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Nanette Swordsma Obituary

Nanette Frances (nee Altamura) Swordsma

Marlboro - Nanette Frances (nee Altamura) Swordsma - 64, of Marlboro, NJ formerly of Hasbrouck Heights, NJ peacefully passed away on July 16, 2018. Beloved wife of Henry Brian Swordsma and devoted daughter of Faye and the late Joseph Altamura. Nanette is survived by her twin sister Mia Shernoff and her husband Frank of Manhattan, her brother David Altamura and his wife Tina of River Edge, and her sister Gina Friedman and her husband Greg of Ramsey. She was the aunt to the joys of her life, Russell, Joey, Aidan, Nicholas and Zachary. A graduate of Hasbrouck Heights High School, Nanette received a BS from Montclair State College. After years of dedicated service as a software programmer and IT systems analyst at GAF, and then at Continental Insurance, Nanette retired in 2012. During the past several years, Nanette spent so much of her time caring for others and lovingly reaching out to those in need. She was a member of the Colts Neck Reformed Church Quilter's Club where she created special quilts for the sick and underprivileged, was a member of Habitat for Humanity and worked on many additional charitable causes. She was an active member of the senior choir in Old Brick Reformed Church, participated in Jeopardy, and enjoyed traveling with family members. Nanette will be missed by all she touched. In lieu of flowers, donations should be made to The Nanette Tech Fund www.give.classy.org/nanettefund supporting Girls Who Code a scholarship to empower young women to gain education and launch careers in information technology. A private service will be held for the immediate family arranged by Vander Plaat-Vermeulen Memorial Home, 530 High Mountain Road, Franklin Lakes, NJ. A Memorial Service to celebrate Nanette's life will be held on Saturday, July 28th at 10:30 am at the Colts Neck Reformed Church, 139 County Road 537, Colts Neck, NJ 07722. All are welcome. For further information please visit www.vpmemorial.com or call us at (201) 891-4770.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Jul. 18, 2018.

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Dorothy Jaasma

July 12, 2019

She was a wonderful friend, wife and church member. I remember serving together in Paterson, when we were helping to renovate at home there. She certainly left a big whole in many lives

Dorothy & Edward JAASMA

July 22, 2018

So sorry to hear of Nanette's passing. What a shock for us all. May you be comforted by family , friends and your faith. You have many who will support you at CN Reformed Church. Blessings.

Andy and Sharon Nardelli

July 20, 2018

Henry, we were very sorry to hear about Nanette's passing. We hope and prayer that special memories of her, help and guide you through this sad time. God bless

Maria Cannarozzi-Bonner

July 18, 2018

All of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Bonner Family

July 18, 2018

Dear Henry and Family,

I am so saddened and shocked to hear about Nanette's passing. I will always remember her as such a positive person who gave to others. She had a vibrant smile that made you want to be around her. I know she will be missed by all who knew her. Chris and I will say prayers for you and your family during this sad time. With Sympathy, Lisa Hamilton & Chris Britton

July 18, 2018

It is with great sadness that I hear of the passing of my high school friend. My most heartfelt condolences to Mia and Nanettes family.
Gary Szot San Jose, CA

Nancy DiLauro

July 17, 2018

Henry,
There are so many shared memories that Lew, Tim, Justin and I have of you and Nanette in Elliotville. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May all your memories bring you comfort. My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. Wish I could be there to give you a big hug. Call me...anytime..if you need to talk.
Nancy

Bjorn and Gina Holmquist (Swordsma)

July 17, 2018

Nanette you were a angel on Earth, now a angel in heaven.
Blessed to call you family. You will be greatly missed!

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