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Barry Shank Obituary

(Asbury Park Press)

BARRY SHANK
AGE: 61 RUMSON
Barry Shank, 61, of Del Ray Beach, FL and Rumson, NJ died suddenly on Thursday, June 24, 2010. Barry was born in Niagra Falls, NY and was raised in West Long Branch, NJ. He attended Monmouth Regional High School, graduating in 1966. After high school he joined the U.S. Marine Corps where he was deployed to Viet Nam with the 2nd Battalion, 26 Marines and spent 13 months in combat in Quang Tri Province and other combat zones. During his 18 months of service, he received numerous medals and commendations for heroism and action on the battle field. He lived in Rumson for 17 years where he raised his four children before moving to Florida. He was employed for many years by Weiss and Woolrich Roofing in Deerfield Beach, FL.
Barry is predeceased by his sister, Karen Keller. He is survived by his mother, Lucille Shank of West Long Branch; his nephew, Larry Madlung of Long Branch; his wife, Sherry McHeffey of Rumson; his four children, Jessica Douglas and her husband Damien, his son Hunter Shank, his daughter Lyndsay Jackson and her husband Sam, and his son Scott Shank, all of Corpus Christi, Texas. He is also survived by his two step daughters, Leigh Squillante and her husband Michael of West Allenhurst NJ and Amanda Kennedy and her husband Gregg of Rumson, NJ. Other survivors include his nine grandchildren, Tyler and Gavin Douglas, Harper Shank, Mickey, Chrissy and Jenny Squillante, and Jimmy, Wesley, and Maren Kennedy. And, his dog Tommy.
Barry was the type of person whose presence lit up a room. Those who knew him could not help but admire his charismatic warmth, sincerity, sense of humor, incredible smile and genuine love of life. He was a dedicated family man and held a very strong belief in his Christian faith and his love of this country. We are all blessed to have had him in our lives... Semper Fi Barry. We will love and miss you forever.
A memorial service will be held on Thursday, July 1st at 12 noon at the First Baptist Church of Long Branch, 499 Bath Avenue, Long Branch, NJ. In lieu of flowers, please send any donations to the Disabled American Veterans Association, P.O. Box 14301, Cincinnati, Ohio 45250-0301 Attn: Gift Processing.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Jun. 28, 2010.

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Tim Varone

July 9, 2010

I'm glad I had the opportunity to be with Barry one last time in Val's a few months ago, we talked and laughed for hours. I know he was truly happy with his wife Sherri. I will miss him.

June 30, 2010

Aunt Lucille & family - I am so sorry to hear about Barry. He was a great person and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at your time of grief. Adam, Nadine & Family

Bill Baer

June 29, 2010

Semper Fi Barry.

Ninivel Douglas

June 29, 2010

Our condolences to Barry's wife,all the children and grandchildren and to Nana , his mom. We shared some special times with Barry and will miss him. We are Damien's parents, Bob and Ninivel.

Sandra Raho

June 28, 2010

It was my honor and pleasure to know Barry. He will be missed greatly by his wife Sherry and family.
May God keep him close forever.

RJ McCandless

June 28, 2010

I extend my deepest sympathy to the family, loved ones and friends of Barry. I haven't seen Barry in 35 years, but 5 years ago I spoke to him, and it was nice to reminisce. I will always remember Barry and his exhilaration for life and his relentless need to make people happy. A great loss.

June 28, 2010

His friends at Suneagles Golf Course will miss him dearly. Hit em' long and straight in Heaven Barry! PC

Mat Holcomb

June 28, 2010

Farewell to a good friend and mentor. You will be missed deeply.I will carry your memory with me always. Thank you, and rest in peace. Semper Fi.

June 28, 2010

My condolences to all of the family of Barry, I knew him in high school. A great guy. Tony Pusateri '68 Eatontown

mady eisenberg

June 28, 2010

I am an old friend from high school who in the last month reconnected with Barry when I found out he lived in Delray Beach and so do I. We met for a quick hello Tuesday nite, for about an hour, and laughed about the past, our old buddies, told me of his wonderful children, his happy marriage and his obvious love of life and family. I hadnt seen him in 40 years....and I am soo sad to hear this news. Believe me when I say to all his loved ones, that he was happy, proud, funny, charming, and it's true, his smile lit up the room. Please accept my deepest condolences. (friend of Carl D.)

Sharon Carver

June 28, 2010

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

June 28, 2010

Aunt Lucille - I am so sorry to hear about Barry. We are all thinking of you.

Love Nadine

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