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Rev. Dr. William Abernethy William Abernethy BEVERLY The Reverend Dr. William Beaven Abernethy, 70, of Beverly, beloved husband of the Rev. Ann Cornell (Greenawalt) Abernethy, pastor of Protestant Ministries at Brooksby Village, died peacefully after living with Parkinson's disease for 27 years. Born in Missouri, he was the son of the late Bradford Sherman and Mary Jean (Beaven) Abernethy. He was raised and educated in New Brunswick, N.J. Bill enrolled at The Hill School in Pennsylvania and was a member of the Class of 1957. He continued his education at Harvard University, graduating in 1961. He then matriculated at Union Theological Seminary in New York, and later earned his Doctor of Ministry from Andover Newton Theological School. Rev. Abernethy began his ministry (one that would last for over 33 years) as pastor of the North Bennington Congregational Church, North Bennington, Vt., in the fall of 1961. He progressed on to become the pastor of the South Congregational Church of Middletown, Conn., from 1971 to 1976, and most recently, he was the senior minister of the Wellesley Congregational Church in Wellesley, from 1976 until his early retirement in 1993 due to Parkinson's disease. Bill's ministry lived on during his retirement years, as a mentor to young clergy throughout Massachusetts. He found great joy in being able to guide the young minds of the pulpit. Bill also published two books, A New Look for Sunday Morning and Scripture & Imagination, and contributed to other publications. Bill's true passion was his family and the love, thoughts and guidance he shared with them will last forever. He was a great spiritual leader and he will be deeply missed. In addition to his loving wife of 47 years, Bill is survived by his children, Mark Abernethy and his wife, Kristin, of South Windsor, Conn., Sarah Abernethy Oo and her husband, Thein Oo, of Hamilton, Jonathan Abernethy and his wife, Joyce, of New York, N.Y., and Laura Abernethy Gronberg and her husband, Fred, of West Boxford; his beloved grandchildren, Micaela, Joshua and Hannah Abernethy, Christopher and Nicholas Oo, Tyler and Lena Abernethy and Matthew and Rachel Gronberg; his sister Barbara Petersmeyer and brother David Abernethy of California; and several nieces and nephews. His funeral service will be held Saturday in the Chapel at Brooksby Village, Brooksby Village Drive, Peabody, at 2 p.m. Relatives and friends invited. Visiting hours in the Peterson-O'Donnell Funeral Home, 167 Maple St., (Route 62) Danvers, Friday from 4-8 p.m. For online guestbook visit www.legacy.com. Expressions of sympathy may be made in his memory to the Heifer Project International, 1 World Ave., Little Rock, AR 72202 or to Union Theological Seminary 3041 Broadway, New York, NY 10027.

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Published by The Wellesley Townsman from Jan. 6 to Jan. 13, 2010.

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April 1, 2010

belated condolences from Allen Goldin and Carol(worked w/Barbara)

Elaine Fisher

February 22, 2010

Hi Ann,
I know ;you will always miss your wonderful husband. It was good that you both experienced the joy of being ministers. leslie & I attended The First United Methodist Church in AA. We helped to create a Memorial Garden where ashes of loved ones are interred. I have been in charge of planting the 1000+ annuals and getting people to help me maintain the small garden each season. Next May the garden will be 30 years old. We write the name of the interred individual on a large limestone panel. The church & garcen are cirectly across the street from UM campus.
My prayers are with you, Elaine

Dianne Biederman

February 11, 2010

Dear Ann,

Although we have never met, you and Bill were very special to my parents. Wilbur and Marion Batty, while at South Church. One of your daughters was our house guest when the 'Crusader Team' which she was a part of, shared their message in song at Westminster Presbyterian Church, here in Columbia, TN. I do not recall the year, but it's been in the past 20!! When I saw the last name, I requested that she be our 'guest' while here. What a joyful time we shared together.
David and I pray for you and your family that you will find peace in the days and months to come.

January 30, 2010

Dear Ann and Family,
I remember the times together at South Church and the many get-togethers our families had at our house on Arbutus Street. You, Bill and your children were so much a part of our family and I am truly blessed with fond memories of our time together. I am glad we had the opportunity to see you and Bill in 1996 at my fathers service. I know my mother feels the same. My prayers are with you. Love, Jody (Wilcox) Gottier

January 30, 2010

Dear Ann, Mark, Sarah, Jonathan. and Laura,

I love you all.

