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November 10, 2012
Tony, WE love you and Brenda, I will always remember her being so funny when she openly disagreed with you! She was always strong and happy during her struggle. Love Tom and Lezli Rogers
Samra Family
November 8, 2012
Brenda touched our lives with her generosity in opening up her beautiful home for so many piano recitals. She will be truly missed! A donation has been made to the Lost Boys that she was so passionate about.
Jane and Terry Spannagel
November 7, 2012
Dear Tony,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Brenda was a beautiful person inside and out, we were so fortunate to have known her.
Mike Walterman
November 6, 2012
Dear Tony, Lorie, Cam, Bettie, and Roy,
It is hard to know what to say during times like these; mere words don't express what one feels. My memories of a healthy and vibrant Brenda will be what lives on. She had a wonderfully mischievous nature that - when combined with her intelligence and warmth - made life so rich for the rest of us.
Dan Farrell Davis
November 6, 2012
Brenda, we miss you.
Natalie Lang
November 6, 2012
Our friendship brought me considerable fun and joy. You will always remain in my heart in a very special place. Natalie Lang
Jane Ashley
October 30, 2012
Brenda your sparkle will live forever in my heart, reminding me of how blessed I was to know and love you. May your heart sing and your spirit soar, Brenda. You were a beautiful gift to us in life and are a beautiful memory to us now. And so your gift continues to give us comfort and condolence, to all of your loved ones.Thank you, Darling! You will be missed.?j
Pia Davidsen
October 27, 2012
Dear Tony,
Brenda was my role model, and I have always admired her strong spirits! She was such a generous person, also to me, and I will remember her forever! I am so sorry for your loss... Pia Davidsen, Denmark
The Jaffe Family
October 27, 2012
Dear Tony,
We had the honor of volunteering with Brenda at the AZ Lost Boys Center since 2004. Her gentle and caring nature and dedication to those in need will never be forgotten. She was an inspiration to those who were fortunate enough to spend time with her. We will never forget Brenda's love for the Lost Boys and the countless lives she touched. She was a truly remarkable woman.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Most Sincerely,
Michael, Tracy, Anne, Katie, and David Jaffe
Joe and Terry McGill
October 26, 2012
Tony,
Terry and I are so sorry to hear of your loss, and of Brenda's enduring battle with such a terrible disease. Our thoughts and prayers are with Brenda, you and your families.
Roger Schwartz
October 26, 2012
Sending loving light!
Randee Mossburg
October 25, 2012
Brenda was a very special woman, and I am so fortunate to have known her. She was a light in my life, and will always be remembered and loved.
Phyllis Steckler
October 25, 2012
Tony, everyone loved Brenda and it was a delight to work with her. She was a gentle, kind, and loving person. Her struggle against cancer was inspiring to everyone. She will be missed but her memory will live on forever. We mourn with you.
October 25, 2012
Tony, Lori, Betty & Roy, I am very sad that this has finally come to pass and so sorry for your loss and pain. I will miss her so much for the rest of my life but am so very grateful for having had Brenda's friendship and so many good times together for these past 35 years. As the card she once sent me says "Good friends are like stars. You don't always see them but you know they're always there..." Bren, I know you are there and your love for all of us is forever.
Gail Kamensky
Sherri Schwartz
October 25, 2012
It seemed like Brenda just kept surviving this battle for so long that I thought she would just keep going. It's amazing she was so strong to have even stayed with us for all these years. I can still hear her laugh and remember her humor - she is unforgetable.
October 25, 2012
Brenda was amazing!!! Always ready to laugh and always ready to see what she could do for you.
I will greatly miss her.
