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Brian Ong Obituary
was born October 6, 1955 in Phoenix, AZ. He was preceded in death by brother, Gregory Wing Ong. Surviving spouse: Beth Ong. Surviving children: Daughter, Jeracah Mishler, Son-in-law, Brent Mishler, Son, Jacob Marchand, Granddaughter, Ella Mishler. Surviving relatives: Father, Jack Sumner Ong, Mother, Janet Fuji Snyder, Sisters, Debbie Gayle Adams and Janelle Marie Ong, Brothers, Bradley Wing Ong and Derek Vincent Ong. Brian Wing Ong was a man who changed the countless lives of everyone who knew him. He had a captivating smile, rock star presence and colorful personality that pulled people into his life. As the grandson of the first Chinese Senator of Arizona, Wing F. Ong, Brian's enthusiasm for life and passion for people was demonstrated each day as he lived to; bring hope through his motivational talks, solutions to those who struggle and a sense of purpose to the lost. Brian was unafraid to admit his past with the intent to help others believe they could succeed; they could be and remain sober. He spoke the truth, was a loyal friend and devoted mentor. Our hearts ache to once again see his passion and know his presence. Visitation 6-8PM Friday, March 28, 2008 at Messinger Pinnacle Peak Mortuary 8555 E. Pinnacle Peak Rd., Scottsdale, AZ 85255. Services 11AM Saturday, March 29, 2008 Scottsdale Bible Church 7601 E. Shea Blvd., Scottsdale AZ 85260. Contributions can be made to Knights of the Round Table Foundation 7273 E. Alta Sierra Drive, Scottsdale, AZ 85266.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian Ong
Rick Alan Ross
August 6, 2022
I knew Brian in the 1970s. This must have been before many of his struggles, which made him so strong and gave him the necessary insight and ability to help others. When I knew Brian we were both very young. He was razor smart and had a biting sense of humor. He could be profoundly serious and in an instant turn a corner a burst into laughter. He did not suffer fools and often made fun of people who took themselves too seriously. Reading all the comments here about Brian it seems to me that he ultimately found a way to draw upon all of this talents and life experiences. And that's the best anyone can do to realize their potential and purpose.
Moli M
March 4, 2021
I was saddened to hear you passed on to a new shore. Reading how you transformed your personal struggle into a beautiful service to others in such a dynamic way brings amazing joy to my soul. So proud of your strength and love. I will always love you. Sending much peace happiness to your family and everyone your light touched in your time here.
Wish you were here~
August 5, 2013
Happy Jack ~ We love you dad
August 5, 2013
HAPPY EASTER ~ 2008
August 5, 2013
HAPPY 50TH ~ I'M BLESSED
August 5, 2013
glen millinger
April 26, 2009
to beth and family thank you for letting us have brian a while...brian saved my life over and over again..he has been the dad i never had and didn't know i needed..even today he is teaching me...i loved him much in life but i loved him so much more in death when i look back and see what i have been given...thank you brian
Arthur Keating
April 25, 2009
Brian, the legacy still holds, your pools are and always will be hawaiian blue. You tought me well. I try to give like you did, and try to be the father like you were, aa'er and husband'er. I truly believe God has you still working mirracles and saving lives. Your office must be big, Im so proud of you, the retreats are making me feel stronger, and the knights meatings give me so much self esteem. Im sure I dont need to tell you everything, you are in so many places @ once, I love what has become of this world. God and AA. love you man, Arty,and the Keatings.
~ Arthur
casey oneal
April 25, 2009
Brian: it has been a tuff but busy year and every day you are a constant memory. i try to live my life in honor of you and everything you taught me. i miss the times we spent together and give thanks to GOD for the new life of sobriety that you introduced me to. i will always try to keep the torch burning for the love you had for the program of AA and the Knights of the Round Table.
Mark Hilfinger
April 25, 2009
Beth, Jeracah, and Jake: It is only by the sacrifice that you gave that I could receive the gift of recovery. I am eternaly grateful. As all ways, if there is any thing I can do for you, I would be honored. It is a great loss for all of us but his work was not in vain. The work God started through Brian, God will continue.
