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Dennis Kakol
March 6, 2018
I had the honor to have Mike as my roommate at Cornell. In that year I watched Mike exercise the qualities of leadership and scholarship that many others would see in later years. I am sure that Almighty God will put Mike's talents to good use now.
Peggy Walsh
March 2, 2018
Pat and Family,
I have such wonderful memories of Mike, a uniquely gifted and talented man. And so much fun!
March 2, 2018
Pat and family, Mike was one of the really good guys, my prayers are with you.
Margaret Fowler Kurtz NCHS 64'
Regina und Heinz Auer
March 1, 2018
Dear Pat an family,
although we met Mike only once, we are very sure that he was one of the really good ones.
Our deepest condolences.
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Bill Shield
February 28, 2018
Mike was the best of all of us, a good honorable and patriotic man as well as a friend and fraternity brother. He served his country, family and friends. May he rest well after a long and painful struggle. My thoughts are with his family and friends.
ITB
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Brian Evans
February 26, 2018
I served on CAPT O'Brien's staff when he was CO, Naval Station Roosevelt Roads, PR. He was an outstanding officer and leader. He set the example for what we should aspire to be as professionals and people. Prayers for him and his family.
Paula Geisz
February 26, 2018
A man of character, strong, brave, smart, funny, adventurous, memorable. Obie will be missed. Praying family and friends are comforted by happy memories.
Cathrine and Klaus Klingenschmid
February 26, 2018
Our deepest condolences for your loss. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Barry Waddell
February 25, 2018
Dear family,
I knew Mike in the Navy, but we really got to be friends during his distinguished NASA career. He provided wise counsel and guidance through many challenging years working with our Russian colleagues on the Space Station Program, in DC, Houston and in Moscow. I will always remember the time that he and I stepped out of the metro and into Red Square on snowy night in 1994. Neither of us could quite grasp that two retired Cold Warrior attack pilots were standing there, unaccompanied by an escort, in what was enemy territory only a few years before. Mike helped to change the world, both in uniform and out. I am proud to have known him.
February 23, 2018
I will attest to Obie's obit from my days playing pickup basketball--great guy, tough competitor, and you forgot to mention a deadly mid-range jump shot! Those were the days. Sincerely, Ward Thomas, Vienna VA
Yves and Agnes Naquet-Radiguet
February 23, 2018
Dear Pat, and children, the french "family" of Mike is crying... it is so regrettable that it is impossible for us to be beside you for these days so sad. We pray for Mike and trust that he stays now very close from the Lord.
Chris Wick
February 23, 2018
A kind and generous man who cared for his extended family with great love. My heart goes out to you, Pat and your family.
Stacey (Stough) Noem
February 23, 2018
Dear O'Brien family, I am so sorry for your loss. Our family is praying for the rest of your dad's soul and your comfort during this painful time. Deepest sympathies.
Paige Killian
February 23, 2018
Pat, Katie, Kerry, Beth and Tim, I am so very sorry to hear of your husband and dad's passing. I have such found memories of him and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers while you through this tough time. Much love to you all, Paige (Newton) Killian
James Williams
February 22, 2018
Pat and family, I'm so sorry to hear the sad news. I'll miss Obie. I am so impressed by what he accomplished in his life: a full Navy career followed by another full NASA career, rising to high ranks in both with very long lists of achievements, along with a wonderful 48 years of marriage to you and a fine family. In my book, that's a well-lived life. In his last email to me just last month, he said he was enjoying the five grandkids "trying to outdo one another," so I am sure they were a comfort to him. I'm proud to have worked for him long ago.
James K. Williams
(VA-105 squadron mate of Obie's)
Ray Waddell
February 22, 2018
Pat,
Lin and I were deeply saddened to hear of Obie's passing.
May you and all of Mike's family find comfort in Mike's continuing example.
Tailwinds, Obie...fly the ball!
Best,
Ray and Linda Waddell
Chris Dowell
February 22, 2018
Pat:
Holly and I just heard the news of Mike's passing. We are sad to loose a good friend and squadron mate; we pray for comfort for you and the entire family.
The VA-105 email chain has just been notified as well.
Warm hugs to all,
Chris and Holly Dowell
February 22, 2018
To the O'Brien family, we offer our heartfelt condolences on your loss. As you take each day one step at a time and hold on to the loving memories of your loved one, may God grant you strength to see each day through (2 Corinthians 4:7).--ERJ
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