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Rosemary Stark
August 11, 2020
Duane was a dedicated, sweet soul and will be missed by many. Mary Ann, my sincere sympathies for you for the loss of the love of your life. Sending prayers and hugs from Texas, where I now live.
Donald Case
August 11, 2020
Farewell to my good cousin and friend Duane. Although we are assured that we shall meet again in the bye and bye, death is a part of life we are never prepared for even though it must be accepted. In its stead we are left with memories, some of which bring smiles while others bring tears. In this instance I believe, at least I hope, that the memories I have would bring a smile to his face. For the most part they do mine.
One of the first memories I have is of me and my parents sitting around the Ahrens supper table with Duane and his family eating our evening meal. I was sitting next to Duane who had a habit of not mixing the various kinds of food on his plate. In this instance he had removed the frosting from his piece of cake and left it sitting on the edge of his plate. To leave that piece of frosting just sitting there was more than I could resist so I reached over and grabbed it and stuck it in my mouth before anyone knew what was happening. When those around the table realized what I had done some snickered, while some smiled, except for Duane who became highly indignant and let me know in no uncertain terms that he would get revenge someday. What is ironic is that years later while driving to Key West with Duane and his wife Mary Ann he spoke of the incident as though it had happened yesterday.
On another day Duane, his brother Jim, and his father and I and my father were standing by their livestock watering tank which was next to their barn that had a sloping roof. Somehow Duane had gotten on the roof and made his way up. While attempting to stand up he lost his traction and slid down the roof and into the tank which was practically full. Everyone standing by the tank got doused and Duane had one of those looks on his face that said I shouldn’t have done that.
The next incident that brings a smile to my face occurred when Duane and I and his brother Jim were in their pasture riding our ponies’ bare back and jumping their creek. The only problem was my pony would suddenly stop at the creeks edge and not jump. After much prodding of my pony in the flanks he suddenly jumped, and when he did he jumped out from under me and I landed in the middle of the creek almost up to my neck in water. Duane laughingly helped get me out of the creek while my pony stood on the other side with what looked to me like a smirk on his face.
There are many more incidents that Duane and I had together, however, when we both returned from the military we enrolled in Buena Vista College (now university) in Storm Lake, Iowa. While at BV we attended several classes together, went to at home and away sporting events (especially basketball games in which brother Jim played) and eventually graduated together. After graduation we went our separate ways but got together and stayed in contact whenever we could.
I now realize how close we had become and how much I already miss him. He will be with me forever.
Mary Mascher
August 9, 2020
My heart goes out to Mary Ann and her family. So sorry for your loss.
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