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Wayne Flory Obituary

Family-Placed Death Notice

WAYNE R. FLORY Wayne R. Flory, 77, of Dahlonega, formerly of Fairwood Lane in Atlanta, passed away November 24, 2004. A graduate of Naperville High School and North Central College in Naperville, IL. He was a WWII Army veteran and was married to Helen Koltz in 1949. He worked for Equifax for 40 years, retiring as Sr. Vice President of Corporate Planning. An accomplished pianist and musician, he was also an avid traveler and shared many travels with Helen throughout the U.S. and Canada in their RV. In 2002, they retired to a log cabin in the woods in Dahlonega. Surviving are his wife, Helen Flory, children, Randy (Patricia) Flory, David (Betsy) Flory, Chris (Julie) Flory, Peter (Lucie) Flory, Matt (Charlotte) Flory, Patty (John) Bliss, Dianne Narten, Susan (Ralph) Chambers, Cathy Flory and Cindy (Chip) Urquhart; 22 grandchildren; 4 great-grandchildren; brothers, Dale Flory and Don Flory; and sister, Carol Simmons. Funeral Services will be Monday, November 29, 2004 at 11:00 AM in the McLane Chapel with Reverend Don Flory officiating. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the charity of your choice. The family will receive friends Sunday afternoon from 2 to 5 PM at Lowndes & McLane Funeral Home, Tucker (770)491-3021.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Nov. 27, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
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138 Entries

Matthew Flory

November 24, 2024

It was 20 years ago today....

....I was working a half day on Thanksgiving eve remodeling a house in midtown when I received a phone call from Patty that would change my life forever.

It was 20 years ago today and I remember every detail of that day like it was yesterday. The pain of that day has subsided, but the memory of that day sure hasn't. And my love for you definitely hasn't.

David

November 21, 2024

So wow, Dad. Just like that, 20 years have passed since we got the dreaded call from Mom, just as we were getting ready to come up for Thanksgiving. It is still so clear in my memory. But, as is ever true, life goes on. And Thanksgiving will always be a reminder to treasure having grown up with you and Momas our parents. And as you, more than most anyone, would appreciate, your efforts to chronicle our upbringing are always available for me to access on my phone, through the ever evolving technology available to us. What a fabulous life you gave us, and our home movies are our proof. Thank you, and hug Mom for me.

David

November 27, 2023

I am so glad to have all of our videos with you so I will always be able to remember having you around. The older I get the more I appreciate how much you and Mom did to give us a happy, albeit sometimes eventful, upbringing. Rosalyn Carter, who was 6 months younger than you,, just passed away last week, and I so wish you had lasted as long as she did. She was a great woman who also put her family first as you and Mom did. What your generation did was truly admirable, and is all but nonexistant in today's world. Bit I will always strive to live by the example I was shown by my parents

So another Thanksgiving, another year without out you, but even still you will always be remembered and loved.

Dianne

November 24, 2022

Happy Thanksgiving, Dad...(and Mom). Only one thing come to mind when my heart soars with joy when I think of you. You are (were) a knucklehead plain and simple. And that makes my heart smile. I love you!

David Flory

November 24, 2022

Now 18 years have passed, and still I miss you every day. Watching your video and remembering. But still, I appreciate having you as my father, and strive to follow you as my role model. Happy Thanksgiving to you and mom.

David

November 22, 2021

So here we are, 17 years hence, and we are without you for another Thanksgiving. Boy oh boy, your family is really not the same as when you departed us. Even more so since Mom passed 8 years ago. I miss you both every day. And now I have a special favor to ask. Cathy just passed close to Thanksgiving just as you and Mom did, and I offer a special prayer as I sit and write here eulogy for her service on Sunday. Please give her a hug for me, and help comfort her in a way she has needed for so long these past few years. Slowly but surely we are all making our way to join up with you again at our respective conclusions of our time her on earth. God bless our family.

David Flory

February 16, 2018

As now another Valentines Day and your 91st birthday has come and gone, I am reminded about how much I miss having you around. And also, how much you are missed by your grandchildren. Your mark on my life is profound and very personal, but knowing that it was just as important to the generation we will leave behind serves to reinforce the life you led and the examples you set. I still miss you and Mom and think about you often,

Until we meet again.

Trey Bliss

February 14, 2018

Happy Birthday Grandpa! While it's a Valentine's Day I also think of you and how important you were for me as an influence early on. I recently got some home movies back from the first day out of the hospital for me with you and grandma and it makes me happy. I was very lucky will always remember that, I think part of the luck comes from your hard work and the path and example you set.

I wish you were to talk, have a drink and smoke, and debate and sometimes agree to disagree on things. I can't believe it's been this long since you've been gone, and now 12 years that I've been living at Fairwood where the Atlanta Flory clan started.

I miss you and Grandma and just wanted to say there isn't a day here in the house I don't think about you and celebrate you. We will chat again soon, love you. Trey

David

February 15, 2017

Happy Birthday Dad. I would have loved to have had you still on your 90th birthday, but I still take solace in the memory of you, and the model you were for my life. May your eternity with Mom be everything you want it to be, and may your legacy live on here for generations to come.

Trey Bliss

February 14, 2017

Happy 90th Grandpa.
If you were here it would be a huge celebration, the biggest since the 50th wedding anniversary party.

Instead of a celebration it's a day to remember and reflect how cool you were and how you influenced me. My goal is to one day collect and have as many quotes and anctedotes in my head as you, I'll need another 30 years to get there but I hope I do.

My goal is to be a good husband, dad, and grandad.

My goal is to listen and be fair but firm.

My goal is to be a lot like you.

You are missed, kiss grandma and celebrate your birthday and a Cubs World Series win.

Trey Bliss

January 10, 2016

It's been nearly two years since my last post and entry but there isn't a day I walk through this house without thinking of you and Grandma. I consider it a blessing and it's strange to think I've been living at Fairwood for a decade now, and you have been gone from our lives even longer.

I'm 40 now and the house at Fairwood looks pretty much looks the same when you lived here except for the basement which has been remodeled thanks to a pipe bursting in the ceiling. When the crew tore up the carpet, it was all asbestos in the sub flooring so we used the insurance claim to 'modernize' the basement bar area. It's good though, just know that my girlfriend Caylie has a classic style so it is updated with even a sink now and three prong outlets everywhere but has a 'classic' feel to the room and will continue as we decorate in the months to come.

You would be happy to know the Cubs might actually win the world series in 2016, they have a great team and I thought they would this past year. When they do, I will take the Cubs pennant that has been a fixture at Fairwood for so many years and place that on your grave to celebrate the win with you.

I still refer the kitchen as 'the new kitchen' even though its probably been 25 years since you did the remodel. My goal is before it's 30 years old is to have a 'new new' kitchen. Caylie would like it to look more like the 50s/60s so we will go with some retro looking appliances and have a look that is closer to how it might have been when you and Grandma bought the house.

