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Thomas Graham

1929 - 2015

Thomas Graham obituary, 1929-2015, Venice, FL

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1929

DIED

2015

Thomas Graham Obituary

Thomas C. "Tom" Graham, passed away peacefully at his home in North Carolina on September 29, 2015. He was born in New Haven, CT. in 1929. Soon thereafter moved to Concord, MA where he resided for most of his life. Tom entered the USAAF in 1946 and re-enlisted in 1951. Basic training was at Fort Dix, NJ. He volunteered for Parachutist and Glider School and was assigned to the 82nd Airborne, Fort Bragg, NC and trained at Fort Benning, GA. After graduating from Jump School, he returned to Fort Bragg and was assigned to M Co., 325th where he attended the 3rd Army Area Food Service School and received his certificate of training in February 1952. Later transferred to E Co. and after one year with the 325th, transferred to M Co., 505th where he obtained the rank of mess sergeant. He was awarded the National Defense Service Medal, WWII Victory Medal, Good Conduct Medal and the Parachute Badge Par 126SO 204 HQ TIC Fort Benning, GA. After discharge in 1954 he was appointed a police officer in the town of Concord, MA. While on the Concord Police-Dept. he attended the Massachusetts State Police Academy, Suffolk University, Babson College and the Law Enforcement Officers Training School-FBI, where he took courses in law, management, criminal justice, fingerprinting and photography. During his30years of service he received many commendations, medals, trophies and awards. He was awarded numerous expert shooting trophies and gained recognition as a member of the 100 Club. He was nationally recognized by the New England Fire and Police Examiner and was presented the Award of Merit for Outstanding and Heroic Service in line of duty. While on the force he organized the PAL Boxing Team and coached for 10 years. His team won the Golden Glove Team Trophy Tournament two years in a row at Lowell, MA. He retired from the CPD in 1984 with the rank of Inspector. Tom was a very active member with the 82nd Airborne Division Association where he served as chairman of LTG James M. Gavin Chapter of New England for four years. Tom also had the honor to serve as a National Director on the Board of Directors of the 82nd Abn. Div. Assn., 1999-2005. In 2005 he was elected the 82nd A.D.A. National President. During this time he had the opportunity to travel throughout the US proudly promoting the Association, recruiting members, vigorously supporting the troopers and the education fund and spreading the spirit of the most elite military division - the 82nd Abn. He was preceded in death by his mother, Alice Clarke Graham, father, Thomas Graham, aunt Mary Clarke and uncle Thomas A. Clarke, Esq. He resided with his wife Lorrie in Venice, FL. They have two daughters, Diane and Linda; two sons, Steve and David and three grandsons, Stephen, Gregory and Jackson. Several nieces and nephews. In Toms own words Ive lived a very good and interesting life. A memorial service and interment will be held at Bay Pines National Cemetery in Saint Petersburg, Florida on October 26, 2015 at 12:30 PM. A memorial web page is set up at the heritagefuneralservices.com In lieu of flowers please donate to the 82nd Airborne Division Association at www.82ndairbornassociation.org or mail to the 82nd Airborne Division Association, PO Box 87482, Fayetteville, NC 28304-7482. Make checks payable to the 82nd Airborne Division Association.

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Published by The Concord Journal from Oct. 17 to Oct. 29, 2015.

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steve reynolds

September 28, 2020

Airborne all the way

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

steven reynolds

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steve reynolds

September 28, 2020

It's been 5 years. We moved to be closer to Dave and Jackson. I hope you don't mind that we sold your Venice house. We all loved it so much but thought it would be nice to be close to them. We sold it to a friend of mine who loves as much as we all did. Now we are 10 minutes from Dave and 10 Minutes from Jack. We bought a house with a pool which everyone enjoys. I think you would like the new place :) Here's one thing that is nice (sort of)... when my friend tore out your bath that I built. It took him 2 days to tear it back down to the studs because I built it so well. He said that normally it would take maybe 6 hours. Ha ha ha. On the wall when I built it I wrote "This house was built by Thomas Graham in 1973" I forgot that I put it there. My friend ran across it and took a picture of it and sent it to me. We have an 86" tv now. I can only imagine how much you would have enjoyed watching your boxing on it. Branny and Pei Ling passed away. I never told you that Mom bought a quaker parrot. She named it Sampson. He knows about 300 words and loves to sing and talk. I bought a new puppy. She is very cute but drives me nuts. Mom is doing well. She misses and loves you. She has a new hobby that she loves. It's called diamond painting. You would like the pictures she has made. Dave and Jackson miss you too and love you. Well that is pretty much it for what has been going on for the last couple of years. I planned to write to you every year but somehow missed the last two. I don't know how. I thought I did but maybe I didn't save it. As always I love you and think about you often. I wish you were still here. Love, your son, Steve

Steve Reynolds

October 1, 2018

So here we are at 3 years. It still does not seem like so much time has passed since I talked to you for the last time. I said I love you and you said I love you too. I should have been in NC to say it in person but I was home working on house. I will always regret it. You were such a great father and you would have been there for me. Well, I still love you and miss you. :)

Steve Reynolds

October 5, 2016

I can't believe it's been a year. It seems just like yesterday that you tried to talk to me about your house in NC and how nice it is and how you loved it and I didn't want to talk because you were interrupting a TV show I was watching. I was such a jerk. Little did I know it would be the last time you would talk to me about it. I'm so sorry. It will haunt me for the rest of my life. But you would want me to go on and not feel guilty. I do love you and always will.
Love, your son
Steve

steve reynolds

October 28, 2015

I'll always miss you. So many great and wonderful memories.

Love your son, Steve

Lorrie

November 3, 2015

My mind still talks to you

My heart still looks for you

My soul knows you are at peace

I will always Love you, Tom Graham
Lorrie

Jennifer Pyche

October 24, 2015

Tom was a wonderful man and Jackson was blessed to have the time he did with his grandfather. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all

Lorrie Graham

November 6, 2015

My mind still talks to you
My heart still looks for you
My mind knows you are at
peace. I will always LOVE you, Tom Graham

Pat engebretson

October 25, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Growing up he was always in concord with his police suit on.he was very well know to all the kids in Concord. R.I.P. Tommy

CHRIS BROWNRIDGE

October 24, 2015

You will be missed by Many. Michael and Chris Brownridge send our deepest Sympathy to Laurie and your family

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Saint Petersburg, FL 1742

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