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MICHAEL O'BRIEN Obituary


Captain MICHAEL F. O'BRIEN  
Captain Michael F. O'Brien, "Obie", of Springfield, Virginia, died peacefully on February 19, 2018, at the age of 72. He spent 28 years in the United States Navy where he served as a naval aviator (A7s) in command positions and in Washington as an advisor in political-military policy. He spent 22 years at NASA, where he began by leading the team that negotiated international agreements for the International Space Station and concluded with 12 years as the Associate Administrator for International and Interagency Relations, visiting over 60 countries. He was an avid, lifelong basketball player who often surprised much taller and younger opponents with his solid presence under the basket and consistently accurate hook shot. His wife of 48 years, Patricia (née Howard), was his high school sweetheart. He was always quick to point out she was an all-state champion basketball player on an 84-0 team at Norfolk Catholic High School. He was a leader who highly valued teamwork, dedication, precision, pride and courage and never took himself too seriously. He loved to laugh, and his good nature and sense of humor (particularly his love of puns) lessened any sadness for those around him during difficult times. He was deeply loved by many.  He is survived by his wife, Patricia (née Howard); four children: Kathleen (Kate), Karen (Kerry), Elizabeth (Beth) and Timothy (Tim); as well as five grandchildren: Silas, Camille, Oscar, Greta and Zilfa. A viewing will be held on Friday, February 23, at Demaine Funeral Home in Springfield from 6 to 8 p.m. Funeral mass will be held at St. Bernadette's in Springfield on Saturday, February 24 at 12:30 p.m. Burial will be held at Arlington National Cemetery at a date to be determined. In lieu of flowers, please donate to your favorite charity in Captain O'Brien's name.

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Published by The Washington Post on Feb. 22, 2018.

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Dennis Kakol

March 6, 2018

I had the honor to have Mike as my roommate at Cornell. In that year I watched Mike exercise the qualities of leadership and scholarship that many others would see in later years. I am sure that Almighty God will put Mike's talents to good use now.

Peggy Walsh

March 2, 2018

Pat and Family,
I have such wonderful memories of Mike, a uniquely gifted and talented man. And so much fun!

March 2, 2018

Pat and family, Mike was one of the really good guys, my prayers are with you.
Margaret Fowler Kurtz NCHS 64'

Regina und Heinz Auer

March 1, 2018

Dear Pat an family,
although we met Mike only once, we are very sure that he was one of the really good ones.
Our deepest condolences.

Bill Shield

February 28, 2018

Mike was the best of all of us, a good honorable and patriotic man as well as a friend and fraternity brother. He served his country, family and friends. May he rest well after a long and painful struggle. My thoughts are with his family and friends.
ITB
Bill Shield

Brian Evans

February 26, 2018

I served on CAPT O'Brien's staff when he was CO, Naval Station Roosevelt Roads, PR. He was an outstanding officer and leader. He set the example for what we should aspire to be as professionals and people. Prayers for him and his family.

Paula Geisz

February 26, 2018

A man of character, strong, brave, smart, funny, adventurous, memorable. Obie will be missed. Praying family and friends are comforted by happy memories.

Cathrine and Klaus Klingenschmid

February 26, 2018

Our deepest condolences for your loss. We will keep you all in our prayers.

Barry Waddell

February 25, 2018

Dear family,
I knew Mike in the Navy, but we really got to be friends during his distinguished NASA career. He provided wise counsel and guidance through many challenging years working with our Russian colleagues on the Space Station Program, in DC, Houston and in Moscow. I will always remember the time that he and I stepped out of the metro and into Red Square on snowy night in 1994. Neither of us could quite grasp that two retired Cold Warrior attack pilots were standing there, unaccompanied by an escort, in what was enemy territory only a few years before. Mike helped to change the world, both in uniform and out. I am proud to have known him.

February 23, 2018

I will attest to Obie's obit from my days playing pickup basketball--great guy, tough competitor, and you forgot to mention a deadly mid-range jump shot! Those were the days. Sincerely, Ward Thomas, Vienna VA

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Patricia Beene

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Yves and Agnes Naquet-Radiguet

February 23, 2018

Dear Pat, and children, the french "family" of Mike is crying... it is so regrettable that it is impossible for us to be beside you for these days so sad. We pray for Mike and trust that he stays now very close from the Lord.

Chris Wick

February 23, 2018

A kind and generous man who cared for his extended family with great love. My heart goes out to you, Pat and your family.

Stacey (Stough) Noem

February 23, 2018

Dear O'Brien family, I am so sorry for your loss. Our family is praying for the rest of your dad's soul and your comfort during this painful time. Deepest sympathies.

Paige Killian

February 23, 2018

Pat, Katie, Kerry, Beth and Tim, I am so very sorry to hear of your husband and dad's passing. I have such found memories of him and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers while you through this tough time. Much love to you all, Paige (Newton) Killian

James Williams

February 22, 2018

Pat and family, I'm so sorry to hear the sad news. I'll miss Obie. I am so impressed by what he accomplished in his life: a full Navy career followed by another full NASA career, rising to high ranks in both with very long lists of achievements, along with a wonderful 48 years of marriage to you and a fine family. In my book, that's a well-lived life. In his last email to me just last month, he said he was enjoying the five grandkids "trying to outdo one another," so I am sure they were a comfort to him. I'm proud to have worked for him long ago.
James K. Williams
(VA-105 squadron mate of Obie's)

Ray Waddell

February 22, 2018

Pat,

Lin and I were deeply saddened to hear of Obie's passing.

May you and all of Mike's family find comfort in Mike's continuing example.

Tailwinds, Obie...fly the ball!

Best,

Ray and Linda Waddell

Chris Dowell

February 22, 2018

Pat:

Holly and I just heard the news of Mike's passing. We are sad to loose a good friend and squadron mate; we pray for comfort for you and the entire family.

The VA-105 email chain has just been notified as well.

Warm hugs to all,

Chris and Holly Dowell

February 22, 2018

To the O'Brien family, we offer our heartfelt condolences on your loss. As you take each day one step at a time and hold on to the loving memories of your loved one, may God grant you strength to see each day through (2 Corinthians 4:7).--ERJ

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