Mark Hilfinger
Mary Cabanski
April 25, 2009
Dear Beth: I wish I had words to comfort you in your loss. Brian meant a great deal to so many of us. His spirit DOES live on. Please take comfort in the love he left behind. Mary Cabanski
Jan Brown
April 24, 2009
Dear Beth as I ventured in my quest to find you and your family - I ran across another Beth Ong family which guided me here to learn that Brian had passed away. Our hearts goes out to you and your family - we will miss Brian as well. Beth, please contact me Jan Brown (Baby Bear Brown) at [email protected]. May God bless you and your family.
Jan Brown
April 24, 2009
Dear Beth as I ventured in my quest to find you and your family - I ran across another Beth Ong family which guided me here to learn that Brian had passed away. Our hearts goes out to you and your family - we will miss Brian as well. Beth, please contact me Jan Brown (Baby Bear Brown) at [email protected]. May God bless you and your family.
Craig Doherty
April 8, 2009
I just heard of the news of Brian passing -I met him in recovery about 10 years ago and have since moved to the Chicago area. There are still many things that Brian said that resonate with me and I will always remember how every time I called him, no matter what he was doing at the time, he acted as though he had been just waiting for my call. He was and will continue to be of maximum service to God and his fellows -I know that I am blessed to have been one of his fellows. Since you lived in action~I know you are resting in peace.
Craig Doherty Wheaton,IL
laurie shee
January 4, 2009
Brian, I have known from afar for so many years. Your sister and family means the world to me. I know hoaw much your sister misses you. I know that you on bigger and better things because you are a spiritual soul that makes us believe that there is a peaceful and and calm soleic of life that we should find in ourself is when we are ok.
Brian All my love Laurie
janelle Ong
January 4, 2009
brian, my friend my brother, my love, words can not expess my feelings of loss, that i have for you. you are my rock , my idol, my everything. even as i grew up , past the status of being your little sister you embraced me as an individual. I have always had the greatest respect for you. you're always in my dreams,my life, see you as soon as i can god willing.
Love always P-Nutt
Jack Ong
November 9, 2008
Brian you are sorely missed. I cannot believe that all the good deeds that you have accomplished went unnoticed by me. For that forgive me. I should have paid more attention to your work even thou your work was suppose to be anonymouus. It has taken me all these months to submit this entry because it makes your death a realty. I shall always cherish the last few months we spent together. I miss you so much. LOVE DAD
Jeracah Marchand-Mishler
October 6, 2008
Dad -
I miss you terribly...not a day goes where I don't think of you in some way. You are the best Dad and God blessed me with you to guide and raise me. I only hope you are proud of me and the woman I have become and that you shine down upon me and continue to guide me through this journey called life. I need your light more than ever to help not only myself but Mom and Jake too. You are so loved by many I just hope you knew that when you were alive. Tonight we will celebrate your Birthday as a family and I hope you are with us in spirit. I love you more than words could write and know in my heart of hearts you loved me just as much.
Denise Christopher-Cappiello
June 24, 2008
Dear Debbie
I was recently told of the passing of your brother Brian.In reading of all his many accomplishments and people he has touched I am not at all surprised..He had that amazing energy at a early age and a smile that lit up!I hope and pray that you have comfort in knowing that you have a tremendous angel with you always! I am truly so very sorry for you and your family's loss.
T. J. Raney
May 6, 2008
Brian was a delightful friend and neighbor who will be missed but his wonderful spirit will be here with us and always be remembered. My condolences to Beth, his family, and other friends. T. J. Raney, neighbor
Eric Anthony Joe
April 25, 2008
Dear Brian:
We were more than cousins. We were brothers. We walked different paths, but our lives were intertwined. We walked different paths, but we shared much of our Journey together, swimming in Grandma’s pool during the summer, busing tables at Wing’s and enduring Madison No. 2 and Camelback High. We walked different paths, but they always crossed from time-to-time. I was always glad to see you and to hear whatever you had to share. I was looking forward to that golf game. I am so very proud of all that you accomplished. I love you and I shall miss you until our paths cross again.