Lise Wilcox

Drake Barber

January 20, 2010

Bill was a wonderful addition to the First Church men's group. He will be missed.

Bruce Boyd

January 19, 2010

Love - mine and God's to you, Ann.

Jill Libman

January 18, 2010

It is with deepest sympathy that I feel in the passing of your beloved husband ,Bill. You are a strong woman filled with compassion and hope and I know Bill felt the same way. My sincere condolences to you and your family. I am always thinking of you.

Bonnie Han

January 16, 2010

"I remember the fun times we all had in the youth group at South Church while Bill was there. I am so sad to hear of his passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers." Bonnie (Harvey) Han

Susan Harvey

January 16, 2010

Dear Ann,
I remember being confirmed by Bill at South Church in Middletown, CT. Later I moved up to Boston and remember going to see Bill and you preach in Wellesley with my mother and father, Nancy and Sanford Harvey. I believe Bill also married my sister Diane in our living room in 1975. I have great memories of our short time together. I'm holding you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,

Joan Harvey

January 16, 2010

Dear Ann,
I am so sorry to hear that Bill has died. It is with fondness that I remember you, Bill and your lovely family and the five years you were a part of our South Church family. Ann, it was wonderful to see you and Bill at our 250th celebration. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Warmly,
Joan Harvey

January 14, 2010

TO; Sarah and her family: I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Margo Johnson, CHCC

Molly Baskette

January 12, 2010

Dear Ann,

Oh, how we will miss Bill! It's been ages since we've seen either one of you, but both Peter and I have very fond memories of being your neighbors/colleagues in Beverly, and Peter and I are especially grateful for Bill's most excellent premarital counseling (11 years and counting!). He asked poignant and pointed questions of us, that I remember to this day. His trenchant wisdom, gentleness, abiding faith gave us a strong start as a young married couple.

We hope that there is relief for you in Bill's passing as well as certain grief and desolation. You cared for him so well for so long. Let us know if there is any little thing you need.

much love
Molly and Peter Baskette

Bill, you were such a bright light in our little UCC world! How is it that that light could have gone out in Epiphany?

January 11, 2010

I remember Bill with fondness from The Hill School. My sympathies to his family and his brother, my classmate, David. Austin Hoyt

January 11, 2010

Dear Sarah and family,

I am sorry to learn of the loss of your father and will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Warmly,
Tammy Tai
Hyams Foundation

January 11, 2010

Dear Sarah,

So sorry to hear of your father's passing. May you be comforted by the outpouring of love and support you will no doubt receive.

Linda Alioto-Robinson

January 11, 2010

Dear Abernethy Family,
I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. May you find healing and strenght in God's love. My thoughts and prayers are with at this difficult time.

Pam Kubik

January 10, 2010

Dear Ann,
I am very sorry to hear of Bill's passing. Both Bill and yourself were fundamental in my journey to ordained ministry. I send you this note with a heart full of gratitude and spirit of hope for you and the many beloved he has left behind. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Meredith Kimber White

Nat Damon

January 10, 2010

Dear Abernethy Family:

I would like to share my deepest condolences. Two decades and 3,000 miles away, I continue to draw from the loving impact Bill had on me as a child growing up in the arms of the Village Church. The Abernethy's arms. The Abernethy's church. My soul is gilded by the Abernethy ministry, and today, while grieving over Bill's passing, I find warmth and light as I reflect on the spiritual texture of my youth that was molded by Bill and Ann. My heartfelt love to Ann, Laura, Mark, Sarah, and Jonathan. May you feel the peace of Christ with you during this time.

January 9, 2010

Dear Ann.....
I remember Bill from the later years, at the retreats in Gloucester, and was always struck by his poise, dignity, and wisdom, in spite of disability. I will also cherish his writing, his contribution as a mentor to pastors...... May you find peace in your new chapter here as he moves into the next world.
Ross Varney

January 8, 2010

Dear Mark,
Very sorry to hear the news about your father. Knowing you as I do, he must have been a very good man who likely had much to do with inspiring you. May your memories help to ease your grief. God's blessings and love be with you and all your family.

