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Andrew MESSINA Obituary
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MESSINA, Andrew ANDREW MESSINA The world has lost a very special young man. Andrew was wise and retrospective beyond his years. A defender of human injustices, a defender of his beliefs in humanity, a devoted Son and Friend to all that knew him. He was a true Artist, Vocalist, and Poet and used each of these media to express his innermost feelings. His love for animals and their preservation gave him comfort and motivation to campaign for their rights. Life, Ecology and Human Dignity, combined with a desire and drive to help others made Andrew a unique and loved person. Andrew left an indelible mark on all that knew him. To know him was to love him. His mind was amazing and was always thinking of others and put his Family and Friends above his own interests. His thoughts and beliefs were deep and sincere and he was always true to them. As we look back at his short time on this Earth, his passing will leave a void in all of our lives but his memory will always bring a smile and comfort to all. We thank Andrew and we will all miss him. Andrew was preceded in death by his grandparents, John and Anna Messina. Survivors include his parents, Nicholas and Lisa Antonucci Messina, Woodstock; his grandparents, Roger and Ann Antonucci, Woodstock, GA, his God Parents Uncle and Aunt, Richard and Melanie Thompson, Woodstock; three Aunts, Denise Antonucci, Woodstock, Jennifer Sica (Anthony), Philadelphia, PA., and Diane Balush, Philadelphia, PA; cousins, Lauren Thompson Reardon (Stephen) and family, Tommy (Selena) Liciardello and family, Michael Balush, Nicholas Balush, Anthony Sica, Justin Sica, and John Sica, all of Philadelphia, PA; his dog Jessie Messina. Funeral services will be held 4 P.M. Monday May 7, 2012 at Hillside United Methodist Church with Dr. Doug Thrasher officiating. Visitation will be held Sunday May 6, 2012 from 5-9 P.M. at Woodstock Funeral Home Chapel. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Our Pals Place, 4508 Canton Road, Marietta, GA 30066. Online condolences may be made at www.woodstockfuneralhome.com
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for Andrew MESSINA
Mally
August 7, 2012
I love you Andy<3
May 15, 2012
Messina Family, I never met your Andrew, but I'm sure, he could light up a room with his presence. He will now light up the sky. I will pray for all of you. I am truly sorry for your loss. In my thoughts & prayers, JO Marcial, Marmora, NJ
Noah Opperman
May 15, 2012
He was my best friend. We even had a band together. I'll miss our introspective conversations, and band practices after school, but most of all I'll miss what he did for me, and everyone around us. RIP, Friend.
G. Johnson
May 14, 2012
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
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May 14, 2012
To the Family:
May God bless each of you, during this difficult time in your lives. (2Cor.1:3)
My condolences,
SJB.
renee rockwell
May 11, 2012
I met him about six years ago...and I was impressed...he was smart and sweet...and by all accounts he grew to be a son of which his parents were proud...his battles are over now...he is safe and warm and in the arms of our Loving Father...and Heaven will just be that much sweeter...Good night friend.
May 10, 2012
Lisa and Nick: It is with much sadness that we send our thoughts and prayers to you during this most dfficult time. We have walked this road over the past twenty years. Right now it is very hard for you to believe that you can survive such a tragedy, but time soothes the pain. Your son will be with you always. With heartfelt condolences, Natalie and Anthony Pino, Brookhaven, PA.
Jessica Chaikof
May 9, 2012
I've known Andrew since the 6th grade, he and I were at the same middle school together for three years. Back when I was in the middle school, there were some kids who were being mean to me. Andrew did not just stand there, he actually walked up to them, and told them to stop.
Also Andrew was a gifted musician, he loved playing the guitar. I've heard him play the guitar many times before back when we were in middle school together. I've always in enjoyed listening to him. Not only that I could already imagine him as a famous and well-known musician.
I will always miss him, and always remember him.
Anonymous and grateful
May 9, 2012
I too never met this remarkable young man, but the account of his life and tributes are so extraordinary...I am so moved. In honor of Andrew, I will be more careful with my thoughts. words and actions. I will carry this young man with me and hope to become a better man myself. Thank you Andrew...your beautiful life influences beyond the grave.
Lorraine Bandera
May 9, 2012
Nick and Lisa, I never met your son Andrew or your wife Lisa but you and your family are in my prayers. All your Philly friends are heartbroken and sad. I will continue to pray for you and your family.