I miss you but feel close and connected and would love to chat about the markets, baseball, and family.

P.S. I would love to talk to you today about the state of the Republican party :)

Trey Bliss

February 28, 2014

I said goodbye to Grandma tonight and wanted to look at your page since I really haven't been here since I signed yours so many years ago. I was a little choked up reading the messages from Grandma to you. You were a lucky man in so many ways, but to have somebody so committed to you is something that is so rare is it special. You both are missed, but will be happy to know that there is music almost every night at Fairwood and I have a piano in the room and sit and play and think of you. When Suzanne sits on the bench with me, I think of myself at her age sitting next to you playing. There is so much we could have talked about since you've been gone, and I'm still waiting for the Cubs to win a world series. Fairwood will light up when that happens. I love and miss you Grandpa.

Randy Flory

December 22, 2013

While the family Christmas gathering is now forever changed, it is more the same than ever. It is still a joyful noisy gathering with yet another new Flory joining the celebration. Jason's son Preston took part and fit right in. And while you and mom are missed, I feel that you are now looking down together on the amazing family you started and are still with us. I still miss you and think of you daily, but I take comfort in knowing that you and mom are now together for ever.
I love you both very much.

David Flory

February 17, 2013

I have never been a big fan of Valentines day, but I will always be a big fan of the day you were born. We went to Susan's yesterday to visit and help her out with some things around the house, and just as you always looked out for her while you were here, I still get the sense that she is still under your watchful eye. While we were there, Ralph was going through some of his extensive jazz music collection, and I had an even greater sense of your presence there. You are, sadly , gone, but thankfully never forgotten.

Helen

February 15, 2013

Another birthday greeting Wayne. I can't imagine what you might be like at age 86. We all still think of you each year and I also recieved a birthday rememberance from Judy who is also celeabrating Pat's birthday on the same day. You are always remembered with smiles and good thoughts. We miss you. Love, Helen

Dianne Narten

February 15, 2013

Happy (belated) birthday, Dad! Whoa - 86 years old. But you still look GREAT in all of the photos we have! You haven't aged a bit since November, 2004! Oh...and just so you'll know, I moved in with Mom in November and kind of hijacked your downstairs den and turned it into my apartment. So now your Eagles, Lincoln, Cubs and Bears paraphernalia is shared with my Beatles' stuff. But they all appear to be getting along nicely. You're still smoking your pipe in a picture by my desk, which serves to reminds me that this space is only 'on loan!'
Anyway, happy birthday! Love you!
Dianne

David

June 21, 2012

Another Fathers Day has passed, and for me, it is a day to give thanks for the role model you were as a father. And as I look at my own son Zack, who is now a father, I believe that your legacy lives on with him also. You lived a great example of being a father.

February 15, 2012

For me, even after eight years, the first focus of every Holiday, every Fathers Day and especially every February 14th is centered on thoughts of you, both with you and without you.
Randy

David

February 15, 2012

February 14th will always be more noted as your birthday than as Valentines Day, in my mind. Sorry Suzi. We do, indeed wonder at the "what if" of how you would be at 85. So glad to have Mom still with us as your wife in our lives.

February 14, 2012

Happy 85th Valentine Birthday Wayne. I can't imagine what you might look like or be like since I still remember you as a youthful 77 years old. We all still have many happy reminiscences of the things you said and did. Happy Valentine Birthday. Love, Helen

February 14, 2012

Happy Birthday DAD! You keep me in admoration of your greatness and impact in my life. Love you always and forever! Never forgotten. Miss you. XXXOOO

David Flory

November 25, 2011

So another Thanksgiving has come and gone, marking 7 years since you passed. And as I watch the family gather, I can't help but think that you really left behind a big group of chuckle heads.

November 24, 2011

On the seventh anniversary of the day you left us, this Thanksgiving was a joyous Flory Family celebration of all that for which we are thankful tempered by the still too fresh heartache from your absence.
Thinking of you always,
Love,
Randy

Matthew

November 24, 2011

Seven Years have passed by since you have passed on, and you are still missed as much now as you were then. Thanksgiving is still an emotional time for me, as it brings up the memory of that fateful day when you departed us. But the memories of you will always be with me, and those memories will always be joyous. Happy Thanksgiving. I Love You.

June 20, 2011

Happy Fathers Day, Dad. Though life goes on, I still try to live my life using the lessons you taught me, and I hope that I am ddoing the same for my kids. I still always see you as a role model.

David

June 19, 2011

Happy Fathers Day, Dad. Although I've been a father for almost thirtyfive years now, for me this day is and always has been about you.
Love you and miss you.
Randy

February 14, 2011

Another Happy Birthday,Wayne. You are still the 77year old man that I remember and I can't imagine you at 84. I still like to sing "MY Funny Valentine" as I remember your birthday. And everyone still remembers your special day. I even got cards from Judy and Carol McLaughlin who remembered it was your birthday. We all miss you my funny valentine. Love, Helen

February 14, 2011

Happy Birthday, Dad. Even after 6 years I think of you every day. Mom recently forwarded me a video called "The Real Boogie Man" about the music of Tommy Johnson. His piano playing reminded me very much of you, of how much I enjoyed watching and listening to you all of my life and how much your music influenced me.
I also miss the opportunity to tap into your wisdom and counsel as I approach my Golden Years! Say hi to Chris.
Love,
Randy

Dianne Narten

January 4, 2011

Hi, Dad. You may already know, but we lost another one of us. Chris passed away on December 10th. It seemed very sudden and happened so quickly, we barely had time to blink. Our hearts now look to God (and to you) to look after him and care for him in eternal peace. He fought a soldier's battle but couldn't win. Teach him what you now know as I'm sure he will listen. I miss him, but I feel better knowing he's with you. I love and miss you both.
Dianne

David

November 24, 2010

Well, Dad, it is a particularly significant anniversary of your death this year, as it was November 24, the day before Thanksgiving, when we got the call. Even at 6 years, there are so many times it still feels fresh, that we still miss the presence of our patriarch. I do regret that my new wife Susan never had the opportunity to meet you, and now this year, I regret that my new granddaughter Meadow Ives Flory (the youngest Flory namesake) will never know you. But with your passing I believe we all gained a new ability to appreciate family. And we are very thankful to spend as much time with Mom in your absence as we possibly can.

This Thanksgiving, I am first and foremost thankful for your presence and guidance in my life as a child, then husband, then father and now grandfather. You have been and will always be my role model as a man.

We love and miss you.

