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Tyler Durden Obituary
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DURDEN, Tyler Tyler Drew Durden, born November 1, 1989, died Friday, December 5, 2008. Cherished son of Kathi M. Durden (Woodstock) and Benny C. Durden (Grayson). Tyler was a 2008 graduate of Grayson High School and a student at Georgia Gwinnett College. Son, brother, uncle, hockey player, wrestler, superhero. In addition to his parents he is survived by loving step-mother Cindy Reeves Durden, brother Branden Durden, sisters and families, Jennifer and Jeff Worster, James; Natalie and Mike Ryan, Jack, Liam and Colin; step-brothers Jason and Nick Reeves. Beloved grandson of Buddy and Sara Durden and Bob and Chris Morris. Great-grandson of Mildred Morris. Tyler leaves behind a vast multitude of friends, aunts, uncles and cousins. He will be terribly missed by his faithful and giant dog, Thomas. We are all better people because of Tyler. Our love is too big for words and our loss is fathoms deep. A Celebration of Tyler's life will be held at 1:00PM on Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at the Presbyterian Church of the Redeemer, in Centerville. Rev. John Byerly will officiate. The family will receive friends Monday December 8, 2008 from 5:30PM - 8:30PM at Tom M. Wages Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, those desiring may make a contribution to the Gwinnett Humane Society. Condolences may be sent or viewed at www.wagesfuneralhome.com Tom M. Wages Funeral Service, LLC, Snellville Chapel 770-979-3200
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Memories and Condolences
for Tyler Durden
June 8, 2009
Hey Ty. I made brownies tonight with lots of chewy edges. Went to a brunch yesterday with friends and talked about sleeping till noon as a teenager. Remembering how you and Bran would come wake us up in the mornings whispering that it was time to get up, your little faces and big blue eyes even with ours as you stood next to our beds and we desperately tried to convince you we needed just five more minutes. No such luck :) This is the worst thing to have to learn to live with and you know the levels of where we've already been. I love you and I miss you.
Barbara Garrett
April 16, 2009
The Durden family, It's been 4 months since we lost Ty. I think about him and my Brandon every day. I just want you to know that he will forever be in our thoughts and prayers. We will always remember all the wonderful times we had with Tyler in our lives. Please know that we will always be here for you guys. Love Ya, The Garrett's
February 3, 2009
Hey Ty. James got a ton of Legos for his birthday, one of the sets has a four wheeler in it. He said, "Look at the lawn mower." It made me think about the time that you decided to take him out on the riding mower all over the yard. You were headed out the door with your coat on and him wrapped in a sweater of yours, both of you still in your PJs. I told you he needed something on his feet. Without turning around or saying anything you pulled his socks out of your pocket and waved them in the air. He loved being on the lawn mower with you. He loved being anywhere with you. I love you and miss you so much I can't breathe. How is this even possible? Ferf
Katherine Laggos
December 30, 2008
Jennifer and family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences at this time.
Your Legacy coworker,
Jason Farber
December 19, 2008
Jennifer and family,
My deepest condolences to you and your family at this time.
K
December 13, 2008
Kathi,
When I heard the news about Tyler I was just devastated and speechless. While I never had the opportunity to met him, he must have been a wonderful, caring person based on the posts in this guest book. Take comfort in that. It is a testament to you, Benny and your whole family. He obviously touched many, many hearts. Please know that I will be thinking about you and your family in this difficult time.
December 12, 2008
Life will never be the same without Tyler
Grammy and Papa
Maria Lee Semelsberger
December 12, 2008
Benny, Kathi, and Branden,
Our hearts are sadden by the loss of your precious son. Know that you're in our thoughts and continued prayers. Our memories of Tyler are filled with smiles...that little blonde boy zipping through the halls of GAC, racing through the doors for recess, and proving that size didn't matter.
Maria Lee, Taylor, and Hayden Semelsberger
Jan Snell Houston
December 12, 2008
I met Tyler years ago, in baseball at SGAA, I was his team mom, and he was a little fighter, a real go-getter!!! He gave it his all and he was something!! I can not even begin to tell you all how truly sorry I was the hear of Tyler's passing - my heart breaks for you all. I will keep you all in my prayers - hoping that your happy memories will help you heal. Love, "Miss" Jan & Harris
Kathi Durden
December 11, 2008
Thank each and everyone of you for your prayers. They are deeply felt by myself, Benny, Branden, Cindy, Jennifer, Natalie, Jason and Nick. This is very difficult for all of us but with the love and support from all of you, we take comfort. We love you Tyler!!
