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Henry Ballasty Obituary

Henry J. Ballasty

AGE: 86 • Middletown

Henry J. Ballasty, 86, of Middletown, died on March 4, 2014. He was born in New York City and was raised in Garden City, NY. He was a graduate of Cathedral Prep, Brooklyn and Cathedral College of the Immaculate Conception, Huntington. He lived in Stamford, CT, before moving to Middletown in 1972. He worked for Continental Insurance for 44 years, with the exception of his time in the Air Force during the Korean War.

At St. Mary Parish, Middletown, Henry was a lector and Eucharistic minister, and was involved in the parish office, the Mater Dei High School Booster Club, the Holy Name Society, the Knights of Columbus, the Perpetuation Adoration Chapel, Irish Night, CCD, and St. Mary's Fair. He was a volunteer for several years with the Barn for the Poorest of the Poor, Middletown and was the longtime area coordinator for Holy Name Nocturnal Adoration held at St. James, Red Bank.

Surviving are his wife of 49 years, Irene Ballasty; son & daughter-in-law, Robert Ballasty & Lorna DesRoses; sister, Sister Bernadette Ballasty, SSND. He is also survived by his nieces, nephew, and extended family.

Henry was preceded in death by his daughter Barbara Ballasty; sister, Sister RoseMary Ballasty, SSND; sister, Elizabeth (Libby) Bures and parents, Henry and Brigid Ballasty.

Visitation will be held Friday, March 7, 2014 from 2-4 & 7-9 pm at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, 115 Tindall Road, Middletown. A Funeral Liturgy will be offered Saturday, March 8, 2014 at 10:30 am at St. Mary Chapel, 26 Leonardville Rd., Middletown. Burial will follow at Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Middletown.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to The Barn for the Poorest of the Poor, 39 Bayberry Ln., Middletown or the School Sisters of Notre Dame, Department of Mission Advancement, 345 Belden Hill Road, Wilton, CT 06897-3898

For more information, to send condolences or for directions, please visit www.pflegerfh.com.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Mar. 6, 2014.

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Kathy Healy - FItzsimmons

March 9, 2014

Mrs. Ballasty, Rob and Lorna,
So very sorry for your loss. Mr. Ballasty contributed a lot to St. Mary's. May God be with you at this difficult time.

March 7, 2014

You weren't "UH" until ARM became "ARM" but when Lucy (RIP) and I were kids you were the COOL uncle ....then you met "cool Irene" and yours was the first wedding I ever went to. Thanks again for taking us to Freedom Land. I treasure the letters and remembrances you have sent. Love and prayers Roberta & Zyg

John Anderson

March 7, 2014

Robert, my condolences on the passing of your dad. He was a great worker for MD while I was there and he always gave me suggestions and encouragement. May your memories bring a smile to your face. Mr. A

Bette Costello Walk

March 6, 2014

Rest in peace, Buddy... I know your happy face from family photos and stories... You were loved and will be missed! Many prayers for your family members as they mourn their loss.

Dan Noel and family Moran

March 6, 2014

Uncle Harry you will always be remembered in our prayers and family stories. Your recollection and slave to detail was never lost in your ability to share your memories. Our lives were made richer and more patient by having known you. Heaven will have the best story teller ever. Love and everlasting peace.

John Costello

March 6, 2014

Rest in Peace Cousin Buddy (a.k.a. Henry, Hank) and brother Knight.

"Now, Master, you may let your servant go in peace, according to your word, for my eyes have seen your salvation, ..." Luke 2:29-30

March 6, 2014

Irene, Rob and Lorna - we are with you in spirit in your hour of great loss. May your grief be eased somewhat in the knowledge that he was always a man of steadfast principles. His generosity, so obvious in many aspects of his life, was exemplary. His loyalty to his Faith must surely now have earned him the reward of everlasting life. May he rest in peace. Ar dheis De go raibh se. Berna and Tom Joe.

Mary Perry

March 6, 2014

To Irene, Rob and Lorna. I'm so sorry for your loss of Harry. I only met him a couple of times but he was always so friendly and cordial to me and my mother. A dear man. He will be missed. God give you comfort during this difficult time

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