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Patricia Godley Obituary

Patricia Godley

Port Monmouth - Patricia Godley, 75, of Port Monmouth, NJ, died on November 30, 2019 at Riverview Medical Center. Born in Manhattan to the late Phillip & Veronica Engel. Patti was the oldest of seven children. Her father relocated the family from Manhattan, NY to Middletown, NJ when Patti was 14 years old. Patti was a graduate of Middletown High School and after graduation she worked for Prudential in Newark. After marrying the love of her life, Vic Godley in 1966, they settled in Port Monmouth in 1970 where she raised her family. Patti became a business owner in 1998 at the age of 54 when she and her friend and business partner Carol Smith of North Middletown became co-owners of the Wilson Avenue Deli in Port Monmouth. Patti loved serving her community and made friendships that endured to her passing. Patti took great pride in her home and gardens and loved decorating for the holidays which she did as much for the enjoyment of her neighbors as well as herself. Patti was a legendary lotto scratch-off ticket player and frequent winner, had a love of horror movies in which her superheros were Jamie Lee Curtis in Halloween and Roy Scheider in Jaws. Patti loved to entertain her family as often as possible, spoil her grandchildren and her dog Max.

Surviving are her husband of 53 years, Victor; her son and his partner Michael and Stephen Green; her son and daughter-in-law, Scott and Christine; her daughter and son-in-law, Victoria and Donald Babbitt; her five grandchildren, Emily, Marissa, Hannah, Erin, and Michael; her two sisters, Barbara Toth, Ginger Sayer; brother, John Engel; and many nieces & nephews.

Patricia was preceded in death by her parents and her siblings, Diane, Butch (Phillip), and Ronald.

No funeral services will be held as it was Patricia's wish. For more information, to send condolences or for directions, please visit www.pflegerfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Asbury Park Press from Dec. 1 to Dec. 2, 2019.

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Joanne Lotempio

December 5, 2019

I was so saddened to hear this news. I will always & fondly remember you "Clorox Patti" behind the counter of Wilson Ave Deli, cigarette hanging from your lips, with yet another ruined sweatshirt that you stained with bleach cleaning the tables. Or when you manned the grill and would yell that I had to wait for my turn?? with no one else there, which by the way was my child's lunch for school. You cracked me up and made me laugh every day I came into the shop. I missed you and Carol when you sold it, & then I go to work in an office that your DAUGHTER is a secretary. Just couldn't escape you!! You fought a long and hard fight, you are at peace and free of your earthly pain, may you rest in peace until we all meet again. To Vic, Michael, Scott and Vicki, along with their families my deepest, heartfelt condolences at your loss.

Patti Godley

Michael Godley

December 2, 2019

Vicki Babbitt, Hannah & Patti Godley

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December 2, 2019

Dad, Michael, Hannah & Mom

Michael Godley

December 2, 2019

Michael Godley

December 2, 2019

The Godley Family

Michael Godley

December 2, 2019

Dori Blackford & Mom

Michael Godley

December 2, 2019

Patti, Emily & Vic

Michael Godley

December 2, 2019

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Michael Godley

December 2, 2019

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Michael Godley

December 2, 2019

Walter Cambeis

December 2, 2019

May God bless you and keep you. You will be missed by all.

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