Grandparents Bob & Chris Morris
December 10, 2008
Many thanks to all of you that have shared your memories of Tyler here. Your condolences and prayers have meant a lot to Kathi, Benny, Branden and our extended family.
Barbara Garrett
December 10, 2008
Tyler, God sent you to our family when we lost a son.You helped Kiley throught alot in her life and we feel so blessed to have had you in our lives. I'll never forget the vacations we had you with us.You have the biggest heart of anyone I know. Please be there for your family they will need you. We love you and will dearly miss you. Please say hello to our Brandon. Our thiughts and prayers are with you all. Love, The Garrett's
Lorraine Klingman
December 9, 2008
Kathy, Benny, and Branden, we are so sorry for your loss of Tyler. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
David, Lorraine, and Brian Klingman
Pam Miller
December 9, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time.
Tonya and Todd Chalfant
December 9, 2008
It has been such a gift to get to know Tyler. He is such a generous and lovable person. He is loved and will be missed by so many. Our love, thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends at this time.
Jasona and Doug Brown
December 9, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We wish we could be with you all today. With much love and sorrow,
Doug and Jasona
Stephanie Grandy
December 9, 2008
Our deepest sympathies on the passing of Tyler, or Tywer as our son Jack would say. We know that this is a tremendous loss for everyone who was touched by this wonderful young man. Though we only met him a few times while he was visiting Jen, Jeff and James, his smile and energy was infectious. Please know you are surrounded by friends and family sending prayers your way.
Anne McPheeters
December 9, 2008
Tyler will be missed by so many. He helped my daughter through some pretty rough days and was a friend to so many. God can and will give you the strength to get through this. Lean on Him. We will continue to pray for your family.
Martha Carville
December 8, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this very difficult time.Tyler was loved by so many people.
Martha Carville,Abby Grulke
Martha Carville
December 8, 2008
Martha Carville (Abbys Mom)
Jeanne Jones
December 8, 2008
I'll never forget the little boy in the Robin costume or the young man that I was able to spend some a little time with in the recent past. It was a delight to see Tyler's big heart, great sense of humor, loyalty to friends, and willingness to work hard and help out. Tyler truly grew into his cape and brought honor to it. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know your entire family is in my prayers.
Phil & Lisa Gauthier
December 8, 2008
Our family wishes to convey our deepest sympathies to all of you. You are in our prayers.
Mike and Judy Weldon
December 8, 2008
Our most vivid memory of Tyler is opening our back door to this little, tow-headed boy, dressed in boots, shorts, and a cape, even in the depths of winter. We moved away before Tyler and our son, Michael, grew up, but the memories remain. Benny, Kathi, and Branden please accept this as a small token of our deepest sympathy and sorrow for you all. Your entire family was the "heart" of Wilshire.
December 8, 2008
Our sincere condolences to you & your family.
The Miller Family
(Grayson Hockey)
Grayson High School Hockey
December 8, 2008
We offer you our heartfelt sympathy during this difficult time. The loss of such a bright spirit is a hard one to comprehend. Our memories of Tyler in Grayson green and gold will last a lifetime. A true player at heart, he will be missed.
Eddie Lou & Mary L Brightwell
December 8, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers to you, your family and all of Tyler's friends
Marion Haggart
December 8, 2008
My heart breaks for your loss. May the love of your family and friends sustain you in the days ahead. You are all in our prayers.
Much love to you all.
grayson mom
December 8, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Leigh Ryan
December 8, 2008
We were so saddened to hear about Tyler. Please know that we will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers...
Kevin & Leigh Ryan
Bill Knowles
December 8, 2008
Hi Kathi,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Tyler and the rest of your family.
- Knowles
Tom & Marian Multer
December 8, 2008
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to you. May God wrap your son in his arms and comfort him as he will provide comfort to you in this time of sorrow.
cheryl barker
December 8, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss, Tyler was a friend of our daughter Paige. You have been in our thoughts and prayers and will continue to be.
Our deepest sympathy,
Steve and Cheryl Barker
Michael Weldon
December 8, 2008
Dear Durden Family,
My heart and prayers go out to you and all affected by this loss. I remember vividly growing up in Grayson with Brandon and Tyler on Wilshire Ct. For a neighborhood lacking many young boys the three of us spent a great deal of time together in our youth. My sincerest condolences.
-Michael Weldon
A Grayson Parent
December 8, 2008
Your loss is beyond what many of us can even begin to imagine. May God carry you through this time and when you are ready, stand you back upon your feet. Your son was loved by many people because he had a huge heart and made every friend feel as if they were the most important person. He will be missed and remembered by many. May God's Grace give you strength.