Robert Franklin
April 22, 2008
Brian and the Ong family were a large part of my life for many years while growing up. I have not seen Brian for many years and am very sad to hear of his passing. I am happy to hear that his life was well spent and that he touched so many people, I just wish I had stayed in touch.
my sympathy to all
Gabrielle aka "Bear" Ong
April 21, 2008
So much to say in such a short space. Brian is my cousin. My dad (good ole' Uncle Marvin) was actually the first person to take Brian into treatment. So the story goes. Then, ironically many years later Brian got to repay that favor to my dad. By guiding me in my journey to recovery. As many people can say...Brian saved my life. In so many ways that a person can be saved. Today, I am the mother that I thought my selfishness would never allow. I am a wife to my husband, in a relationship that I only dreamed could be possible. So full of love and trust. I am simply the person that I NEVER THOUGHT I could ever become. And I owe that to you Brian. All of it. Everyday that I look at my beautiful life through clear and sober eyes, I have you to thank. I only wish I could have told you more. Instead, I will live everyday to the fullest and try to lead by your example. If we could all dish out just a little bit of what you gave...the world could be a better place. Thank you, for everything. For my life, for my daughter, for my husband and for the way I see the world TODAY, and I love you. Beth, my thoughts and prayers are always with you. Call if you need anything.
Love You, Bear
wwBd?
Greg Fischer
April 21, 2008
My sincere condolences to Brian's family (especially Beth and the children). I can only imagine the vacuum left behind with your loss considering how much of an impact Brian had on me in such a short time. My observations are not unlike many others, Brian was truly an amazing presence to anyone in recovery. He spoke the truth, and it cut through everything to lay bare the essence of what needed to be addressed. His strength and conviction was and still is inspiring. Thank you God for allowing us the time we had, rest in peace Brian.
Randy Nettles
April 21, 2008
My deepest condolences to the Ong family. Brian will be missed he was the guiding light to me in my recovery. I will miss you
Auntie Roz
April 19, 2008
Brian, my slick, confident, handsome young nephew: You could do anything. You could make things happen. You told me so with a smile and a twinkle in your eyes. I knew you could do it or at least try your best. And yet, I never really got a chance to know you. Until now. Now that you are gone we have all learned how you crammed so much into so little time, and did so much to help so many people, we are in awe. I feel so honored that you selflessly gave part of your time to me when there were so many other people who needed you and depended on your love. Now, when I think about how you influenced so many people to live better lives, I realize that you experienced overwhelming rewards and satisfaction through your work, and therefore, your life was glorious. Rest in peace, Brian. You will always be remembered with respect and love.
Tim S
April 18, 2008
What a privelage it was to grow up in recovery around Brian I will miss you.My thoughts and prayers are with the Ong family.
David Wollenberg
April 18, 2008
Brian, You were taken away from us far too early, and the hole left by your passing is huge. Some people are bigger than life, and your legacy is bigger than death. As you would say " What a gift." I am thankful to have had the opportunity to know you and grow with you, and hope I can live up to the standards you set for us all. To Beth , Jerica, Jake and the rest of Brian's family, I extend my love and sympathies. I know we all have a new angel looking after us all. Rest in peace, Brian, my friend.
Janet Snyder
April 16, 2008
I would like to thank all of the kind people for the messages of condolences sent by Brian's friends and the people that he had mentored.
I hope the good he has done for others will continue on. The love and caring he had for all gave him the Peace and Serenity in his life. He was never judgemental. His humility and humbleness served him well.
As his mother I am a better person because of his giving personality, passion for a good cause and unconditional Love.
To One and All a Sincere Thank You!
Mom
Casey Oneal
April 16, 2008
Brian Ong was a true friend and a leader and taught me many valuable lessons. my life seems incomplete without him. i can only hope and pray for just a little of what he taught me to try and carry on to others. my sincere thanks to Beth and her children for also being a part of the last 10 years and can only hope our friendship and legacy of Brian will live on through all of us. i know that we have all benefited by the way he inspired all our lives.
Uncle Marvin
April 16, 2008
Brian was my brother, my son, my nephew, my friend. And I grieve the loss of all of them. There's nothing I can say that hasn't been said about the lives he's touched and the lives he's saved. So I will say goodbye to all four of them, until the day we all meet again. Love you Brian
Debbie Adams
April 11, 2008
Dear Brian,
My childhood with you is precious and filled with memories that I could go on and on about but will save that for later. For now I must tell you how I feel in my heart.
I miss you and I want you back.
The last time I saw you:
You did not judge me
You did not label me
You came outside with me and puffed on your cigar
At that moment - you were beautiful and made me feel beautiful too
Your eyes told me
That I hold a destiny
To take a breath
And breathe in life
To live as a person
Who can live unselfishly as you have
I am so proud of you that I want to shout out to the world of their loss.
