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Thomas Wieboldt Obituary
Bayville - Thomas H. Wieboldt, age 63 of Bayville, NJ passed away on Sunday, March 1st, 2020 at Community Medical Center in Toms River. He was born in Point Pleasant and lived most of his life in Brick before moving to Bayville in 1987. He was a 1974 graduate of Brick High School and attended Rider University in Lawrenceville. He was a highly skilled Soccer player who proudly played for Brick High School, Rider University, and professionally for the Philadelphia Fury Soccer Club. He was employed for many years as a Carrier with the United Parcel Service in Lakewood. He is survived by his beloved life-partner of 30 years, Ruth Clarkson-Lees of Bayville; his loving parents, Herbert and Donna Wieboldt of Brick; two step-children, Michelle Lees of Kingston, NY and Raymond Lees of Bayville. Also surviving is his sister Lynn Norman and her husband James of Waretown, his three brothers, Jeffrey and his wife Linda, Gregory Wiebolt, and Kurt and his wife Regina, all of Brick, and many nieces, nephews and dear friends. Friends may attend a Memorial Gathering on Wednesday, March 4th, 2020 from 4-8 PM at Colonial Funeral Home, 2170 Highway 88, Brick. A Memorial Service will be held on Wednesday, 7:30 PM at the funeral home. Interment is private. Donations in lieu of flowers can be made in his honor to Ocean Pet Caring Foundation (OPCF) for injured or sick pets of the indigent - 838 River Ave. Lakewood, NJ 08701. To send condolences to his family, please go to: www.colonialfuneralgroup.com
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Timothy Wieboldt
August 14, 2020
So sorry family for the loss of Tom. Pray for time to heal.
Joe Fink
March 29, 2020
Dear Wieboldt Family,
I had the honor of knowing "Boldt" and the privilege of playing soccer with and against him. He was a tough customer on the field and I have to say I enjoyed playing with him more. I am shocked to just hear this news and I am very saddened by it. The Wieboldt family is a great family and soccer family and I hope you are all doing okay at this time. Know that you all and Tommy are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.
Jim Fink
March 29, 2020
I just found out about Toms passing and I am extremely upset and shocked about the news. Tom played soccer with me and against me over the years and he was an unbelievable competitor and a great friend. I feel so terribly sorry for his family and will keep them in my prayers.
God bless Tom an awesome Guy!!!
Dominick Accardo
March 5, 2020
Rest in Peace Tommy
Denise Schierbaum
March 4, 2020
I'm very sorry for your loss. My sympathy to the family. I'm a school friend of Lynn's. Denise Castellano Schierbaum
Kevin Gannon
March 4, 2020
I arrived in NJ in 1977 via a soccer trade and anyone around here back then knew the Wieboldt name. The family was a major presence in the shore and state soccer circles. I remember the 1st time I saw Tom play, and my first thought was man, who is that guy! He had every quality of a winner. He was a physical player and yet at the most hectic moments in a match he had the technical ability to slow the game down in his mind and then score goals- and a lot of them. What a player and then when I got the chance to meet him- what a super guy! I got to meet the entire family, and Mr. Wieboldt, you were-are an amazing supportive parent. All the Wieboldt guys were just so special to see and Greg really kept me updated over the years with his visits to me at NJ Gravel&Sand. Because of a temporary medical issue I am not able to attend the service today. I really just want the family to know how very sorry I am about Tom. He lived his life to the fullest and I just wish I had the opportunity to play with him. I have the utmost respect for Tom, and I will never forget him. God Bless you all as no words can express the sadness I feel for you.
Robert Bressman
March 4, 2020
Rest In Peace my brother, a good mans life cut way to short. My deepest sympathy to his family
Tom Gerhold
March 4, 2020
My condolences to the entire family. Had great times at Rider and playing softball in Brick with Tom. RIP my friend
Natalie Arrowood
March 3, 2020
So sorry for your loss. My condolences to the Wieboldt families.
Nubia & Mark Byrne
March 3, 2020
Our deepest condolences to the Wieboldt family from the entire Byrne family. Heartbreaking! We know your pain too well. May he Rest In Peace.
Mark Harvey
March 3, 2020
I have been gone from brick a long time but my mind wonders there often thinking about all the baseball and soccer games we had. I am so sorry for you loose and I will remember those high school days. Just in case because my address is in Kansas now I use to live at 1670 forge pond road, son to Les and Carole Harvey.
Stephen Bungay
March 3, 2020
Very sorry to here this news, Tom was a friend, Rest In Peace
Bob Beck
March 3, 2020
RIP Tom
Bob Beck
March 3, 2020
Kurt and family. My deepest sympathy for your loss. May he rest in eternal peace.
Robert Jukas
March 3, 2020
My heartfelt condolences to the Wieboldt Family. I worked with Tom in Edison and have a lot of good memories, he was a stand-up guy with a great sense of humor. Rest in peace my friend.
Larry DelPlato
March 3, 2020
RIP Tom....
My condolences to the Wieboldt family
Debbie Wieboldt keller
March 3, 2020
Sorry for your families loss. Visit your cousin Jon Wiebolt in heaven. Tom and Jon near!y same age in life. I think .
Rob DelPlato
March 3, 2020
Condolences and fond memories from the DelPlatos ( don't stand in wall if tom is kicking !) RIP
Jackie Brattlof
March 2, 2020
Tom and I worked together at UPS for years. He became my friend because he played soccer with Ralph (my first husband) and Bob White (another UPSer) on Sunday mornings (Sunday's right?) (It was a LONG TIME ago LOL).
I lost touch with Tom once he left UPS but I never forgot you. Every year on August 23rd I would reach out and wish him a Happy Birthday. He didn't always respond but that didn't matter...he was in my thoughts. You still are my friend. Rest in peace. Love and forgiveness...it heals all.
sue shannon kuch
March 2, 2020
My deepest sympathy and condolences to Tom's family.
Annie Wieboldt- Artz
March 2, 2020
May I express my love to your family during this time of heartache and sorrow. The Lord be with you all.
Tim Burt
March 2, 2020
Heartbreaking! Loved my soccer memories with him. One tough, skillful player. Im at a loss for words. God speed! Will try and make service.
Scott Figaro
March 2, 2020
RIP Fellow Green Dragon. My condolences to the entire Wieboldt Family and others affected by this.
Peace & Love,
Scott Figaro
Marty Schreck
March 2, 2020
RIP Tommy it was a pleasure knowing you and working with you in Edison.
Rich Palys
March 2, 2020
I cant be there for the services, But would like to express my deep condolences to Tommys family. I worked with him for many years and have a lot of fond memories. Rip Tom. I will always remember you
Ann
March 2, 2020
so sorry for your loss❤
Thomas Fortier
March 2, 2020
I covered Tommy's Seaside route many years ago when Tommy was out with a back injury. Nearly every one of his customers were concerned about him. They were all so happy when he returned because he had a great relationship with his customers. My prayer go out to his family. Rest in peace buddy...... Tom Fortier
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