David

Dianne

November 24, 2010

Happy Thanksgiving, Dad! Six years just doesn't seem possible. Does it to you? It's amazing how you haven't aged a bit, and I'm all but falling apart - falling down and breaking bones! That's just not right. But the joy of your youthful end with us is the bright spot in my memories. I continue to laugh at you...er, I mean laugh at your old jokes and remember your silliness with a fondness that will never end - for as long as I live. I miss you - I love you - and on this Thanksgiving, I continue to be thankful that you are my dad and I had you in my life for 50 years. Nothing can ever take that away from me - not even your passing. Happy 6th Thanksgiving!

November 24, 2010

Well Wayne, here it is six years since we celebrated Thanksgiving without you, and in fact it's the same date,Nov. 24th. You're still in all of our minds and memories and we can feel your presence among us. We miss you. Helen

Helen

February 15, 2010

Another Valentine Birthday has come and gone but no one forgot your birthday. Patty and John took me out to dinner at the Oar House to celebrate and remenisce. We were wondering how you would look after five years because we only remember you as you were when you left us. We all miss you and have fond memories of your time among us. Love, Helen

Matthew Flory

November 27, 2009

Another Thanksgiving has come to pass, and although I think of you all of the time, you are especially missed at this time of year. David has done a fine job taking over the responsibility of preparing your famous Turhamkey and everyone else with making the traditional side dishes. Even with everyone milling about, your presence is felt - but also very much missed. I love you Dad. Happy Thanksgiving!

Trey Bliss

November 20, 2009

As we approach Thanksgiving, my mind, thoughts, and feelings go back to five years ago and the surprise we all felt at that time. Time has passed, but you are still very much a part of all us. As I sit in the basement here at Fairwood looking at your 'Planning is Priceless' poster, I know you are here with us still today.

If you were here today, you and I would likely be discussing the amazing times we are living through (probably politely disagreeing as usual :) and what could be done to 'fix' things. I miss those conversations and mini-debates.

Sometimes I wonder what you would think if you came back to Fairwood and saw our Obama posters and yard signs proudly on display! You would probably laugh, but also then appreciate the poster of Duke Ellington above our piano in memory of you.

Grandpa, know that you are missed but you live on in the smiles of your kids, grandkids, and great grandkids (Suzanne is one of those...lots of smiles there!)

Always thinking of you and keeping your spirit and memory close to my heart.

Trey

David Flory

June 23, 2009

Well, dad, as we hit London, our first stop on our European tour with mom, we certainly remember you for many reasons. First, it was your diligent efforts that created the financial opportunity for mom to be able to offer us this trip. Second, it was your many travels with mom, all over the world, that has enabled her to appreciate travel and allowed her to develop the case of wanderlust that prompted our trip. Thirdly, we left on Fathers day, a coincidence of fate that further reminded us of your continued presence in our life. And fourthly, in our hotel in London, Mom and Patty are in room 214, your birthday! So of course we know you are with us, and in our thoughts. You will forever remain in our thoughts.

Helen

June 21, 2009

Thinking of you on this Fathers Day and feeling kind of "left out" since I have no one to buy a card or a necktie for. But we will be celebrating your memory by going on a Grand European Train Trip to London, Paris, Switzerland and Venice Italy. David and Suzie, Dianne and Rusty and Patty and I are leaving today for a two week trip. We are all very excited and know that you will be there with us in spirit. After all of the traveling that we did, I was getting a case of wanderlust so I gave the kids the travel catalog and told them to pick a trip and I'd take them with me. So this is what they chose. Happy Fathers Day. Love, Helen

Randy Flory

June 21, 2009

Happy Fathers Day, Dad. Although as far as a designated day to remember you goes, the third Sunday in June is just a formality. You are in my thoughts always. Not a day goes by without some conversation or thought or bit of music that will have me thinking of you and still missing you so very much.
Love,
Randy

Matthew Flory

February 17, 2009

I suppose in your state of Eternity, three days isn't all that late for my birthday wish to you. Although, as mom stated, we celebrated you on Valentines Day. You are still with me in every way, continuing to make me try to be a man you could be proud of (though I sill need A LOT of work). And when I'm down, thoughts of you bring a smile (and sometimes a belly laugh).

I love you forever,
Matthew

Dianne Narten

February 17, 2009

Hey, Dad! Happy Belated Birthday from me, too. I didn't forget - I just forgot to "tell you in person." :-)
Wish you were here so I could REALLY tell you in person. I still miss you. Happy Birthday!
Love,
Dianne

Helen

February 17, 2009

Belated Happy Birthday Wayne. We all remembered your Valentine birthday and I even recieved cards from Judy and Carol McLaughlin on valentines day, in remembrance of your birthday. We had a small Valentines Day celebration here, with Chris, Julie and Brad coming in the morning and bringing lunch, and then Matt, Charlotte, Patty and John coming for dinner and a show, "Father of the Bride" at the Holly. No one is going to forget your Valentine Birthday and even though you're 82 this year, we'll always remember you as the youthful 77 that you were. You've given us all many happy memories. Love

February 16, 2009

Another February 14th has come and gone. For all of my life, the first thought I have on this day is that it's your birthday. Valentines day is always a distant second. And while I certainly though naively expected to celebrate this and many more birthdays with you not only in spirit, but in the flesh, as it were, the Master Plan is only disclosed to us one day at a time and all we can do is accept that 'To Everything There is a Season, and a Time to Every Purpose Under the Heaven'. Even so, time is healing this wound very slowly and you are in my thoughts always. Happy Birthday, Dad.
Randy

Justin Flory

January 26, 2009

Happy new year! I know it's kind of late, but things have been hectic - here and there, but I still find my time to come here. I just realized that your birthday is coming up. The Flory family can't wait, I can guarantee. Thanks for being my grandfather.

Helen

November 28, 2008

Well, Wayne, we've survived the fourth year without you but everything went off as usual. We all sent up red helium balloons with notes attached. Did you get them? It was a beautiful day and we all still held you in our thoughts. Love, Helen

Dianne Narten

November 26, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving, Dad. It's starting to feel "normal" again, even though you're not here. I guess time does heal all wounds; after four years, the hollowness and grief of your absence is starting to fade, although the memory of your smile and goofiness is still strong. The devastation of your passing has faded to a sting, and missing you is comforting to me now. I remember seeing you like it was yesterday. I'm sad sometimes that you had to go, but I know I can (and do) love you no matter how long you're gone.
Now I'll love you for the rest of MY life. I miss you.
Happy Thanksgiving.
Love, Dianne

Justin Flory

November 26, 2008

Ahh... Thanksgiving is here. Again, the anniversary of your life is here, and we celebrate in front of turkey and stuffing. I plan to say the blessing this Thanksgiving. It's about time someone is to replace David! Well, ham and turkey await us tomorrow, and I can't wait. We will ALWAYS remember you.

