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Jacqueline Betkey Obituary

Jacqueline Marie Betkey 58, of Live Oak died on Saturday, October 24th at Rideout Hospital. She was born in Pensacola, FL on February 24, 1951. She worked as a correctional officer at the Leo Chesney Center in Live Oak for the past few years. She was a great mother and wife. Survivors include her husband, Jerry Betkey; son, Eric Betkey; and daughter, Chelsie Reinking. She will always be in our heart and will always be loved. A memorial service will be held on Thursday, October 29, 2009 at 5:30PM at the Live Oak Community Center, 10200 "O" Street, Live Oak CA. Send & Read Condolences at www.appealdemocrat.com

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Published by Appeal Democrat on Oct. 27, 2009.

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October 31, 2009

Good Bye Big Sister, Know that you were LOVED, Respected, and Honered.
Your friends came out to see you off. They talked of your smile, your working ethic and your selflessness.
All who shared their hearts, my family thanks you. It ment the world to Mom.
To the inmates that honored Miss B with a moment of silence God Bless you for letting Jackie touch your hearts.
A special thanks to the staff of Leo Chesney, you guys were a piller of strength for myself and the family.
Charles Williams
Brother

October 31, 2009

Ooohhh Betkey, I have missed you & you will continue to be missed... It breaks my heart to hear of your passing... You were an awesome woman & always had something funny to say that would bring a smile to all...

Dawn May

October 31, 2009

The fire and spunk eminating from her was more than enough to make the worst mood disappear from anyone around her. To the Betkey family, I am deeply sorry for your loss, and you are in my prayers. To Mrs. Betkey...I know you'll keep it interesting up there! You are one of a kind, and will be greatly missed. God bless you.

A. Carpenter

October 29, 2009

I will never forget you, and I hope that you are resting comfortably now in your new place.

Katrina Seagraves

October 29, 2009

My condolences to your family for your loss, I will always remember playing at your house as a child and pestering Jackie who somehow always took it very well. She livened up our girl scout meetings, sometimes to the dismay of the other moms, but I enjoyed her input and the fact that she had the time to be there.
Love Katrina.

F Valdes-Flores

October 29, 2009

May you rest in peace Betkey. You were a fun co-worker and a good person. All my love to her family, you guys will be in my prayers.

Chane Binderup

October 28, 2009

Dear Betkey Family,

I am so sorry for your loss and I wish you comfort during this difficult time.
I will always remember Jackie as the absolute most fun of all of my friends' mothers.

Much love,
Chane

Jennifer Burnett

October 27, 2009

Hello everyone,Jerry, Eric and Chelsie. I loved your mom , I will miss her always, she was like a mother to me and a wonderful grandma to Rhiannon. God Bless you all we love you very much. I remember the first time she ever met me she made me pot roast for dinner because it was my favorite, thats just the kind of person she was...

Allende

October 27, 2009

You are going to be deeply miss Mrs. Betkey. I am going to miss your beautiful smile everytime I saw you at work, we will remember all the good times. Just last week when you were trying to do a pat-down on me at work with thumbs up!! :)

To the family you had a wonderful person in your life. Deeply sorry for your loss.

Love and miss you Mrs. Betkey

Jessica Lopez

October 27, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Louise Miller

October 27, 2009

Please accept my sympathy for your loss. I will always remember Jackie as the first to befriend me when I moved to Oregon House. She had a great sense of humor that made her fun to be with. Our trip to the snow when the girls were four and our many adventures with the girl scouts are some of the memories that make me smile.

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