When I see you again, I will hug you and and then I will SMILE because I have you back in my arms.
Love Deb
Seth Duhnke
April 8, 2008
Brian was a first class guy. I enjoyed seeing him at many Rocky Point Round-ups over the years.We even traveled to Hawaii as part of a group in 1998.I could talk to him for ever, he was such a positive guy.God bless.
Grace wan
April 6, 2008
I didn't even know that you have passed away,i read the chinese newspaper last night and i was so shock, cause you always so happy and full of energy,I would never thought your life would be this short. we haven't contact each other for the pass years, but i always remember the fun talk that we have at great clips while i cut your hair and jake hair. and thank for talking me into buying the life insurance. it will make the different for my childrens.I will always miss you and your family. Beth and Jack please take care.
April 5, 2008
Brian
Thank you for "walking your talk" and leading by example. Because of that, I've been able to change my life.
Mark Hewitt
April 5, 2008
Brian,
There will never be day that passes that I will not be thinking of you. You touched my life in so many ways. I consider myself lucky to have grown so close to you throughout the past year. The times we spent together watching movies and sharing stories is something I will cherish forever. You taught me what its like to help others, and if only I could accomplish what you have. You were my friend, my family and my mentor. God Bless
Alcoholics Anonymous
April 4, 2008
We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny. May GOD bless you and keep you-until then.
Devin Morris
April 3, 2008
Brian Ong was a true inspriation to the drudes of the land. He showed many how to become the people that they only dreamed of being. His life was dedicated to good deeds, service and simply being a friend. I was privillaged to know the man for 3 1/2 short years however I learned alot. Thank you God for allowing someone so awesome to be apart of my life.
So for the finial time Brian herd, as he has herd before, " BRIAN ONG ROLL UP!!" he is now in a better place and I will miss him very much.
Devin Morris
Rick Rose
April 1, 2008
As much as I admired Brian's ability to articulate his message to those seeking help, his actions in assisting them are what I will remember most. My prayers are with his family. He was a gift from God.
Rusty Pe`Kar
April 1, 2008
My condolences to Beth, Jake, Jericah, and the entire Ong Family. Brian brought the message of hope to me in 1993...my life has never been the same. At first he became my sponsor...as I listened and took action he became my mentor...when I opened up and got honest he became my dearest friend. During the last 15 years, he always gave me wise advice and never suggested anything that wasn't good for me...he cared more about my life than he did my feelings. God's grace brought our lives together with an eternal bond...I will forever be grateful for knowing Brian Wing Ong...what a gift! See you on graduation day Brother...
Jason Bean
April 1, 2008
Brian you made me feel welcome as a new comer, it meant a lot to me. You will be deeply missed. You did so much good work for so many people. Thank YOU.
John Hester
March 31, 2008
Brian, you where one of kind. I loved your pitch, from the heart.
I loved you on the golf course,boy you could make me laugh. hittem straight & watch the ball.
Your in good hands .
GOD BLESS YOU AND THE FAMILY, We will miss you.
tom ivester
March 31, 2008
Thanks for caring and sharing with so many.
Rich Cooley
March 31, 2008
My most sincere condolences to Beth, Jake, Jericah, and their family, as well to Jack, Marvin, and the Ong Family. To me Brian was an inspriration, a mentor, a sponsor, and my very best friend. I know you all miss him more than words can begin to say. I will miss him always. His enthusiasm, wit, wisdom, and insight can never be replaced, only passed on to others who may benefit from them. I love him like the older brother I never had. His impact on people, both inside our fellowship and out, is obivious to those of us fortunate enough to be in his life. His influence and life's work will be carried on to honor him, and to help others. Myself, my son, and my family treasured him, and will remember him always. He was truly one of a kind. With Love and Humility, Rich Cooley & Family
Chris Heiland
March 31, 2008
Brian,
Thank you for helping me in so many ways. You enabled me to be a better man and to help understand and act on God's will. You helped me acheive the basics of long term sobriety, without which I have nothing. I saw God in you and your actions. You helped countless people and forever left a footprint of compassion in this world. In the end, that is all that matters.
I will pray for your family, and I know you are right next to your Higher Power.
