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Melanie Massell Jacobs
August 28, 2004
Jeff -
Krista (Massell) and I were hangin' out on the dock at their lake house today. It was a beautiful day. The angels must've been nearby because we were suddenly discussing you and Jeffrey and that moment of time that stood still for you last year on August 1st. Our hearts and prayers went out to you and your family again today (as they have many times throughout the year), and admiration of your bravery and steadfastness held our deepest respect for you. God speed my friend.
Wyatt Jeffers
September 23, 2003
I was in Jeff's algebra class in 8th grade. And he was also on my hockey team for part of the season in 9th grade. He was always very quite, but the thing that stuck out the most was when he did speak he always had something nice to say about something. Everyone that knew him will miss him.
Rob McCann
September 10, 2003
Jeff was my mentor I looked up to him in every way possible he was a a great friend and pitcher basket ball player ect. I will never forget the season of 2002 2003 baceball V Rectory JEFF WILL ALAWAYS BE MY CAPTIN
kenny lee
September 5, 2003
I went to rectory for the same two years that jeffery was there. I remember going to China Garden for a meal with Jeffrey and his friends.We had a wonderful time. Although he has passed away, he will be remembered and not forgotten.may he rest in peace.
your schoolmate Kenny
Lisette Rimer
August 31, 2003
To Jeff's parents,
I was so terribly sorry to find out about your son, one of Rectory's best and brightest students. He was in my English class the first summer he arrived. Although he did not say much in class, he demonstrated an obvious talent for writing. What he did not verbalize, he wrote magnificently. It is heartbreaking that his future was cut short. My thoughts are with you.
Sincerely, Lisette Rimer, English teacher
Gerard kay
August 30, 2003
Wow i don't know where to start because there is so much i have to say.I found out about Jeff's death at camp and i felt like the world had just crashed down on me.I was jeff's room mate in 8th grade for part of the year and he and i had the best relationship,we called eachother brothers because that was our relationship he was my little brother and i was his big brother.Jeff didn't talk much around many people but when i think back to 8th grade i can remember the long night talks,cd's on repeat and my favrite one, the two of us watching diffrent strokes on nick at night,i still see him turning to me saying "what you talkin about willis" He was just awesome at everything he did and he was more than a leader.The last few weeks have been hard for me because everything i do reminds me of jeff and i know that it must be much more pain for his family and i wish you all the best.It hurts to know that Jeff and i didn't really talk much in the first few months of our 9th grade school year but at my birthday party around the end of the school year Jeff and i got to have the old venting time that we use to have in 8th grade,i am so happy about that because we got the chance to say everything we had on our mind before we left eachother for good.i know it's true but i still tell my self it's not,but when i do come to face the fact that it is true i will look at my arm and seeing your face ingraved in it will remind me of the brother like relationship we had. Jeff i love you man,RIP little brother. I will never forgat the times we had togather, the fights,the laughs and the crys will be with me for ever.
With much love
Gerard Kay
Johnny Wells
August 24, 2003
Jeff was one of my good friends. I got to spend a lot of time with him because in eighth grade we were on the same dorm. Jeff always managed to put a smile on someone's face. He had a caring and compassionate heart. I'm so glad I got to graduate with such a bright kid. Jeff will be remembered and loved by all. Love ya Jeff and his parents deeply.
Johnny Wells '03
From the Rising of the sun to goin down of the same, Jesus is lord. MAy God bless you and give you abundant strengh. Jeff brought light into everyones life that he touch. He filled a perfect purpose in his lifetime.
We love you
and we rejoice in
your sons legacy
Sarah and the Wells Family
melissa moore leatherman
August 21, 2003
Dear Jeff,
Kathy sent me news of your son and though it has many years since I have seen or talked with you please know my thoughts and my prayers are with you. I truly pray for peace in your life as you work through this. Love, Melissa Mooe Leatherman
Margery Mosher
August 15, 2003
I was Jeff's tutor during the summer before he came to Rectory. He seemed such a serious young man, not quick to show his feelings. I was pleased to see him receive the honors he deserved in sports and in his life in general at The Rectory school. You can be very proud of him. We won't forget him.
Mick Engle (Counselor 99)
August 11, 2003
My heart goes out to all of Jeffrey's family. He was a special young man who will always be remembered for his kind heart and loving spirit.
