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Weyland Joyner Obituary
Of Windsor, VA, died Saturday, March 20, 2004. He is survived by his wie, Alva Moore Joyner of Windsor; two sons, Weyland Thomas Joyner IV and McGregor Steele Joyner; two sisters, Anne J. Sheehan of Atlanta, GA and Leigh J. Wynkoop of Durham, NC; his father, Dr. Weyland Thomas Joyner, Jr. of Hampden-Sydney, VA; two aunts, Phyllis Joyner of New York, NY and Dot Joyner of Massachusetts and an uncle, Ike Joyner of Durham, NC. Services will be conducted Wednesday, March 24, 2004 at 11 a.m. at College Presbyterian Church in Hampden-Sydney. Interment church cemetery. Remembrances may be made to the Hampden-Sydney Fire Dept. or the Chuckatuck Fire Dept. Arrangements by DOYNE-BURGER- DAVIS FUNERAL HOME of Farmville, VA.
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Memories and Condolences
for Weyland Joyner
David Gunn Mecsas
May 6, 2004
Alva,
I just heard the news, and though I hadn't seen Wey J in 25 years, it still hit me hard. I can't help but smile -- albeit through a tear -- when I remember the late nights in the Maxwelton crafts shop where Wey, Lee Sauder, and I would listen to music and swap yarns as we worked on this or that project. I can picture the lamp he made that summer even now. Over the years, I've kept tabs on Weyland and you through my mother's (Charlotte Davis Gunn, Mildred's daughter) ongoing connections with her Hampden Sydney roots. I know the losses have been many for you these past few years, but Weyland will live on in your boys and in your heart. Peace be with you and your family.
With deepest symathies,
David Gunn Mecsas
(I took my wife Joan's last name when our daughter Gwendolyn was born in 1999.)
Zack Van Eyck (a.k.a. Vince Sexton IV)
April 1, 2004
To Weyland's family:
As a kid, one of the first things I would do when my family arrived at my grandparents' house (Joe & Mary Clower) was run across the street to see what Weyland was up to. When his family moved farther away, I used my bike. I forced Weyland to play more sports than he probably wanted to, but he was a steadfast friend throughout my youth, and we did go fishing and hiking, too, which he always enjoyed. He interested me in Camp Maxwelton and I was a camper with him for three summers. Weyland was one of the most conscientious kids I knew, mature beyond his years. He always did the right thing, and was a steadying, stable influence on all of us. And he mastered whatever endeavor he undertook. I think the last time I saw him, and I can't believe it's been so long, was the summer before 11th grade. Among 10 kids trying to master the art of the skateboarding ramp, Weyland was by far the best. I still have photos I took of him on the ramp. We lost touch over the years, but I knew whatever he was doing, he was doing it extremely well. I was privileged to know him. Thanks for being my friend, Weyland.
Russ Norment
March 31, 2004
Alva, Weyland, McGregor, Anne, Leigh & Dr. Joyner,
Of course, words are not adequate to express the shock, the sympathy, and the loss that we all share with you at this time. For me, Weyland was a cherished childhood friend and a role model in a way that I don't think I fully recognized. I wish that we had overlapped at Sewanee longer than we did. Likewise, I wish that we had kept up with each other better and had overlapped longer in adulthood. His legacy will live on in our memory and in his family. I hope that you all find comfort from those close to you at this sad time.
Jim Coleman
March 29, 2004
Dear Alva & family,
On behalf of your friends of the Class of 78 at PEA, I sincerely express my sympathy on the loss of Weyland. He was a fine gentleman.
Our prayers are with you.
Thomas Whittington
March 29, 2004
Weyland, McGregor, and Alva,
I cannot imagine the anguish you must feel at such a sudden and extraordinary loss. Please let me offer my condolences along with our Maxwelton family. Weyland is a fantastic kid and I know McGregor must be too; It follows that their father was also a blessing to his family. My prayers are for his life to be remembered and celebrated, and also for your grief to be soothed at this most difficult time.
Patti Wynkoop
March 24, 2004
Dear Alva,
We are so sorry to hear about Wayland. May God comfort you and keep you in his hands. May he heal your broken hearts. May the love of your family lift you up and give you strength. You remain in our prayers.
Patti Wynkoop and family(Leigh's sister in-law)
Michael Pont
March 23, 2004
Dear Family,
I was so saddened by your loss. It is a great loss to me also. Over the years Weyland and myself had built a working relationship that stemmed beyond work, to a bit of inspiration that often cheered me up when I was down. He was there for me during crisis and he will be missed greatly. My family and I and praying for you and your family. I would like to end this with one of my favorite scriptures" I can do all things through Christ that stregthnes me. Phillipians 4:13"
Marcia Norment
March 23, 2004
Alva, Anne, Leigh, Dr. Joyner,
My parents told me about Weyland. I am so sad for you. Your families have been through so much...how unfair it seems. My memories of Weyland are of what a handsome and polite boy he was...I can only imagine what a wonderful man he must have grown into! My deepest sympathies...
