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Margaret Thrower Obituary


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THROWER, Margaret MARGARET MUNROE THROWER Margaret Munroe Thrower, of Atlanta, 93, died peacefully on February 17 from complications following a fall on Jan. 16. Her husband, Randolph W. Thrower, was at her side. Margaret Logan Munroe was born on September 15, 1915 in Quincy, Fla., the third of eight children of Mark Welch (Pat) Munroe and Mary Gray Munroe. Her father, the President of the Quincy State Bank, referred to her as "The Gold Child," and she was always noted for her beauty, bright spirit, and generosity. She received her B.A. degree in 1935 from Wesleyan College in Macon, Ga., where she majored in biology and was president of the senior class. Her loyalty to Wesleyan continued throughout her life with frequent visits and enthusiastic support. She married Randolph William Thrower in Quincy on February 2, 1939, and their inspirational and continuing romance was celebrated on their recent 70th wedding anniversary. Together they raised five children, and Margaret played an active role in their activities, including service as co-president with Randolph of the E. Rivers PTA. Margaret was a partner with Randolph in his many ventures, whether keeping house in a Marine Quonset hut, throwing the Christmas party for Sutherland, Asbill & Brennan at home each year for decades, or enthusiastically embracing life in Washington during Randolph's service as Commissioner of the Internal Revenue Service, 1969-71. Together with family and friends, she loved adventurous travel. With her husband, children and grandchildren, she climbed Ben Nevis (Great Britain's highest peak) when in her 80s, and visited Cuba when almost 90. Although she traveled many continents, her boldest venture was a six-week cross-country road trip with her husband and five children in a station wagon and camping trailer in the summer of 1962. Margaret loved Sunnyside Farm in Gadsden County, Fla., property inherited from her mother and a happy gathering place for her extended family over the last three decades. When the frontier Florida farmhouse, dating from the mid-1800s, was struck by lightning and burned to the ground in April, 2007, Margaret's immediate response was to build again. The new house was completed in time for Thanksgiving 2008, when Margaret hosted her immediate family -- 29 people. She was also a lifelong gardener and a founding member and trustee of the Atlanta Botanical Garden. Other volunteer commitments included the Tullie Smith House at the Atlanta History Center, and the Board of Directors of Skyland Trail, George West Mental Health Foundation. She maintained numerous lifelong correspondences and was a loving friend to many. Her cultivation of friends of many ages, her joyous enthusiasm, and her graceful sense of humor kept her young in spirit, and she enjoyed life through her final days. Margaret was also an artist. Her family celebrated her 90th birthday with the publication of a catalog entitled "Paintings from the Heart." She painted what she loved, and her work included landscapes of her farm and travels, still lifes from her kitchen and garden, and portraits of family members. Margaret is survived by her husband Randolph, 95, and her five children: Margaret Thrower MacCary of New York, Patricia Thrower Barmeyer of Atlanta, Laura Thrower Harris (David) of New York, Randolph William Thrower, Jr. (Carolyn) of Atlanta, and Mary Thrower Wickham (George) of Richmond, Virginia. She and Randolph have 11 grandchildren -- William Thomas MacCary III, Margaret Chambers MacCary, Wilson Gray Barmeyer, Mary Logan Barmeyer, Taylor Randolph Harris, Patricia Munroe Harris, Benjamin Key Thrower, Randolph William Thrower III, Albert Crenshaw Thrower, Henry Clayton Wickham, and William Randolph Wickham -- and six great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her sister Julia Munroe Woodward, 94, of Quincy, and scores of devoted nieces and nephews. The family will receive friends at Patterson's Spring Hill on Saturday, February 21 from 3 to 5 p.m. The celebration of her life will be held on Sunday, February 22 at 2 p.m. at Northside United Methodist Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Wesleyan College, Office of Institutional Development, 4760 Forsyth Rd., Macon, GA 31210 (tel. 478-757-5187), or to the charity of your choice.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution from Feb. 19 to Feb. 22, 2009.

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Chris Carnes

February 28, 2009

I am so sorry I could not be there for my aunt Margaret's service. I have so many fond memories of her, but my favorite is the time my brother Mike and I visited her. We had the expected experiences like climbing Stone Mountain and visiting the Cyclorama, but it was the way she turned the ordinary into the extraordinary that made the trip so memorable. When we went swimming at the Piedmont Driving Club pool, she noticed our fascination with the big diving board, so she hired a lifeguard to give us diving lessons. That's when I learned to do a jack-knife. She took us to the Theatre Under the Stars, and because she was an angel, we went backstage for autographs afterwards. This began a lifelong love of the theatre for me, which I share with my grandaughter whenever possible. Returning from the public library where we checked out books to read, we noticed a creek that was close to overflowing. She suggested we call the newspaper to report it, and helped us carry this through. She just had a way of turning everything into an adventure!
Margaret always made me feel special when I was around her, but SHE was the one who was special.