Debbie McGrath
May 8, 2012
Lisa and Nick-I am so sorry to hear of this tragedy. I was just remembering you, Lisa, and Andrew last week and our talks about how bright and precocious Andrew was (Spur Lane.) I remember him as being an adorable kindergartener. I know that Andrew is in a wonderful place now, a place of peace and joy and relief from his suffering--my prayers are for you a Nick to get through this and somehow find peace. God Bless you Both.
Joseph Strasinger
May 8, 2012
With deepest sympathies to Andrew's family and friends. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Heartleigh Ann
May 8, 2012
Andrew was one of the most amazing people I've ever met. I hope and pray that it will get easier for his family, parents, and other friends. Thank you for bringing an amazing boy into the world and into my life.
A Crumbley
May 8, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. Such a senseless loss.
Maura Brand
May 8, 2012
I met Andrew when he was in the 6th grade and taught him in 6th and 8th grade. He never said an unkind word about another student. He was a true friend to all. He will be deeply missed by anyone who had the opportunity to share his creative spirit.
Sam Robinson
May 7, 2012
When Andy transferred to Etowah at the beginning of the 2nd semester, he was placed in my 4th period American Literature class. Even though he and I never really talked, he touched my heart in such a way that life without him is not the same. He was so smart, and always had something to say when we were reading poems or stories. He seemed to understand exactly what the poets were trying to say. He also did not care at all about what others thought about him. He always seemed to care about everybody's opinion, no matter what his thoughts on the matter were. It is so very odd to look at the desk he used to sit in and to think that he is physically gone. He is still in all of our hearts, all of our memories, and all of our thoughts. Andrew, we all miss and love you. Save us all a seat at your concert in Heaven when we get there. RIP Andrew...RIP.
Stephanie Watts
May 7, 2012
Andrew was such an intellectual being, a joy to speak to and listen to. He was wise beyond his years and had such a passion for human and animal justices. He was well loved and will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to you, Nick and Lisa. I cannot begin to understand your pain, but I will pray God's peace and comfort over you.
Rafael Palop
May 7, 2012
I never met Andy in person but I consider myself a friend of his family.
It is so hard to write something about this situation without anger. This shouldn't have happened.
I don't pray but my heart and thoughts are with you during this hard times.
AMUNT Andy!!!!
Dee Locklin
May 7, 2012
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
Dani Bentle
May 7, 2012
Nick and Lisa, please know how sorry we are for your loss of Andrew. We didn't know him, but our son, Alex, played with him a few times when they were younger building forts in the woods. There are no words to say how sorry we are for your loss. Please know you are in our prayers... May the God of all comfort be your never-ending comfort. Doug, Dani, & Alex Bentle (904 Laurel Crest Dr.)
Dave & Phyllis Midkiff
May 7, 2012
Please accept our most heartfelt condolences. We will remember you in our prayers.
Malanda Kashani
May 7, 2012
To the Messina Family, we are so sorry to hear about your loss. May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared comfort you now and in the days ahead. Stay strong, he will be watching you from above.
Sincerely, Dr. Sam Kashani and Family
Don McDonnell
May 6, 2012
We were blessed to have considered Andrew a part our extended family. We will never forget his kind hearted nature and his fun loving spirit.
May 6, 2012
Dear Lisa and Nick: There are no words that can describe what you are feeling now. Bob, John, Tony and I send our deepest condolences to you. Andrew's young life was cut short much too soon.
God must have great plans for a special boy of his intelligrnce and caring ways.
Be certain you are in our prayers.
Love, Bob, Arlene, John and Tony
May 6, 2012
My first Memory of Andy: His first week at school, we were sitting in the same row of chairs in our class we shared. Our friend was sitting between Andy and I, and I seemed to be having a very bad day. I was telling our friend between us about my bad day, and the teacher called him to his desk and Andy scooted over into his seat and said, "Ya know, seems we always have those days sometimes and there's nothing anyone can say to make it better but there's always tomorrow." I smiled and said, "Thank you, that is so nice of you" and his response was, "Anytime, I'm Andy by the way and I like your boots."
May 6, 2012
With deepest sympathy to the Messina family during your time of grief...Psalm 46:1...God is for us a refuge and strength, A help that is readily to be found during difficult times...May God provide you with peace and comfort to endure the days ahead.