November 24, 2008

As we prepare to celebrate Thanksgiving, your Aerie will resound once again with the joyful noise of our family reuniting for our traditional holiday get-together. The various conversations and recollections along with these entries on your Legacy page keep you right around the corner in our hearts. And now, working on our family story, looking at pictures and having you in my thoughts every day, I marvel at how you and mom made having a big family seem so easy. I can't imagine not being part of a big family and I am always thankful for everything we have shared. But even though these holidays are happy occasions, for me they will always be quantified and tempered by the turkeys you didn't bone and the dinners you missed. And how much I miss you.
Randy

Justin Flory

October 17, 2008

Well, a few months have gone by... I can't wait to see the rest of the family at Thanksgiving. There, we will all have a great time. The kids will playing their games, and the adults will be catching up on the latest happenings. But we will always have in hearts you, Grandpa.

Justin Flory

July 27, 2008

An Irish Blessing

May the road rise to meet you,
The wind be at your back,
The Sun shine warm upon your face,
The rain fall soft upon your friends,
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the Palm of his Hand

I think the 4th line is a big demand.

Justin Flory

July 27, 2008

Dear Grandpa,

- I may not remember you well, but I cherish the memories that I do remember. When I was six, I remember you would always give me those little toy model cars... How much fun I had with them is unexplainable.
- If the Flory family didn't have a sense of humor, I don't know where my Dad and I would be. It gets passed on. You playfully teased, my Dad playfully teased, and now I playfully tease.
- I wish I had gotten to know you better. It's been 4 years since your trip to God's home.
- I've been in a lot of dramas since you've gone. For example, I was in the Jungle Book, and I was cast as Baloo! I was in a school play directed by my Mom, and I was in Pinnochio, cast as Lorenzo the Magnifico! I've been in one last play, Disney's The Aristocats. I figure you would know it well. I was O'Malley.
- Enough about me. Ginny has also been in quite a bit of drama herself. In Pinnochio, she was one of the puppets. Linguini was her name. And more recently, she was in Disney's The Aristocats, cast as Baby Alley Cat. I wish you were here to see the wonderful growth of your family you raised so well.
- But then again, you are, watching us we go on with our daily lives.
- I love hearing about the stories from my Dad when he was young. And my
Dad has never stopped wearing that hat of yours... (Then again, why wouldn't he? HE'S BALD!) And the necklace... my Dad wears that to a lot of family events.
- I'm currently enrolled in Boy Scouts. I am getting my Tenderfoot, and my goal is to become an Eagle. We wish we could see you again...

Cherishing those memories,

Justin, Your Grandson

David

June 15, 2008

I visited your grave site today. I'm not much of a grave site visiting guy. but on this Fathers Day, you were on my mind, and unfortunately the only physical place to remember you is there. And as it were, there were quite a few people there visiting the graves of their fathers.

I am thankful for Patty's conscientious effort to maintain your marker, because the red white and blue flowers with the flag helped me recall why I still think of you and still miss you. The colors seem to show pride, and I always saw you as a proud man. Proud first and foremost of your family, of which I feel privileged to be a part of. Boy what I wouldn't give, still, to have a few more years on your marker.

Anyway, as a father now, myself, I wonder how the stage of parenthood where the kids start leaving felt to you. I would imagine it was for you as it was for me. Some relief at the prospect of not being responsible for them any longer (yeah right, sorry, I forgot) but mixed with a sense of sadness that they are leaving. All part of the job of being a father, I guess.

So Happy Fathers Day, Dad, I'm still trying to follow your lead.

Helen

June 15, 2008

On this Father's Day Wayne I feel kind of empty for not having anyone to share the greetings with, although we now have a lot of fathers in the family. I still cherish all of the happy memories we shared. Love, Helen

Helen

February 14, 2008

Another Valentine Birhday Wayne and at 81 you have not aged at all in my memory. I recieved Valentine cards from Judy and Carol McLaughlin and they both rememberd today as your birthday also. I celebrated the day by going out to lunch with my Red Hat Society ladies at Ruby Tuesdays in Dawsonville. We'll never forget your birthday on this day of love. Helen

Dianne Narten

December 22, 2007

Hi, Dad. We're getting ready for our family Christmas party at the cabin today, and I sure do wish you could be there. I never really understood the indelible mark of a memory and missing someone EVERY SINGLE DAY until you. Oh, we'll have fun without you - but not nearly as much fun as we could have WITH you. You were here as my dad for my first 50 years, so if it takes one year without you for every year I had with you...let's see...let me get the calculator...(click, click, click), yep - I'll be 100 years old before I say, "Who?" I love you and will miss you a little bit extra today.
Merry Christmas, Dad!
Love,
Dianne

"Hoof Hearted?". I thought you said...

December 1, 2007

We cherish these memories.

December 1, 2007

Brian Bliss

November 30, 2007

Grandpa,
Rebecca and I have been putting out Christmas decorations around the house. This is such a happy time of the year, especially when there are little feet running down the halls.

We have three little ones now. Ian, Are, and Ema. Seeing them and their excitement for the season reminds me of the weekly visits to the house on Fairwood. Especially this time of year. It was our own FAO Schwartz. So many decorations. So many gadgets. A child's wonderland.

I miss you so much. I grieve at the loss for my children, as I fear that they will only know you from photos, stories, and Christmas.

Grandma gave us one of the decorations that you made. A small house with eight tiny reindeer on the roof. An old man (Of your likeness. Oh, circa 1983 maybe) is leaning out of the top story window looking at the reindeer. And downstairs is Santa Claus teaching a white cocka-poo to sit up. I'm sure that there once was a treat on Santa's H.E.A.D., but that clever canine already feasted upon it. Over the fireplace and on the mantle, there rests a bust of Ol' Honest Abe Lincoln.

The fruits of your years inspire me. Not just the toys and symbols of your artistic expression. Not just the family here loving you each day since you've been gone. Your strength of character has left a footprint. A guiding light. I pray that my children see that light in my heart and actions. I pray that Ian, Are, & Ema may know you through your family's good deeds, even if they are not aware that it's your shadows that we cast.

That little house is displayed prominently in our foyer. Oh... and like all your toys, it's electric. Little lights shine down over the Christmas tree and mantle. Thankfully, we're reminded of you every morning plugging in your little house. And at night, you're in our thoughts as we close up our home.

