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Arlene "Buddy" Clay

1912 - 2016

Arlene "Buddy" Clay obituary, 1912-2016

BORN

1912

DIED

2016

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Arlene Clay Obituary

Arlene "Buddy" Clay passed away peacefully on Feb. 11, 2016, due to a severe stroke. She was 103 years young. Arlene was born in Gardiner, Maine, on Aug. 2, 1912, to Annie Mayne Palmer and Charles Gordon Palmer. She was raised in Mexico, Maine, and graduated from high school in 1929. She then entered the New England Conservatory of music. She graduated from there in 1934. While at the Conservatory, she met Earl V. Clay and they married on June 26, 1936. They then moved to Manchester, N.H., where Earl was the conductor of the New Hampshire state symphony. Arlene played trumpet in the conservatory symphony orchestra. In December 1943, Arlene and Earl left for Seattle, Wash., by train in response to an ad from the Civil Aeronautics Administration, forerunner of the FAA. After arriving in Seattle, they received six months of training at Boeing field as aircraft communicators and controllers. The Army then flew her and Earl to Nome, Alaska, where they worked for the CAA as aircraft communicators and controllers. In September 1944, they transferred to Aniak, Alaska. Arlene and Earl then spent 10 years driving dog teams all over the Aniak area. They visited trappers, prospectors and generally explored the rural area. After Earl died in 1956, Arlene stayed at the homestead, which was about three miles upriver from Aniak. She took two jobs, one as a postal clerk and the other as secretary at the CAA. She commuted to work by dog team in the winter and by boat in the summer. In 1960, Arlene became the magistrate for the Alaska Courts and was responsible for 12 of the surrounding villages. She served in this position for 17 1/2 years. Magistrates had all the power of the U.S. Commissioner. It was during this time that defendants received the right to demand a jury for misdemeanor trials. This resulted in more travel for trials in the villages. The State troopers would fly to Aniak and to alert her, they would buzz her cabin at the home site; she would then drive the boat, snow machine or hook up the dog team, and meet them in Aniak. Arlene Clay was always known as Mrs. Clay. While she didn't have a degree in law, it was not required at the time. She was known as a tough but fair magistrate judge. One story that circulated concerned a couple of attorneys that came out from Bethel, Alaska, for a hearing. They were dressed in blue jeans and had no ties. She told them that when appearing in her court they were to wear suits and ties or she would hold them in contempt. They got the message and dressed appropriately from then on. She always wore her robe and while court was held in her house in those early days, strict courtroom protocol was required. Arlene retired from the Alaska Court System in 1977, but continued to live in Aniak for many more years. In May 2012, Clay received the Judge Nora Quinn Award from the Alaska Bar Association which "is presented to an individual Alaskan who has made an extraordinary or sustained effort to assist Alaska's rural residents, especially its native population, and has overcome language and cultural barriers to obtaining justice through the legal system." She was further honored at a reception in Aniak on June 27, 2012, with the dedication of the new courtroom in her honor. The program for this event referred to Clay as "the face of the Alaska Court System during the early years of statehood." Arlene was inducted into the Alaska Women's Hall of Fame in 2015. In 2011, Arlene moved to the Primrose Retirement Community in Wasilla, Alaska, where she was able to put up her ham radio antennas, and participated every night on the ham sniper net. She also checked everyone in each Thursday night. In lieu of flowers, Arlene would be pleased if any donations made in her honor went to your favorite animal shelter/rescue group. She had an enduring love of animals. A celebration of her life will be held at the Primrose Retirement Community on Feb. 20, 2016, at 3 p.m. Arrangements are with Janssen's Mat-Su Funeral Home.

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Published by Anchorage Daily News on Feb. 14, 2016.

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Sybil Edwards Leland

March 19, 2017

someone mentioned that a book should be written about Buddy, if so I have letters and pictures that might be used.

February 23, 2017

Buddy and my mother became friends at the NEC and the friendship was carried on
through letters and pictures when Buddy moved to Alaska. Sometime after my mother died in'92
I continued to be in touch with Buddy via Christmas cards and notes. Not hearing from her, I was sure she had passed on. She led a wonderful life and I was glad to know her, even if it was through letters to my mom and later to me.
Sybil Edwards Leland

Sarah Clay Rajala

December 20, 2016

I sent Aunt Buddy my Christmas card as always this year and discovered this after getting the return. Sad to see, but what a life! I never met my grandfather, her Earl's brother Carlton, but Great Aunt Buddy sent me Christmas gifts/cards as far back as I can remember :)

denny young

December 10, 2016

Living and working in Aniak for several early years of the 1960's got to know the wonderful Ms Clay quite well.. As I was the Station Mgr for NCA which moved U.S. Mail via air from the Aniak P.O. to different small village's around the surrounding areas. She was a great lady and a legacy pioneer woman for the great State of Alaska. For over the past 40 years we received a note and Christmas Card, this year didn't and now I know why. Rest in peace dear Lady.

Ellie Wright

February 18, 2016

Mrs. Clay, you will be greatly missed! I still remember you playing the organ at the old Kuskokwim Mission church in Aniak. You were such a blessing to many people!

Allen KL7AED DeSousa

February 15, 2016

Buddy, I will remember you every Thursday night, waiting for your call. RIP my friend de KL7AED out.

February 15, 2016

May the God of comfort be kind to the family of Ms.Clay.........

Eric KL4AD Beckmann

February 14, 2016

God's speed "Buddy" you will be missed by all of us that you checked in on Sniper net. 73 my friend it was an honor to have known you.

February 14, 2016

so sorry to hear about Mrs. Clay. she was such an interesting woman! I'll always remember her sitting ramrod straight at the back of her boat going up river to her home.

Judi Sweeney

February 14, 2016

What an amazing Alaskan woman. Such a life is rare. Hopefully, someone will write a book about her life. May God Bless her

dorothy bierman

February 14, 2016

Arlene will be missed. She was a real LADY we all loved her!

dorothy bierman

February 14, 2016

We will all miss Buddy!! She was a real LADY and a friend to everyone!!!!

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