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Thomas Warnke Obituary

Thomas Warnke

Sea Girt - Thomas Warnke, 75, of Sea Girt, passed away on Thursday, December 20, 2018, at his home.

Mr. Warnke was raised in Sea Girt, where he served as a lifeguard. He would later live in New Providence for many years, where he and his late wife raised their children. During that period they maintained a summer residence in Sea Girt, before returning as full-time residents in 1998. He was a graduate of Valley Forge Military Academy, Colgate University, and Seton Hall Law School, where he received his law degree. He went on to a distinguished career in law, both in his private practice, and as an Executive Vice-President at Crum & Foster Insurance. He was a member of the American Bar Association. He was also a member of the Faith Lutheran Church Chorus, a trumpet player with the Ocean Grove Band, and a Charter Member of The Hamburger Club. But above all else, he was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, friend and philosopher.

Mr. Warnke was predeceased by his beloved wife, Bernadette Catherine Warnke, in 2006. He is survived by his sons, Matthew Warnke, of New York, Thomas Warnke, of Longmont, CO, and Patrick Warnke, of Arlington, VA, and his grandchildren, Dovlyn and Phoebe Warnke, both of Longmont, CO. Also surviving are his sisters, Margaret Warnke, of Philadelphia, Jane Grabel, of Albuquerque, NM, Liz Stiles, of Amelia Island, FL, and Gretchen Gravenese, of Mullica Hill, NJ.

In accordance with his wishes, Mr. Warnke was cremated. A memorial service will be held at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church, 6 Osborn Avenue, Manasquan, on January 26, 2019 at 11am. In lieu of flowers, donations in Mr. Warnke's memory may be made to Alzheimer's Association, 400 Morris Avenue, Suite 251, Denville, NJ 07834. Condolences may be sent via www.obrienfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Jan. 17, 2019.

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February 9, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He was such an intelligent and funny guy. We shared many laughs and good times in Naples and Vail. May he rest in peace and may his sons, other family members and friends enjoy many memories of a wonderful and kind man.

Frank McGrath

January 20, 2019

We were very sorry to read of Tom's passing. He was a good neighbor and it was always a pleasure chatting with him.
May he Rest In Peace.
Frank McGrath

Barbara Sutton

January 17, 2019

My deepest sympathy for your loss. May the God of Comfort, continue to comfort the family during these difficult time. May he continue to give support and loving kindness to all. 1 Cor 1:3&4

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