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HELMS, John John A. Helms, Atlanta Attorney and Insurance Executive Atlanta resident John A. Helms, born May 13, 1935, died at his home in Atlanta on Tuesday. He was 77. He had lived in Atlanta for 49 years and was a devoted father and husband, attorney and civic leader. The cause of death was an apparent heart attack. Born the eighth of nine children in Montgomery, AL, John was the son of Nolan Helms, a dairy farmer and bookkeeper, and Betty Davis Helms, an entrepreneur who worked in real estate and education. John attended Sidney Lanier High School in Montgomery where he excelled in Latin and student government before winning a full Naval ROTC scholarship to Vanderbilt University. Upon graduation, he was commissioned as a Naval officer and served in the Combat Information Center (CIC) of the aircraft carrier USS Lake Champlain. Over the next three years, he toured many exotic ports of call, journeys he fondly recalled as being "courtesy of my travel agent, the U.S. Navy." After completing his service, John attended Harvard Law School where he enjoyed membership in the Southern Club and the Lincoln's Inn Society. In Boston, John gained an appreciation for southern winters. Fortunately, while there, he met and fell in love with Nashville native and fellow Vanderbilt alum Pamela Ann Parker. Following graduation, John and Pam married in Nashville in November 1964. They settled in Atlanta where John became an associate at the law firm of Powell Goldstein Frazer & Murphy. In 1971, John was made partner at Powell Goldstein. He left in 1974 to become General Counsel at the Life Insurance Company of Georgia where he particularly enjoyed government relations work with members of the Georgia legislature. After 15 years, he returned to private practice at the firm of Trotter Smith and Jacobs before taking another corporate position at MILICO, an affiliate of Primerica, in 1991. After a fascinating decade of mergers and acquisitions at the company that ultimately became Citigroup, John retired as an Executive Vice President in 2000. Over the years, John followed his passion for politics. Starting in the late 60s's he was an early and active campaigner for civil rights leaders Andrew Young and Maynard Jackson and other notable Georgia Democrats such as Sam Nunn, Wyche Fowler and Jimmy Carter. He was an avid reader, sports fan and traveler. His passion for opera was legendary, and he would travel regularly to hear it, sometimes attending two performances in a day. He often emphatically declared that Mozart's "The Magic Flute is the single greatest work of art in any medium ever." John cared deeply about education, social justice and the environment. He was a generous contributor to these causes, both financially and with his time and energy, serving on the boards of The Georgia Conservancy, The Howard School, The Southeastern Savoyards, Greenlaw, and others. He was also the founder of The Corporate Counsel section of the Georgia Bar Association. A noted wit and raconteur, John, could toss off pitch-perfect toasts and self-deprecating remarks that would leave audiences in stitches. Within the family, he was particularly known for hilarious annual Christmas letters from Santa to himself, masterpieces of scorn for his own alleged greed and Grinchy spirit, probably sparked by the seven-foot Christmas stocking that John had bought for himself. Ever an advocate for the underdog, John was also an ardent defender of the oft-ridiculed Christmas fruitcake. He is survived by his wife, Pamela Parker Helms; his brother Joseph Edward Helms of Montgomery, AL; his children Susan Carol Helms Daley (Sean) of Brookline, MA, John Paxton Helms (Mary) of Washington, DC, and Edward Parker Helms, of Los Angeles, CA; four grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. His sister Emma Russell Green died just hours before him in Troy, AL. A celebration of his life will be held at Trinity Presbyterian Church on Saturday, January 26, 2013, at 2 PM with a reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to The Georgia Conservancy or The Fernbank Museum of Natural History.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Jan. 26, 2013.

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Linda Edmonds

January 31, 2013

This is a surprise, since I saw and talked with John not long ago at the Alliance Theater, and was happy to introduce him to my family. He looked well physically and was his usual fun loving self. We will miss this man of honesty and integrity, a great sense of humor, and a good friend. Georgia was the better for having had his influence. Your family is in our prayers.

Barb

January 31, 2013

Im so sorry for your loss and may you find comfort in Gods inspired word the Bible (2 Timothy 3:16).

January 31, 2013

My deepest condolences to the Helms family. May the God of comfort give you strength at this most difficult time. Isaiah 61:2

S.Griggs

January 30, 2013

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Gerry Morgan

January 30, 2013

Susan, I am delighted to meet you. Yes, I have many memories of your father and his family as we grew up together in Montgomery. I think it would be better to send them by e mail. [email protected]

Kathy Jordan

January 29, 2013

I worked as John's assistant when he first came to Primerica and am very sorry for your loss. He was a pleasure to talk with. May God give you strength during this difficult time.

January 29, 2013

Sincere condolences to family and friends of John A. Helms. A man of justice and humor.Jer.10:23.

Linda Mayo

January 28, 2013

Pam Sorry to hear about your loss...my thoughts and prayers are with you....

January 28, 2013

my deepest sympathy to family and friends may the GOD OF REFUGE BE WITH YOU IN THIS TIME OF SORROW,PSALM 5; 11, GA

Peter Banks

January 28, 2013

I will always remember John as a man with integrity and a sense of pride in his work. He was a good friend and our state is a better place for John having been here. He will be missed. Deepest sympathy to the Helms Family.

January 28, 2013

i am so sorry to hear about so lost may the of refuge be with family and friends. psalm57; 1 GA.

G. Freeman

January 28, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Gerry Morton Morgan

January 27, 2013

I grew up next door to John Alvin and his remarkable family in Montgomery. How blessed we were to know them all. They were special favorites of my mother.

Gene Porter

January 27, 2013

God Bless all of the family in this time of sorrow.

1953 Lanier classmate

Patricia O'Grady Daley

January 27, 2013

Dear Pam,Susan,Paxton and Ed, there are no words to truly express the deep sense of loss one feels at John's passing. My deepest and most sincere sympathy, All of you are in our thoughts and prayers.

January 26, 2013

Dear Susan, Paxton, and Edward, John's obituary is a wonderful tribute to your dad's many talents and accomplishments! I'm remembering so many happy and fun times with your dad, mom, and your family. Each of you is in our thoughts and heart during this time of loss and grief. I so missed being there with you. Our love, Rosalie and John

Robbin Chambliss

January 26, 2013

Sorry to read of this news. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.

EG

January 26, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

ANITA

January 26, 2013

sorry to hear about your loss,May the God of all comfort be with you and your family.Isaiah 61:2

Lawrence Frank

January 26, 2013

A touching tribute to John today and the beautiful music provided a wonderful flourish to an extraordinary life. Bravo to Susan, Paxton and Edward for their words and stories.

Joe Taylor

January 26, 2013

I spent nearly 40 years @ Life of Georgia, and I always engaging John's advice. The paper obit is correct--he was a man of great wit along a gigantic sense of humor! He had a great wisdom beyond his years, yet he could make anyone feel comfortable--He will be missed--another old Life of Georgia friend is gone. Too many,too many!

john addison

January 26, 2013

John was a great friend and a wonderful person...my deepest sympathies.

Eleanor Seigler

January 26, 2013

I think we would have been friends.

The world is a little bit better having had someone like him in it.

All my love,

January 26, 2013

With deepest sympathy to the Helms family during your time of grief...God is for you a refuge and strength, A help that is there to be found during difficult times...May God provide you with peace and comfort to endure the days ahead.

DF

January 26, 2013

Please accept my sincere sympathy in the loss of your dear loved one. Hopefully, knowing that others care will bring you a measure of comfort.

January 26, 2013

To the family I offer my deepest condolences. Please rely on Gods strength and let him be your refuge to get you through this difficult time.(John 5:28)

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