God has Blessed You.
ray "mario andretti " pena
March 30, 2008
dear brian,
thank you for showing me how to be a husband to my wife, a son to my father and most of all how to be friend. I know you are in heaven when you see my mom tell her I love her and tell I am sober. I want to thank your wife beth and your family for allowing you to spend time with us I will miss you bro god bless
Mark Budwick
March 30, 2008
Wow -- What do I say....
Thankyou Brian for all the good that you have brought into the lives of so many. Your Love and devotion to helping others, and teachings of a spiritual life will bring hope, love, compassion, and help to so many.... You will be missed my brother....
But Not Forgotten - - -
We Love You Brian...........
ray pena
March 30, 2008
dear brian,
thank you for showing me how to be a husband to my wife , a son to my father, and most important how to be a friend I will miss you. I know your in heaven please tell my mom I love her and I hope she knows I'm sober god bless your family and your wife beth I thank them for letting you be part of our lives take care bro
ray "mario andretti" pena
davis mcadoo
March 30, 2008
Our deepest sympathies go out to the Ong family. Were it not for Brian, there is no doubt that my life would be far different today. The path that Brian lead me on has paid dividends far exceeding my expectations. I will always honor Brian in my heart and life, and will forever be greatful for the opportunity to have learned from and spent time with, such an extraordinary man. Go in peace Brian, and thankyou so very much.
With all of our love and respect,
Heather, Faith, Justice, and Davis McAdoo
Teresa Leiler
March 30, 2008
As I was standing in line at the viewing to see Beth, I saw a beautiful little girl come run up and throw her arms around her neck. I noticed that when she got down she threw her head back and layed down on the floor and started rolling and laughing and enjoying exactly what she was doing at that moment. Surrounded by her family and loving life. I believe that is the same spirit that Brian carried. I saw that wide grin and beautiful smile that Brian had in his grandchild that day and realized at that moment, we may go away physically, never spiritually. Thank you Ong family for sharing your love, Brian, with our AA family. We are a tribe and he was one of ours, we will miss him.
Teresa Leiler, Peoria
Mary Cabanski
March 29, 2008
Brian was my first love. We went through many ups and downs during our 5.5 years together. I celebrate the fact that he turned his life around, and made a difference to many. My prayers are with him and his family, especially you, Janelle. I wish you only the very best.
March 29, 2008
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. May you treasure the memories of such a rich and wonderful life. The love of family and friends will carry you through this difficult journey. May you take comfort from God and the scriptures: Ecc.3:1-4.
Charlie McCombs
March 29, 2008
Brian was a humorous and gregarious man with a zest for life. The thing I admired most about Brian was his willingness to help me and countless others in learning a new way to live. I am one of the guys that was lost and homeless when I met Brian. “Just keep coming back kid,” Brian told me. I did and I thank you for the encouragement. For the times you walked me through pain and tears. Thank you. For the countless hours of work and dedication you invested in us. Thank you. I have been deeply and profoundly touched by your friendship. I know the first thing you did when you arrived in heaven was look St. Peter square in the eyes and say "OK, Where is that self willed p....!” and for that I will always love you. Godspeed my friend.
Karin Hudgins(Miller)
March 29, 2008
B,
Thanks for Herbie Mann and Lou Reed.Thanks for being my bartender at my wedding. Thanks for being my big brother in high school. As Bob Hope would say, "Thanks for the memories!" To the family, thank you for sharing Brian. I love all of you!
Karin Hudgins
Laura Cabanski Dunning
March 29, 2008
My deepest sympathy to Brian's family and friends. May his spirit always soar.
Toni Toya
March 29, 2008
I didn't have the pleasure of meeting Brian but have listened to others speak of Brian's enthusiasum for all that he did to help others. He made a loving impact to those who will miss him. My sincere condolences to your family.
Nora Diaz-Felix
March 29, 2008
Brian, I did not have the privilege of meeting you on a personal level. My husband was very fond of you. He is a member of the knights. His name is Santos. He has a very vivid memory and you will always be a part of it. I sat there on Friday and watched all these people whose lives you touched. Brian, these people are your legacy. You were an angel on earth and so it is befitting that you are now a spiritual angel. May you always know peace. WE LOVE YOU.
