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ROBERT J. RENNER III
AGE: 42 HIGHLANDS
Robert James Renner III, 42, of Highlands, NJ, died September 5, 2009 in Highlands; He was born in Red Bank, NJ and lived in Middletown and Key Largo Fla. Moving to Highlands 20 years ago...Robert worked as a Dock Builder for J H Reid of S. Plainfield and was a member of the Dock Builders and Pile Drivers Union Local 1456 NYC, NY for the past 14 years. He was an Artist specializing in sculptures of fish and other nautical items out of steel, He was a member of Middletown Elks post 2179 Middletown, and the American Legion post 143 Highlands, He was a Scuba diver, and a fisherman, who loved the water...Robert attended Middletown High School North and graduated from Key Largo High School, in Fla.
Surviving are his beloved Fiancee, Karen Josko of Highlands, NJ. father, Robert and step mother Mary Renner of Cape May, NJ, mother, Joyce and step father Jack Lauritsen of Eatontown, NJ, sister, Barbara and Canio Paradiso of Middletown, NJ, sister, Dawn and Tom Mara of Fair Haven, NJ, sister, Shannon Henry of Red Bank, NJ, brother, John Lauritsen of Eatontown, NJ, aunt, Alison Renner of Chicago, IL, Uncle, Brad and Fiancee Rose Ruiz Renner of Sea Bright, NJ, Mother and Father in law to be Gail and Bill Josko of Middletown, NJ, several nieces and nephews, and cousins, and his beloved dog Bailey, Rob had a big heart and would do anything for anyone without expecting anything in return. He was such a generous person. Anyone who had a chance to know him truly loved him.
Visiting will be Thursday, September 10th, 2009 from 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm & 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, 115 Tindall Road, Middletown. Contributions may be made to the SPCA animal shelter 264 Wall St. Eatontown NJ 07724 or American Legion 143 Bay Ave. Highlands, NJ 07732. Condolences may be emailed to [email protected].
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Renner
Shannon Henry
September 20, 2009
dear robbie,
this is your little sister writing you here from earth wishing you were here but I know your in a better spot now. I miss you so much i wish I could of got more time to spend with you. your time here was too short. But I am sure I will be getting one big hug from my big brother whenever my day comes to join you. I remember when we were kids and you used to throw ding dongs behind the couch and tell me to go get them then get my head stuck behind it..... LOL the things we did as kids........
Well I love you and Walker Jai and I miss you so very much...... "BIG BROTHER"...........xoxoxoxoxoxo
I love you
Shannon
Guy Johnson
September 14, 2009
To all of Rob's family,My heart and soul goe's out.It's been awhile Rob,But your someone that can't be forgotten.May you continue god's plan,and live in complete comfort.You where so diffrent,and so special,and had the heart of a lion with the cub's.I'm sad,Yet I know your in great arms.Peace to you my friend. GUY
Glen Collins
September 12, 2009
The room wasn't complete until Rob joined the groupe! Truly the center piece of the conversation and a natural born leader. May God Bless you for all of eturnity, and may we all be blessed by your unspoken but undeniable presants and guidance. Peace, Glen Collins
Michael Smith
September 11, 2009
My deepest sympathy......
September 11, 2009
To the Renner family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy. May God grant you strength and peace in the days ahead.
The Eldridge Family
Mary Jo K
September 11, 2009
Barbara, Danielle and family,
There are no words to express our sorrow for you and your family. I hope you find comfort in seeing how many lives he touched and how much he was loved. God Bless
Dawn Vetterl
September 11, 2009
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you all at this time of grief and in the future. Hold the memories of Rob close to your heart always. I went to high school with him and remember him fondly and then I saw him around Highlands in recent years. I will always remember him.
pj harman
September 11, 2009
Condolences to Family & Friends~
P.J.,Sea Bright,NJ
kevin F
September 11, 2009
Robbie and I go back many years but in the last 10 or so we would only get to see each other a few times a year but when we would robbie would grab me with that big bear hug and tell me about all the great memories he had of us.He always wanted to know how I was doing and if I was o.k and when I wanted to know how he was he would always say everything was fine and get back to asking me how I was and what was going on with me.Robbie truly cared about others and wanted to know how he could be of service to gods other children.For that I know in my heart that he is in a beautiful place with god.To robbies parents thank you for raising the most caring giving and thoughtful person I was lucky to have known my deepest sympathies to you
Dolores Crawford
September 10, 2009
Joyce and Jack,
Please know that my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you both. You are in my prayer and I hope you can turn to God for comfort.
Nick Dibari
September 10, 2009
Robbie Renner,
He had a big heart, and some how in the short time I knew him he made me feel like he would do anything for me if I asked. Also he seemed truely happy when good things happened in my life and I will never foreget him or his fullness of
life.
God Bless you Robbie, and those loved ones you left behind.
September 10, 2009
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
September 10, 2009
Seashells remind us that every passing life leaves something beautiful behind.
May beauty live on in your memories and bring you peace at this difficult time.
With Deepest Sympathy,
A Friend
September 10, 2009
Seashells remind us that every passing Life leaves something Beautiful behind. May beauty live on in your memories and bring you peace. Our Deepest Sympathy to the all of Rob's Family & Friends.
J.C.C. "Knoxville"
September 10, 2009
You will be forever missed my friend. Heaven just got a lot cooler.
