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Abigail Lahnan Obituary

Abigail Nicole Lahnan. On March 23rd, 2005, our baby girl laid down for her final nap on earth. She is our angel and we will be reunited with her in eternal life. She is survived by her parents, Patrick and Deanna Lahnan, of Phoenix; grandparents, Larry and Jane Lahnan, of Cleveland, Ohio, Tammy Bradley, of Arkansas, and Arthur and Jan McDonald, of Dallas; aunts and uncle Jennifer and Rob Bryant, of Arkansas, and Amanda Lahnan of Cleveland. Private Services have been held. Arrangements entrusted to Whitney & Murphy Funeral Home.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Mar. 31, 2005.

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Aunt Jenn

March 25, 2022

Abby- I always wonder what you would be like if you were still here with us. I can still see you smiling and laughing and dancing. I have so many memories with you in them in your short time on earth. I am so thankful that your mom and dad let you come to Arkansas to visit as much as they did. I think of you often. I will always love you!!

Shirley McDonald

March 25, 2022

Abigail oh how I wish you were here . I just know the world would have been a brighter place with you in it. You live on forever in our hearts. We will forever love you.

Shirley McDonald

March 27, 2013

Miss you baby girl!

Peggy and Sonny Mathews

March 24, 2013

Thinking of all the precious memories of Abby.

Rob & Jenn Bryant

March 23, 2011

Abby, We love you and miss you so much. You will never be forgotten. Love Always, Aunt Jenn and Uncle Rob

Rob & Jenn Bryant

March 23, 2010

Abby, We miss you so much. You are always in our thoughts. You were so precious and we can only imagine what you would be like today. Love Always, Uncle Rob and Aunt Jenn

Rob & Jenn Bryant

November 28, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ABBY. We love and miss you so much. You will always be in our hearts. Love always, Uncle Rob and Aunt Jenn

Rob & Jennifer Bryant

March 24, 2009

We love and miss you so much. You were a joy for the whole family. Love Always, Uncle Rob and Aunt Jenn

Aunt Shirley and Uncle David McDonald

November 28, 2008

Abby, We treasure the day you were born. We miss you here on earth but know you are brightening the faces of all those in Heaven.

Rob and Jennifer Bryant

November 28, 2008

Happy Birthday Abby. It is hard to believe that you would have turned 5 years old today. We love you and miss you so much. Love Always, Uncle Rob and Aunt Jenn

shirley mcdonald

March 24, 2008

Miss and Love you so much!
Uncle David and Aunt Shirley

Sonny and Peggy

March 23, 2008

Pat and Deanna, Sending you much love today. Our memories of Abby make us smile. She will always be our special girl. We love you.

Rob & Jennifer Bryant

March 23, 2008

Deanna & Pat,
We just wanted ya'll to know that we are thinking of ya'll today. I know that this is a hard time.
Abby will never be forgotten. We will always love her and miss her.

Love, Jenn & Rob

Rob & Jenn Bryant

December 25, 2007

Merry Christmas Abby. We love you and miss you. Love Always, Uncle Rob & Aunt Jenn

shirley mcdonald

December 5, 2007

Always in our hearts. Love you always and forever, Aunt Shirley and Uncle David

Sonny and Peggy

November 28, 2007

Pat and Deanna, We are thinking about Abby and you today. We cherish the special memories we have of her. Sending you much love today.

Rob & Jenn Bryant

November 28, 2007

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ABBY.

We just wanted ya'll to know that we are thinking about Abby today, as well as both of you. We love you.

T.J. Gann

November 28, 2007

Deanna, Pat and Gram, I am thinking about Abby today, as I know you are. She will always hold a special place in my heart.

I love you all,

Aunt Reesie

Peggy Mathews

March 24, 2007

We miss our precious baby girl. We think about her so much and we are so grateful for the beautiful memories we will always have. We love you. Sonny and Peggy

shirley mcdonald

March 23, 2007

Abigail, We miss you so much! I looked at your photo album and the first one makes me think of the little face that God is enjoying. Love you so much! Aunt Shirley and Uncle David

Rob & Jenn Bryant

March 23, 2007

We just wanted ya'll to know that we are thinking of you today. It's hard to believe that it has been 2 years. I can still see Abby dancing to counrty music videos out at mamaw's house like it was yesterday. Abby will never be forgotten. It brings a smile to my face every time I think of her. We love ya'll.