Jean & Nelle Kennedy Terry
March 23, 2004
Dear Alva, Weyland and McGregor, As I told you Saturday our arms are around you, in spirit, even if we can't be there with you now. I'm so glad we had a little time together here.We pray God will hold you close and give you His comfort. We love you. Sister and Jean
REGINA VAN DER VEER - TRENT
March 23, 2004
DEAR ALVA,
I AM SURE THAT YOU DON'T REMEMBER ME BUT I WAS IN FRENCH I WITH YOU AND WEYLAND. I WAS SADDENED TO HEAR OF YOUR FAMILY'S LOSS. WEYLAND WAS A GOOD PERSON AND HE WAS ALWAYS KIND TO EVERYONE. I WILL KEEP YOU AND YOUR SONS IN MY PRAYERS.
Charlie Watson
March 23, 2004
Dear Alva, Weyland, and MacGregor,
As with everyone else here, words cannot express what any of us are feeling now. I can only hope to reassure you that - from my bond with Weyland as a close childhood and high school friend as well a brother in our great Camp Maxwelton family - he lived a full and good life that touched many and he does and will live on in all of us. May God embrace you and you Him in these difficult times.
Lovingly,
Charlie, Jeanne, Jenna, and Matt Watson
Anni Collette
March 23, 2004
Dear Alva,
We are so sorry to hear about Weyland. Please know that we have you and your sons in our prayers. May you be granted much comfort during this difficult time.
Anni Collette and family (Rod's sister)
Lynn Campbell - Tougas
March 23, 2004
Alva -- I cannot imagine what you are going through right now. Please know that you are in my prayers. May God give you strength to help you through all that is ahead.
Jane Campbell Lowe
March 23, 2004
Dear Alva,
I am so sorry to hear the sad news about Weyland. I will hold you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Elizabeth Schon (Connito)
March 23, 2004
Dear Alva, Weyland, and McGregor,
My heart is breaking for all of you. You are in our thoughts and in our prayers. Please know that if there is anything, anything at
all that I can do for you, I’m here Alva. Please, don’t hesitate to ask.
Will Cleland
March 23, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with your family in your time of sorrow. I know young Weyland from Maxwelton and I am sure all of the camp family shares my sentiments.
Kersit & Inga Francis
March 23, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The entire school community grieves with you and your sons. We are so very sorry.
Kersti, Rick, and Inga Francis
Cabell Guy
March 22, 2004
Alva, Weyland, & McGregor,
Words cannot express the sorrow I am feeling at this point. Your camp family is thinking about each of you and will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if there is any way I can help you during this unhappy time.
Donna Coe-Hilfiger
March 22, 2004
Dear Alva,
My mother called me this morning to tell me what happened. I wish there was something I could do or say to help you through this time. All I can say is that I am so sorry!
Mark Calhoon
March 22, 2004
Dear Mrs. Joyner,
My wife and I were shocked to hear of your husband's passing. We moved to Smithfield nine years ago and have had the great pleasure of knowing Weyland as our mechanic and friend during that time. He was an honest and wonderful man who will be missed by the community of Smithfield and all who knew him.
I cannot find the words to adeqautely express the sorrow we felt upon hearing of the passing of both Weyland and your father. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers.
With Sympathy,
Mark & Cindy Calhoon
Susan Owen Clark
March 22, 2004
Our prayers are with all of you.
Linda Webber
March 22, 2004
Alva:
I am so sorry to hear about Weyland. It was a shock in church yesterday. I remember watching the two of you over the years raising your beautiful sons and developing a wonderful life together. Please know that I love you and keep you in my heart. Love, Linda
William McCorkle
March 22, 2004
Dear Alva, Weyland, and McGregor,
I grieve with you at this sad time. Weyland was a good camp friend from way back. I was so pleased to reconnect with you all when young Weyland came to Maxwelton. Know that I keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Bill McCorkle ('Uncle Bill')
Mary Louise Largiader
March 22, 2004
Sara B. called me with the news, and all I can say is that my parents and I are in complete shock. We are thinking of you all, and will be in touch when things calm down a bit.
Love, Mary Louise
Steve Saylor
March 22, 2004
Alva & family,
It is almost impossible to know the right thing to say at a time like this. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that this note and those of other friends will at least be of some comfort during this difficult time. Alva, you have had way more than your share in recent years. Please, please let me know if there is anything at all I can do to assist you.
Steve
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