Julia and John Gluck

February 27, 2009

It was with the greatest of sorrow that we learned of the death of our dearest Aunt Margaret. We were in Mexico, and sadly unable to attend her service. In so many ways, she was an extension of our mother, her late and beloved sister, Mary Gray. She always made us, her nieces and nephews, feel as if we were the most special one. She spread her thoughtfulness and sweetness far and wide. We will miss her welcoming voice and radiant smile. I will always think of Aunt Margaret and Uncle Randolph as a "movie star" couple.

Leah Sears

February 23, 2009

With the passing of Margaret Thrower, the world has lost someone very special. She was such a warm and charming lady. Randolph, you and your family are much in my thoughts these days.

Frank Thrower

February 23, 2009

With sadness, heard of your loss but know Margaret exemplified "a life well-led and so giving to others" - a lady with class!

(I was born in Quincy, too - my father's grandfather, "Ozzie" Thrower, and Randolph's father, Benjamin, were brothers (if I have my genealogy right).

My father was Gadsden County's Judge at time of his death in 1954.)

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Leewood Woodell

February 22, 2009

Margaret Thrower was a gracious, generous Southern lady with a definite flair. She loved life and adventure. She was my great aunt and a special friend to both of my parents. We will all miss her.

Leewood Bates Woodell

David Martin

February 21, 2009

I am saddened to hear of the passing of Margaret. A more elegant and lovely person I cannot imagine, and I feel privileged to have known her.

Elizabeth Cook

February 20, 2009

We will certainly miss Aunt Margaret..her wonderful smile, her joy of life, her love of family, her giving spirit. I, as one of her nieces, was so blessed to have her be an important part of my life. Elizabeth & Bob

James Morton

February 20, 2009

My deepest sympathy to the Thrower
family. My parents spoke often over the years of their friendship with Margaret and Randolph Thrower. I'm sure they would have wished me to express for them the Morton Family's
sorrow for your loss.

Robert, Halle, Alexander & Olivia Walker

February 20, 2009

This is truly a saddening loss for all who loved her, but her life is such a wonderful one to celebrate. We will all miss Aunt Margaret's joy for life, and the elegance and class with which she lived it. Her presence and spirit will always be in our hearts and minds.

Bradley Boyd

February 20, 2009

My heart felt sympathy to the Thrower family on the loss of a dear and treasured mother and grandmother. We in Atlanta have also lost a gifted and wonderful soul that can truly be counted among the true first ladies of the city.

Martha Hixon

February 20, 2009

My sympathy to Mr. Thrower and his family in the loss of a life so fully lived.

Martha (Mrs. Graham) Hixon, Woodward Academy

Munroe, Becky, Mary and Elizabeth Cobey

February 20, 2009

What a wonderful life. We all will miss Aunt Margaret. She has left a legacy of family, graciousness, generosity and kindness. The fond memory of her will always be with us.

Howard Hunter

February 20, 2009

The sad news has made its way around the world to Singapore where we mourn the passing of a dear and wonderful person. It was a rare privilege to have known her and to have had the pleasure to share time together. Our thoughts are with Randolph and all the members of the Thrower family.
Woody and Susan Hunter

Susan Walker

February 19, 2009

When I was a child, nothing could top a visit with Aunt Margaret, except possibly a visit with Aunt Mary Gray. Our aunts were very special for all of us! Aunt Margaret had so many ideas and interesting things planned to see and do. As one of her innumerable nieces and nephews who lived in Atlanta at some point in our lives, it was fun to be caught up in Aunt Margaret's orbit. We never felt far from our parents' homes, because the Thrower home was our home, too. It was wonderful to share our love of Wesleyan through the years. We had great conversations about Wesleyan, or should I say, I listened to her many ideas for Wesleyan, even in my last visit with her in the hospital! I will miss her, but I am so thankful for the wonderful memories.

Mary Laslie Grodner

February 19, 2009

My sincere condolences to all of the family. She will be sorely missed!

Kate Munroe Daly

February 19, 2009

Aunt Margaret has always been a remarkable role model and sweetheart, too. I am grateful for the relationship, but very sad to see it end.

Julia Suters

February 19, 2009

I will miss seeing Mrs.Thrower at the grocery store and her cheery face. I will cheerish the memories of swimming in her pool with my sister,Marianne and Mary. She was a dear person.

Betty Lankford

February 19, 2009

Mrs. Thrower was a delightful person and an inspiration to me. I enjoyed getting to know her through Mr. Thrower and Sutherland.

powell & wanda gaines

February 19, 2009

Even though we knew Mrs. Thrower a short time her special traits brought out in her obituary were evident. She had a kind and caring spirit with a twinkle in her eye. She was a charming lady, and we looked forward to every occasion we could be with her. I know she has left you with delightful memories that are priceless.

Wilson Barmeyer

February 19, 2009

We mourn the passing and celebrate the life of a wonderful mother, grandmother, relative, and friend. Please take a moment to sign this online guestbook, and our family will be checking it.

Patricia, Wilson, and Sarah Barmeyer

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