Aunt Reesie

March 23, 2007

You are in my thoughts and prayers. It is so hard to believe that it has been 2 years. I think about Abby often. I love you all.

Rob & Jenn Bryant

November 28, 2006

Pat & Deanna,
We just wanted ya'll to know that we are thinking of ya'll today. Abby was a precious little girl and she will always be remembered. We think of her every day. She would be spoiled rotten if she were here today.(We would make sure of that.) Just remember that she is in Heaven and she is watching over us and we will see her again someday but until that day we will always have sweet memories of the time we were able to spend with Abby. She will always have a special place in our hearts that noone can replace.

Love ya,
Rob & Jenn


HAPPY BIRTHDAY ABBY!!!
WE LOVE YOU,
UNCLE ROB & AUNT JENN

Peggy and Sonny Mathews

November 28, 2006

Deanna and Pat, We want you to know we are thinking about you today and thinking about all the sweet memories we have of our precious Abby. We only had her here for such a short time, but we have her in our hearts forever. Sending you our love today and always.
Sonny and Peggy

cathy & denny dalin

March 24, 2006

You are always in our hearts and thoughts precious, delightful baby Abbie and ~~ especially mommy and daddy this week.

We love all 3 of you!

Aunt Cathy & Uncle Denny

Rob and Jennifer Bryant

March 23, 2006

One year ago today Abby was taken from us. Noone can explain why, yet we still have to ask because we don't understand. All we know is that we have a precious sweet little guardian angel watching over us and we know that she will take care of each of us. Knowing that there is a guardian angel watching us helps keep us going and knowing that there will be a day that we will see Abby again, but for now she has granddaddy spoiling her just the same as he did us. We know that she is happy. Abby will never be forgotten by anyone that had the pleasure of meeting her because she was a delight to be around.



Abby- We love you and we miss you. You are always in our hearts.

Love Always, Uncle Rob and Aunt Jenn

Peggy Mathews

March 23, 2006

Remembering our precious Abby today as we do every day. Time can't erase her sweet memory from our hearts. We hold on to the promise that in Christ there are no goodbyes and we will be with her someday for eternity. Pat and Deanna - we send you our love.

Sonny and Peggy

T.J. Gann

March 23, 2006

Today is a very sad day for all of us. Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I love you.



Aunt Reesie

Shirley McDonald

February 23, 2006

Abbie...Thinking of you today!

T.J. Gann

November 29, 2005

Deanna and Pat:



There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. Abby was such a joy and I only wish that we all could have had more time with her. Please remember that she is in a better place and she will never have to experience pain of any kind. I love you both dearly.



Aunt Reesie

David and Shirley Mcdonald

November 28, 2005

Our little angel,

We can only imagine the little stinker that you would be and can only imagine the grin you are putting on Jesus face. I can only wonder if terrible two's are a little different in Heaven. We all love you so and miss you very much. One day we will all get to see you again ... what a wonderful reunion it will be but until then just keep Jesus on his toes and a smile on his face. From Aunt Shirley and Uncle David

Jennifer & Rob Bryant

November 28, 2005

Dear Deanna & Pat,



Today we wanted to say Happy Birthday to Abby. You know that she is having a big birthday party and she probably has cake from head to toe or cheetos if she didn't want a cake. Granddaddy is making sure that she gets everything that she wants. One day we will all be together so we can celebrate her birthday with her, but for now she has granddaddy and she probably has made a lot of friends. She is well taken care of.

We love ya'll both and we want you to know that Abby will never be forgotten. She has touched so many people. We will always love her.