Marlynn Persson
March 29, 2008
Dear Jack and Family,
My heart breaks for you. I am so very sorry for your great loss. May God be by your sides. If you need anything please call.
Love and Blessings,
Marlynn
Steve Hutoron
March 29, 2008
Your wealth should be measured by the number that will miss you. Brian is is the wealthiest man I have met. Brian will be missed by all that knew him.
R.B. (Richard B.) French (formerly Domke)
March 29, 2008
I've known Brian for over 35-years. My wife and I extend our love and deepest sympathy to his family and everyone else he touched. I remember back to our high school days and a sign he posted in the bathroom he shared with his cousin Randy in his grandmother's guesthouse. The sign asked visitors to compare the size of their arrow with that of the porcelain target and questioned, “How can you miss?” I watched him go from biker to disco Don Juan to family man, businessman and spiritual counselor back on a motorbike. The last time I saw him was at a golf fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. He was full of energy with a broad smile and a twinkle in his eyes. That twinkle, I didn’t recognize then but believe now, was a new sign encouraging everyone to live the good joyous life of caring, sharing and giving love to all crossing their path. The body I recognized as Brian Ong is no longer, but I believe that twinkle is still with us all.
Love,
R.B. and Martha French
Larry Pam
March 29, 2008
When I saw Brian for the first time I knew that God had his hand on him, he always had time for the lost souls and a true love for his family and friends. I always felt welcomed in his home. As reminder for you and the family Beth, Brian’s work has been completed on this place called earth, and when his name is called it will say, a job well done my son.
Louis & Mary Amaniera
March 29, 2008
To Beth and Family,
At this time of sorrow,
may these truths sustain you...
Brian will always
be as close as a memory,
and the God of all comfort
will always be as
close as a prayer.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Louis and Mary Amaniera
Nick & Ariana Vieron
March 29, 2008
Briansan- I always enjoyed hanging out with you. You had so many people wanting your time and I felt so fortunate for the times we got to hang out. Golf was a blast. Although many thought of you as a tough love kind of guy, your words to me were always sweet and sincere. You were a father figure to me, your gratitude for life was intoxicating. Our prayers are with Beth and the entire Ong family.
Bill Whitmire
March 28, 2008
Over the last 6 weeks or so, I got to know Brian as we shared a mutual interest in helping young people whose lives are torn and tattered. Brian was who he said he was. If he was asked to do something, he did it and did it very well. Today’s World could use more people of Brian’s caliber. To Beth and Family and the many Friends of Brian, you have my deepest sympathies. I am so very sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. And to Brian, I'm looking forward to seeing you at the Big Meeting in the Sky some day. Peace Be with You.
Shannon C.
March 28, 2008
Beth and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. My first thought when I heard, much like most I am sure, was "The world has just lost an AMAZING man". I have not seen him in a few years, but have thought of him often and just like others he truly touched my life and heart
Forever. You and your family are in the prayers of more people then I am sure we could count. R.I.P Brian you made a difference in my life too.
Todd Pittsenbarger
March 28, 2008
To the Ong family,
My deepest condolenses for your loss.Brian was such a charismatic, loving and giving man. He will truly be missed. I feel truly blessed to have known him. He was a great inspiration in my life and will always be. God bless..
JEFF HAMBLEN
March 28, 2008
MY CONDOLENCES TO BRIAN'S FAMILY. GOD PLACED BRIAN AT A TIME & PLACE IN MY LIFE WHERE HE
WAS INSTRUMENTAL IN TURNING MY
LIFE AROUND & FOR THAT I AM
TRULY GRATEFUL. GOD BLESS.
Mick Howland
March 28, 2008
This man was a true inspiration to me and countless others. His example of self sacrifice was something to be revered. My prayers go out to his family. To my brothers let us carry the torch that he passed unto us and continue to do the work he would want us to do.
Letty Carro
March 28, 2008
My most sincere condolences to Brian's family. His efforts to help other men in recovery have made a 'forever' imprint on this planet, their lives & the lives of all of their family members who reaped the benefit of his input. May G-d comfort you as you mourn this unimaginable loss.
Andrew Coates
March 28, 2008
Brian's presence here was truly a big deal. The ripple effect of Brian will be felt for generations. His nurturing but firm "suggestions" helped me become the man, the son, the friend and the father that God intended me to be and for that I will always be grateful. Thank you Brian, you will be missed.
