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Shirley Ruston Obituary

BOCA RATON, Fla. < Shirley Jean Ruston passed away Oct. 9, 2008 after fighting a courageous and brave battle against a brain tumor. She will be greatly missed by her beloved husband and family. She was born Shirley Jean Ross Oct. 6, 1932 in Auburn. She was the daughter of the late Glenn and Marion Ross. She is also predeceased by one nephew. She is survived by her husband, Richard Douglas Ruston Jr. and her five children: her son, Richard Ruston III, of Auburn, Sharon and Howard Taufaasau, of Hawaii, Judy and Michael Honey, of Oregon, Sally and Kendall Osborne, of California, Rosemary and William Cosselmon, of Virginia; 10 grandchildren; and her brother, Robert Ross, of Niles; along with several nieces and nephews. She worked for many years with her husband owning and running Webster#"s Family Restaurant of Auburn. Shirley graduated from East High School and Auburn Community College where she received her Associates of Applied Science Nursing degree May 25, 1980. She worked for many years as an RN at Auburn Memorial Hospital, Auburn Nursing Home, and in private duty. She loved the medical field and will always be remembered as a nurse whose compassion was as great as her devotion to each patient whom she was dedicated to serving. Some of her hobbies included bird watching, decorating, painting, tending flowers, traveling, and listening to music. She loved the season of winter. The celebration of Christmas was very important to her marking the birth of Jesus Christ. She will be remembered as a loving devoted wife and a mother who taught her children how to have compassion and immense courage in the face of adversity. Her legacy will live on through all who knew her. A memorial service will be held 1:30 p.m. Sunday, Oct. 26, at The Point at Sandbeach Chapel, 2924 Sandbeach Road, and a Celebration of Life reception at 3:30 p.m., 5151 Westlake Road residence. All friends and family who know the Ruston family are welcomed and encouraged to come celebrate her life. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to: The Shirley Ruston Memorial, c/o National Brain Tumor Society, 124 Watertown St., Suite 3-H, Watertown, MA 02472. The family wishes to extend a special thank you to Dr. Benjamin Purow, M.D., Assistant Professor of Neuro-Oncology Division Neurology Department, University of Virginia. Your utmost care and attention of Shirley Ruston will forever be remembered and appreciated by our entire family. To send a message to the family, sign our guest book at www.auburnpub.com and click on obituaries.

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Published by The Citizen from Oct. 19 to Oct. 24, 2008.

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Rick Crose

October 31, 2008

Judy,

I am so sorry. It is never easy. But being able to see God glorified in a tragic occurance is very special. "For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows." 2 Cor 1:5.


You and your family are in our prayers.

Rick

Nancy Cymbala

October 31, 2008

Judy,
Thank you for sharing this sad message.
We will certainly pray for you and your family as you mourn your mother's loss.
It is so good that you have the hope of seeing her again in glory.
We pray that all of the preparations of putting her to rest will be days of
quiet peace and hope and joy in the Lord for His care and sympathy.
Love to all your family from the Cymbalas.
In time it would be very nice to visit with you and Michael in Bend.
Love,
Nancy and Bob

Nikki Honey

October 31, 2008

Judy: Wishing you all strength during this difficult time... there is so much that words just do not begin to express... I hope to talk to you in person soon and give you a hug. Your plans for the funeral sound beautiful - you will have many people there from when you grew up... beautiful music and memories...

Elee Jen

October 31, 2008

Dear Judy:

The Lord has done it, we will receive it as His goodness.

We will continue pray for your family. We feel sorry for you and your family that went through tremendous pain in the process and will rejoice with you for the glory of Jesus will be shown in your family and in your Mom's funeral.

James & Elee

Debbie Caruso

October 31, 2008

Judy,

I am so so sorry your mom has passed away. I remember all the good times I had with your family and with your mom and dad. The memories I had of your mom were always filled with LOVE! I always felt so good being with your mom. You have been richly blessed to have a mom has wonderful as her. Your mom was very strong and that trait I know you received from her. I am very sad. Please send love to your family. I miss you. Please call me. I would love to talk to you and hear your voice.

Love,
Debbie

October 29, 2008

George & Arlene Welch Saxton

October 26, 2008

Dick & Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We were good friends in school and for a short time after until we all married and went our separate ways. Sorry for your loss and God Bless your Family.

Ron Delaney

October 24, 2008

Lori and I are sorry to read about your loss. Dick, I remember talking to you by phone two years ago while in Fla. At that time you told me Shirley wasn't well. Again our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family.

Ron & Lori Delaney

Tony Brock

October 24, 2008

It is with the deepest sorrow that we are sending this. Kandy and I wilkl never forget everything that Shirley, and the rest of the family did for us. We are sincerely saddend by the news. She was tough, but she was fair and that is one of the best traits a person can have. We often think about our time working at Websters and we always remember it with affection. The Ruston famiy helped our family through alot. Thank you Shirley, May God bless and keep you at his side until we are all together again.

Daniel Kennedy

October 20, 2008

May God hold each and every family member in his palm during there time of loss. My prayers go out to all including family and friends.

Mike and Paula Durgala

October 20, 2008

Mike and I were saddened to read of Shirley dying. We thought so much of her and she was a blessing to the world. Though our paths have not crossed in years, we still have Trinity church and Webster memories. Our sympathies to Dick and all the family for your loss.

Tracie Freeman

October 19, 2008

Dear Sally and family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I'll always remember the good, bad, and funny times we had with your mom, especially the ones when we lived right next door to each other on Perry St. She was so much fun.

Tracie (Gill) Freeman

JUDY MERRITT

October 19, 2008

SENDING OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHIES TO ALL THE RUSTON FAMILY FROM THE CRAMER FAMILY--OLD FRIENDS FROM PERRY ST. IN AUBURN. JUDY CRAMER MERRITT

Carol Cambareri

October 19, 2008

My sincere sympathy to all Shirley's family. I worked w her on 2nd West a long time ago and always thought the most of her. She was a very special lady.

Anna Marie Posa-Burg

October 19, 2008

Sally & family,

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Anna Marie Posa-Burg

October 19, 2008

Sally & family,

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
My thoughts and prayers are with.

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