We miss you and love you always,
Brian & Rebecca

Susan Chambers

November 22, 2007

Hi Dad, I'm sure you know that I don't miss you so much like I did at first. The shock of your sudden death is gone. The tears never go away but they're not grief stricken like before.
I think of you nearly every day. And I love how you visit my dreams. I'm no poster child for good behavior but I still think twice before I do something that I know I couldn't look you in the eye and tell you about. You've guided me more than once. It's not much easier than it ever was, it's just different.
I was afraid I'd forget things about you; your face, your voice, your demeanaor--but I haven't. That's pretty amazing considering I can't remember what I did the day before yesterday. Ha! You are ingrained in my soul. It's good to know that we love each other. Nonetheless ya' sure did screw up Thanksgiving. It's a good thing David knows how to bone a turkey!
Three years gone already! It feels like yesterday and it feels like a lifetime ago. I love you so much it hurts.
You're my Dad forever
Susan

Rusty Laurens

November 22, 2007

Wayne,
Thinking about you as the third anniversary of your departure from this life approaches, it's hard to find the words to express all the memories and thoughts that flow through my head. I was never able to really call you "Dad" because I lacked "official" status in the family (and I'm still the "out-law" at this writing!), but in the seven years that I knew you I did come to think of you as a surrogate Dad - as well as a friend. Being from a large and close-knit family myself, I felt right at home right away with the Florys, and you certainly made me feel welcome (as did the rest of the family). But I never gave our personal relationship a great deal of thought until one day (after a visit with you and Helen at the cabin) Dianne and I were riding home and talking about some joke or political comment we had shared, and she turned to me and said "he likes you - you know that, right?" And it dawned on me that yes you did like me, and that I liked you a great deal too. It had snuck up on me - I hadn't noticed the growth in our relationship until she pointed it out to me - but from that point on I paid a lot more attention to it, and I'm glad I did because I began to appreciate you and our relationship a lot more after that. I relished our conversations about religion and politics (we were both religious "outsiders" - Protestants who had fallen for Catholic girls - and we enjoyed sharing both politically incorrect jokes as well as serious commentary). Almost as much as one of your own sons, I think I basked in your approval - whether it was simply from your smiling at one of my jokes or from your asking my opinion on a serious subject and being genuinely interested in what I thought and had to say. So I'm very glad I was able to enjoy and appreciate a deeper relationship with you the last couple of years you were here. And even though I didn't know you all that long, I do miss you. I still sometimes read a good political column or wisecrack that you would appreciate, and I want to forward it to your email address - and then I catch myself and realize that I can't because you're gone, and I miss being able to do that very much. And I also miss those occasional deeper conversations of a more philosophical bent, while relaxing with you and Helen on the porch of the Aerie you loved so much. So you're gone but not forgotten, not by a long shot. And as Thanksgiving day comes once again, you are once again very prominent in the thanks-giving of all those who knew and loved you, including me. We're thankful for you, but we still miss you. Oh, yeah, and like we discussed a long time ago, one of these days I'm going to succeed in making an honest woman out of your daughter - and then I'll finally be able to legally call you "Dad."

;-)

With Love and Affection and Thanksgiving,

Rusty

Randy

November 21, 2007

Well, Dad, one more year has slipped away since you left, but I feel like this page keeps you forever with us. There is nothing I could say that hasn't already been expressed with heartfelt eloquence by everyone else so suffice it to say that I could not be more proud to be your son and I love you and miss you every day.

Helen Flory

November 21, 2007

Well, Wayne Here it is already three years since you left us and on this Thanksgiving we are thankful for the many years we all had to share your love, humor and talent. We have all been influenced in good ways by your wisdom and good nature. And now, three years later we are all the more thankful that we can still feel the influence of your presence among us. Speaking for myself, I miss you and love you.
Your lifelong partner, Helen

Patricia Flory

November 21, 2007

Wayne- With the passing of years after the loss of a parent, the sadness of the loss lessens and the memories seem to strengthen. The loss never does go away, for there is always going to be that empty place where you should be here with us. The family continues to grow and mature. Thanks are given for our blessings in life, and you are one of the greatest blessings your family has known. I am so thankful that I had the opportunity to have you as my father-in-law and as a friend. The way that you lived your life has given inspiration to all of us and all those who you touched in your lifetime. Not a day goes by that I do not pause to think about you and all my other loved ones who you joined and I am thankful that I have one more angel watching over me every day. Happy Thanksgiving.

With love,
Patricia

Wayne R. Flory: 1927-2004 The dash between those years is what we all remember and love the most.

Peter Flory

November 21, 2007

Hey Dad-
Stopped by to see you again and wish you a Happy Thanksgiving. We all love you, miss you and wish you were here. We've got you in our prayers each night and in our thoughts always. We'll give Mom a hug for you when we see her.
Love always-
Peter, Lucie, Justin and Ginny

Catherine Flory

November 21, 2007

Dear Dad,

When I got “the call” three years ago, it was devastating. It was so unexpected. I thought, “How could this be??” The day before Thanksgiving! This is not fair! I see it so differently now. When God chose to take you, He couldn’t have planned it more perfectly. What better time to remember you. At Thanksgiving. A time when the whole family is together. At a time when we can truly be thankful for having you for the time that we did. Every Thanksgiving, the family is all together, and as a whole, we are able to keep you in our presence. While you may not be with us in body, you will forever be with us in spirit.

I will miss you always. And keep you forever in my heart.

I love you~
Cathy

Charlotte Flory

November 21, 2007

Dear Dad, I am so grateful that my husband has had such wonderful parents, and a great family that we both love. I keep you in my heart always. Love, Charlotte

Matthew Flory

November 20, 2007

November 24th, 2004 was probably the worst day of my life. The way I looked at things and felt about things had changed on that day. The amount of love that I had for you was really unknown to me until I had to feel the pain of your loss wash over me. Then I knew. Then I knew the full extent of what you meant to me. Then I knew exactly how important you were to me. And then I knew the first real suffering in my life. Every loss in my life that I had experienced up unto that day just seemed... insignificant. And even though our family grieved together, grew together, and are recovering together from your loss... there is still that loss. That empty space that can only be filled with memories. That empty space which I invariably pour my love for you.

November 24th of 2005 just seemed to hit at lightening speed. Celebrating Thanksgiving on the first anniversary of your passing... ALREADY!!! How could one whole year have passed? It just didn't seem possible that you have been gone that long. The pain had eased somewhat, but I still missed you so. Life just jets by as life does. Time waits for no man - as they say.

November 2006. Two years. Jeez. The woe has all but vanished, but I sure would like to see you again. My memories are still strong and happy. My love and appreciation hasn't waned.

And now... Where does the time go?... Year three. A bit of a milestone for me. I turned forty this year. The age you were when I was born. Here I am at forty years old, thinking about you at forty years of age... WITH TEN CHILDREN!!! Just the thought of that makes me realize what an incredible human being you were. To build a family that loves each other, and remains so close is not a very common thing these days. Much less with so many of us. I have friends with one or two siblings that never talk to each other, and I think about how blessed we are to have such a tight knit clan.

Dad, as these years keep scrolling by, the scars of that fateful day in 2004 have slowly healed. Now, when your memories fill my cerebellum, I no longer weep, but smile. I smile with the thought of what a wonderful father that God blessed me with. I smile because of the humorous, intelligent, talented person that was you. My Dad. I understand why God wanted you back. He knew you left us with all that we needed. All You Need Is Love. And that I know I have.

