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Pnutbot
July 15, 2025
You were hardcore.
Jill Hurd
January 12, 2025
Brandon, 21 years ago you changed so many things. I hate that you are gone. I miss you. Yesterday was the anniversary also of Grandma Thompson passing too. Mom and Dad are gone and both mourned for you while they were alive. I´m pretty sure you were his favorite until we meet again someday fly high you brat!
Diane
January 10, 2025
21 years never forget you Brandon
Diane
January 11, 2024
20 years....... Still in our hearts
Sarah Austin
January 10, 2024
I only knew you for 6 years before you passed but I see my mom´s heart ache from losing you and I wish I could meet you again. I love you uncle Brandon
Diane
January 20, 2023
You will never be forgotten
Shannon
January 19, 2023
20 years, how is that possible? I miss you, my friend.
Jill Hurd (Vedas)
January 12, 2022
19 years ago we lost your beautiful soul. Mom and dad are both with you now too. You will never be forgotten. We love you and will always remember your funny antics and genius ideas. Rest In Peace. Until I see you again. Your Sissy.
Diane van Os
January 10, 2022
Never forgotten Brandon
Sarah Austin
May 23, 2021
I love you so much
Jill Hurd
March 1, 2020
My little brother not a day goes by your not on my mind. Grandma T, Greg, Memoe, papa,Mom, Dad, Everyone around keeps leaving this earth. I wish we had more time together. So many things I never got to tell you. i Miss you!
sesh
February 4, 2020
rip
Mom and Alexzander
Jill Hurd
January 5, 2019
My little brother you will be forever missed by all of us. Mom passed away the day after Christmas this year and I know she is up above catching up with you on everything. I love you and miss your voice. Your sister Jill
Diane Van Os
September 16, 2017
Sorry for the lost fam Vedas. Father and son finally together.
Angel of Light
September 15, 2017
"Vedas, Richard Brooke 75 of Chandler, Arizona, left this earth unexpectedly from St. Joseph's Hospital at 12:53 p.m. on Monday June 19th, 2017. " - it seems father has re-united with son. All the best
mndfreeze T
July 13, 2017
You still get talked about on the forums now and then. I hear you mentioned in random corners of the internet still. I think you'd like to know that people are still talking about you and that you are missed.
Richard Vedas
January 11, 2017
I miss you Son with all of my heart. My time here grows shorter, and we will meet in the future. I sure could use your IT skills! Until we meet again Son. I think of you every day.
Love Dad
Thor
May 21, 2016
Still think often about Brandon and especially his family. You are all in my thoughts.
Rich
May 10, 2016
Dropping by to say hi. It's been 13 years.
Gr3p
Richard Vedas
January 12, 2016
Hi Brandon, Another year has passed and I still miss you every day. I think of you quite often, wondering what it would be like today if you were still with us. If the phone rings and I hear "Hows it going Dad" I know that we will be together again. Call me when it is time. Until we meet again.Dad
Sarah Austin
July 30, 2015
I think about you often, and it's sad to say I was so young when you left us, but I know you are a wonderful man and I looked up to you. I remember going over to grandmas and drawing you pictures. I love you so so much Uncle Brandon. <3
Prom night
Richard Vedas
July 29, 2015
I have not been here in quite some time. I really miss having an IS person on call! Now I just muddle through my computer problems. I am getting old, so maybe we will meet sometime in the future. Love and miss you every day. Dad & Deb
Richard Vedas
April 21, 2014
Today is your 33rd birthday.I miss you so much.Just to sit and talk. We love and miss you every day Brandon. If I could have one wish, it would be to see you again.You left a big empty place in my heart.With all of my love Dad
Richard Vedas
January 17, 2014
Hi Bran, I guess my last entry fell into the bit bucket. I know that I miss you every day. It is still my hope to hear you call and say "hows it going Dad". Part of me died that day.
KC K
August 30, 2013
My brother was friends with you for years, and though I only hung out with you when he didn't chase me off, I still remember you. Ten years have come and gone, but people still remember, and we always will.
Richard Vedas
April 22, 2013
Yesterday would have been your 32nd birthday.We miss you every day.You are in our thoughts. We love and miss everything that is so special about you.
Dad and Debi
Richard Vedas
January 11, 2013
Brandon,You are in my thoughts every day.I think of what should have been, and wonder what you could have accomplished.I miss you so much.
Love Dad
Vincent Harrison
August 29, 2012
Hey dude, don't know why I'm writing this but I usually check this every year and see what people have wrote. I feel so bad for the loss your family have had and your dad's messages make my heart break, I hope they find the peace they deserve one day, rest well.