Alex Harvey
August 10, 2003
I graduated with Jeff this year. He was in my class, and we were both on the Varsity soccer and baseball teams. He was one of my best friends and will be missed a lot. He will always be my friend and be in my prayers. I would like to offer his family my condolences. I'm so sorry.
From Alex Harvey
The MacKenzie Family
August 9, 2003
Jeff was a wonderful person. My Dad enjoyed having him in class, and my Mom enjoyed her time with him on the MELP trip. My sister, brother and I enjoyed skiing and playing cards with Jeff. He was admired by everyone, and was easy to get along with. He will be sadly missed, and in our family's thoughts and prayers. God Bless Jeff and his family. We are so sorry for your loss.
Joan and John and Thomas Rice
August 9, 2003
We have been thinking of you this past week, and you are in our hearts and prayers. Jeff was a very special young man indeed.
Kyunghoon Kim
August 8, 2003
I graduated with Jeff this year. We were in the same class for two years at Rectory. He was the one who approached to me as a gregarious friend. He was the first one to pronounce my name right, also. I was lucky to have Jeff as my friend. I'll always remember him. He will always be my friend. I hope he can rest in the place where there is only happyness. Goodbye Jeffery.
I'm sorry to hear about this tragedy. Since I'm living out of the States, I, now, received this somber news. I would like to show my condolescence to Jeff's family. I'm so sorry.
Sincerely,
K.H. Kim
Jennifer Weiss
August 8, 2003
Jane, words cannot express the sorrow that I feel for you with this incredible loss. I have always admired you and I know that this must be so very difficult. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. Jennifer Falk Weiss
Buddy and Ann Davis
August 8, 2003
Dear Dot and James,
We were greatly sadden hearing about Jeff. As a grandparent, we cannot even image the pain.
Our heartfelt sympathies and prayers to you and the family.
Buddy and Ann
Jung Yeon Cho
August 8, 2003
Dear my friend Jeff
I was very sorry when I heard that horrible news about Jeff. Jeff was very friendly and I like him very much. Jeff was outstanding soccer player in Varsity A team and I still respect him. I am very sorry. Although you left, we are still friends.
From J.Y Cho in Korea
Glenn, Martha, Sarah & John Milton
August 7, 2003
We are so saddened to hear of your tragic loss. We will keep you all in our prayers during this difficult time.
Lynn Pasquerella
August 7, 2003
Jeff was a truly remarkable young man, who made outstanding contributions to the Rectory Community. He will be remembered for all of the lives he touched.
Barbara and Chris Heffron
August 7, 2003
We are so saddened by your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you and will keep you in our prayers.
Barb and Chris Heffron
Terry Chamblee
August 7, 2003
Jeff,
The Road ahead may seem long...
But let faith take you by the hand and guide you through these difficult times...
Remember this, too, shall pass...
May God bless you all...
Wesley Bonnie & Jerry Mason
August 7, 2003
Jane,
We were so sad to read the news about Jeff.
Wesley, Jerry and I offer our full condolences and support to you, Stephen, and Emma.
Gloria Sessoms
August 6, 2003
Dear Jane and Jeffrey
So saddened to hear about your lost. My heart stopped at the news of this tragedy. We will remember Jeffrey in our hearts always, he was a very inspiring person. I only met him a few times in the office and he indeed was terrific young man.
Melanie Rolader
August 6, 2003
Jeff,
Know that I am praying for you, Jane and Stephen during this terrible time of pain and sorrow.
Melanie Rolader
linda, john and john mark danna
August 6, 2003
We were so saddened to hear of Jeffrey's passing. Our prayers are with you at this time.
With sympathy,
John, Linda and John Mark Danna
James Wren
August 6, 2003
Jane and Jeff
From the other side of the Atlantic Ocean, my thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Jeffrey was a super boy, always loving his summers at camp. Upon hearing the news..I was feeling for your tragic loss, and still am. May all the happy memories stay forever in your hearts.
love
James Wren
Melanie & John Jacobs
August 6, 2003
Jeff -
Though you and your family have all been in our thoughts and prayers over the weekend - I look forward to gracing a physically spiritual blessing to you and your loved ones on Wednesday at the services.
God has His will...as unimaginable as it may remain. All we have now is trust in His will.
May you find peace in knowing your offspring was needed by God. In that may you find comfort in knowing you have a "relative angel" watching over you.
