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Richard Bethea Obituary

BETHEA, Richard King

Richard King Bethea, aged 71, died on November 11, 2020, Veteran's Day, at his home in Menlo, GA. Richard was a fifth generation Atlantan and the son of Charles Gray Bethea, Sr. and Caroline Yundt Bethea, deceased. Richard was born in Atlanta on September 19, 1949, grew up in Ansley Park where he was ranked first in Georgia in tennis in his age group, attended The Lovett Schools and Northside High School. At age 17, Richard enlisted in the US Marine Corps and served in Vietnam with an artillery battery on an unnamed hilltop. As the lowest ranking Marine in the battery, Richard's job was to remove dead Vietcong bodies from the concertina wire surrounding the hilltop, and then dispose of the bodies. This is an experience that always haunted Richard. Following return from service where he was honorably discharged, Richard worked in construction in California and then Georgia, where he often told tales of his fast life on "The Left Coast." Richard enjoyed watching old movies without commercial interruption on TCM and often commented to those of us who had the opportunity to visit him in Menlo, 'I have had a wonderful life.' Richard frequently quoted Shakespeare, Poe, Keats and Nietzsche, among others. Following retirement, he built a home in Menlo, overlooking a beautiful valley, where he lived until he died. Richard was predeceased by his brother Carter M. Bethea, and is survived by his brother C. Gray Bethea, Jr. (Mary); his sister Caroline Bethea Brown; nephews Charles Bethea, Robert Bethea (Meredith) and Gray Campbell (Jan); his aunt Fritzi Yundt Herring; and his longtime friend, Jack N. Sibley. At Richard's request there will be no memorial service. Interested parties are encouraged to donate, in his memory, to the Military Benefit Foundation. https://milbenfoundation.org

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution from Nov. 14 to Nov. 16, 2020.

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Maurizio Candotti Russo

June 4, 2021

I share the pain of Bethea family for the lost of Richard.
Sincerely, Maurizio

Mary Helen Akers Abbott

November 20, 2020

I had often thought about what happened to Richard in my adult life. We met back when. I was making my debut in 1969. Richard and I had a date where we ended up talking half way thru the night about so many things. He was such a nice guy. I knew he had gone to Vietnam and could tell from our brief friendship it had really impacted his life. I had always hoped he was happy somewhere. Now I know he is at peace and happy in Heaven. My love to the all the Betheas in their loss.

Ron Baxley

November 16, 2020

I'm really sad that Richard is no longer with us. We were friends for almost 60 years. He will be greatly missed by his family and all of his friends.

November 16, 2020

Offering my deepest sympathy in behalf of the King family. May the peace of God comfort you during this difficult time.

Edgar Johnson

November 15, 2020

Take care old friend. Sorry we lost touch.

Cole Harrison

November 14, 2020

Richard and I rode to Northside High in car group together. Richard impressed me at that time as having life totally figured out. He always seemed at ease with any situation. Driving his stick shift, to save gas, he would shift from first to forth. Having been in the service and struggled with some experiences as well, I greatly appreciate the call to donate to the military fund. Richard was a lovely guy!

Harry Benedict

November 14, 2020

Tough, sad to hear with warm regards & memories to all his family & friends....Harry

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