I Love You.
Matthew

Dianne Narten

November 19, 2007

Dear Dad,
Well, you're going to be hearing from all of us this year - on the 3rd anniversary of your leaving us. It's so hard to believe that it's been three years, but on the other hand, it seems like forever since we've talked...or at least since you talked back! But you're the man, and talking about you still brings so much fun and joy AND laughter into all of our lives. I know YOU know how much we miss you, and how much we miss having you in the room with us, bouncing from one conversation to the next, puffing on your pipe.

I had a dream about you a few months ago - and you came back to say hi, and to tell me you were doing great. And you were dressed in your black cowboy hat and (of course) smoking your pipe. You looked so good and you were so happy, that it made me happy. Usually when I think about you, although it makes me smile, it still makes my heart ache a little bit because I want you back. But in my dream, it was so GREAT to see you, and so much fun talking to you. And it was okay when you said, "Well, I've gotta go," and then you disappeared like a ghost. It was REALLY okay...and I said, "See ya later!" And you were gone. But it helped me to realize and understand that you're STILL having fun, and you want us to continue having fun without you.

It's also very comforting having you live in the special place in my heart, set aside just for you, and knowing your last days on earth were happy days. Three years ago, I never really understood HOW I would recover from losing my Dad. But in the days gone by without you, I realize that you're still with me. I can't see you, but you're still very much with me. And for that, I am grateful and happy and I will cherish your memory for the rest of MY life. I love you so much. Here, there, and everywhere.
Love always,
Dianne

David Flory

November 19, 2007

I can't believe three years have passed
Since you were in our midst.
Yet nary does a day go by
When you have not been missed

So now we gather yet again,
To offer up our thanks.
To celebrate Thanksgiving Day
amongst the Flory ranks.

The turkey's boned, the stuffings stuffed,
And pumpkin pie galore.
You left a family very strong,
With your legacy, and more.

The family's grown through weddings and births,
The things that brought you pride.
But you have not been left behind,
You're still by all our side.

So be with us again, this year,
Your memory is never sad.
And thanks for being all you were
My ever favorite Dad.

Happy Thanksgiving/Anniversary,
David

John Bliss

November 15, 2007

Dear Dad,
I miss seeing you every Sunday at your house on Fairwood Lane. But I still think and pray for you every day. I know you're in God's loving and caring arms. Keep shining your light and wisdom down on me and the rest of my family. In honor of your passing, one day before Thanksgiving, I would like to thank you for being such a great Dad, a great Father-in-Law, a great Grandpa and a great friend. I know we will all be together sooner or later. Keep a room handy so we can watch the Bears and the Cubbies!
Keep Smiling On Us!
John

Patty Bliss

November 15, 2007

Dad, you taught us so many of life's lessons while you were with us, but it was in your passing that you taught us to confront the pain of losing someone who was so near to all of our hearts.

Although the pain has eased, we still miss you dearly.

Please continue to watch over us.

Love,
Patty

Lucie Flory

October 29, 2007

Hey Wayne-
Just wanted to say "hi" again as we seem to say it in so many ways everyday. Wish you were here to see the kids- Justin had another acting role in his school play as Posiden. He was wonderful- I know you would have loved to see him and I know Justin would have loved to see you in the audience. He really thrives on stage and truely has a gift. He is doing well in school as his latest national testing suggests he is above average but we have known that about him for some time. Ginny is also blooming. I think what I get so sad about is that she won't remember you as clear as I would like her to and that you can't see another wonderful Flory grow up,,, well maybe you can but we can't chat about it. She too likes the drama, both onstage and off. She has performed at The Holly Theatre in Pinochio over the summer, as well as Justin. She is so thoughtful and has also tested above average in school, but what else would you have expected- the genes are pretty good ones! Pete and myself were on a convention for his business and before we left on Sunday, we went to their devotional service. There was a poem that they read named "The Dash Poem." It was by Linda Ellis. We both thought of you as it was about the dash in between the birth and the death dates read on a tombstone. She said that really what mattered most was the time that was spent on earth during those two time stamps. We think you did a pretty good job and can only aspire to keep up with you. We love you, miss you and think of you all the time. Here's to your "dash!"

Love you-
Lucie, Pete, Justin and Ginny Flory

Randy

October 22, 2007

Hi, Dad. Once again, your Aerie provided the setting for another wonderful exuberant Flory event. Yesterday, Mom hosted David and Suzies wedding reception. And while this time, the cabin was filled with old family meeting and celebrating this happy occasion with new family, you were in all of our thoughts, and I'm certain you were there in spirit. I think of you and miss you almost every day.

Dianne

June 18, 2007

Happy Father's Day, Dad! We missed you yesterday - in both senses of the word. :-) You would be amazed at how our family continues to grow. It's a wild ride with a whole new crew of babies. You would be proud...AND glad you were safely tucked away in the mountains!! I love you, I miss you, and I wish you were here. And I wish you a Happy Father's Day. Your favorite daughter,

Randy

June 17, 2007

Happy Fathers Day, Dad. Even though this is the official day to acknowledge and honor Fathers, I think about and realize how much I miss you just about every time I sit at the computer and see your page in my favorites list.

Helen

June 17, 2007

Happy Fathers Day Wayne, on this our third Fathers Day without you. We'll be having our usual June Birthday Party and Fathers Day celebration at Patty & Johns and we'll all have happy remembrances of our times with you in our midst. We miss you. Your loving wife, Helen.

Dianne Narten

February 15, 2007

DUDE! Happy Birthday! (Albeit a day late and a dollar short!) I have to echo Matt's sentiments about how hard it is to believe you would have turned 80 years old yesterday. But the great thing about that is you haven't aged a DAY since the last time WE saw you! So while you will remain forever young in our hearts and our memories, we're all getting a little older and a little slower. I'm sure you're smiling down on us and really enjoying that! So happy 80th birthday to my 77 year old Dad! As before and always, I love you and miss you.
Dianne

Helen Flory

February 15, 2007

Dear Wayne, yesterday Patty & John helped me to celebrate Valentines Day and your birthday by taking me out to dinner and then a show at the Holly theater featuring two guys who sing the songs of Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin. A very pleasant evening, and "Frank" ended the program by singing "MY Funny Valentine. My tribute to you. Mom

Randy Flory

February 14, 2007

Dear Dad, As I sit here thinking of you on your 80th birthday, I am struck by the twists of fate that impact our lives. All my life I expected and anticipated celebrating your birthday with you, sharing all the milestones and accomplishments of the family until I was at least 70. However, that was not what was written in the Book of Life. But I do have this page to come to to reflect and let you know that I think of you every day. Happy Birthday, Dad. I love you. Randy

Matthew Flory

February 14, 2007

Happy Birthday Dad. It's hard to believe that you would have turned 80 years old today. You always were so young at heart, and seemed much younger than your years. Several of us got together at the cabin last weekend to have a cook-out and see The Return at the Holly. I guess you could say that we were also celebrating the February birthdays. I can say with certainty that you were in all of our thoughts. I always felt that there was some sort of cosmic reason that you were born on Valentines Day - the day of love. Your love still touches us all! Once again - Happy Birth/Valentines day.