Marilyn Szabo
Kelly Brown
October 25, 2012
Tony,
My only contact with your lovely Brenda was over the phone and always about "business" or she was trying to track you down! (you had your phone forwarded to the office)
Her warmth and kindness was evident in how she spoke and interacted with me. I only saw Brenda in passing a couple of times at 3120. I was not even aware that it was Brenda until she had left and I regret not knowing that that was indeed, "Brenda, Tony's wife" as told by one of the women at the office and this after she had left. I can tell you that she left that same positive feeling in the office, albeit brief. She certainly had a definite "presence" that was palpable. I remember thinking to myself, "who was that graceful and elegant woman?". I was not at all surprised when I did find out. My condolences to you Tony - and may Brenda rest in peace.
John Squires
October 25, 2012
Tony, I would like to express my sincere condolences. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Fran Parker
October 24, 2012
I see and think of Brenda every day. She was a beautiful friend and and mentor. She taught me so many important things in life with her caring and always honest ways. Our hearts and prayers are with you all of your family and know Brenda and Boo Boo are smiling down at all of us who love her and already miss her so. Much Love......
Ken Hoag
October 24, 2012
I will very much miss that smiling face that cast a bright light every time Brenda and friends gathered for coffee and laughs. She is very special in my heart and always will be.
Jack Lane
October 23, 2012
Tony, Val, Ray and to everyone who loved her, you have my deepest condolences. The holidays and celebrations all events where she'll always be and there will be wonderful stories. I care hear partials in my mind right now. May she rest in quite peace and may her memories bring you smiles.
Jack Lane
October 23, 2012
Tony you were so happy together and it was so easy to tell. My condolences to all of you. I'll never forget her wonderful smiles at holiday gatherings. May she rest in quite peace.
Pete & Diana Chasar
October 23, 2012
Though our relationship with Brenda was at first as business associates, we quickly grew to love and respect her for her honesty, integrity, and wonderful sense of humor. In fact, Brenda's robust laugh was a treat in itself to listen to. And, over the years, we became friends, staying connected even after retiring and moving 1200 miles away to Oregon. She will be sincerely missed.
Deanna De La Noy
October 22, 2012
Such a lovely lady. Tony, you and your family are in my prayers.
ursula keller
October 22, 2012
Tony I am sorry about your loss .My prayers are with you and you're family
Sheila Watson
October 22, 2012
Dear Brenda, I will always remember you. At the rising of the sun and as its going down, I will remember you.
At the blowing of the wind and the chill of winter, I will remember you. At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring, I will remember you.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of summer, I will remember you. At the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of autumn, I will remember you.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends, I will remember you. When I am weary and in need of strength, I will remember you.
When I have joy I crave to share, I will remember you. As long as I live, so will you live; for you are now a part of me, as I will remember you.
Tom Hervey
October 22, 2012
To my dear friend Tony,
Kay and I shared such a short amount of time with Brenda due to us living so far away, yet in that short amount of time, we recognized what a remarkable and accomplished woman that she was in so many ways. We admired her passion for life and her inner and outer beauty. We will always cherish those short times we had with you two. You are in our thoughts today......
Fondly,
Tom and Kay Hervey
Carrie and Andy Coryell
October 22, 2012
Our heart goes out to Michael Rossetti and the entire Rossetti family. We are so sorry for your loss. We are sending prayers and hugs from Michael's sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Carrie and Andy Coryell
Ted Decker
October 21, 2012
My life is blessed by my 25+-year friendship with Brenda. Tony and Brenda's parents and Lorie are in my prayers. Her light shines brighter than ever in my eyes and heart.
Dawn and Mike Rossetti
October 21, 2012
We Love you Uncle Tony. We will miss Aunt Brenda greatly. Know we will be thinking of you constantly as you grieve. Love Always and Forever, Mike, Dawn, Cayla and Jake.
Vickie Austin
October 21, 2012
My heart is with you, Tony, and all Brenda's family and friends as we grieve the loss of our beloved Brenda. She was a light in my life and so many others and she will be missed immeasurably. Sending love until I see you soon~
elaine goldman
October 20, 2012
Please accept our deepest sympathy on the loss of this great woman.I loved working with her and yes, her eyes always did sparkle. I will miss her very much.
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