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Sarkis Shahinian Obituary

(Asbury Park Press)

SARKIS S. SHAHINIAN
AGE: 40 FORKED RIVER
Sarkis Sam Shahinian, beloved son of Sarkis and Gina Shahinian, passed away on April 22, 2009. Sarkis was born in March of 1969. He attended Jackson Township Schools, graduating in 1987. He was self employed as a siding and roofing mechanic.
Sarkis has a large and extended family who will cherish his memory. He is survived by his brother Robert Shahinian and his wife Cathy of Little Egg Harbor, and Sam Shahinian and Kristin Pinto of New Freedom, PA, Step-sister Jerith Bailey of Chicago, IL, his step- parents John Sangfield of Forked River and Jerlyn Greulich of York, SC, nieces and nephews John Gumble, Krystal Pinto, Aaron Collette, Ryan, Samantha and Megan Shahinian, his grandparents Sam and Karoline Shahinian of Monroe Township, 7 aunts and 5 great aunts, 6 uncles, 4 great uncles, and numerous cousins (too many to count) and a very special friend Judy Humbert of Toms River. Sarkis was predeceased by his grandparents Eugene and Sophie Scaglione.
A Viewing will be held on Saturday April 25, 2009 from 2-4 and 7-9pm at the Riggs Funeral Home 130 North Route 9. A private Service will be held at a later date for the family. In lieu of flowers the family has asked for contributions to be made to the Lacey elks Lodge # 2518 900 Beach Blvd. Forked River, NJ 08731 in Sarkis' memory.

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Published by Asbury Park Press from Apr. 25 to Apr. 26, 2009.

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Daniel Poray

May 23, 2009

I was deeply saddened by the news. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Shahinian family.
I played Little League with Sarkis and was coached by his father.

Kathy lillie(soden)

May 3, 2009

Eugenia and family,
my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

I was so saddened to hear of your loss,years have passed since we spoke but from one mother to another I could never imagine the pain in losing a child god bless all of the family..

CARRIE JACIK

May 1, 2009

GINA, ROB AND SAM,
I CANT TELL YOU HOW SORRY I AM FOR YOUR LOSS. SARKIS ALWAYS MADE ME LAUGH, WHEN HE AND SAM USED TO ARGUE.. I'LL MISS HIM FOREVER..

Stacey Golgano

May 1, 2009

To say that I am literally crushed is an understatement; I just found out the news today. My best friend Carrie dated Sam while I hung with Sarkis. Even though life took us all in different directions, Sarkis and his family I have never forgotten. Sarkis was kind & gentle, could warm you with that charming smile of his and make you laugh until you thought your sides would split and never a more loyal friend.

...A life taken far too soon and certainly in a way that was not deserved....

Gina...my heart aches for you! Sam & Rob, my prayers are with you both; Mr. Shahinian, though I never met you, my deepest condolences...no parent should have to bury a child. Carrie & I hope to locate you very soon...

Sarkis....until we meet again and I look upon that charming smile...I love you, will miss you always and cherish all the memories of all of us toegther my dearest sweetest friend!

Kathy (Crouch)Williams

April 30, 2009

When I read the news, I recognized his name immediately. There could only be one Sarkis Shahinian. I remember his beaming face as far back as Pop Warner Football and Cheerleading. I remember cheering for him! I am so sorry for your loss. May the pain that you are feeling now, soon be replaced with beautiful memories that you once shared together. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jemal Mann

April 28, 2009

May God bless you in your time of loss. My prayers fo our to your famliy at this difficult time. I know Sarkis from high school and catching the late bus while playing sports. He will truly be missed.

Brian & Michelle Brown

April 27, 2009

Our thoughts & prayers are with the Shahinian family, Cherish the all good memories of Sarkis

JANET GRABE-CARD

April 27, 2009

MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME.

Kris

April 26, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Sarkis will be truly missed by many.

Diana Segars-Reynolds

April 25, 2009

My deepest sympathy to you Sarkis Sr. I went to school with you at some time I just don't remember when. God bless your family in this time of their sorrow.

kim Capozzi-Sikorski

April 25, 2009

God bless sarkis and his loving family.

Kelly Capozzi-Niblock

April 25, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

April 25, 2009

My deepest sympathy for your loss. I am greatly saddened by Sarkis' passing. I will always remember him with that great beaming smile of his. I couldn't help but smile with him.
God Bless you now and always and may He comfort you in your time of sorrow.
Carolann Cottrell Weisel, Jackson

JUSTIN BURLEW

April 25, 2009

I WORKED WITH SARKIS AT THE NELSON TEAM AND HE TAUGHT ME A LOT ABOUT SIDING AND JUST HANGING OUT WITH HIM WAS A BLESSING!! YOU'LL BE SADLY MISSED BUDDY!!

Sheri Wilson

April 25, 2009

I am so saddened by the loss of Sarkis. I have fond memories of him. My thoughts are with you all at this tough time. I don't know if you remember me, I was friendly with the family during Pop Warner days. Sheri Morris Wilson

Dale Roberts

April 25, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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