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Jacqueline Messner Obituary

Jacqueline (Platt) Messner, 85, of East Windsor, formerly of South Windsor, died peacefully on Wednesday, December 21, 2016 at Touchpoints at Chestnut in East Windsor surrounded by her family. She was born in 1931 in Manchester, CT, daughter of the late Eugene and Essie (Frink) Platt. Jacqueline grew up in South Windsor and graduated from Ellsworth High School. She went to work at the Connecticut General Life Insurance Company in Hartford. She was married to George Messner on July 28, 1951 and together they settled on Foster Street in South Windsor, where they lived for 14 years, before moving to Schwenksville, PA. She moved back to South Windsor in the late 1980's. Jacqueline was a kind, caring, loving mother who dedicated her life to providing for her family. She enjoyed the time she could spend with her grandchildren and great grandchildren. She enjoyed music, gardening, nature, walks outdoors and family picnics. She was inspirational in planning for the Foster Street Reunion that took place in August of 2002. She leaves her children, Cheryl and Lou Baldino of Harleysville, PA, Peter and Diane Messner of Souderton, PA, Gary and Lori Messner of Quakertown, PA, and Susan Messner of Lamar, MO; her brother, Edward Platt of Indiana, PA; her sister, Judith Grout of Sun Valley, CA; 9 grandchildren, Jessica, Justin, Grace, Rose, Alanna, Andrew, Matthew, Jasper, and Jasmine and 4 great grandchildren, Taylor, Camden, Adrian, Ava. She was predeceased by her son, Ross A. Messner and her brother, Douglas Platt. Her family will receive friends on Saturday, December 31, 2016, from 10-11 a.m., at the Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home, 419 Buckland Rd., South Windsor; followed by a Memorial Service to begin at 11 a.m. All are welcome. Burial will follow at Wapping Cemetery in South Windsor. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to NAMI. Please visit us at www.carmonfuneralhome.com for online condolences and guest book.

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Published by Anchorage Daily News on Dec. 21, 2016.

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January 23, 2017

I remember Jackie as a neighbor on Sullivan Ave. while I was growing up. I have not lived in Wapping for over 50 years but memories of my childhood and my neighbors remain strong. Condolences to her family
Jeanne Martin Wienkoop
Wildwood Crest NJ

Arlene Bielefield

January 1, 2017

I just found about about Jackie's passing today. Her obituary wasn't in the Courant.which is the paper I read. I am a classmate of hers, beginning in the first grade at Wapping School through the 8th grade there. We also attended Ellsworth Memorial High School. Jackie was a sweet, caring and gentle person and she will be missed.

Holly Sroka

December 31, 2016

My deepest condolences to Cheryl, Pete, Gary and Sue and all of her grandchildren and family. Jackie was the ultimate Mom, always wanting the best for her kids. She also had a great sense of humor and I will remember her laughing. So hard to lose a Mom, but it's just the way to prepare for our own natural passing into the next world, when we join again with all our loved ones. Peace.

Sybil Butler

December 29, 2016

Please accept my sympathy in the loss of Jackie, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She was my cousin and I didn't get to see her very often after we moved out of the CT area. Last time I got to see her was in 1997. My condolence to all of her family.

Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home

December 27, 2016

Our sincere sympathies for your loss.

Kathy Keefe

December 26, 2016

Cheryl, Peter, Gary, Susan Messner(and extended family)-I\'m so sorry about your mom\'s passing. Your mom was greatly loved and she will be remembered forever by any kid who grew up lucky enough to be in our Foster St. gang. I will be forever grateful for her inspiration in making the Foster Street reunion a reality as well. She\'s probably up in heaven right now organizing another one.My thoughts and prayers are with you all.With Love,Kathy Keefe

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