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Helen Malek Obituary

AUBURN < Helen R. Malek, 100, widow of Edward J. Malek, formerly of the Boyle Center, died Saturday, Jan. 10, 2009, at Auburn Memorial Hospital, following a brief illness. A life resident of Auburn, she was the daughter of the late Joseph and Anna Slimak Chayka. Helen was a communicant of St. Hyacinth Church, and was a teacher at the former St. Hyacinth"s School. She was a life member of the Republican Party and was very active until a few years ago. She and her sister, Veronica Bozek, taught crochet classes at the Boyle Center. Surviving is her son, John (Alice) Malek, of Yonkers; her daughter, Jean (Larry) Kaspin, of Albany; her grandchildren, Christina Malek and Jennifer and Jason Kaspin; her brothers, Michael Chayka, of Cortland, and Joseph Chayka, of Auburn; and several nieces and nephews. Helen was predeceased by her sister, Veronica Bozek; and brothers, Edward, Harry and Bernard Chayka. Funeral services will be held 10 a.m. Friday, in St. Hyacinth Church. Interment will be in St. Joseph"s Cemetery. Relatives and friends are invited to call from 4 to 7 p.m. today, Jan. 15, at the Nicpon Funeral Home, 235 State St. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Heart Association. To send a message to the family, sign our guest book at www.auburnpub.com and click on obituaries.

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Published by The Citizen from Jan. 14 to Jan. 15, 2009.

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Isabel Mattiace

January 19, 2009

To Helen's family:
I was so sorry to receive notice of Helen's death too late to pay my last respects.
Helen was a wonderful lady. I was drawn to her immediately the day I entered The Home where Helen resided. I had been looking for someone who needed a little companionship and instead, I was the one receiving the companionship.
Helen was quite the conversationalist. She always spoke of her family and it was evident that she felt a deep love for all of them.
Even though she could not see well, she always tried to help me learn to crochet. Helen will always be a teacher. She is probably teaching the angels in Heaven as I this note.
I found Helen to be in good spriits even when she wasn't feeling well. Her memory never skipped a beat.
Helen willl always be my second mother. She will be missed, but I will keep her in my prayers and she will always be close to my heart.

Isabel Mattiace

Francine Lombardo

January 15, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.I always enjoyed Mrs. Malek. I was also fortunate to have her as a teacher in kindergarden and 4th grade. Have fond memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Margaret (Badran) Smith

January 15, 2009

John, Jean & Family,

I'm so sorry about the death of your Mom. What a wonderful person she was! I'll always remember her as one of my favorite teachers. I was fortunate to have her twice as my teacher at St. Hyacinth's. She taught me in kindergarten and again in the 4th grade.

May memories of happy times spent with her help to comfort you during this sad time.

Sincerely,
Margaret Badran Smith

Betty Badran

January 15, 2009

John, Jean and Family,

I was so sorry to hear that your dear Mom passed away. She was a nice, nice person, and a wonderful teacher to my daughter.

Sincerely,
Betty Badran

Tom Connors

January 15, 2009

John and your entire family, I am sorry for your loss. I know that you will cherish the memories of your mother forever.

Joe Colella

January 14, 2009

John, Jean, the entire Malek and Chayka family- We are very sorry for your loss. Couldn't ask for better neighbors. Will miss seeing her in the summer. The Colella family.

Jerry DeJoy

January 14, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Kellie Godfrey

January 14, 2009

To Helen's Family.
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Helen from when she lived next door to my grandmother, Jane Clow at the Boyle Center. My grandmother loved Helen. So did all of my family (especially my son Matthew,Jane's great grandson.) As years have passed, I have often thought about Helen fondly. I am sure that my Grandma is thrilled to see her in heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Joanie Anthony (Walczyk)

January 14, 2009

Fond & wonderful memories of my 2nd grade Teacher & her time @ the Boyle Center when she spent some time with my Aunt Stella. How blessed you & Jeanne were to have your wonderful Mom for so many yrs.

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