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Patrick Ray Obituary

Patrick Robert Ray was born May 14, 1982. He left us on January 1, 2012.

Packer, as he was known by to his family and closest friends. He was a hardworking, blue collared, family man. He loved his family, working in oilfields, punk rock, and Jack Daniels.

Although he left us at a young age, Packer was able to see many of his life long dreams come to fruition. Along with becoming a father, he fought a couple of professional MMA fights, attended a WWE match, saw several of his favorite bands live in concert, and traveled the country. His free spirit brought him all over the U.S., often times by way of hopping onto moving trains. Eventually he settled in Grand Junction, Colorado where he began growing roots with his family while working in the oil fields.

Born and raised in Alaska, Packer fell in love with Alaska and all of it's wonders at a young age. He enjoyed fishing, camping, hiking, and hunting. He discovered his way around the outdoors in Talkeetna, Alaska, where his grandparents' cabin was located. It was here where his heart felt most at home.

He will be missed and remembered everyday by those who loved him. May his spirit now be truly free.

Patrick was preceded in death by his grandfathers, Gerald Miller and Roy Ray.

He is survived by his wife, Daisy, and children, Grayson and Aurora of Colorado; mother, Sandra Dvorak and her husband, Craig of Colorado; father Terry Ray of Wasilla, Alaska; grandparents Dolly and James Watts of Wasilla, Alaska and Helen Ray of Palmer, Alaska; siblings, Jeremy Ray of Anchorage, Alaska, and Shelbylyn Hone of Colorado; as well as numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that contributions be made at any Wells Fargo bank in honor of The Patrick Ray Family Memorial Fund.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Anchorage Daily News from Jan. 10 to Jan. 11, 2012.

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Kyle Ray Markham

February 12, 2024

I remember hitchhiking around the west coast with a skateboard and a backpack hitting every skate spot from Seattle to San Francisco. We had to hold each other all night to stay warm along the columbia River once. We promised never to talk about that again. Haha. I love you man. Save me a good seat brother.

Shelbylyn Hone

January 10, 2012

Unfortunately we forgot to add the memorial service information in the obituary. To inform anyone who may be interested in attending, his service is Saturday, January 14th, 4pm at the Elk's Lodge in Palmer, Alaska. For those not able to attend I will be showing it live in Stickam. Sorry for the inconvenience.

Jennifer

January 10, 2012

So sorry for your loss. You have beautiful babies, and he will live on through them and in your hearts. My thoughts and prayers with you all. <3

Ri-Sean Miller

January 10, 2012

I will miss you. And I'm so happy you were in my life. I will love you forever Packer.

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