I will grace each day with more admiration for those I meet - and consciously treasure the ones I already so dearly love - and be respectful for those who willingful help a soul in need...because they know it's the right thing to do.
I'm here if you need me whenever to sing you a song, hum a melody or, gigle silly and sing you a love song.
Jeff (Jane & Stephen), I'm all over anything you want - I'm Steve's sister - I'm Jeffs friend - I'm at your service in this sorrowful time of need.
Forever -
Melanie Massell Jacobs
Kathy Evans
August 5, 2003
I was so sorry to read about about Jeffrey. Please know that our prayers are with you. I have such fond memories of John and Jeffrey at age 4 attending the Heiskell School. Kathy Evans and son (John Evans). May God bless and comfort you.
Marcy Ford
August 5, 2003
Jane,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I was very sad to read about the loss of such a wonderful young man.
I hope it helps to know that people from a very distant past feel your pain and hold you dear in their prayers.
Sincerely,
Marcy Mantler Ford
Maria Batres
August 5, 2003
Jane,
I was so sad to hear about Jeffrey. My heart goes out to you and your family. I still remember Jeffrey's friendly smile in my class at CKS, he always worked hard and was very caring. I had recently seen and heard about how well he was doing. I am so proud to see how successful he had become. he was a bright, sweet young man, and I am blessed to have had the opportunity to know and teach him. You, Stephen, and Jeffrey's father are in my prayers.
Ms. Batres
Leslie Scoles Provence
August 5, 2003
Jeff, My deepest sympathy to you and your family on your loss. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Leslie Scoles Provence
Class of l973 The Lovett School
Ken and Kathy (O'Shields) Shapiro
August 5, 2003
Jane, we were so deeply distressed to learn of Jeffrey's death, and just wanted to tell you that you, your beautiful son, and all of your family are very much in our thoughts and prayers. Although we didn't have the pleasure of knowing Jeffrey growing up, it's obvious from his guest book entries that he was, in every way, a marvelous, special young man who was a real gift to everyone around him. Our hearts are breaking for you.
With affection,
Ken and Kathy
Ken and Kathy (O'Shields) Shapiro
August 5, 2003
Jane, we were so deeply distressed to learn of Jeff's death, and just wanted to tell you that you, your beautiful son, and all of your family are very much in our thoughts and prayers. Although we didn't have the pleasure of knowing Jeff growing up, it's obvious from his guest book entries that he was, in every way, a marvelous, special young man who was a real gift to everyone around him. Our hearts are breaking for you.
With affection,
Ken and Kathy
Charles D. & Gary C. Smith Family
August 5, 2003
Our sincerest condolences. We saw this young man grow up spending summer weekends at the lake.
Donna Gant Oden and Jesse Oden
August 5, 2003
Jane,
We share your grief in the loss of your son. May God guide you and lift your thoughts. Our condolences to The Haverty and Langford families. God Bless.
Joel and Charlotte Flores
August 4, 2003
Our deepest sympathies and condelences are extended to the Haverty and Langford families. Jeff was our proctor on the dormitory at Rectory School for the 2002-2003 year. He was a great young man and we enjoyed his company over the past year. It was truly hard to hear of this news and we are saddened. Jeff was a quiet and gentle young man, and had so much potential. We will miss him dearly.
Dottie Grabbe Evans
August 4, 2003
Jane, My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry about your loss. I also lost my fifteen-year-old daughter July 6 in an automobile accident. Losing a child is the most painful thing a parent can
experience. If you would like to talk to someone who is going through a similar experience, I would be glad to talk with you.
I will pray for you and your family.
Sincerely, Dottie Grabbe Evans
Dan Robino
August 4, 2003
I graduated with Jeff this year. He was a friend and fellow classmate. We were on MELP together and we enjoyed our experience in Maine with 10 other classmates. My thoughts and prays are with his family. I will miss Jeff very much.
Sincerely,
Dan Robino, Class of 2003
Sylvia Crowe
August 4, 2003
Jane, I don't know if you will remember me from Byrne, Eldridge, Moore & Davis but I wanted to let you know I'm so sorry for your loss; please know you and your family will be in my prayers.
Sincerely, Sylvia Crowe
Sharon Doochin
August 4, 2003
Jeff-My heart goes out to you and your family. I know you must be in great pain and offer my open arms to wrap around you. I'm so very sorry for this lost...please know I care.