R.J. Orr
March 28, 2008
As with many others in AA, Brian's legacy will forever live on in my sobriety. He was the first person to notice when the lights went back on in my eyes after being sober for a few months. We were waiting for the Tuesday night meeting to start and I was hanging out in the courtyard at Crossroads. Brian walked by me, said hello, then stopped and turned around and stared at me for a few seconds. He then looked me straight in the eyes and said, "Sobriety looks good on you." Then he walked away.
I will remember that moment for the rest of my life. We have definitely lost a very important piece of the AA network here in the valley. He is one of the main reasons why this is the best place in the world to get sober. I only hope that I can honor his life by following the example he set. Without a doubt, Brian was a great mouthpiece for God's word and his legacy will live on forever.
Susan Sanford
March 28, 2008
To Debbie and Family,
Again we are touched by a loss way too soon. My family's hearts reach out to yours. It seems like yesterday we were all watching Bruce Lee at the drive-in together. Hope to see you sooner than later. Love, Susan
Kay Filippone
March 28, 2008
Dear Beth and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Brian was sure one of a kind and will be missed by all of us. He always made me smile no matter what the situation was. He will be so missed.
Lots of love, Kay Filippone
Marc Lawson
March 28, 2008
Brian was a great person to know and a true example of being happy and successful in life. It was a pleasure knowing him and he is missed.
art keating
March 28, 2008
Even so has God restored us all to our right minds. To this man, the revelation was sudden. Some of us grow into it more slowly. But He has come to all who have honestly sought Him. When we drew near to Him He disclosed Himself to us!
Gos either is or isn't, brian tought me this feeling and i am so gratefull, and brian can you ask God to protect the knights and to protect your family, i will be the best father and husband to Samantha, love Arthur Keating.aka pool man.
Eric Jacobson
March 28, 2008
It has been an honor to know Brian and try to live by the example that he has set.
Tina Duke
March 28, 2008
To the Ong Family--I am so sorry for your loss. He left us far too soon. May God comfort you at this sad time.
Alan Morgan
March 28, 2008
My deepest condolences to Brian's family. I had the honor and pleasure of hearing Mr Ongs wisdom and was one of the many tenants who Brian sheltered. My admiration was immense. Brian was the epitome of the 12th step. You are now in heaven helping the many who still suffer. God bless your wonderful family.
Samantha Keating
March 28, 2008
To Beth and family: thanks for your time and enabling Brian to touch so many lives. His ability to do so shows great support and love on your part! Brian looked out for Art and us. Art tried to do the same for Brian most times. I appreciate that very much. We promise to carry the skill and strength he gave us to live and love. Brian, you're a Great! Your knowledge, insight and caring will for sure be missed, but not forgotten. Take care everyone.
With love,
Erich Zumach
March 28, 2008
To Beth and the Ong family,
Words cannot describe the grattitude I have for all the time you and your family has given to me. The countless hours you have sacrificed with Brian, so that he may help me grow as a man in this world. I am in eternal debt to you, and to your family.
Because of Brian, my life will never be the same. Because of God, it has become something beyond my wildest dreams.
Love,
Erich Zumach
Chad Kawalec
March 28, 2008
Brian is the kindest, least judgmental person I've ever met. He wanted the very best for everyone... and he made it happen for himself. He once told me: "do as I do and you'll have what I have." I thought he was referring to his greta "stuff" -- now I realize he meant his spirit. What a great teacher.
Boy, will he be missed.
Jeffery Jones
March 28, 2008
A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.
William Shakespeare (1564-1616) British poet and playwright.
I can only share in the loss of Brian, but bath in his light that has touched me forever.
SAMANTHA MATERN
March 28, 2008
WHAT ARE THE WORDS. I DONT KNOW. UNBELIEVABLE LIFE. WE LOVE YOU IN SANTA BARBARA. THANK YOU FOR YOUR SURRENDER, YOUR DARKEST PAST TRULY BECAME YOUR GREATEST ASSETS. ALL OUR LOVE TO BETH AND FAMILY AND AA FAMILY
SAMANTHA MATERN
Tia Tadasa
March 28, 2008
To Beth and Brian's Family:
My condolences and deepest sympathy. You will be in the prayers of many and I am truly sorry for your great loss.