Dianne Narten

December 23, 2006

Hi, Dad. We're heading up to the cabin again today to celebrate Christmas at our annual Flory Christmas Gala! One thing we like to do to celebrate your life is turn on all of your goofy singing toys - the flower, the Christmas tree - Billy the Bass - you know all that stuff that you just couldn't live without and HAD to have! It's part of what makes us laugh (at you - not with you!), and has everything to do with how we remember you and love you. Mom is working very hard to keep the legend alive by continuing to purchase silly toys that make no sense, but are funny to watch! You'll be with us in our hearts today - just like always - and we WILL continue to laugh (at you, not with you!) I do love you, Dad! Merry Christmas!!

Randy Flory

November 25, 2006

Hi Dad, Another happy, noisy Flory Thanksgiving has come and gone at your cabin in the mountains. It's always hard for me to put down my thoughts after the others, because most of the things I am feeling are expressed so eloquently and completely that I find myself at a loss for words. There is not a doubt in my mind that not only do you see every word that is written here, but that you are with us in spirit at every Flory Family Life Event that we celebrate in the fashion that you and Mom started over fifty years ago. We all stop and take time to give thanks for our blessings at this time of year; I am thankful every day that I have you and Mom as parents and that I am part of the best family that anyone could imagine. I miss you and I love you.
Randy

Matthew Flory

November 23, 2006

Hello Dad,

I just wanted to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving, and say how much I miss you. And after reading Dianne's note to you today - I broke out in tears. I Love and Miss you so very much. I also want to thank you for picking such a wonderful Mother for all of us, whom we Love so much as well. Of all of the things that I have to be thankful for... You and Mom are at the top!

Love, Matthew

Helen

November 23, 2006

Well Wayne, here we are, all together again for Thanksgiving, and after two years, you're still very much here with us in spirit, with happy memories of you. We miss you. Love, Helen

Dianne Narten

November 23, 2006

Dear Dad,

Here we are – two years down the road without you. It seems a little bizarre having these private conversations with you in such a public forum. But it really does feel like I’m talking to you – like you’re really reading this. And it’s a good thing for me to believe that I can tell you things and you can hear me. Because it’s important to me that you know how much I love you and miss you. Anyway, today is Thanksgiving. It’s a day we dedicate to you and a very special day we have now set aside just for you. This is the day when, two years ago, the decision was made for you to leave us. And it’s weird, because on one hand it feels like an eternity since you were here and on the other hand, it feels like it was just yesterday when I saw you. Anyway, today is the day when we all get together at the cabin, just like we always have – just like you wanted – and celebrate family and friends and the ties that bind us. You and Mom were always what kept us all navigating your way – following you wherever you were – so we could all be together. And even though you’re not with us anymore, it’s still what we do. And we miss you so much. We miss you mingling through the crowd of family, telling your jokes and silly stories, smoking your pipe, and reveling in the amazement of what you helped to create – a strong and loving family. We are all surviving without you, but only with the strength of our senses of humor that you taught us. Today is Thanksgiving. And for the rest of my life, I will continue to be thankful for you and Mom - whether you’re here or not. That is what I’m thankful for. I love you, Dad. Happy Thanksgiving.

Randy Flory

August 8, 2006

Hi Dad

The long anticipated Flory Reunion is now another chapter to be added to your Genealogy and History. It was three wonderful days of reacquainting, reconnecting, reminiscing and promising to not wait so long to do it again.

Every one agreed that your Flory Genealogy with Historical Background and Commentary is a work of art. Dianne worked her digital magic on what you had completed and the finished document is what you would expect from a major publisher. I bet people would pay her to do things like this!

And it wouldn't be a Flory Reunion without a baseball game. Dale and Don were playing like it was 1959 in Garrett Indiana.

Even amidst all of the happy commotion, you were never far from anyones thoughts. When I'm at the cabin, I feel like you're just in another room or out on the porch.

I just wanted to take these few minutes to tell you what a great Reunion we had and that I think about you and miss you every day.

Love

Randy

Trey Bliss

July 3, 2006

Hello Grandpa

We are coming up on the fourth of July and settling in at our new home at Fairwood. We (my wife Virginia and I) have fully moved into the house and are preparing for a new addition to the house...no, not a new toy, gadget, room, or game (although we have filled the house with those)…we are preparing for a little girl. She will be named Suzanne, after my dad's mother who passed away last year.

Growing up in a family where being a part of our group is as important as any individual provides me with a valuable sense of perspective; we love connecting with all aspects of our family…the past, present and future of the friends we have known and those who we are fortunate to continue to spend time with.

I am honored to be living at Fairwood, a house where I have such fond memories visiting as I was growing up. I am constantly telling Virginia stories about you and Grandma, as well as the aunts and uncles, cousins, and the many memories that are an integral part of this house. I am excited about the future, and wish that I could share this excitement with you. I can't help but think about you everyday, and can't help but feel that you are looking out for us and the good fortune we experience in our lives.

When I saw that Alan Abelson was back writing at Barron's, I couldn’t help but think of you and the many, many conversations we had at the cabin about his wit, sarcasm, and humor--he could have been a Flory… I also thought about you when I saw that Louis Rukeyser passed away. The same accolades and tribute he received reminded me about how incredibly lucky we were to share and have been a part of our own family's "Rukeyser"...I can only imagine you and Lou swapping stories, jokes, and anecdotes with a laugh, smile, and of course a wink over a good glass of good Scotch.

Although life can be hectic, I still think about the times we played tennis, baseball, talked about business, politics, and occasionally debated the world spinning around us. Playing tennis with you taught me an important lesson, especially because I remember you winning the great majority of our matches. I now fondly remember losing to you, and recollect my thoughts after our summer matches at R-Ranch—if I can’t beat my grandpa, I need to practice…especially if my Grandpa never won at Wimbledon, or more importantly never even appeared in a tennis tournament…I need to get better, especially if I want to beat my brother!

As the oldest of the next generation of our family, I feel incredibly lucky and fortunate to have experienced the most time with you. Those could be circumstances or numbers, but I don't think so...I had the opportunity to grow up with you…spending summer weeks at R-Ranch, Sundays at Fairwood, Cubs games…and I will always have these memories of you remain an important part of the person that I am and the person who I hope to become. The only regret I could ever have is that those of my generation and generations beyond will only have our own memories, stories, pictures, videos, and our own experiences to relate to those who didn’t know you. It can never be enough to express how wonderful you were and still remain to all of us touched by you life.