Stacey
April 20, 2012
I know I'm a day early, but Happy Birthday anyways. You always used to like to tell people 4-20 was your bday..
A few days ago, I was going through a box of old momentos and I found a letter you sent me back when we first met... it seems like so long ago, yet it also seems like it was all just yesterday.
I still get choked up and feel like my stomach drops to the floor of the car when I exit the 17 on Bell and turn East. I still miss you, and I'm sure that will never change. You were a great "adopted" brother, and you'll always be in my heart.
Love ya.
Richard Vedas
January 12, 2012
Brandon,Time has not changed how I feel about missing you. I often think about you and remember the talks that we had. I wish that you were here to see where technology has changed so much.I know that you would be on the leading edge as always.
We love and miss you every day. Nine years ago a part of me died with you.I would love to hear your laugh and to see your smile.
We love and miss you Son,Love Dad and Deb
Deb Vedas
November 7, 2011
Brandon, You are always on our minds and in our hearts. Your dad and I talk about you often and always with smiles and laughter. You are so very much loved and missed. We love you son. . . . . Deb and Dad
Stacey
April 21, 2011
Happy Birthday, Brandon. I'm sorry we didn't get to see the Big 3-0 together. Miss you.
Love, Stacey.
sarah austin
March 8, 2011
i love you uncle brandon :) forever, every night i used to draw u a picture :)
Stacey
January 13, 2011
I still miss you, Brandon. I miss hearing your laugh. I miss your smile and the look you got in your eyes when you were up to something. I think about you often.
It really doesn't feel like it has been eight years.
I love you.
Richard Vedas
January 12, 2011
Today you have been gone for eight years, We still miss you every day. I know that my life changed forever when we lost you. I think of you when I have any problems with tecnology.You will always be in my heart and in my thoughts.
I love you Brandon,Dad
Diane van Os
September 6, 2010
Brandon for ever
Deborah Vedas
September 5, 2010
Thinking of you.
Richard Vedas
April 21, 2010
Hi Brandon, It would be your 29th birthday today. I often think about you and miss you every day. Life goes on but part of it is missing without you. You are forever in out hearts.
Love Dad
December 16, 2009
Brandon,
You are a true legend. We all still love you man.
November 4, 2009
Dear Brandon,
Everybody still love you and nevr forget you
diane
Juergen Philipp
October 17, 2009
My Condoloscence to you all. I never knewed Brandon aKa Ripper. Has found out that Case by researching the Internet for Similar Cases.
Power to all you
Juergen aKa MysticFire from Germany
brian mccurry
August 31, 2009
I was stunned when I hear of this horrible situation.My kid brother told me about Brandon and what happened.I wish the website dedicated to him was still avalable.I never knew Brandon but my heart goes out to his family and friends.Such a tragic loss.My condolences...R.I.P Brandon/ripper....
Zachary Roberts
August 27, 2009
Everyone makes mistakes, and nobody is perfect. We will remember you for your lust of life, intelligence, sense of humor, and every other good quality that you possessed. We love you and we miss you.
IT Guy
July 10, 2009
Still sad and relevant many years later...
RIP Brandon/Ripper
matt
June 18, 2009
RIP m8
Carrie H
April 22, 2009
I happened to stumble across this while reading of a similar incident that happened in 2007. As I read it, I immediately thought of Brandon. I scroll down the page and what do I see but Brandon's name.
I worked with Brandon at University of Phoenix at the time he died. I remember being pulled into a "meeting" with a few others and told of his death. I didn't know him outside of work though, which is too bad. He truly sounded like an awesome person to know.
I hope the days are getting easier for all. It will never go away as the memories will never fade.
I have since moved back to Wisconsin, and even the little that I knew of him has touched even me.
Richard Vedas
April 21, 2009
Hi Brandon,Today is your birthday.You are in my thoughts every day. The time grows longer but the memories do not fade. We miss you so much. I love you Son. Dad
diane van os
December 5, 2008
Love you Brandon vedas,
Never ever forget you
Diane
the netherlands
David Deakins
November 22, 2008
I appreciate the site you developed for your brother... I hope that your experiences can help someone else out in need... and save another life. God Bless.
Jaimie Kerr
November 21, 2008
That's really sad, I dont do the whole chat room scene, but if i could have, i would have called every type of authority i could. I know it's a little late, but my regards go out to his family.
Anoyn. Sober
October 23, 2008
Thanks Brandon Vedas, God Bless You. You have saved my life. I almost od'ed on cocaine and i was looking at people who od'ed and i stumbled upon your site, i read every word of the chat logs and i felt as if i was in your shoes. I have this grip of drugs and i am hardcore, until i die. Brandon know up there in heaven you have saved my life. Oct. 14th was my date i almost OD'ed and i have been sober since Oct. 16th 2008, i'll be here next year to sign the book again to let you know that i have changed my life and that you are there in ever part of my journey to becoming sober.