Joshua McCusker
May 6, 2012
I never met Andrew in person, but he and I chatted a lot and advised each other. I had never, before him, thought I could take advice from a 16 year old. He was wise beyond his years, and this tragic incident so opposite from how I knew and will remember him. He has touched so many people, as anyone can see from his facebook page and I only hope that knowing how loved he was, and by how many he will be remembered that it helps even a little in easing your grief and pain. He will live on in our hearts, and in all of our thoughts as his impact is now fully realized. You raised an amazing son, and I know he was happy to have you as parents.
You will be missed very much!
Claire Bennett
May 6, 2012
Andrew, I am glad to call you one of my dear friends. You have made a big impact on the way i view life. Everything that you have ever told me, I will always remember and pass it on. You always inspired me to be me. Not a day goes by where I don't miss you. You made me smile, laugh and cry tears of joy everytime we were together. I cherrish every moment that we've spent together and hope that you are in a better place and smiling down on all of us. Be happy Andy, that's all anyone has ever wanted from you. I love you so much.
Sonia Shanahan
May 6, 2012
I am so sad to hear this news. My heart and prayers go out to you all with deepest sympathy and love.
Sonia Shanahan
Mandy
May 6, 2012
Andy was in one of my classes. He was such a kind and unique person. He never had a mean thing to say about anyone. It hasn't been the same in our class since his passing, and we all miss him immensely. Thoughts and prayers to his family and close friends. Rest in Peace Andy.
roxanne schiavo
May 6, 2012
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Don & Valerie Scott
May 6, 2012
Andrew was my daughter's very close friend. She considered him her brother. I personally met Andrew on a number of occasions and every time he was very polite and respectful to me. I was impressed at his upstanding character and consideration for others. He was selfless, always considering others first. What happened to him is a tragedy and should never have happened. May the Lord God Jehovah comfort the Messina family in this time of extreme grief.
Susan Crowe
May 6, 2012
I didn't personally know Andrew. He was my best friend sons friend. I just want to let Andrew's parents know I am deeply sorry for their loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you both. God bless you both.
Yasin Knapp
May 6, 2012
Andrew was one of my best and closest friends, and I honest to god loved him every second I knew him in the short amount of time I had with him. I won't ever forget him, and neither will those of his friends and family who always loved and cared about him.
Don & Valerie Scott
May 5, 2012
Dear Lisa and Nick, We were devastated when we learned what happened. Although I only knew Andrew a short time, I was very impressed with him as an adolescent, especially in what can be a very cruel society youth live in today. He was always very respectful and polite to me. Valerie was very close to him and considered him her brother. She is really taking this hard. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. This tragedy should never have happened and we can only ask for the Lord God Jehovah's comfort to you.
Savannah Rettig
May 5, 2012
Andrew, I didn't know you well in your high school years, but you were a good middle school friend who I shared funny memories with. You will be missed.
Doreen Wald
May 5, 2012
Dear Lisa and Nick, I wish there was something that I can say to ease your pain. Please know my thoughts and prayers of love are with you at this difficult time. If you want to talk, I'm here always.
With deepest sympathies, Doreen
Jeanne Napolillo
May 5, 2012
I was shocked that this has happened to your family. I wish I could take the pain away from you and Nick. Our heartfelt sympathy our with you and your family.
Debbie
May 5, 2012
I'm praying for God's comfort for Andrew's family and friends.
Kelly Herrero
May 5, 2012
Messina (as I referred to you as)- you were my favorite socialist pacifist. you were my hippie, my best and most passionate debater. you will be remembered for the beautiful, free loving spirit and open heart you displayed to others everyday-- and not defined by one single life event. you will always be perceived by the content of your character which was kind, loving and forgiving. forever peace is now with you but those that love you mourn the loss of your smile on the planet.
Harriet Morrison
May 5, 2012
Lisa and Nick, I was so sorry to hear about Andrew. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ginny Reed
May 5, 2012
Lisa and Nick, I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through. You were the most devoted loving parents and Andrew was lucky to have you. Please know that Mark and I are praying for you for peace and comfort. Mark and Ginny
May 5, 2012
I am very glad you felt close and talk to me some of the things we talked, like friends, family school etc.
They will all stay with me as a wonderful memories as long as I live.
May 5, 2012
I never met Andrew but I thought the obituary in today's paper was the deepest, most beautiful I've ever read. He must have been a truly great human being and I'm sorry that his life was cut short. It is a great loss to the world, but maybe his companionship to others while he lived will influence and continue his mission to love and revere beauty, intelligence and truth.
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