Love

Trey & Virginia

Helen

June 18, 2006

Happy Fathers Day Wayne. You should know that all of your adult children still cherish your memory and remember you for your wisdom and sense of humor. As I do also and am happy that I played an important part in making you a father. Loving you always--Mom

Dianne Narten

June 18, 2006

Happy Father's Day, Dad! This is the second Father's Day we'll spend without you, but you are always with us in everything that we do. I will remember you for the rest of my life as the Dad I was so lucky to have for so many years. So today, I wish you a Happy Father's Day -- not so much for you, but for me. I wish you could see Chris Bliss juggle. I wish you could meet Mom's new dog. I wish you could see YOUR completed genealogy. But I KNOW you know I love you. I miss you so much. Love forever,

Dianne

Dianne

February 16, 2006

Happy Birthday, Dad! I still think about you nearly every day - AND we're all still talking about you! Topics vary, but that tool collection of yours is quite a hit! Most of them are like Ronco products...screw a nail, open a bottle, hammer a nail, and make a pot roast...ALL with one tool! But Mom is keeping the legend alive. You should see all the stuff she's ordering from catalogs...right up your alley! I do miss you and your shenanigans so much. Happy Birthday. I love you.

Helen, your valentine

February 15, 2006

Another year and another Happy Birthday greeting. Could you really have been 79? You will always be My Funny Valentine.

Matthew Flory

November 22, 2005

The moon has waxed and waned

for lo a weary year now.

And yet I regret

that on the annum of this day of thanks,

it still calls me to produce tears;

and it cries aloud

in my world of why's and how's...

Tempting me to understand.

But I can't,

as this was Gods plan.

I know.

I know you do not wish this -

wish this sorrow upon my day,

where the dawn has just awoken you...

But it's so hard to see it that way.

Just as your eagle can not help but fly,

I cry.

For it is you I miss.

But it is just my selfishness, I know.

I know, because above us you are now with God.

And me, I'm still so far below;

I'm below and waiting.

And waiting sometimes seems such a bother.

Patience, the Lord tells me, will lead to acceptance

and purge the sorrow,

and take me to the Holy Father...

Then - these sweet memories I have

of the short time we had

will be filling my head,

as the Lord one day takes me by the hand

and delivers me once again

to my Dad.

But here and now,

another moon sneaks into the autumn sky

while the cold wind washes off the last remaining leaves.

I can warm myself with the thought of you -

Right here next to me - Fully Living...

I love you Dad and Happy Thanksgiving...

Matthew

Susan Chambers

November 22, 2005

Hi Dad.

I don't have to tell you how hard this is. I enjoy our little cerebral, celestial, psychological contact - If that means I'm crazy, then everybody is. We're here and you're there... I still feel your presence. We all do.

For somebody who left a legacy of laughter, we sure turned into a bunch of crybabies when you died.

You are so loved.

Your body is gone. Your spirit remains.

Thank you for everything.

Susan

Lucie,Justin & Ginny Flory

November 22, 2005

Dad & Grandpa-

We miss you- thanks for being our only grandpa that we had known. Wish you could have stayed longer, but when God calls, we know he's not a person to put on hold. Tell P.J, Bruno and Miranda hello and throw a tennis ball for us.

We still see so much of you here- Pete provides your essence in many ways, many in which he is unaware of but we see them. He loved you so much and we do too. Until we meet again...

Cindy Urquhart

November 17, 2005

Although this online registry may expire, I have an eternal journal in my heart where I make entries often - you are missed deeply. They say that when someone dies, we have one more Angel looking over us....well, we know we have one with a great sense of humor. Put in a good word for us up there!

XOXOXOXOXO

Cindy

Charlotte Flory

November 16, 2005

Dear Dad, You are missed so very much by us all. Please wrap your arms around us in these upcoming difficult days. Share with us your strength and wisdom to help us through them. The memory of you keeps us grounded. Your continued love keeps us together. Pat Fozzie on the head for me. Thank you for you. Love, Charlotte

Patty Bliss

November 13, 2005

Dear Dad,

With your passing now a year behind us, we have all had much time to reflect on who you were and how that is mirrored back to us in who we are.

As "one of ten," I share many of the same warm memories of all of our family gatherings and times spent together as everyone else. But in a selfish sort of way, I think I treasure more the memories of you that are individual to me and so much more personal. It's funny how all of our personal relationships with you could be so very different and be reflected in ten so very different and individual personalities, yet all woven from the same cloth.

Many of my warmest memories come from a very happy childhood spent almost entirely at Loomis Street. It was such a simpler time and it was good. Life was shared with Grandma and Grandpa Flory, and Dale, Don and Carol. Christmases were shared with all of the Koltzes. Easters almost always meant a new dress, and vacations were spent in tents and pop-up campers. Money may have been tight, but love was never in short supply.

Thank you for all that I am. I miss you, as we all do.

Love, Patty

Peter Flory

November 12, 2005

Dad,

Throughout my life I have always tried to do the right things so you and mom would be proud. Even with things that noone else may ever know or see, I would always look back and hope you would have approved of my actions.

In this year since you've left us I have often had things that I wish I could tell you, and am sorry for many things that I didn't say while you were here.

I love and miss you dad more than you may ever have known, and look forward to seeing you again some day.

I love you always, Peter.

Randy

November 11, 2005

Dad - As I wrote in your guest book at your 50th wedding anniversary, which seems like such a short time ago, "You are the reason for most of the good things that I am and all of the bad things that I am not. You are my Hero." That was for this life. Now it is for eternity.

I miss you so much. . .

David Flory

November 11, 2005

Dad:

As surprising as it seems, a year has nearly passed. Our gatherings have gone on, we all have continued to live our lives, we continue on as family, surely as you would have wanted. But your absence still hurts, albeit some days more than others. It has been so important to treasure Mom, to consciously appreciate her among us, as you made us realize how fleeting the presence of our parents can be. I find that your picture, the one of you looking out and smiling, remains terribly important to me, to remind me of my Dad. I trust that you continue to watch over us, among the soaring eagles you loved. God bless us all on this anniversary of your passing.

Cathy Flory

November 10, 2005

We Have Come Full Circle

Dear Dad~

Through Mom's strenght and guiding hand, we have made it through, what I see, as a most difficult year. With every gathering throughout the year, your presence has been missed, yet your presence has been felt. I miss you dearly, and find peace being with the family as I feel you you with us. And you will forever be a part. I keep you in my prayers and still draw strength through you.

You will always be in the hearts of us all and forever loved. A day does not pass that you are not missed.

I will love you Always And Forever~

Cathy