Amanda Bower
September 18, 2008
I found out about Brandon on a website, and I wish I would have known such a kind and loving person. The story really touched my heart and I am so sorry for your loss. See you in Heaven Brandon.
Alec
May 7, 2008
I StumbledUpon this page. Immediately I was captured by this story. I used to abuse pills as well and I deeply understood what he went through, with his addiction. I know the feeling of taking too much and I thank GOD that I never OD'd. I hope someone using, right now, sees this and decides to stop using. Please, it's not worth it, as you can see. God rest his soul.
Erik LaFave
February 8, 2008
I was recently made aware of Brandon's story via a post on a BB by someone who was deeply affected by the story and it is a tragedy indeed. My heart goes out to the Vedas family. I will say a prayer for them tonight. Stay strong and to all of those who were touched by this tragedy my heart and thoughts are with you. For those who are struggling with addiction or are dealing with someone who is stay strong, keep your heads up, and love one another as deeply as you can for we do not know what tomorrow brings.
darin martin
October 18, 2007
I worked with Brandon at University of Phoenix. We started at the same time and were in the same training class together. We ate lunch together and shared many conversations in the months before his passing. Rest assured that even though its been almost 5 years people still remember him and the time they spent with him. My thoughts of him came up while I was writing a song and I was inspired by the thoughts of how short life is.
Jordan Niemi
October 3, 2007
The story of this young man really moved me, it scared me straight, I send my deepest sympathies to Brandon's family and friends... It's such a tragedy.
Elise Bond
August 31, 2007
The site about Brandon was brought to my attention by a friend, and it moved me deeply. I pray for comfort for the family, as I'm sure it is still painful to this day. Hopefully people will continue to learn from this and find courage to take action when it is needed.
Christine Williams
May 20, 2007
I also found this while using Stumble Upon and felt compelled to express how sorry I am to his family for their loss. What a horrible thing! I am so sorry and as a mother, I hope that his parents are doing as well as expected 4 years after his death.
Eric F
May 11, 2007
I have to say that I hearing your story has moved me deeply although I can't say why. I'm sure you're in a better place and I hope you're family is doing well. RIP
Tina
March 14, 2007
I just happened to find this, using Stumble, a Firefox browser add-on. I just HAD to say, though it's late, I'm so sorry for your loss. I've read the entries, found the website dedicated to him... He was so loved, and it seems he was a very loving guy.
May he rest in peace, and may those of you left behind find peace.
Rachael Monroe
March 7, 2007
Well cosin it has been along time, I miss you soooo much still. I wish to God you could have met Christian. He is so big and beautyful now. Your father thinks he looks like you too! It is still so strange that you are gone. every time we go to Phoenix I almost forget. I think I'll see you there. I especialy hate birthday time, I miss you, God I miss you.
Desiree G
January 28, 2007
Hi Brandon it is me again, I just want to thank you and your family, for through your tradgedy I now understand the need to hold my little ones a little tighter, and watch them a little more closely, and to always remember how fragile life really is, and how important it is to make sure my girls know I love them and I will always be here for them. I will when they are old enough to understand (at least another 12 yrs, yes they are that little) pass your story on to them and pray that it impacts them as it has me, profoundly! God bless you all, and may you know that that day will come, when we all will be united once again, in his warming embrace. With love from my family.
He must have said something funny!
January 26, 2007
Brandon didn't even want to go to the prom! I had to practically drag him there!
January 26, 2007
That is the classic Brandon smile!
Jewels Foley
January 26, 2007
It's been a very long time since I wrote here. I think I'm finally actually thinking about how our lives could have been if we'd stayed together. I think about how we might have gotten married about now. It would have been over 7 years since we met. How time flies! I think about what our children would have looked like (beautiful!). I think about these things not with regret, because the past is unchangeable, but with hope that you’re happy now and someday I’ll find someone else who means as much to me as you did. Always will I remember the good times and the bad.
Gudrun K
January 10, 2007
I didnt have the chance to know Brandon. But I feel so sad about what happened- I hope something like that never happens again. I wish the best to Brandons family and friends- he will live in your hearts forever!
Diane van Os
January 1, 2007
Dear dear Brandon Rest in Peace
And your brother is so a fine person.
No one will ever forget you
Billy Alexiadis
December 13, 2006
I don't personally know Brandon or his family but I came across his story online and I haven't stopped thinking about since and I wish his family the best and hope they have a merry christmas. Rest in Peace Brandon Vedas.