Love Always,

Rob & Jenn

Lon McDonald

November 28, 2005

Dear Deanna and Pat, Abby was such a precious gift from God. Although we only had her with us for a very short time, we have the most wonderful memories of her. We know your trips to Arkansas were not easy and we are so thankful to you for making sure we had special times with her. Love, Grandma and Papaw McDonald

Peggy Mathews

November 28, 2005

Dear Deanna and Pat, We think about you every day. We loved Abby so dearly. She brought so much joy to our lives. We will always cherish her sweet smile. We have such happy memories of her and we are so grateful to you for sharing her with us. Abby holds a special place in our hearts forever. Heaven shines brighter because she is there. We Love You, Sonny and Peggy

Linda Kaiser

September 19, 2005

Dear Pat and Deana,

I am so sorry to hear about your precious girl. You don't know me, but I too lost my little girl the same way you lost your little one. Please know that you are not alone in your grief. I know I am a stranger, but I have met many parents who have lost thier children this way and we just conntect because we truley understand the pain. You can contact me anytime day or night at 314-494-7890 or email me. I am hear whenever you need me I don't care what hour of the day it is.

May God comfort you.

Linda Kaiser

Catherine Laws

June 16, 2005

Dear Deanna and Pat

My heart goes out to you both. I just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Abby was a beautiful little angel here on earth and now she is a beautiful little angel in heaven. I can see her now peeping around the file cabinets in the office and giggling. We were with her grandma Tammy today when she looked at the pictures of her grave site. It was really hard for her and I'm just glad we could be there for her. We all love her. Abby was her heart and our hearts break for you all. But just know that God heals all wounds and he will get you through this.

Tammy Bradley

May 20, 2005

Deanna and Pat, There is not a minute of the day that goes by without a thought of you guys! I think of Abby every second. There are no words. Just an empty feeling. Love you both. Mom and Grandma Tammy

Aunt Shirley McDonald

May 10, 2005

Deanna and Pat

Never in my life have I witnessed such wonderful parents!! I have told all my friends that the two of you were perfect parents making sure that everything in your life was arranged by what was best for Abby. Even arranging your work schedules as to not leave her more than necessary with others and then when she was left you made sure that the babysitter was one of the best that could be found. I so enjoyed watching the two of you together with her. I loved being a new mom and I know your Uncle David loved being a new father however I do not believe either of us held a candle as to the joy that showed on your face everytime you looked into your baby girls eyes. Also most often its the mother that does most of the caring for the newborn but with you two it was so equally shared I have and most likely will never see a dad that had such a part in his daughters life. Wow, what a lucky little girl to have had so much love. She has the best parents, ones that will keep her with us all by sharing photos and funny memories. I look forward to hearing more funny stories of our little angel. When I told one of my best friends about Abby now being in heaven and how now with her there it will make it easier when other loved ones from our family go on to be with the Lord because we know they will not only be with the Lord but will be there with Abby!! Her reply was touching and so true...she said "Abby brought Heaven closer." I had never looked at it like that but Wow how true that statement is. Thank you both for sharing your little girl with us. Allowing us to get to know her and feel apart of her life through all the wonderful photos you shared. My favorite photo is the one of the two of you at the hospital holding Abby. That photo sums it up. I dont have the photo but if you get a chance please put it on line so others can see the happiness on your face. Thats the happiness I have always seen every time you were around your little one and still see on your face every time you mention her name and tell cute stories about her. She lives in all our hearts and always will. Your lives have left an impression in my heart that will last forever. Love Aunt Shirley

sonny mathews

May 5, 2005

I'm so thankful that you, Deanna and Pat thought enough of me to include me in a few unforgettable moments in Abby's life. The memories I will always remember and cherish. God bless you both. love Sonny

Rob & Jennifer Bryant

May 2, 2005

Deanna & Pat-

Thank you so much for sharing Abby with us. She was a joy. I am so proud that we were able to spend as much time with her as we did. We watched her grow through pictures and that made us feel like we were around here even more than we were. Those pictures mean the world to us.

Thank you for chosing us to be Abby's Godparents. You will never know how much that meant to us. We loved that little girl more than anything. Abby will always have a special place in our hearts. Abby is now watching over us and she will always be our Guardian Angel.



We love you both and we will always be here for ya'll.

Abby getting spoiled by Aunt Jenn.

May 2, 2005

Abby and Uncle Rob playing with the puppy.

May 2, 2005

Sandra Lusinger

April 8, 2005

Deanna and Pat, So many things to say, so many things you don't want to hear right now. Just know that God is with you both at all times and I know my Jason is playing with Abbie right now! Please know that you both can get in touch any time you want or need to. Yes I have lost a child , NO I don't know how you feel, it is different for everyone, but God is the same and he will give you strenght. In Christian Faith, Sandra

Beth & John Mikulka

April 8, 2005

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. John and I are good friends of Jen Slusar and Chris McGrath. We lost our baby girl in August of 2004 so we know just what you are going through. This is something that you will never get over but the pain does get better with time. Abby will hold a special place in your hearts forever. Never let her spirit die.