Joanna & Guerry Moore
December 8, 2008
May his memory be eternal. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Debbie Walters
December 8, 2008
I can not imagine the pain you must feel. Tyler was a good friend to my boys Jake and John and will be missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this tragic time.
The Walters family
Paul and Debbie
TAMMY YARBOUGH
December 8, 2008
HEY KATHY I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I CAN'T IMAGINE WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH. I MET YOU YEARS AGO I HAVE 2 BOYS MYSELF BLAKE AND MAX. YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS.
TAMMY YARBROUGH
The Wilson Family
December 8, 2008
Our deepest condolences to the entire Durden/Reeves family. Realizing there are no words that are great enough to comfort you during this time, our prayers are that God send comfort your way and carry you through this devastating time. Our hearts go out to you.
Jim and Sandy Chatham
December 8, 2008
You were like a son to us and my sons best friend. You will forever be remembered as the man that could and would.Your vibrant spirit will always be with us.You've been a friend till the end,and one hell of a good guy. Thanks for the laughs and the tears.We miss you so much.
God bless his family and friends.
Much Love,
Sandy and Jim Chatham
Deborah Carver
December 8, 2008
Thinking of Tyler always brings a smile. One day at McConnell, he snuck away from his class just to come to my classroom, sit down and say "hello". I was more worried about getting in trouble than he was!! You couldn't help but laugh.
I can still see him on the hockey court.....
Our hearts hurt with you.
With love,
Rick, Deborah, Patrick, Phillip, and Paige Carver
Cathy McCarter
December 8, 2008
Benny, Kathi, and Branden: Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you attempt to survive this horrible loss. Tyler always held a special place in all the McCarters' hearts. God bless you today and always. We love you: Jim, Cathy, Matt, and Nate.
Donna Ray
December 8, 2008
kathi, Benny and families. My heart aches for you and you know that I know what you are going through. No words can comfort you now but know that you are all in my prayers.
Cory O'Brien
December 8, 2008
Our condolences are with your family during this tragic time. God Bless.
Courtney and Cory O'Brien
Emily Lawrence-Parsons
December 8, 2008
Our deepest sympathies and prayers are with the entire Durden family. The family's time at GACS is cherished by many of us who were there during that time. Your GACS family mourns with you.
Lori Blanton
December 8, 2008
words can't express how sad for your loss of your beloved son I feel.my family has you in their thoughts and prayers. I will always remember him in his "robin costume" and cowboy boots.He will always have a special place in my heart.
Courtney O'Brien
December 8, 2008
I taught Tyler last year for economics and absolutely loved having him in my class. He was always so happy and so energetic. He always made my day a lot more interesting. I will miss him terribly. May God be with his friends and family during this time.
Kelly McNicholas Spenard
December 8, 2008
To the entire family, my heartfelt sympathies.My prayers are with you.
Buzzy Bramble
December 8, 2008
Kathy
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
You are and still are a great Mom. I know how much this must hurt. You are in my prayers.
With deepest sympathy
Buzzy
Ginny Davy (formerly Long)
December 8, 2008
Kathy,
I remember Tyler from the GAC elementary school days when the kids would sing Happy Birthday to him and my Tyler (Class of 2007)who shared the same birthday. And I remember working during the Magazine Sale with you. My heart goes out to you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
The Maddix Family
December 8, 2008
Our sincerest condolences to Branden, Bennie, Kathi and the entire Durden family. Our hearts breaks for your loss. May your faith in God and the encouragement of family and friends support you during this time. You all are in our prayers.
Dana & Eric Farinha
December 8, 2008
There is a new star shining in the night sky tonight and forever. That star is named Tyler. You are in our hearts and prayers.
Love, Dana and Eric
Julie & Bobby Campbell
December 8, 2008
Kathi, Benny and Branden:
Our hearts are aching for yours. You are in our prayers - We pray that you will feel God's presence during this difficult time.
Parks, Lisa & Emily Medlock
December 8, 2008
Our hearts and prayers go out to your family as we share in your loss. We will continue to lift you up in prayer and trust that the Lord will carry you and comfort you in the coming weeks and months.
Sherry Hamill
December 8, 2008
With Deepest Sympathies,
Chrissy Reed
December 8, 2008
I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you through this difficult time.
Trevor Baum
December 8, 2008
Tyler was an amazing friend. I cant belive he is gone. I will miss him forever, and he will always be in my heart. Each time I drive passed the site of the accident I see tylers face. Your in a better place now buddy. I will see you again someday
-Trevor
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