To Brian:
Thank you for your wisdom, non-judgemental attitude, and ever-available counsel. You will be sorely missed here! But we will still see you daily in the faces of the Knights and hear your voice in the wind, sun and rain. Knowing you, what a gift!
Xie Xie, my friend... ??????????
~Tia Tadasa
Otis Owens
March 28, 2008
God's gift to us is life.
Our gift to God is what we do with this life.
Brian showed many of us the way, leading by example. His Paradise gained helps to ease my profound sense of loss.
O²
(Bonehead)
MARY YAZZIE
March 28, 2008
Deepest sympathies for Brian's family. Brian will be missed in many ways. His legacy will live on in all those lives he touched; he reached out to those who were the hopeless and showed them there was hope. Thank you for touching my life, you will be missed!
Rich Smith
March 28, 2008
Brian was a big part of my life and recovery. He was a great mentor,I am so honored top have now Brian he will be truly missed and always LOVED!!!!
Steve Leitz
March 28, 2008
I first met Brian 10 years ago at the SRI Alcothon, and was bothered by his lack of humility....then discovered he just liked to tell it like it is, and challenge personal growth. He loved sobriety & life, and was a strong inspiration to many. Brian provided an example of courage & faith in a Higher Power under all circumstances. It was a pleasure to have know him, and my sympathy goes to all his family and loved ones
Gary Lynch
March 28, 2008
To Beth,kids and the entire Ong family,Brian was my mentor,MY FRIEND and the example of how a man should be and live.This loss leaves a great void for all of us. I will continue to honor his life by following his creed.Trust GOD,Clean House,Work with others. I will miss my friend but he lives on in us..GOD BLESS YOU
Rene' & Kate Kawalec
March 28, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Larry and Donna Exe
March 28, 2008
Beth, our hearts go out to you and your family. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. Brian was able to make an impact on a person within minutes of meeting them. I am a better man having known him, and the world is a better place because of him. On several occasions Brian brought me close to tears through laughter, but the tears truly flowed with words of his passing. My first thought was to question God for taking him. As I wiped away the tears I realized that I must thank God for sharing him. Brian, we love and miss you. Your memory will remain close to our hearts until we meet again in His Kingdom. Beth, you and your family will always remain in out thoughts and prayers.
Angel Helsel
March 28, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Beth and her family. There's so little one can do or say,but may it help to know that others deeply care.
will wright
March 28, 2008
I'll miss you Bro! Brian was a Beautiful Man. He left such an impression on me, as how to be a better Man. Everything about him I looked up to. Thanks for being a Great Teacher and Mentor! You'll always be an example to me! Love you lots Bro!
Kevin Atkison
March 28, 2008
For Those Who Knew His Gift,
Having had the genuine pleasure of working with one of his sponsees in Wichita, and meeting Brian while I was living in Apache Junction, I can honestly lament the passing of someone who changed the landscape of the world around him by being the change that he wanted the world to see. The Recovery Community in the Phoenix Valley has had a wonderful leader who led by example journey to the BIGGEST MEETING and sit next to the HIGHEST POWER. My life is changed from having known his influence. Grieve not, too long. I miss him, already.
Douglas Zumach
March 28, 2008
I am curently moving back to Phoenix April 4th and was looking forward to seeing Brian, as he would say yeah its all about you.
I'll miss Brian as we all will and will be forever gratefull as so many are for all he did for me. His guidence through example was priceless as I was coming out of a dry drunk.
Thank You I love you Brian, Short Bus
Brian Mackley
March 28, 2008
Beth and Family. I can only say thank you for sharing Brian with us. He did not just touch my life, he saved it. We will pray for you and all of those who leaned on Brian every day. We are all heart broken.
Sheri Andersen
March 28, 2008
My heart goes out to all of Brian's family and friends. I met Brian when he was visiting Gatehouse Academy in Wickenburg. A very kind and giving man. Keep his good works and memories alive in your hearts.
mike onofryton
March 28, 2008
It was an honor to have known Brian.What a fine example to us all.
We send our thoughts and prayers out to Beth and family!
The Onofryton's
Michael Elia
March 28, 2008
By myself, a friend and pupil, Brian will be greatly missed. By the thousands of lives he touched, he will be remembered. By the countless more who will benefit from what he leaves behind, he will be revered. By the God he serves he will be well rewarded.
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