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Farrell Milroy Obituary

Milroy, Farrell J. 1924 - 2013 Mrs. Farrell Milroy, 88, of Batavia died on February 14, 2013 at Delnor Community Hospital in Geneva, Illinois. She was born at St. Charles Hospital in Aurora, Illinois on March 26, 1924. Farrell was the second child of John and Elva (LaRue) Kennedy. She was a 1942 graduate of Madonna High School and, later, the St. Charles Hospital Nursing School. She married Bernard J. Milroy on May 22, 1948 and was devoted to him through more than 54 years of marriage, nine children and dozens of grand and great-grandchildren. Mr. Milroy died on January 27, 2003. Farrell Milroy was the very epitome of genuine grace. She was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and homemaker; the kind of person who, when seeing that there are only four pieces of pie for five people, would promptly announce that she wasn't hungry and really didn't like pie that much anyway. Although shy and unassuming, she, nevertheless, exerted more influence over her family and friends than she could have ever imagined or admitted. Such was the power of her unconditional love. Indeed, to those who knew her, Farrell Milroy gave life to St. Paul's definition of love as expressed in his Letter to the Corinthians: "She was patient and she was kind; she did not envy, she did not boast; she was not proud. She did not dishonor others. She was not self-seeking and was not easily angered. She kept no record of wrongs. She did not delight in evil but rejoiced in the Truth. She always protected, always trusted, always hoped and always persevered. She did not fail her family, friends or her God." Farrell was preceded in death by her parents, John R. Kennedy and Elva (LaRue) Kennedy; two brothers, LaRue Kennedy and Richard Kennedy; and her beloved husband of more than 54 years, Bernard J. Milroy. She is survived by her dear friend and sister-in-law, Geraldine Kennedy (Yorkville, Illinois) and her nine children, including: Mary Milroy of Geneva, Illinois; Bernard J. (Patty) Milroy of Burlington, Wisconsin; Peggy Bellafiore (Vincent) of Batavia; Jane Bohr (Robert) of Batavia; Patricia Milroy of Dundee, Illinois; Maureen Schultz (John) of Tinley Park, Illinois; John Milroy (Susan) of Woodinville, Washington; Kathy Heaton (Thomas) of Columbus, Ohio and Timothy (Tamarah) Milroy of Batavia. Also, Mrs. Milroy leaves 30 grandchildren, 37 great-grandchildren, 2 nieces and 3 nephews and will be greatly missed by all. Visitation for Farrell J. (nee Kennedy) Milroy will begin at 9:00 AM until 10:30 A.M. on Tuesday, February 19, 2013 at the Moss Family Funeral Home (209 South Batavia Avenue, Batavia, Illinois) followed by a Funeral Mass at Annunciation B.V.M. Catholic Church (1820 Church Road Aurora, IL 60505) at 11:00 AM with Reverend Michael Burrows, O.S.B. of Marmion Abbey officiating. Interment will take place at River Hills Memorial Park (1650 South River Street Batavia, Illinois) immediately following the funeral. Contributions in her memory may be directed to Anderson Animal Shelter, 1000 S. Lafox, South Elgin, IL 60177. "I remember my mother's prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life." - Abraham Lincoln

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Published by Beacon News on Feb. 17, 2013.

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Jane Steingraeber

March 17, 2013

Dear Mary and all the rest of your memorable family,
Jack and Sarah told me of your mom's death and I've been thinking of you all ever since. There is hardly a memory of my years in Batavia that doesn't include you and your family. You were iconic and my memories of your mom and dad are almost as vivid as those of my own parents. Your mom lent an ear to me more than once and the picture your dad's gorgeous smile and eyes will never fade. I am mourning their absence with you.
Love, Jane (Schuler) Steingraeber.

Catherine M. Evans

February 22, 2013

A candle for your loved one. May the Lord comfort you. My sympathy.

February 19, 2013

Mary and family, So sorry to read of your mother's passing. What a wonderful example of how to live a loving Christian life. She always had a smile and kind word for everyone. I can still hear her saying, "oh, God love 'em!" Many great memories from Fourth Street. Love to you all. Rita Berg Stuart

Rita Dwiggins-Hoover

February 19, 2013

Dear Milroy Family - I am thinking of you all today and holding lovely thoughts of your beautiful mother. She was such a warm, wonderful part of my childhood, as were all the wonderful members of the family! There was such a sense of continuity through the years knowing that Farrell was holding down the fort at the Prairie Street house. Those days are sadly gone, but the fond memories of her beautiful smile, hearty laugh and kind, twinkling eyes will remain with me always.

February 19, 2013

I met Farrel during nurses' training in 1945! I am so sorry to hear of her death. Rest assured she is in my prayers! Dorothy Fitzmaurice Koteles

February 18, 2013

Tami,

Sorry for the loss of your mother-in-law.
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.
Take Care
Colleen

February 17, 2013

Mary, Sorry to hear of the passing of your dear mother. I read the on line obituary this morning. What a wonderful tribute to her. You talked of her at our class reunion in September. Now, I see why you went to Madonna and decided to become a nurse. Your were blessed to have your mother live such a long life. She will be laid to rest at the same cemetery as my parents and my husband and I share the same anniversary as your parents, when your dad was alive. You will both be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care. Diane (Burzlaff) Mazanec

Tom & Sharon Streit

February 17, 2013

We offer our sincerest condolences to the entire family in your loss of the beautiful "matriarch" of your families. She was a precious woman, wife, mother , grand mother & great grandmother. Loved by so many. Her smile will be missed.

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