T.J. GANN

April 7, 2005

Jim and I are extremely sorry for your loss. We love you both and we know in our hearts that you both have the strength to get through this. Abby will always hold a very special place in my heart that can be touhed by no one else.



If you ever need anything, please, give us a call, anytime, day or night.



We love you both.



Aunt Reesie and Jim

Tammy Owens

April 7, 2005

Dearest Deanna and Pat-

All of our worlds came apart upon hearing that our baby was gone. Deanna, it was so hard for us to have to tell your mom (our dear friend and co-worker) that her precious Abby was gone when only days earlier in the office after speaking with you she had so excitedly informed us that "Abby had learned something new and was jumping off the couch". We all love her and will miss her deeply, but take comfort in knowing that she touched us all in her very short time here with us.

June Hills

April 4, 2005

I am so very sorry for your loss and I dont know that reading these messages help you, but in some small way I hope that comfort is given to you by knowing people care, and that your whole family is in the thoughts and prayers of many. I was a family friend of the Lahnans from Springfield Pa, and grew up with Larry, Cindy and Cathy. Such a beautiful little angel, and God bless you all.

Abby's Christmas "slobbered kiss to cousin Haylee

April 4, 2005

Brenda & Lonnie Short

April 2, 2005

Jan & Bear,

Lonnie & I are so sorry for your loss. We lost our 18 year old grandson last May so I know your pain. God will get you through it.



Love you both,

Brenda & Lonnie

Ellen Moore

April 2, 2005

Oh I am so sorry. I am a friend of Grandmother Jan and Grandpa Bear. Little Abigail will join all the little angles and smile down on all of us.

Abbies SMILE

April 1, 2005

cuszin haylee mcmahon

April 1, 2005

dear patrik and deana, iam sorry that baby abigail is gone. she is in heven with my grampa chuck artlet sitting in a table playing a card game and petting my cat luke who is in pet heven and she is smileng at all of us. iam so happy that you brot her to see me. i love everyone and my baby cuszin abigail,she slobbred a kiss on me.

love, haylee

Jay Thompson

March 31, 2005

Deanna & Pat –



I only had the joy of meeting Abby a couple of times, but I will never forget her smiles and laughs. Try to remember the good times. I can’t imagine what you all are going through. Hopefully knowing that you and Abby are in the thoughts and prayers of everyone at the office is of some comfort to you in these trying times.



I’ve told you this before, and I really mean it. If there is ANYTHING I can do for you, please don’t hesitate to call me, anytime, day or night.



God bless you, Abby, Bear, Jan, Larry and Jane (and all the family and friends I didn't get to meet).

Tracy

March 31, 2005

I didn't know anyone in this family or Abigail. I'm just a complete stranger that came across this obituary today. I can't imagine losing a child. It has got to be the worst pain to go through. I wish there were words of comfort I could offer you to ease the pain. Please know that my heart and prayers go out to you and may your precious Abigail rest in heavenly peace.



Heaven's Child



I would not like for you to cry

It's just a part of life to die

I know you miss me and you're sad

But dying isn't something bad.



I'm only just beyond your sight

Iv'e gone with Angels to the light

I send to all of you my love

From Heaven's garden up above.



I like it here, I'm having fun

And I am with The Holy One

I am sitting on his knee

With Jesus watching over me.



So many souls I knew before

Were waiting here at Heaven's Door

To welcome me with open arms

And keep me safe and make me warm.



So when you think of me please smile

For I will see you in a while

Trust the Lord, don't ask Him why

He wants me here to paint the sky



With rainbows, clouds and shining lights

To brighten days and warm your nights

Remember what I said before

Please don't cry for me any more.



I am Heaven's Child, you see

I play with Angels surrounding me

I can fly with the speed of thought

To be with you when you think I'm not



So please remember I love you

And I know you love me too

And even now, while we're apart

I'm still right here... I'm in your heart.





Remember there is no deaths, just a change of worlds.



God Bless,

Tracy

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