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Paul Appelt Obituary
AGE: 92 • Toms River
Paul A. Appelt, age 92, of Toms River, NJ, died Saturday, June 30th, 2012 at Kimball Medical Center in Lakewood. Paul was born and raised on Staten Island and moved to Holiday City South in Toms River in 1990. Paul was a Stationary Engineer for several companies including Wallerstein Corporation and Mobil Oil refinery on Staten Island for many years. He was a WW II Army Veteran serving in the 17th Army Airborne Division of the 194th Glider Infantry Regiment which saw action in Normandy Invasion and many other battles including the Battle of the Bulge for which he was awarded the Bronze Star for Valor. He was a member of the Men's Association and the fishing club of Holiday City in Toms River as well as participating in the annual reunions of his military regiment.
Paul was predeceased by his wife of 60 years, Edith, in 2001 and his daughter Jill Campbell in 2011. Surviving are 4 sons: Paul R. and his wife Janet of Point Pleasant, Peter and his wife Marlyn of Westbury N.Y., Dennis and his wife Carmen of Old Bridge and David and his wife Stephanie of Barnegat along with 2 daughters, Joyce Simonson of Staten Island, NY and June Ledellaytner and her husband Richard of Bethany, Ct. He was the loving grandparent of 13 grandchildren, 13 great grandchildren and 1 great great grandchild.
A Viewing will be held on Thursday from 4:00 pm to 8:00 pm at Colonial Funeral Home, 2170 Hwy. 88, Brick, NJ. A funeral Service will be offered on Friday 10:00am in the Funeral Home. Burial will follow at Ocean View Cemetery on Staten Island.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Appelt
june ledellaytner
July 1, 2025
It's been 13 years since you left us,Dad, and not a day goes by without a thought of you. I miss your humor- the way you could make us laugh even in the hardest moments. You were also a firm disciplinarian - I wasn't easy to manage!
You were a proud WW11 Glider infantryman, a Bronze Star recipient who never spoke loudly of his bravery,but lived with quiet strength.
A devoted husband, father of seven, and a man of endless resourcefulness- you could fix about anything! As a Stationary Engineer, you supported our family.
We miss you deeply, but carry your legacy and embrace the memories.
With love always, Your family.
June appelt Ledellaytner
June 26, 2024
Remembering you especially since your Birthday was on June 18
I miss you Dad
Your grandkids miss you and of course my husband longs for a beer and a shot of scotch with the Chief
The Ledellaytner Family
June 26, 2021
Dad, chief, Pop,
Today is a sad Anniversary as our grief continues. We have not forgotten you. You, Mom and Jill, will always be in our hearts.
june ledellaytner
June 28, 2020
Dad,
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Memories are treasures -no one can steal.YOU will always stay loved and remembered in every way. You are missed beyond measure.
Tom Moerschel
July 13, 2012
I will always remember the happy days we spent at the house on Manee Ave. Sneaking into the pool when Mr Appelt was not home and eating bologna sandwiches on the back porch. I felt like one of the family from early kindergarten days and as we grew into young men, Mr and Mrs Appelt made me feel welcome. Saying Mr Appelt will be missed is an understatement. My heartfelt condolences to my old friend Paul and all the Appelt Family.
Michele Wedwaldt(Novak)
July 6, 2012
Today my heart broke twice. Saddened that my childhood best friend passed and her dad, too. My wish is that the Appelt family smiles and finds happiness with all the good memories they've shared.
Lynn Hoerle
July 6, 2012
I will always remember Uncle Sonny for his big smile and great laugh. Now that he has joined the rest of the gang (Marion & Ray and Babe) the card game can begin. My thoughts are with the Appelt's during this sad time.
Charlie/Sheryl Farah
July 5, 2012
Paul was a wonderful man and always had such facinating stories. We enjoyed talking with him and having him with us for special events. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of his family but especially Paul and Janet.
Paul Appelt
July 5, 2012
Dad led his life through example. No bragging, no trumped up stories of past exploits. He just did what he had to do to make sure we were taken care of. He was strict when he had to be, but always fair. He taught us responsibility. As Dave said he was the smartest guy in the world. We will miss him,but will celebrate his life forever!
July 4, 2012
July 4th, 2012,
How do we begin to express our thoughts and feelings of some-one we loved so very much. Our comfort is he is now with his beloved wife and youngest daughter.
They are beyond the reach of our arms but not from our minds and hearts.
Dad and Chief we will miss you.
Love, June and Ricardo
dave appelt
July 3, 2012
when your a young kid, you think your dad is the smartest guy in the world.when your 18, you think doesn't know anything. when your'e an adult, you realize you were right the first time,
Dennis Appelt
July 3, 2012
My father,,my boss,my co worker...I learned so much from you,both at home and in the boiler room,I'll never forget how well we worked together,not as father and son,but as two engineers..we know one another on a different level,we shared a unique relationship.
Kim Hale
July 3, 2012
To all, We are very sorry for your loss and know how much "chief" will be missed. Our thoughts are with you.
Kim and Diane
Un. Sonny's 90th B-Day
Janet Hoerle
July 3, 2012
Uncle Sonny, as we Hoerle's knew him was the husband of my father's sister, Edith known to us as Aunt Babe. They were both special and, are missed by us remaining five (5) Hoerle children. Un. Sonny was my God-Father for almost 67 yrs. he was always my special Uncle.
Now that you are safely home with Aunt Babe and Jill you can finally rest. We will miss you here on earth but, know you are now at peace.
This photo is of Uncle Sonny on his 90th B-Day still going strong, along with, from left to right, Janet Hoerle, Sharon Hoerle Arentsen & Raymond Hoerle.
Joanne Eckert
July 2, 2012
I am so sorry for the loss of your father, grandfather, and friend. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Jan Foery
July 2, 2012
My deepest condolences to everyone in the Appelt family, most especially to June and Rich. I know how much he meant to all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this very sad time.
July 2, 2012
June and family,
Jan and I are thinking of you and sending our love.
R4E
Jocelyn Campbell
July 2, 2012
Best grandfather ever! Love and miss you Pop Pop!
July 2, 2012
Our deepest condolences. The Voltaggio Family.
Erma Maciolek
July 2, 2012
So sorry for the loss of your father.
Michelle Fenley
July 2, 2012
I didn't know Paul Sr. but I knew 3 of his sons- Paul, Dave and Dennis. I'm guessing he was a great father because his sons turned out so well. My sympathy at this time. Steve and I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Michelle Honore Fenley
Judy Mayo
July 2, 2012
I feel so blessed to have known Mr. Appelt...what a wonderful, cheerful outlook he always had, setting such a good example for all of us as we age. My sincere condolences to the Appelt family, especially my good friend, June.
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