for bringing your wonderful daughter into this world, allowing for our sweet Kit to pounce in behind. Thanks too for sticking around long enough to be a great role model and Grandfather for her. She genuinely loved spending time in your presence...as did we all. I promise to keep you here with us in memory and in our everyday lives. I'll remember your calm cautious approach and take time to pause every now and then so I don't miss anything. You, like Ferris Beuller, mastered life with spirit and cunning and a crack of a smile reserved for the moment of most impact. Well played sir, well played.

Warren Slaughter

June 17, 2018

Will miss Mr. Henson very much.

Megan Hess

June 17, 2018

Kelly, Chris, Kit and family - I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure your father must have been so proud of the woman and mother that you are and can only imagine how Kit must have made him smile. Big virtual hug until I see you in person.

Joyce Cosgray-Vontz

June 17, 2018

Savor the memories. They get you through this day and many others. Thinking of you all.

June 17, 2018

So sorry for his passing - he must have been a wonderful guy to raise such a sweet and loving daughter. Much love, Diane

Leah

June 17, 2018

Kelly, I'm sorry your dad isn't here to celebrate this day with you a day that celebrates his greatest life achievement, being a dad. I've heard you speak of him and read words you've written. It's clear that his kind and patient spirit lives on through you. What a gift. A friend told me the firsts are the worsts : holiday/bday etc.. Keep that flame lit, girl, and he carries on in you and yours.
I also think of your mom, who had the hardest task of the end.' An amazing and giving woman that held the strings together.
You must be so proud of them both.
Love to you, you lucky girl, you.

Amanda Boelke

June 17, 2018

My condolences for your loss. You all will be in my continued thoughts and prayers. I hope the love and fond memories bring peace and comfort through these difficult times. Hugs, Amanda

Milly Frakes

June 17, 2018

Thinking of you all on Fathers Day.

Nancy Todd

June 17, 2018

Kathy, Neal, and Kelly--we are so sorry for the loss of your husband and Dad. We will continue to pray that you all will find peace and that the wonderful memories of this great man will comfort you. With Love, Warren, Nancy, and Drew Todd

Lori Robertson

June 17, 2018

Uncle Jerry is sorely missed. Much love to you all along with wishes for peace and comfort.

Kelly Henson Vontz

June 17, 2018

Dear Dad, What an incredible life you packed in your 81 years on this Earth. You never talked about any of it as you were as humble as they come. You're so loved and respected for all of your accomplishments however your family is forever proud of the Dad, Husband and Grandfather/Papa they knew best and adored. You taught us that nothing says more than your actions...a walk the walk not talk the talk philosophy. Your calm and gentle disposition spoke volumes. You never needed to be loud to command our attention, although you did have a great whistle that also worked in a jiffy! Today is our First Father's Day without you and I hope your ears are burning a little as we reminisce, laugh and dab at the tears. Please keep those cardinals visiting us...it's getting us through knowing you are still watching and protecting your family! Love, Kel

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