Desiree
December 13, 2006
Just wanted to wish you and your family a merry christmas, and pray that they are all doing well. God bless to all.
Gillian
December 11, 2006
Dear Brandon,
Although I did not know you personally, I feel very connected and moved by your story. Your legacy has touched my heart and most definitely helped me become a better person. My deepest sympathy goes out to your kind and caring family and friends; Brandon, even though your life reached a tragic end, you are in God's hands now, and he still has much in store for you. May you rest in peace, Brandon, and know that you will always remain in my heart and in the hearts of many.
Sally
September 15, 2006
I just learned about Bradon's story from a friend and I wanted to add my thoughts and prayers to the many already written here. I have been working with mentally ill and chemically dependent people for ten years and hope to continue to do so for the rest of my career. Stories like this are heart-breaking.
Thor
July 21, 2006
I can't believe how the years pass so quickly, I still think often of you bud.
Its very touching to read all the nice things said here, its really moving.
I hope the Vedas family is doing well, your son's story has touched a lot of hearts, and my thoughts are with you most of all.
Be strong and remember the good times.
Thor.
Debi Vedas
July 3, 2006
A friend of mine lost his son this week in a terrible accident. It hurts so bad and I can't help him feel less of the pain. It will always tear his heart out thinking about how much he loves and misses him or what could have been if he were still alive. I am reminded of the pain I feel in my heart when I think about the way you left this world. It was so very wrong and is still so painful to think about. I love you and think about you every day. We send our love. Debi and Dad
Alex
June 29, 2006
:( R.I.P
shan
May 1, 2006
I let your birthday pass and tried not to dwell as much as I have in past years. That said, I feel you around me often and I'm glad that I do. I still miss you so much.
joshua fladger
April 27, 2006
I miss you brandon. you always had sooo much to say. I loved the conversations that we used to have together. I just wanted to relay a couple of thoughts.
still thinking of my friend....
joshua fladger
Bill
April 22, 2006
Hey Brandon, I never knew you, but it seems like I did in many ways, Im so sorry things happened like they did, you will be missed and never forggoten.
R.I.P bro.
Richard Vedas
April 20, 2006
Hi Bran,Tomorrow is your Birthday,I would have had alot of fun kidding you about being twenty five! I miss you so very much,it has been hard to not have you here with us to share life. If I could have one wish it would be to hear you say "Hows it going Dad" I don't have you here to remind me that I am gettig old. The time grows longer but the memories do not fade. I think of you every day.
We love and miss you Son.
Love Dad and Debi
Vivian Tse
April 17, 2006
I just found out about Brandon's story today. I am deeply saddened by this tragedy. Brandon, you have a fantastic father. Rest in peace. Even though the pain remains, remember that memories can never be taken away from you (to all those who loved Brandon).
With full sympathy, from vivian
Brian Murray
January 24, 2006
Hello, Brandon, and all who read this entry. I have put off signing this guestbook as I am not one to put my sentiment in writing often. I must say that since I read the news stories about your death and the transcript of your last chat, I was struck by the way in which they reflected our own human weaknesses. Also, my own life closely reflected yours, apart from drug use, but I kept imagining my friends who are not so carefull falling into the same mistakes that lead to that fatefull night.
In 2004, I did a small class project on Documentary Theatre. I looked to your story for inspiration, and developed it into a 10 minute video. I got such a strong positive reaction from the class and my peers that I submitted it for a workshop performance. In fact, I am personally taking responsibility to direct the performance.
I promise to honor you and those that were with you in your last hour by telling your story in a way that will personally affect those who might have pushed aside you with jokes or scorn before. I also promise to not only make this a small, one-time theatre exersise, but to build a resource for those in need of help or understanding involving drug use, depression, and addiction.
I come to you with all the noblest intentions.
For your family, Brandon, I hope they will give me their blessing or even their support in this endevor. I applaud their effort to share your story on www.brandonvedas.com .
For those seeking more information on the project i am working on, Email me at [email protected] and I will respond with a link to our website.
Thank you,
Brian Murray
Nathan Hodg
January 22, 2006
I read over the death of brendon, and it really touched me. Life is too short, and make the best of it. Sorry for your loss and hope you are coping. god bless.
Nathan (Melbourne, Australia)
Myke Marugg
January 19, 2006
Hi, you didn't know me but I am just one of the people who read about your story and your chat logs and I felt if I didn't write something here it would be pointless of me and it might aswell have been (if I didn't write you something) that you died in vain...
although your family prob believes you did die pointlessy I assure you that millions of people around the world have been broken hearted and countless lives have been saved as a result.
