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George Canning
July 10, 2025
Always a friend, never a cross word between us. Can't ask for more.
Bsrbara McClain
April 17, 2017
I am left with an emptiness with Tom's passing.
Donna, we had so many great visits with museums, thrift shops, lunches, dinners and at the top of the list, our marathon pinochle games, of which you or Tom were usually the weekend winners! Memories I will never forget, along with your graciousness for welcoming me into your lives, whether at our house or yours. Thank you and I will miss him.
Christian Sinderman
April 16, 2017
"Mr. Wolanin" provided my first childhood peak into politics and government with an unforgettable Capitol tour, and was a distant touchstone as I proceeded down my own (less scholarly) career path. A good man, and good friend to my mother. Best wishes to all Tom's family.
April 15, 2017
Donna -- my heart breaks for you and the rest of Tom''s family. He was such a gracious host every time the TIRF Trustees met at your home. I am so glad I got to read his beautiful book and use examples from it in my teaching. Kathi B.
April 12, 2017
Dear Donna and Family,
Our sincere condolences. Tom was a true gentleman and scholar who touched so many lives by his work in higher education and his dedication to giving ALL students the opportunity to go to college.
For those of us who had the honor to work with Tom in these pursuits, he was a mentor and a friend who taught us to be stalwart advocates for what was right and fair. He also taught us to maintain a sense of humor and humility when it came to dealing with the politics involved at every level of our work!
Personally he kept me straight on the details of legislation and its consequences while he was on the Hill and in the Administration. Over decades he helped me grow as a professional and as an individual.
But his work on behalf of America's youth and their right to pursue an education was far beyond what most of us could have hoped to accomplish in our lifetimes.
He will be deeply missed and remembered.
Susan Frost
Vero Beach FL
Jana Staton
April 12, 2017
Donna, we are saddened by Tom's passing, and understand now what a magnificent scholar, policy leader, and visionary he was. We will keep you and his memory in our hearts.
Spiros Papageorgiou
April 11, 2017
Dear Donna,
My condolences on Tom's passing. I only met him once at the TIRF dinner meeting at your home. I remember him as a very gracious host and I enjoyed talking to him.
Rose DiNapoli
April 10, 2017
Donna - My deepest condolences to you and Tom's family.
Sandy Pakula
April 10, 2017
So glad to have been your friend, Tom, these past 57 years, going back to Osborn High School, 1959. I knew then that you would go on to accomplish so much for so many.
Clay Daniel
April 10, 2017
Wishing comfort in grief to those Tom leaves behind, especially his sons Andrew and Peter. May you all know peace and hope during this time.
April 10, 2017
I'm sorry for you loss. May Almighty God give your family the power beyond what is normal to continue on during your time of sadness.
BM
April 9, 2017
Dear Donna,
My sincere condolences to you. I always loved the times we spent together and growing to know Tom through you and then directly, at Cosmos, in Rome, at many conferences all over the US, at your home, at CAL, and in Australia.
Tom was such a fine and noble person, talented, dedicated, kind and committed, I shall miss him a lot.
Love to you and warm regards, Joe Lo Bianco
April 8, 2017
My friend for 60+ years.I will miss you. Rest in peace Tom.
Michael and Janice Faden
April 8, 2017
As classmates at Oberlin (and, in Michael's case, freshman section-mates), we have known Tom throughout our adult lives and deeply appreciated his friendship over all those years. Tom of course was the consummate professional at making federal higher education policy and opening the doors to college for millions of low-income Americans, but not everyone knows what a delightful companion (and competitor at long-lasting hearts marathons) he was. Unlike some who achieve great success in Washington, Tom never lost his connections to his modest Detroit roots.
Dave Moore
April 7, 2017
As a public educator, I am especially proud of the very significant and valuable contributions my Oberlin classmate rendered to the field of our mutual concern as well as his role in the creation of opportunities for those of relative limited means. His legacy, largely anonymous to most who have and will benefit, will prove a lasting and fitting memorial.
Gail Arnall
April 7, 2017
Donna, I remember so well the day you and Thomas came to the OAR office to meet us and to make a wonderful contribution to our work. And then I got to have lunch with the two of you each year as your renewed your support. What a gentle man Thomas was. So humble amid his many accomplishments. His spirit continues.
April 6, 2017
I knew and worked often with Tom in DC during the late 1970s and early 80s, and regret that it has been so long since we connected. He was a tireless supporter of higher education, and even when we disagreed over issues,it was never disagreeable. He was a good friend, and I wish the best to his family
Michael A. Olivas
University of Houston Law Center
Lisa M Stewart
April 6, 2017
Tom Wolanin was a wonderful man and an esteemed colleague. I am very lucky to have had the chance to work with him.
Kathy Lindholm-Leary
April 6, 2017
Donna, I'm so glad that you met Tom and shared many happy years and experiences. Though that makes the loss more difficult, it makes the memories good ones. I know you were a wonderful companion, caretaker, and loving wife to Tom and you made his life richer by knowing and loving you.
Love, Kathy Lindholm-Leary
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