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Don Gray Obituary

Anchorage resident Don Gray Jr., 80, died Oct. 12, 2007, at home of acute myolitic leukemia and Parkinson's disease.
A memorial service was Tuesday at noon at Anchorage Baptist Temple. The Rev. Bill Leight officiated.
Don was born Dec. 18, 1926, in Breckenridge, Texas. He graduated from high school and then attended Texas Tech in Lubbock, Texas. He later joined the U.S. Army and served in World War II. While in the Army Reserves, he was called back to active duty to fight in Korea.
He became a resident of Alaska in 1965, living in Soldotna until 1966, and then becoming a resident of Anchorage. He was a service manager for Northwest Airlines, retiring in October 1989.
He was a member of Anchorage Baptist Temple. He enjoyed sports. He played football for Texas Tech. He was the co-captain when they played in the Fiesta Bowl on Jan. 1, 1953, and won that game. Later he found out that was the first televised college game. He also loved to fish.
His family wrote, "He will be deeply missed by his family and friends."
Don is survived by his wife, Barbara; sons and daughters-in-law, Gary and Vera DeSpain, Tim and Twyla DeSpain, all of Texas; son, Robert McMannors of Anchorage; daughter and son-in-law, Cassandra and Richard Lackie; daughter, Dorene Wilhoit of Anchorage; grandchildren, Ryan, Randy, Nicholas and Laura; great-grandchild, McKinsey; brothers and sisters-in-law, David and Elizabeth Gray, Will and Emma Gray, all of Breckenridge; and many nieces, nephews and cousins.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Don Sr. and Della; sisters, Mary, Alma and Kate; and brother, Jim.
Memorial donations can be made to Salvation Army, 143 E. Ninth Ave., Anchorage 99510 or to the charity of the donor's choice.
Local arrangements are with Witzleben Family Funeral Homes & Crematory.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Anchorage Daily News on Oct. 17, 2007.

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Bob

October 11, 2022

You are not forgotten.

Nicholas Lackie

November 1, 2007

I could try to express how much I appreciated him, or loved him, or now miss him - because I feel all of those things. But what I've been thinking about is how much I admired him. He was an example, to me, of invincibility. I remember how he would shovel snow, and how he out-hiked me and my dad in the wilderness, despite being "old." Of course, everyone has a finite time here on earth, and he was no exception. But I'm glad he spent some of his with me. Don Gray was an amazing man, and I'm grateful to have known him.

Laura Lackie

October 31, 2007

Sitting across from me on my great grandmother’s porch in Arizona he told me he was going to recite me a poem. I listened, as he poured forth the words that had been committed to memory years ago. Words about the grandness of Alaska: the place where he had made his home. I watched as the tears welled up in his eyes when he neared the end, and I heard the crack in his voice that stopped him from finishing. Listening, watching, and hearing, I quietly understood the ineffable depth with which this wonderful man loved his home and his family. The purely selfless and unconditional love he possessed for his wife, children, and grandchildren, his country and his God. Quietly I understood that I was blessed with the most incredible grandfather, my only grandfather, and I thank the Lord for placing him in each of our lives. We are infinitely better off because of it.

I’m sorry I couldn’t be there. I love and miss you all.

Dawn Alirez

October 24, 2007

Don, you were such an amazing man and everyone that knew you knew that! We are all better people having known you. You are up watching us and are in no pain, which helps us get through the tough times. You will be greatly missed by everyone that was fortunate enough to be a part of your life. Barb, I love you like you are part of my family, you are such a strong woman and a great role model for any woman, you know my number, if you need ANYTHING call me! To everyone that knew Don, you're heart may be aching, but take comfort that he is in a better place with no pain. You are all in my prayers.

dorene wilhoit

October 21, 2007

I have never met a more honorable man. His word was his honor and he was selfless. He knew the vaulable gift of non-attached giving, and uncondidtional love. He had my back no matter what, and treated my children as if they were his own. He was both Father and Grandpa to us all. They broke the mold after he was created, which is too bad...the world could use more men like him especially in todays world.
Don Gray will always be my HERO.

Anita & Ron

October 20, 2007

Knowing Don for the past 4+ years has been both an honor and a pleasure. A true fighter up to the very end. To know he is at peace and with no more pain I know must ease some heart ache. To Barb and the family: Hold on to those wonderful memories and know that we are a phone call away.

Love,
Ron & Anita "the House-In-Laws"

Janet Barry

October 19, 2007

I just wish things were different and we weren't so scattered. Thinking of you, all, wishing we could all be together.

Janet

Bob McManners

October 19, 2007

The greatest generation is less one more. His integrity and honor were unsurpassed. His charity and love unlimited. "There were giants in those days." Don Gray was one of them. I knew him, I loved him, and I will miss him.

Cassy Lackie

October 18, 2007

Don,
You will forever be my rock. I miss you so much.
Always and forever. I Love you and I'm so proud to be your daughter,
Love, Cassy

Barbara Gray

October 18, 2007

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

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