With Much Love, sharon
Barak Blackburn
August 4, 2003
Jeff was an outstanding member of the Rectory Community. It was my distinct honor and pleasure to get to know him as a student, athlete and person. My wife and are send our best.
Toni Travis
August 4, 2003
Dear Jane and Jeff,
I can see Jeffrey now as a third grader at Morris Brandon, he was so cute with those big brown eyes. Remember I gave you Maxine, the puppy? My prayers are with you at this time. Only God can see you through.
Margarete Molnar
August 4, 2003
My condolences to Jeff's family on their tragic loss of this promising young man. Those of us in the Rectory School community also feel a great sense of personal loss. Jeff was the kind of boy we could all look to to set an example for our younger boys. His unassuming leadership meant a great deal to those boys who looked up to him as a leader, especially those youngsters for whom he acted as a proctor and mentor. What they learned from Jeff was that talents and abilities should prompt the fortunate possessor of these gifts to walk with humility. Jeff's prowess in the classroom and on the playing fields led him to support and encourage his friends and teammates. His compassion and gentle spirit will be dreadfully missed by us all. It is good to remember that his outstanding qualities were recognized and celebrated by his teachers and his classmates a few short weeks ago. While we mourn his loss, we are grateful for the time he was able to give us.
Hall Brodie
August 4, 2003
We are neighbors of Jane and our family's prayers go out to her and the family. Jeff sounds like one of those great kids that you have no idea why he died. We will continue to keep the family in our prayers.
Richard Mitchell
August 4, 2003
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Richard Mitchell
Ken Shapiro
Sandra Moss
August 4, 2003
Dear Sweet Jane
I am so very sorry this horrible accident happened. It is so sad and my heart breaks for you.
I can't imaging what you must be going through and I am praying that you and your family will find the strength to get through this week as well as the peace to cope with the days ahead. Your sweet memories of that precious young man - and your faith - will get you through this tragedy.
If you need a shoulder, I have a very large one just for you. I love you little buddy. Take care of Jane.
Marshall
August 4, 2003
I was very sorry to hear about Jeff. He was a great person, and I would like to send all my condolences to his family...I'm very sorry...
grace thorington
August 4, 2003
Your friendship will always be remembered.
much love to the entire family,
Grace Thorington
Danny Porter
August 4, 2003
Dear Jane and Jeff,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you and your family face this terrible time. God bless.
Noemi Carcar, MD
August 4, 2003
Dear Jane: I really feel sorry for your loss, and also I pray for God to guide you and confort you.
Love
Mimi
Caitlin Neiduski
August 4, 2003
Jeff was an amazing person. Everyone loved him and I will miss him dearly. My love goes to his family for I can only imagine the pain they are going through.
Joan Gee
August 4, 2003
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With deepest sympathy.
The Gee family
Christ the King
Brian Gee
August 4, 2003
I am so sorry. I will be praying for Stephen and his family.
Brian Gee
Christ the King School
Ralph Meuwsen
August 4, 2003
Dear Jeffrey, we had a few great summers at CCB and I will never forget you.
My condolences go to your family and all your friends. I wish them all the strength in the world to deal with this tremendous loss.
Tyler Callsen
August 4, 2003
I went to The Rectory School with Jeff, Jeff was one of those kids that everyone liked and i know that everyone will miss him greatly. I wish the best for his family, its not easy to lose a family member espically a kid like Jeff. Ill miss you,
Tyler Callsen
Mike Angelides
August 4, 2003
Jeff you were a great person and a great friend... you will missed
Jane Vercelli
August 4, 2003
Jeffrey was among the most outstanding members of the Class of 2003 at Rectory School distinguishing himself not only as a student but also as a person who was beloved by all. His life was a bright meteor streaking across our skies. Everyone at Rectory respected him and rejoiced in his many accomplishments. He was a gentleman in the truest sense, and he had the most luminous eyes in the school. I'll never forget the roar of the applause for Jeffrey at Commencement on June 1, 2003. My heartfelt condolences to his family and to his classmates, all of whom will never forget him.
Mike
August 4, 2003
R.I.P. Jeff... we love you
Nancy and Don Griscom
August 3, 2003
Dear Jane and Jeff:Our hearts are with you both at this time. We were so sorry to hear about your son. We know what a tremendous loss this must be. We want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers today and may God bless you in the next days and weeks to follow.
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