Jim Oliphant

Lois Gallo

January 8, 2010

Dear Laura, I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Fondly, Lois Gallo

Betty James

January 8, 2010

Dear Ann, Our deepest sympathy on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.. Jimmy and Betty James and Sons( Fla.)

Yvonne (Schaudt) Eschner

January 8, 2010

Dear Ann,
I am so sorry to hear about Bill's passing. He was so adored by so many, including me. To me he was the epitome of who and what a pastor should be. I shall always remember him for his outstanding preaching, compassionate pastoral care, his leadership in the denomination, his keen sense of Solomonic judgement; but most of all I shall always remember that with all of his enormous gifts, he was one of the most humble men I have ever known. This truly speaks of his greatness. And you, my Dear Colleague, have been an inspiration to all of us whose lives you have touched. What a gift to have had such a remarkable man in your life, and he you. I shall keep you and your family in my prayers.
Peace and blessings,
Yvonne (Schaudt) Eschner

Donald Wells

January 8, 2010

Dear Ann, Deep sympathy to you and to your entire family on Bill's death. He was a giant among us. His love for the church, its people, and its mission to the world, was always in evidence. Thank you for your care for him over so many years. Its not easy. I know. God's peace. Don Wells

January 8, 2010

Dear Ann, my heart and my prayers are with you and your family. Bill's mentoring meant the world to me and I remain deeply grateful to both of you for your inspiration, courage, and perseverance. Blessings for God's peace and comfort, Nancy Haverington

January 8, 2010

Laura:

The entire Andover Newton community holds you and your family in its heart.

Nick Carter

Marjorie Ness

January 8, 2010

Dear Laura,
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember meeting your Dad at Sudbury. I will hold your family in prayer and wish you all God's blessings, comfort, and understanding.

January 7, 2010

Dear Ann, Laura, Mark, Sarah and Jonathan,
My deepest sympathies on the death of Bill. I always admired him, valued his warmth and friendship, and considered him a mentor in my own ministry. He was a gift to us all. A great lamp has been dimmed, but he also left a great deal of light in our world. Your family will be in my prayers, and in our congregation's prayers.
with care,
Tony Kill, Eliot Church of Newton

Bobbie Miner

January 7, 2010

To Ann and Laura and the entire Abernethy family - What a valiant, faith-filled struggle for all of you for so many years!!!He was an inspiration in so many ways as pastor, yes, but in the fullest of ways as a radiant human being. With gratitude and love to you all. Bobbie Miner

Jamie Howard

January 7, 2010

Dear Ann,

My prayers are with you and your family. Bill will always have a special place in my heart as a colleague who not only was a good teacher (the course he and Joe Mayher taught at ANTS) but as the one person other than George Peck who listened to and responded to my input in a senior pastor clergy group of which I was the only female (probably twenty-seven or so years ago?). A kind and gifted man.

James Crawford

January 7, 2010

Dear Ann and Family: What a great, model ministerial team you provided for the rest of us in the "profession." You are among the "Greats" of our generation.
Imaginative leadership, excellence in pastoral care, edifying, provocative preaching - a radiant marriage and lovely family. An inspiration to us all!
Love,
Jim Crawford

January 7, 2010

Dear Ann,
My most sincere sympathy and aloha to you and your family at this sad time. Please know that you are in my prayers.
Please remember to be gentle with yourself!
Sincerely, Kay Connor

Nancy Rockwell

January 7, 2010

Dear Ann,
I have such vivid memories of Bill, when I was first ordained and we were both on a Conference Council, and he was vibrant, full of humor, flashing that wry smile he had, murmuring asides about how the meeting was running and how to get done what we wanted to get done.
Glowing with good health. Smart as a whip. Finding the fun in mostly boring meetings. Ready to help me, and all those coming in new, to learn the ropes. Able to handle the curmudgeons with humor and understanding. That was Bill.
And then I remember him in his wheelchair at Mt Holyoke, with you beside him as he talked, with tears, about the struggle to get the operation he hoped would help him -- and after he finally got it, telling the agony of how it had, instead hurt him more.
How either of you found the strength for these years I cannot know, except that it could only come from love, for nothing else is strong enough to endure this. And so you must know more about love, its seasons and its silences, its numbness and the fire that does not die, than most will ever know. May you learn now, a new dimension, how love can recover, and the heart can live again.