I didn't know you and maybe you'll never know who I am but you are up their with Kurt Cobain prob living it up and you will be alongside my late mother in my prayers. Rest In Peace
james h
January 15, 2006
very sad story i hope this has made those people in the room that night think, also everyone else for that matter. Rest in Peace Brandon
Desiree
January 12, 2006
Dearest Brandon,
I am doing research for a presentation for college, and while doing so I found your story, and I am soo upset to the point that typing this now my hands are shaking. I was reading over the IRC pages and I literally was taken back in time and felt every emotion as if I were there with you. I found myself thinking of all the things I would have done to help. I am sooo sorry for this unspeakable tradgedy. Please know that when I do my presentation, (even though it has nothing to do with this) I am going to share your story to my classmates that day. I am quite moved by your Father, he is a dedicated Dad, my father was never around, you are lucky to have him, he loves you I can tell. I cry every time I read his entries. To your family and "real" friends, may God bless you and help ease your suffering.
Thoughts and prayers are with you.
It's been 3 years today, ironic huh?
Richard Vedas
January 11, 2006
Hi Bran, As the days go by and the time grows longer since you have left us here. I think of you every day.People say that time will heal,but I can not say it is true for me.It has been three very long years,to not hear your voice.I miss you so very much. Just to hear you say "How is it going Dad" again.It is hard during the Holidays as I think of you more often.You are always in our thoughts.
We love and miss you, Dad
Abdi A
December 31, 2005
I feel your pain after reading about Brandon's story quite recently. It should never have happened and I truly hope your recovering from your loss. May ALLAH (s.w.t.) help you through your pain and suffering.
Hemendra Rathi
December 29, 2005
I'm sorry for your loss. God Bless.
Kirstin Hess
October 23, 2005
Liebe Familie Vedas,
leider kann ich Ihnen nur auf Deutsch schreiben. Ich war und bin sehr erschüttert als ich Ihre Homepage laß. Nie hätte ich gedacht das sowas möglich ist und niemand rechtzeitig einschreiten konnte. Ihre tiefe Trauer ist mehr als verständlich. Und ich danke Ihnen für diese Homepage.
Ich wünsche Ihnen Gottes Kraft und Hilfe, Ihr Leben weiter zu leben. Auch wenn sich die Lücke, die Brandon hinterlies, nicht wieder schliesen lässt.
Ich wünsche Ihnen alle Kraft dieser Erde.
Mit den besten Wünschen und Gedanken, Kirstin Hess (Regensburg/Geramny)
Shelli
September 3, 2005
I am truly saddened to read this. I had not heard this story and stumbled upon it quite by accident. My sympathy to the family. I am saddened at the peer pressure and I am saddened that no one followed through with help. Many lessons were learned, but so sad this young man lost his life in the process. Again-- my heartfelt sympathy to all who knew and loved this young man. May he live forever in your hearts.
Nemanja Pavlovic
August 4, 2005
rest in peace B <3
Travis A
April 22, 2005
I miss talking to you man. It was good to see the prom pictures of you. You looked so happy, and I hope you're having fun now. Take it easy man.
Richard Vedas
April 22, 2005
Hi Bran, When I see this picture I always think about your great smile and sideways glances. They never changed as you were growing up. I wish I could see them again in person. This picture always make me smile.
We love and miss you Son
Dad & Debi Vedas
"A Very Happy 1st Birthday" April 21st 1982
April 22, 2005
brandi esterman
April 22, 2005
ive heard about this before but i never read so deeply in this and now that i did it hurts..im so sorry for you loss and those ppl would have never made real friends to him....R.I.P
Richard Vedas
April 21, 2005
Hi Bran, Today would be your 24th birthday."HAPPY BIRTHDAY". I wish that we could say it to you in person. We miss you each and every day, the time grows longer but the memories do not fade. Forever in our hearts and minds, we love you.
Dad & Debi Vedas
shan
April 21, 2005
Happy birthday, hon.
Michael
April 18, 2005
my thoughts, sympathy and love go to all of brandons family and to brandon. god bless. we may have lost a freind, but heaven gained an angel.
Jewels and Brandon
April 12, 2005
Brandon and Jewels Prom
Dad and Debi Vedas
April 11, 2005
We miss you every day. The memories of good times help. The pictures of you Jewels are some of my very fondest memories.
We love and miss you Son.
Dad and Debi
Kathleen P
April 3, 2005
Dear Brandon,
some weeks ago I heard about your story and it touched me very strange. It makes no sense ... So many beautiful things you will never see again.
Rest in Peace ... and save a smile in heaven for us :)
Hugs from Kathleen
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