September 10, 2009
I did not know this person but was there with my family the day it happened! I sensed a great deal of concern, friendship and love in the air for the family and friends of Robbie. May God be with you all in your time of sorrow. LSJ/NH
Joyce and Jack Lauritsen
September 10, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Love,
Mom and Pop
Lorrie & Marty Lorentz
September 10, 2009
Karen and Renner Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all that knew Rob, now and always.
In our prayers..
Angela De Lucca
September 10, 2009
Karen and the entire Renner family,
Our hearts ache for you during this very tragic time. What a huge loss for you and all that knew and loved Rob too.
A close friend of my nephews, I remember Rob as funny,charming,kind, caring,and the life of the party.
May God grant you peace and strength in the days ahead. Take comfort in your memories,hold them close to your heart for it is there that our loved ones live forever.
JOANNE VIZZI
September 10, 2009
WE ARE SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR BOY OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. WISH I COULD BE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME BUT MY HEART IS NOT FAR AWAY. GOD BLESS HIM ALWAYS .
Carol Viaud
September 9, 2009
Joyce and Family,
Please except our deepest sympathy. Your in our heart and prayers.
I'm here if you need me,my dear friend.
Love,Carol & Art Viaud
Larry Larson
September 9, 2009
Rob, Thanks for being my friend and a hellova Dockbuilder. Thanks for all the laughs.I'll always remember you. My prayers are with you and your family.
Larry Larson
Barbara Jean Keenan
September 9, 2009
Barbara,
We were shocked to hear the events of the weekend, and felt the loss along with you. Take comfort in the fact that the bond you had with your brother was unbreakable, and that you were loved. Please extend our sympathies to your mother.
Gerard Zeller
September 9, 2009
Let not a man be judged except for one thing...the manner in which he treats his dog. To this end Rob was a King. Bailey, a unique character for he is afflicted with the notion whereby thinking he is not a dog, but human. Rob not only allowed him to think this, but believed it himself...
To Karen and the Renner Family...May God, family and friends give you peace and consolation during this difficult time.
Jason Scott
September 9, 2009
I saw Robbie on Friday night. My girlfriend and I walked into the Legion and before we could even sit down he had bought us a beer. That was Rob. His heart, generosity and humor were as big as his booming voice. I was lucky to have been counted among his many many friends. Robbie, when we meet again, its my turn to buy a round. Semper Fidelis.
September 9, 2009
Rob was a special individual who lived life to it's fullest. May the Lord look over his family an give them the strength and faith through this unfortunate tragity. Rest in Peace Rob, you will be greatly missed and know you were very truly loved by your family and friends. I love you!!
Richard & Laura Boylan - Christiansen
Larry Colby
September 9, 2009
Karen and the whole Renner Family my deepest Sympathies . Rob was a one of a kind guy "Our Town" lost a much beloved son" He was a Big Kid and the same time he was a bear of a man.
I watched Rob work everyday in the bridge he was he did the work of three. In last October Robbie was almost crushed by a falling crane he jumped in river swam to a clam boat and came back to the job soaking wet and went back to work. Only Robbie !
Butch Sherman
September 9, 2009
I met Robbie through Eddie Foster. I thought he was a great guy. I would see him in Highlands and around town, always smiling. God bless you Robbie and your family . Say hello to my daughter Heather when you meet her in Heaven. Peace be with you.
September 9, 2009
To all of the family, I share with you a deep sense of loss for Rob. Rob and I have been friends since the fifth grade and I have a life time of great memories we shared together.
I only wish I could tell Rob one last time how much his friendship meant to me. God Bless Rob. Johnny R-FL
John&Michele Rebimbas
September 9, 2009
Our deepest condolences to Karen and the entire Renner family.We were shocked to hear about Rob.We have many fond memories of Rob.He spent many times at our home on East Road.We have not seen Rob in many years,but thought of him often.He is in our prayers and we will miss him very much.Love John and Michele Rebimbas
Lisa Groat
September 9, 2009
Karen,
We will all miss Rob with great sorrrow in our hearts, and a feeling of real loss, but I can't imagine the pain you are feeling right now. Everyone who knew him knows how much he truly loved you. He was a one of a kind person, and put so many smiles on peoples faces with his great personality and true generous heart. We are all absolutely gonna miss him, and always remember what happiness he brought to a room wherever he went.
Joan & Mike Johnson
September 9, 2009
We would see Rob riding his skateboad up and down our street-friendly guy always smiling.
Rod O'Hara
September 9, 2009
Robbie was a great guy, my prayers are with the family.
Kim Mitaritonna
September 9, 2009
I love you, Rob. The memories growing up will never leave me. You were my crazy little brother and you will forever be in my heart. I am so grateful we surprised you by showing up at the Legion a few weeks ago. What a great time we had. Thank you for telling me that night~over and over~that we are family. I miss you.
Love,
Kim
Priscilla Wojtanoski
September 9, 2009
Karen,
My heart is truly aching for you and the family in this time of sorrow. Though I never met Rob, through you I felt I new him. I know the world is a better place for his being part of it. Let the love of others and all their praise and kind thoughts of Rob bring you some comfort,. You, Bailey and all of your families are in my thoughts and prayers. Love Priscilla
Roni Kurtanick
September 9, 2009
We are truly sorry for your loss. We know what a great guy Rob was.
Tony and Roni Kurtanick. Tampa, FL
PATRICIA AGAR( RAPELYE)
September 9, 2009
JOYCE AND FAMILY,
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, NO WORDS CAN MAKE IT ANY EASIER, BUT KNOW MY PRAYERS
ARE WITH YOU.
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