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Judith Stames-Hamilton Obituary

Judith Anne MacPherson Stames-Hamilton, 80, passed away peacefully on September 10th, surrounded by her family after surviving a long illness. She resided in Framingham for most of her life and was the daughter of Deborah Bradford Neally and Robert Gay MacPherson. Her great grandfather James E. Mac- Pherson was the president of the Framingham News Publishing Co. which was passed down through 3 generations. Judith was known by many as a Dancer for the Concert Dance Co.in Boston, a mem- ber of NEFFA teaching children and families folk dancing, teaching/choreographing dance for children at the YMCA in Framingham for over 40 years, an Artist-In-Residence at schools throughout New England, a UU conferee/dance workshop instructor at Star Island. She was invo- lved in many social justice events and a Board member for several organizations in the community. She was known and loved by her family, friends and colleagues as a faithful, loyal, giving, caring person whose focus was as an artist of Dance and Music. She was charming, elegant, graceful, spirited and exuded an honest, fun, adventurous and loving spirit. She received her Bachelors at Northeastern University and a Master's Degree from Goddard College in 1978. She is survived by her husband William Roy Hamilton, Jr. of Framingham and his sister Mary Hamilton of Oklahoma; children, Deborah Stames-Merz and husband Jonathan S. Merz of Carlisle, Peter B. Stames, Jr. and his wife Jackie S. Stames of Duxbury and Courtney B. Stames (Deceased). Her step-daughters, Page A. Hamilton and husband John Shaw and Penny K. Hamilton both of South Carolina and Kim S. Gordon (Deceased); grandchildren, Emily J. Gordon of South Carolina, Calder H. Stames and Heron A. Stames of Duxbury, Jason B. Merz of Carlisle and Alissa B. Merz of CA. Former husband Peter Barnes Stames, Sr. of Scituate; Nephews Ross MacPherson and his wife Ashley of Plympton and Reid MacPherson of Quincy and a niece Debbie Agheana in Michigan. A Celebration of Life Memorial Service and reception will be held on Friday, September 20th, 2019 at 2:00 PM at the First Parish in Framingham Unitarian Universalist, 24 Vernon St., Framingham, MA 01701. In Lieu of flowers expressions of sympathy may be made in her memory to the Parkinson's Foundation. Funeral arrangements are under the care of the Norton Funeral Home, 53 Beech St., Framingham. To leave a message of condolence or sign the online guestbook, please visit nortonfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Bulletin & TAB from Sep. 15 to Sep. 27, 2019.

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Debby Stames

September 9, 2020

Beverly Stellato-Reitz

September 20, 2019

Our family will always remember how wonderful it was to dance under Judith's instruction. Times past in the Concord Scout hall were filled with joy, all thanks to Judith.

Melinda Ballou

September 19, 2019

Sending appreciation, light and love for the living memory of Judith -- her grace, kindness, acuity and presence for our community at Star Island over many decades remains an inspiration. My feet and my spirit are lighter and more fleet and less earthbound because of her. Roy and Judith leading the "Grand March" with the sunset sky and ocean surrounding us remain indelibly present for me and for many. With special love to him and the entire family as you deal with this loss.

Terry Traub

September 19, 2019

Judith was a beautiful woman and a wonderful dancer and a generous soul; every time I encountered her on the dance floor, she had a smile on her face and a light step. Baruch dayan ha'emet.

Paula Rosenstock

September 18, 2019

I always called Judith "Queen Judith" whenever I would see her. She epitomized grace and elegance and I and others would look to her for the steps and the styling of many dances. I will always keep her in my heart when doing the slow elegant Romanian dances that she often led. She was a true Queen.

Robert McOwen

September 18, 2019

Judith was an elegant lady, who graced many Scottish dance events with her presence. She will be missed.

September 18, 2019

Judith was indeed one of the most elegant women I have ever known, a word that to me is the highest form of praise. She and her husband Roy made enormous contributions to the International Affairs Conferences at Star Island. I can't imagine the Grand Marches without them. Judith will be greatly missed. May she rest in peace.

Harry Harding, Charflottesville, Virginia.

Jacqueline Schwab

September 18, 2019

I didn't know Judith well but saw her grace the larger folk and country dance community with her elegant carriage, beauty, wonderful smile and interest in those she met. I honor her large vision of the world, which she showed through her social justice work, as well as her teaching of family and community dancing. A beautiful spirit ... Condolences to her family and close friends.

Tom McNaugher

September 17, 2019

A class act, through and through, she walked across Star Island with the elegance of a ballet dancer. I feel very lucky to have gotten to know her.

Emily Tinsley

September 16, 2019

Debbie, I'm so sorry for your loss. I always admired your mom as such an individual and ahead of her time. I send my love and big hugs .
Love Emily T

September 15, 2019

I am so so sorry to hear of Judith's passing. I always admired her. Deepest condolences to the entire family.

September 15, 2019

She was deeply committed to her family and loved life to the fullest. She loved children and was a wonderful mother and grandmother and Dance teacher to many children of all ages..
I will miss her and think of her smile often.
XXOO Debby

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