Tom & Barbara Boates

January 7, 2010

To Ann, Laura and family: Barbara and I send sympathy and love. Our church world has been blessed by Bill's ministries. He was a faithful and diligent pastor, a caring mentor, and a provider of warm friendship. The fruit of his service will last for generations to come.

May God's Spirit provide comfort and solace to you during this time of change.

January 7, 2010

Ann and family. So sorry to hear of Bill's passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dave and Trudy Reid

Jean & Phil Ingwersen

January 7, 2010

Our sympathy to you Ann and your family. We, Jean and Phil Ingwersen, were fortunate to be members of the Village Church when you were there. I have saved copies of some of Bill's sermons. On Nov. 8, 1992 he ended "The Secret of Life", "Thanks to the God who meets us all, in our dying with the gift of new life. AMEN"

Pete McKenzie

January 7, 2010

Dear Ann, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Bill was a strong yet gently soul. A truly lovely man, he leaves a strong and loving family. I know you will find comfort and strength in each other. God Bless.

Judy Gunner

January 6, 2010

Dear Ann,

I extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I remember Bill so well and admired his efforts in confronting his illness. May you find comfort in the many memories that you all shared.

Judy Gunner

January 6, 2010

Dear Ann,

I extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I remember you both so well and always admired Bill's great strength in dealing with his illness. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Wayne Irwin

January 6, 2010

I remember Bill from South Church in Middletown, CT. He officiated at my first wedding (to Susan Read, now deceased). My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Wayne irwin
Ocala, Florida

Gene and Helen Percival

January 6, 2010

Our sympathy to Ann and family.

January 6, 2010

Dear Ann,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your
family. Bill left a piece of his heart with all who
knew him. A kind and gentle man.

God's Blessings,
Bob and Linda Sarkisian, Robert and Ani

Cami and Dan Beckman

January 6, 2010

Dear Ann,

We all know that Bill is in a wonderful place now, and that brings great joy, but for those missing him, it is difficult to let go. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you celebrate his life, and comfort each other.

Much love,

Cami and Dan Beckman

January 6, 2010

We were so sorry to learn of Bill's passing. He was a very special person, and Natalie had the honor of being church Moderator while he was at the Village Church. And he honored us by marrying three of our children. He will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Fondly,
Natalie and Bill Wright

Kabrick Family

January 6, 2010

Dear Abernethy Family:

I wish we had words that would lessen the pain of your loss. May you find peace and healing in your family's love for one another. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

January 6, 2010

Dear Ann and family, Bill will long be remembered. Who could forget standing on the porch practing preaching through a closed window which he sat inside and I tried to get across a point in my sermon? (he wanted me to learn to be expressive!) His mentoring has served me well in ordained ministry.
Rev Nancy Strickland

January 6, 2010

I will always hold Bill & Ann Abenethy close to my heart. They had such an effect on me at the Village Church in how they dealt with Bill's illness with such grace.

My prayers are will the entire family.
Diane Young

January 6, 2010

Dear Ann, Laura and family,

My heartfelt prayers are with you in this time as you both mourn and celebrate Bill's life. I am so glad you were able to be together for Laura's ordination service. How much more special that must feel now. I trust that the hope of our faith and the visits from friends, colleagues and family are a comfort to you all.

Peace, Wendy Vander Hart

January 6, 2010

Dear Ann and family,
Jim and I are sending love and prayers to all of you as we work our way through his dying.
May you find peace in his knowledge of the love of God. He is in Heaven now and I know he is feeling the blessings of God's love.
Know that we are with you as you learn to live without this wonderful man. He was a gift to all who knew him.
Love, Chery, Jim, Chris, and Jenna. xoxo

January 6, 2010

Dear Ann and Family,

I am sending you my most heartfelt condolences. You and Bill are in my prayers, and I hope you soon will find peace at Bill's passing. I know you have and will always find joy in his memory, as will all who knew him.

Love, Ernie Stone

January 6, 2010

Dear Ann and family,

Jim and I would like to express our deepest condolences. Bill was wonderful, kind and gentle man who we always enjoyed seeing at church. His occasional co-sermons with you were inspirational.

May God be with you all at this time and may your hearts soon be at peace with your loss for we all know that Bill is dancing in heaven now!

Love, Janet and Jim Collett

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